and what's wrong with that? Far as I'm concerned the western "dating game" benefits only women that get free movies, booze and dinners, without necessarily having to do anything for it. Men are the losers in that scene. In Pattaya men ( or at least their money ) are the winners.
I had western female friends, but usually avoided any attempt at "pulling" as the few times I did so it ended badly for me. I just didn't have the goodies ( nice car, house, status job etc ) to be an attractive prospect. I did have the occasional opportunity, but only with desperate women or those looking for a substitute father for their offspring.