Women, IMO, once they snare a man, start changing him, but once they have succeeded they no longer want him, because he isn't the man they "fell in love" with.
I agree 100% with the poster that said that men want a woman not to change, but that is a forlorn hope- ain't going to happen.
IMO just never get committed to any one woman, and when they inevitably become something the guy doesn't like, move on. Rinse and repeat till too old or too poor to attract a good one and then go celibate.