I've had peeing problems since my late 20s (I'm 63 now). After a barrage of tests, I was diagnosed with weak bladder muscles (I'd love to know the correct medical term) and was told if it wasn't an embarrassment for me, I didn't need surgery. I've lived with it ever since (taking forever to empty my bladder) although now as the symptoms mirror prostate problems I make sure I have a biannual PSA prostate examination.
It is getting noticeably worse in my later years, and I envy the powerful streams produced by some men. Mine is a dribble at best and takes forever to start and finish.
I guess I have to live with it for the rest of my life, although some of the medications mentioned in this thread might be useful. Any ideas?