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Thai Woman Accepts Apology After BTS Tourist Dispute

The Thai woman at the centre of the widely shared confrontation on a Bangkok BTS train involving six Italian tourists says the dispute has now been resolved after the group apologised and police imposed 1,000-baht fines.

The incident, which spread rapidly across social media and triggered widespread debate in Thailand, also prompted public apologies from both the Italian tour operator involved and the Italian Embassy over the tourists’ behaviour.

Case brought to an end

In a social media post, the woman said each of the six Italian tourists seen in the viral video had personally apologised to her. As part of the agreement, she said she would remove photographs of the tourists from her social media posts so the matter could be concluded on amicable terms.

She also provided an update on the criminal complaint she had filed following the confrontation. According to her post, police settled the case by imposing a fine of 1,000 baht, despite the offence carrying a maximum penalty of 10,000 baht.

The woman said officers advised her to accept the lower penalty in order to bring the matter to a swift conclusion.

“Although I personally feel the amount may not be a severe punishment for them, I respect the officers’ discretion and advice,” she wrote.

No further legal action expected

The woman added that, with the case now concluded, the Italian tourists would no longer be able to pursue legal action against her over the actions she took while defending herself during the incident.

She emphasised that she had never intended to encourage hostility towards Italians or any other nationality.

“From the very beginning, all I wanted was to defend my dignity and my rights after being insulted and harassed,” she wrote, while thanking those who had supported her throughout the controversy.

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26 July 2026

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John Drake Diamond Member

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6 hours ago, Georgealbert said:

The woman added that, with the case now concluded, the Italian tourists would no longer be able to pursue legal action against her over the actions she took while defending herself during the incident.

So she got an agreement from the Italians to not counter-charge her with illegally filming them and posting it to Tik Tok. But wait a second. Somebody correct me if I'm wrong. I may be. But isn't it true that anyone can file a criminal complaint? You don't need to be the victim per se? If so, then anyone viewing her videos, which constitute evidence she provides against herself, then anyone can file a complaint. Even people reading this story on Aseannow???

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35 minutes ago, John Drake said:

So she got an agreement from the Italians to not counter-charge her with illegally filming them and posting it to Tik Tok. But wait a second. Somebody correct me if I'm wrong. I may be. But isn't it true that anyone can file a criminal complaint? You don't need to be the victim per se? If so, then anyone viewing her videos, which constitute evidence she provides against herself, then anyone can file a complaint. Even people reading this story on Aseannow???

Dont worry. Kharma will take care of it. Pray for that everybody in their own religion. It really works, better than file a criminal record.

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8 minutes ago, ikke1959 said:

Dont worry. Kharma will take care of it. Pray for that everybody in their own religion. It really works, better than file a criminal record.

I wouldn't expect anybody actually to step forward and file a criminal complaint against Sugar of the BTS.

metisdead Legendary Member

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Robin Silver Member

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Read the BBK Post comments on this. Some disgraceful sexist comment about PMT and the like. Male posters should be ashamed. Should have been deleted by the moderator. Didn't show Thailand in a very good light.

KhunHeineken Diamond Member

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6 hours ago, jacko45k said:

Yes, it has left the taste of xenophobia in the Pad Thai .......

Number of times I have endured screaming THai kids by a hotel pool or in restaurants and woe betide you if you complain!

I did ask whether should would have went down the same path if it was a bunch of Thai kids. There could be an element of racism behind it, or, perhaps she may not have done it with Thai kids because she knows they probably would have assaulted her. 🙂

hughrection Silver Member

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1 hour ago, Screaming said:

It appears to me that she has been influenced by a foreigner or perhaps her working environment.

This is more like it ............... Clearly it's a foreigners fault in some way or another. Congratulations for working this in. :)

KhunHeineken Diamond Member

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4 hours ago, Screaming said:

Normal cultured Thai women do not talk like this woman using the F word and other English language. It appears to me that she has been influenced by a foreigner or perhaps her working environment.

I agree.

My first thoughts was she must be a school teacher.

ronnie50 Platinum Member

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Or works at one of the high end hotels by the river? Isn't that the direction they were all heading?

Aussie999 Platinum Member

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On 7/26/2026 at 5:11 AM, ikke1959 said:

A fine of 1000 thb. But i am wondering if that is legal. is there a law or a rule that states that talking in the BTS is forbidden? And how about the Thai woman as she is not allowed to record and publish the video without consent?

and the Thai "lady" also used obscene language, in English...but she gets away with it...

Edited by Aussie999

Rockyroad Ruby Member

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22 hours ago, FritsSikkink said:

It is about flipping the finger. If I was there, I would have thrown them out of the BTS.

Then you would get charged with assault or attempted murder.

KhunHeineken Diamond Member

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6 hours ago, jacko45k said:

Talked of this with the Mrs last night...... I was surprised how much she was on the Thai side of the issue.

Did you show her your tattoo of Buddha and explain to her that you are now Thai as well and that kids on the train would not have bothered you? 😂

jacko45k Star Member

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16 hours ago, KhunHeineken said:

Did you show her your tattoo of Buddha and explain to her that you are now Thai as well and that kids on the train would not have bothered you? 😂

What on earth are you on about!

I would not have interfered, having a pop at a group of teenagers rarely works out well!

KhunHeineken Diamond Member

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6 hours ago, jacko45k said:

What on earth are you on about!

Didn't you know that once you get a Buddha tattoo you become Thai, and the bigger the Buddha tattoo, the more Thai you are than the next foreigner. 😂

6 hours ago, jacko45k said:

I would not have interfered, having a pop at a group of teenagers rarely works out well!

That's why I said, I wonder if she would have done the same to a group of Thai teenagers, who probably would have assaulted her.

PJ71 Platinum Member

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Absolutely pathetic, the whole event.

atpeace Platinum Member

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A group of kids that were excited and vulgar and an adult Thai with a foul disposition and no class. I had hope for her when she started try to assist the kids but she had a short fuse and lost it. Not a big deal and if I was there, I would have just smiled and took it all in. Actually I enjoy others making fools of themselves. No violence and at worse a foul mouth Thai was offended.

motdaeng Gold Member

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anyone who uses the BTS and MTR regularly knows that people are expected to be quiet and respectful. most passengers want some peace and quiet and want to hear the station announcements ... it's true that thais can be very loud when it comes to music or social gatherings, but the BTS and MRT are different. thai and foreign passengers generally respect that ...

the fact is, this group of students had already shown poor behavior before the BTS incident. there was no reason to believe they would behave differently during the rest of their stay in thailand ... what would be the next negative incident?

i do disagree with those who put the blame on the thai woman. she tried to step in and ask the group to show some respect. she was facing around a dozen loud and overexcited (aggressive gesture) students, all much bigger than her, while they dismissed and belittled her instead of listening to an adult ...

criticizing her because her english was limited or because she wasn't trained in conflict management completely misses the point. she was simply trying to defend the basic respect that thai people expect on public transport ...

from my point of view, she deserves credit for speaking up ...

btw, @ aussie member: please don't send me any PM anymore offering to "explain" things. i had a good laugh at your attempt, but i'm really not interested .. 555

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