you get to menopause yet?
My wife was so even tempered that I never knew if/when she was having her period.. and then came menopause... 50% of the time I didn't know who she was... then she contracted an incurable disease - ups and downs but we battled the worst together and after a recent slide to the edge, with me by her side every minute for months, she is doing much better and has been coping with some things that might draw another asunder... the disease is still there, but I believe she is 90% in remission.