JimTripper

Anything that requires thinking or interpretation is a "no". Think, a paper in front of you with an amount and bank name and the dates.

That works if you never fall on hard times and need a loan yourself. It's a give & take.

Can't they make their own decisions? Why are you involved? Are you part of the problem?

You can't completely ignore someone approaching you wanting to engage. Even if you simply keep walking, someone is entering your personal space and needs to be evaluated for threats. During that brief time their pitch gets through.

Here's a video in case you missed it in high school sex ed or were out that day.

As a man, you need to know how to use a condom and have the responsibility to use one. I can't believe what I'm reading here.

Is that possible or does someone need to come over and sign for it? There are many stories about people needing to come over when a relative passes.

I'm not a slave to it and can do without. Learn to control your urges. You don't need the constant short times. Find others things that are important to you to focus on, hobbies, exercise, etc. If you're doing constant short times in Pattaya at 54 something's not right.

I disagree. I would take the 20 years. Have fun!

You could still be spreading all kinds of diseases. You need to wear a rain jacket. Simple as that. You're in Pattaya and doing short times. Man up, be responsible and learn how to use a condom. Let me know if you need tips on putting one on or how to take it off.

Do the men stay erect into old age?

You should not be fumbling around with a condom at 54, but if you never learned to use one it's time to try. Fumbling around with a numb one may require a little more foreplay, a pill or even a situation where you're not 'on the clock'. It can't be rushed. Not something that's easy in a quick short time, cheap massage situation or a paid interaction in general. A penis has a funny way of telling you something.

That was his penis, not a pool cue.

I don't think most guys over 55 care much about sex. The guys I have known who are honest say the physical act is not very important at their age. The looking, etc may be there, but the act itself is fleeting at best. I'm in the same camp. The desire for physical consumation is not very strong. I will notice attractive women when I'm strolling through town. Rejections are taken in stride and gestures of interest are well considered. I also wake up with a woody far less often. The snake just kind of knows to go away. When I was younger it needed to be trained (most of the time that was done with my right hand).

Can anyone translate what he is saying?

There's always a reason.

When I see a guy from india up dead ahead on the sidewalk I know it's time for some fine tailored suits & shirts. Also, a nice guy from india chutney is on the menu. I also know that a stroll to the john is in my future and a nice wipe.

Would you be motivated to succeed and conquer challenges if there was a massage place on every corner? Or, would you get kind of content and happy and dull witted?

Do you care now?

I think a lot of it is announcing something to gain face. Afterwards, nobody cares about making it actually happen because face has already been gained.

Why would it not matter when you're dead?

Done & toasted.

Who wants to travel economy to a funeral? Have some class.

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That brings up another issue. Cleaning, service staff & privacy. They are getting better at supplying the 'do not disturb' signs and 'clean room now' signs, as people complain more I suspect. It's a hassle to guard the door in a long term stay though with staff never really 100% 'getting it' regarding when to come in or not. I feel like half of it is cleaning and the other half is monitoring the property. After all, they don't really know who is in there, right. I do sacrifice a good deal of privacy in the BNB. It's not the same as coming home to your own unit and locking the door. It usually feels like there is someone there watching 😅, either through coming and going or via cleaning. There are also the questions with a meetup check in about how many people etc which is off putting. I never know if they have an issue with guests if I'm standing there solo and say 'one'. If I say two they may ask for ID or whatever.