HTW1908 Posted February 2, 2017 Share Posted February 2, 2017 (edited) I know a Thailand's girl in abroad and we always chat with each other. After she went back to Bangkok, we still chat closely and she said she can bring me to travel Bangkok. I took a vacation to find her and travel. The problem is after I went back to my country, she seldom chat with me. I just want to know the personality of Thai's girl, what they think, what they want. I don't mind that she wants to take something such as money or gift from me cause i really like her. Could any Thai's girl tell me while you say "I miss you" to someone, do you really miss the guy or just small talk? Edited February 2, 2017 by HTW1908 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
roo860 Posted February 2, 2017 Share Posted February 2, 2017 Oh no!!!![emoji23] Sent from my SM-G920F using Thaivisa Connect mobile app Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HTW1908 Posted February 2, 2017 Author Share Posted February 2, 2017 1 minute ago, roo860 said: Oh no!!!! Sent from my SM-G920F using Thaivisa Connect mobile app I am confused.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zorro1 Posted February 2, 2017 Share Posted February 2, 2017 Popcorn! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
samsensam Posted February 2, 2017 Share Posted February 2, 2017 next. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JaySonic Posted February 2, 2017 Share Posted February 2, 2017 Every day since November my phone is filled with messages of "Im miss you " and "when you come back". Sometime even a "love you too much" every now amd then. She texts, She calls, She send stupid emojis of smiley faces with love hearts for eyes. Yup. Every goddamn day. If you're not getting that, then your Thai friend is definately not interested in any aspect of you ! Take the hint on this one, and move on. Don't worry about it. There are plenty more fish on the sea Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zeichen Posted February 3, 2017 Share Posted February 3, 2017 This forum is for women, not to ask stupid questions that marginalize all women. You went to visit someone and after the trip they stopped writing you often. It means that you did something wrong on the trip and they don't like you anymore. Plain and simple. Nothing to do with women or Thai. You cannot expect everyone to like you just because you buy them things and travel to see them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sheryl Posted February 3, 2017 Share Posted February 3, 2017 moved to general. This forum is for women, not about them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
onthesoi Posted February 3, 2017 Share Posted February 3, 2017 rofl! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tifino Posted February 3, 2017 Share Posted February 3, 2017 Thai Girl: "There is room in my heart for you" "however, my heart it has many rooms..." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JHolmesJr Posted February 3, 2017 Share Posted February 3, 2017 1 minute ago, tifino said: Thai Girl: "There is room in my heart for you" "however, my heart it has many rooms..." and they are all short time rooms. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tifino Posted February 3, 2017 Share Posted February 3, 2017 Just now, JHolmesJr said: and they are all short time rooms. I'm just focussing on the 7 fiances' Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HTW1908 Posted February 3, 2017 Author Share Posted February 3, 2017 No offense, I just see many many post about Thais after I went back, most criticism about their personality are unfaithful and greedy cause they have many boy friends or girl friends at the same time. I just want to know is it a general circumstance in Thailand. I am not using money or anything to approach them, I mean that I don't mind if they request something to me. Perhaps it is a stupid way but I don't know how to maintain this relationship. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cyberfarang Posted February 3, 2017 Share Posted February 3, 2017 Thai girls say; I miss you, when they have nothing to do right now so they need someone to chat with them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zorro1 Posted February 3, 2017 Share Posted February 3, 2017 I love you. Please send money western union.. Who by the way are the biggest winners in Asia Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Get Real Posted February 3, 2017 Share Posted February 3, 2017 6 hours ago, HTW1908 said: No offense, I just see many many post about Thais after I went back, most criticism about their personality are unfaithful and greedy cause they have many boy friends or girl friends at the same time. I just want to know is it a general circumstance in Thailand. I am not using money or anything to approach them, I mean that I don't mind if they request something to me. Perhaps it is a stupid way but I don't know how to maintain this relationship. To me it actually sounds like there is not much of a relationship to maintain. Another thing that comes to mind, is all the questions of Thai girls, their mentality and their way of thinking. It´s not specific to Thailand. The only thing that is specific to Thailand is that so many people travel to and try to find their life and partners there. That´s why you hear so many stories related to this problem. The fact is that your problem has more to do with you than her. You are the one that must sense how a relationship a going and moving on. After that you can see if you are willing to maintain it and will also know what is wrong and right with it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HTW1908 Posted February 3, 2017 Author Share Posted February 3, 2017 1 hour ago, Get Real said: To me it actually sounds like there is not much of a relationship to maintain. Another thing that comes to mind, is all the questions of Thai girls, their mentality and their way of thinking. It´s not specific to Thailand. The only thing that is specific to Thailand is that so many people travel to and try to find their life and partners there. That´s why you hear so many stories related to this problem. The fact is that your problem has more to do with you than her. You are the one that must sense how a relationship a going and moving on. After that you can see if you are willing to maintain it and will also know what is wrong and right with it. Thank you for your comment, I shall think about giving up this relationship, the reality is different country, different language, I need to take a flight to meet her. That is so tired and difficult for me. By the way, Thai girl is the funniest and nice girl i ever seen. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Get Real Posted February 4, 2017 Share Posted February 4, 2017 11 minutes ago, HTW1908 said: Thank you for your comment, I shall think about giving up this relationship, the reality is different country, different language, I need to take a flight to meet her. That is so tired and difficult for me. By the way, Thai girl is the funniest and nice girl i ever seen. This sounds very strange. I don´t know if you are trying to joke or not, but I´m going to try to believe you. Actually don´t know your age either, but it sounds like definately lacks the knowledge about Thailand, and how it works here. However, I am not going to make a joke out of you like other people here might try to do. You also make it very simple for them to do that. I can tell you one thing though. If you have the mentality and the attitude of the kind like expressing that Thai girls are the funniest and nicest you ever seen, then things are not going to work out fine for you in Thailand. Off course that depends on where you meet the people you are talking about, but mostly a person that are expressing a level of knowledge like you are doing meet the Thai girls on a dating site or in the different bars. That means the girls in thoose places mostly just do their work for making a healthy salury, or that someone wants a reletionship based on a health bank account. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
daveAustin Posted February 4, 2017 Share Posted February 4, 2017 Your prose is inconsistent, almost trollish like. What the heck... please don't equate a prostitute (and she very likely is if she hooked up with you off the bat wherever you met) with Thai women in general. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dominique355 Posted February 4, 2017 Share Posted February 4, 2017 First of all, the Thai expression "Kid thueng" is often translated as "I miss you", but a more accurate translation would be "I think of you". Second, what makes you think all Thai women are the same? Yours has obviously lost interest in you, but that's just her. Other women are and react differently. Surprise?! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lannarebirth Posted February 4, 2017 Share Posted February 4, 2017 On 2/2/2017 at 5:07 AM, HTW1908 said: I am confused.... As my German BIL is wont to say "no one knows what is in a woman's heart.... or a liver sausage." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
joeyg Posted February 4, 2017 Share Posted February 4, 2017 13 hours ago, HTW1908 said: No offense, I just see many many post about Thais after I went back, most criticism about their personality are unfaithful and greedy cause they have many boy friends or girl friends at the same time. I just want to know is it a general circumstance in Thailand. I am not using money or anything to approach them, I mean that I don't mind if they request something to me. Perhaps it is a stupid way but I don't know how to maintain this relationship. You are out of your league if you are asking this questions. You are only a dollar sign $, or bhat period. In 99.9% of situations. If they like you you'll know it. You won't always have to "pay to play" and some will start showing you some tenderness and affection. Very rare though and only many, many years of experience do you have a chance of knowing the .1% Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Get Real Posted February 4, 2017 Share Posted February 4, 2017 17 minutes ago, joeyg said: You are out of your league if you are asking this questions. You are only a dollar sign $, or bhat period. In 99.9% of situations. If they like you you'll know it. You won't always have to "pay to play" and some will start showing you some tenderness and affection. Very rare though and only many, many years of experience do you have a chance of knowing the .1% Can´t you just be a little more realistic. Do you really mean that there are only 1 percent of the Thai women that are showing affection? Let´s make it 1,5? LOL Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kwasaki Posted February 4, 2017 Share Posted February 4, 2017 13 hours ago, HTW1908 said: No offense, I just see many many post about Thais after I went back, most criticism about their personality are unfaithful and greedy cause they have many boy friends or girl friends at the same time. I just want to know is it a general circumstance in Thailand. I am not using money or anything to approach them, I mean that I don't mind if they request something to me. Perhaps it is a stupid way but I don't know how to maintain this relationship. Does she still chat with you. ? Maintaining a relationship with just chatting across the pond would become boring. On 2/2/2017 at 8:02 PM, HTW1908 said: The problem is after I went back to my country, she seldom chat with me. Personally if she really does like you l would say she not interested until there is a genuine commitment on your part. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dale59 Posted February 4, 2017 Share Posted February 4, 2017 Here we go!Sent from my iPhone using Thaivisa Connect Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
avp55 Posted February 4, 2017 Share Posted February 4, 2017 the women in the west are much better. They are not interested in money and they'll always love you no matter what even though you're a loser. haven't you seen titanic and all the romantic movies? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kwasaki Posted February 4, 2017 Share Posted February 4, 2017 5 minutes ago, avp55 said: women in the west are much better. They are not interested in money You jest or troll which is it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
avp55 Posted February 4, 2017 Share Posted February 4, 2017 (edited) 11 minutes ago, Kwasaki said: You jest or troll which is it. I've seen lots of Hollywood movies so I know very well western women are pure love and enlightened human beings. Nah. Just kidding. They are the same bitches. But it amuses me when everybody start the thai girls bashing calling them whores and all that as if women in the west were different. Should they hang out with getto bitches they would get the same outcome. I wonder why they date poor Thai girls and they expect it to be different Edited February 4, 2017 by avp55 Spelling Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HTW1908 Posted February 4, 2017 Author Share Posted February 4, 2017 17 hours ago, Get Real said: This sounds very strange. I don´t know if you are trying to joke or not, but I´m going to try to believe you. Actually don´t know your age either, but it sounds like definately lacks the knowledge about Thailand, and how it works here. However, I am not going to make a joke out of you like other people here might try to do. You also make it very simple for them to do that. I can tell you one thing though. If you have the mentality and the attitude of the kind like expressing that Thai girls are the funniest and nicest you ever seen, then things are not going to work out fine for you in Thailand. Off course that depends on where you meet the people you are talking about, but mostly a person that are expressing a level of knowledge like you are doing meet the Thai girls on a dating site or in the different bars. That means the girls in thoose places mostly just do their work for making a healthy salury, or that someone wants a reletionship based on a health bank account. I am not joking and we are both 2x years old, i had just been Thailand one time and don't know about their culture and personality, i meet her on bar but i don't mind what she did before. While she buy something and I want to pay the money but she rejected, that's why I think this is not a relationship based on money. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HTW1908 Posted February 4, 2017 Author Share Posted February 4, 2017 12 hours ago, Kwasaki said: Does she still chat with you. ? Maintaining a relationship with just chatting across the pond would become boring. Personally if she really does like you l would say she not interested until there is a genuine commitment on your part. Yes, she still chat with me but the response time is unstable, I will talk with her about this matter next time. If she is not interested, I will give up this relationship. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
.png.3b3332cc2256ad0edbc2fe9404feeef0.png)
.thumb.jpg.bc523c85a8d558dbc282dca7a2e602c9.jpg)
Recommended Posts
Create an account or sign in to comment
You need to be a member in order to leave a comment
Create an account
Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!
Register a new accountSign in
Already have an account? Sign in here.
Sign In Now