My kid has good values - when she has free time, of her own volition, she helps with everything. I gave her 10,000 baht per month in high school [I paid her rent but she was living on her own and paid all her expenses] and it was up to her discretion whether or not or how much to save and how much to spend. We have had many conversations about money. When my wife was not well this past summer, she spent every moment taking care of her. No requests for money for doing this and with no school and living at home, there was no stipend.