JimTripper

I never stayed there because I was afraid of hearing sex sounds from the next room over. I was also afraid of the mattress.

It helps to learn what it's like to have a Gf or real relationship. Please learn those skills. A massage shop session is not going to teach any relationship skills or how to interact with a woman in a normal setting. Learn to have genuine relationships that include sex. Some posts feel narcissistic (having an excessive or erotic interest in oneself and one's physical appearance). Are you focusing on yourself a lot, working out, biking, having a nice apartment, etc. and your own needs in general, but not giving back to others except when they come to a head in a massage shop session?

Just wanting physical release is strange at your age. Are you afraid of intimacy?

Not if you're in need of a lube.

It's possible, I'm much older now, but I don't see it as me and my behavior looks the same. Age is respected in Thailand so it's not an age discrimination issue.

That's what in shape athletes do. I said dribbler, like a basketball player. What are your stats?

I'm in Bangkok, probably not around where you are located, but I have noticed that people are distinctly not as happy as I remember 5 years ago. The friendliness has become rare. I noticed it in Pattaya as well, but i thought that was a Pattaya thing. I'm going to test Chiang Mai next. I have had some strange negative interactions with street vendors in Bangkok that have never happened before. I could not even get one to accept a sale with money in hand. I think there is something going on with the economy that are making people not happy. That carries over into all interactions, not just money matters.

Face it, you're a dribbler.

A new massage parlour?

Not really, I started drinking milk. It's the same price as a beer.

Nobody stays hard or on top forever 🤣

It's a lot more possible in your home country with someone who speaks the same language and has similar interests. There needs to be something else there besides looks.

anal

Some guys like ladyboys or guys because at least one party has an erection for penetration. If it's just a flacid guy and a woman neither can penetrate. Some take it a step further and watch while a female partner is penetrated. The flacid guy "lives" the episode vicariously, often pleasuring himself, just like it was him with the female partner. The woman turns her attention to the flacid guy and uses the third party as a "tool" so to speak. The guy can wear a mask or costume that creates a curtain of privacy for the actors that are not physically penetrating or being penetrated by the partner they are interested in. Let me know if you need more clarification. He meant hydrochloric acid.

This does not make sense to me unless the possessor is in possession of all the documents needed. It implies they are not really in possession of the residence, unless they are possessed (pun unintended).

I was responding to another poster who wanted a reason why someone should not be fined. I gave a valid reason.

Exactly. Not all Einstein's here.

If they are legally obligated to do it many people won't bother asking.

That's easy. They could not get the documents needed from the landlord.

Yeah, I think there is more to it then landlord laziness. If they always get the passport info and contracts just right, why not do a TM30 as well? I know a guesthouse owner who only does them when asked. I think it puts the landlord at risk of scrutiny when they are done. Like in the computer system they can check and see where they were missed in the past for other people and issue a back fine for each one. For a guesthouse owner that could be catastrophic. Anyhow, this guy is me·tic·u·lous and he does not want to do them unless asked.

He should be getting it for free in that kind of shape. Not to mention the great apartment, lifestyle, exercise routine, etc. Unless of course, there's something else wrong with him. 🤣

I lost most interest in sex around age 52 or so. The desire was still there, but the urge did not last like when I was younger. After a day or two the urge would drop off, in contrast to when I was younger where it would increase with time. This concerned the need for physical release as well, not just the mental desire aspect. I never bothered to do testesterone checkups or all that other stuff guys do. I just put it down to old age. That's what all these changes are basically imo, just aging. I can't fight it and don't really want to throw a bunch of money on treatments for problems that just get worse with time.

Agreed. When I move around I invariably end up in substandard places (ironically, places that I'm happy to leave). That would be while paying for what I would consider a nice place for me on a long term lease. I need to pay more to get that same standard I want in a short term place. These vloggers who travel around saying how cheap accomodation is are staying in small substandard accomodations that they would never commit to for a year. If you do it on Abnb the places that are affordable to your budget won't have the necessities you are used to. I have stayed in many places where I need to by stuff like dishes, floor fans, etc that I am used to having. Then when I move I can't carry it all with me, so need to buy stuff again at the next place (or pay more for a nicer accomodation).

I don't notice it much when living there a long time, except for the really bad days. It became a new normal. Same with Bangkok.