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I don't think you can lock in a worker - - and if you did, would you really want a caregiver that was very unhappy there? If you are in the North, the best workers are Thai Yai and some of them don't speak Thai - or English. As with everything else, you get what you pay for - trained help will not be cheap. At your age, it is difficult to know the future cost of labor... but good to be planning ahead. It will surely be a difficult time.

probably the truth might be most effective.

So, they each in turn, make toasts as an unspoken challenge to see who is the most clever... which is also the only point of conversation for all of them... and if there are 10 of them, 2 skip out on the bill entirely, 2 are too important to pay and you should be honored that they are there, 1 is a total alcoholic wino - he chugs his glass of wine, pours himself a new glass every 2 minutes but tops off everyone else's sips as he keeps ordering bottle after bottle, and the rest of you struggle to pay the bill and the waitress gets pissed as there is really nothing leftover for a tip... I don't think you missed much... how would I know... shhhhh...

Not a cry but just surprised anyone knows Loudon Wainwright... an old favorite.

Tevya -

especially safe if you are still wearing them,

Yeah, I retired at 48... it was a good idea.

I did my car camping in a Chevy Van... I was an East coast guy but ended up in Santa Monica - A friend was housesitting Jane Fonda and Tom Hayden's apartment, so I ended up in the parking lot, near the Pacific. There were others and they treated me like a newbie in status because I was a recent arrival and they had been there a long time. Then one of the guys was talking abt going overland through Europe, Middle East - - and on to Asia - but it was mostly a pipe dream... though it was the route I had done a couple of years before - - and when I told them I spent a year backpacking around the world - - then my status grew...

Detective Lasix .00009 never fails -

Did the car camping in mid 1970s...

lime and soda water would be fine for me, but then, I am not an alcoholic...

Then you might just as well propose marriage.

you could just say Jiab Tong and nobody would really care - who cares if you can't drink because you have a pain or a baby chicken in there... my family knows I don't drink and probably think it is a good quality.

Hi. My name is Scouse123 and I am an alcoholic. Hi Scouse 123 [mumbled softly by the others] ps - nobody really cares if you go to a party and don't drink.

I also do not have problems buying land in my wife's name... no strings attached. Yes, I have to sign something at the land office saying I will not make a claim on the land - - and I have no problem with that either. I guess if you have problems with giving land as a gift to the family, then you shouldn't do it. And yes, I understand she can ask me to leave any time, which is fine too. But then again, maybe a wife might want to stay w/someone who is on her side and hopes she has a good secure enjoyable life.

ha ha... I don't criticize her, but she would not take it kindly... As my Hawaiian Shaman teacher taught - 'Criticism kills love'

My goal was homeless with bank account - never quite manage the homeless part...

At least he left behind salad dressing... mixed with hard boiled it makes a nice egg salad.

The very very very simple secret is that you don't put more on the table than you are prepared to lose... I have given plenty but always keep enough for myself that I can walk away with no hard feelings... but then again, I never thought in terms of forever. Maybe that is why we are together over 23 years...

He was just the eater - - George Kennedy was the egg maker - but he has been dead since 2016...

Somebody told me you can't take it with you... I don't believe them but in the meantime, it is called sharing and is part of my relationship...

creepy, creepier, creepiest...

You can probably just stay home and have all of that. No need to pay.

That is called uninsured, not self insured.

interesting question - - I have recently heard people say 3-4 million baht... personally, I don't think that would do it, things medical are definitely getting more expensive... but w/money, everyone has their own comfort level. People do get by on less, I am sure.