OneMoreFarang

Just in case there are people out there who don't know the Blue screen of death:

If it makes him happy - why not? It's like some people like gambling. They know it's likely they will lose money. But they still do it and enjoy it. Everybody does it the way he like it - even if it doesn't make any sense.

And many guys try to impress the girls with their generosity. I remember a girl who I fancied some time ago. She worked in a bar and built a house. I told her that if she would be my gf, I would help her to build that house, like 10k per month. She told me lots of guys offered her already to pay everything up front to finish that house. Lots of guys are like that. And often the girls don't even have to promise anything. They guys just think if they paid all that money, she will love them forever. And then they find out that that assumption was wrong.

That reminds me of my friend Frank, who is well known in Bangkok. He once married a beautiful first-class stewardess - when that was still something exotic maybe 30 years ago. After they married, she told him that she doesn't like sex. I think he calculated after the divorce that one shot was about 20k USD. After that he decided only to rent and never buy again.

If you didn't see it until now you should watch at least one of his "how I built" ... videos. I used my hacksaw...

Correct. I have to admit I was a little confused about the numbering system. There was a time when I built PC almost every month. Now it's seldom that I built anything with more than one "disk".

It seems the show is something new. He works on bikes in his little shed since decades. He always says things like "I use my hacksaw". I am pretty sure that is the one and only hacksaw he ever owned. Amazing. I never saw a new tool in his shed. It seems he uses them all since forever.

And riding a bike like that with a guy on the back at 180 mph (about 290 km/h) requires also some balls - especially at that age.

I also found a good YouTuber:

Most of us who live here since a long time and who heard many of these stories don't tell anybody anymore to change. Because they all don't listen. If he really asks for advice, then tell him what you think. Otherwise, it's a waste of breath.

It seems many guys do that to themselves. The women just inspire them a little. Like: I don't want to work in this horrible place. Darling, no problem, I will help you. I also don't want that you work here. But what should I do? I have no money. No problem darling, you are smart, you can run a business. But I have no money. No problem darling, I pay for the business... And then the guy feels like the knight in shining armor. Sex was never the most important thing he wanted.

Yes, that was a great job. I don't know how many of his videos I saw, I guess at least 20. He is a fantastic engineer and mechanic, and he seems to be a nice person.

Enjoy! What a man, what a bike!

When I look at western women > 40 then I am surprised that it still happens so often.

I continue on my journey like the Mexican Fisherman. The Story of the Mexican Fisherman - Be More with Less (this is just one of the many versions of this story on the internet)

Good post. And even if the girls have a half decent education and a job, many of those jobs don't have a good salary. One of my favorite bar girls was an accountant. Before she worked in a bar she worked in accounting. According to her she had 16k salary. Not enough to pay for a decent school for her son. So she looked for a sponsor and found one in a bar.

That is a good question - not just with cashiers. I remember a girly-bar with a couple of hot university girls. Later one of them worked as property agent in our building. This time with office clothes. I guess not too many people who didn't "know" her would have thought about her past. And then there was the new girl in a company which I worked for. First day with made up hair and she was friendly to all the farangs. Then someone explained to her that now the coyote girl times are over - at least in the office. Not everybody had the same job all the time. Personally, I don't have a problem with this. But it seems some people care a lot. And to be fair, I also wouldn't be interested in girl with lots of "interesting" pictures online.

Was that just after the war?

Some girls just start working in bars and prefer not to. Good. Some girls did it long enough and don't want to do it anymore. Possible, but risky. And some girls enjoy their life in bars. Enjoy for short time, but don't marry her.

Can you have such a girl? And if yes, what do you do with bar girls on Koh Changi?

Why do guys marry women with children? The guy will never be her first priority. And often he will have to pay for the child. I understand that there might be a few exceptions when he loves her too much. But otherwise: Don't do it!

And does that rule only apply to bar girls or any girl?

You obvious know that ...

I am sure it happens with bargirl. But I am also sure the same happens with "normal" women. Bargirls are more aware of the needs of men. I never married my long-time gf, who was once a bargirl. So I will never find out if she would change if we would be married.

I think most bargirls realize that sex is important for many men. If they provide that service often enough and good enough, then their husbands are more likely happy and relaxed. If the wife doesn't provide sex, then the guy gets it somewhere else. That reminds me of two girls talking in a movie (I forgot which movie). One girl says she doesn't want to take it in her mouth. The other girl explains to her: There will be a girl who gives him a BJ. It's up to you if you do it or he goes somewhere else.