I didn't plan it, but I married a woman who is an orphan. Yes, she has 3 or 4 brothers and sisters scattered around the country, but they are all wonderful people. Having had the Mother of All Rough and Hungry Childhoods my wife has always been grateful to having someone to be with her. We've been together for maybe 20 years now. So, look for women who are orphans, but how you find them, I don't know. My wife was working in a factory when I met her.