It's biological programming, pure and simple. In the 'good old days' the most violent men were the best hunters and providers, and that's who they are programmed to want. Yeah, you might take a few licks from the guy when he's in a bad mood, but at least you and your kids get to eat every day.
The guys that 'love and honour' all women get nothing, but like all wokes double down and still get nothing.
The average number of sexual partners for men in their lifetime in the west is FOUR!
Most of us have managed that (or more) in a week in Thailand.