‘I really loved them’ says woman who married a dozen men and fled with dowries

[Moti24]

"Jariyaporn admitted to using the Thai ID card of another woman, Soiphetch Paleewan, to open a bank account to hold the men’s money. This was consistent with the 27-year-old Soiphetch’s testimony to police on Thursday that she had lent her card to Jariyaporn years ago for a job application in Pattaya, but when Jariyaporn didn’t return it she obtained a new card."

 

So how was the card still valid after years!  I'd like to know which bank it was so I can avoid it like the plague.

 

Apart from that, she reminds me of Miss Piggy; she looks far better with the blanket on her head.

[Oziex1]

12 hours ago, Smiley Face said:

Maybe it was her cooking that attracted men because it sure wasn't her looks!!!!! Definitely a two bagger.

Is the image on her shirt a monkey or one of her offspring hard to say.

[sawadeeken]

7 hours ago, chuang said:

At least she is not selfish in love.....she share her love....how many can share their love with others...

I can................ I share my love with a 'real' Thai wife (21 years) in the US and a 'Mia-Noi' (21 years) in Pattaya and a number of 'kiks' ranging usually from 2 to 7 at times............ I am NOT selfish in love at all..................... (or money) I can't take it with me I am told........ LOL.......

It has been 'Pricey'....... however......... I have 'paid' for it all (30 plus years)........ Nobody is hurting, and I am as happy as a 'fool' can be.......... A few children or parents of these 'kiks' have a little better life now, and I have 'memories'..... I just wish I could help more of the 'Thai Poor'.........

The real Thai Mrs. in the US is self-sufficient (for many years), The Mia-Noi in pattaya has some houses and some money in the Bank......... and most kiks are much better off now, and I am a happy man travelling back and forth monthly (although tiring now)......... I love Thailand and I love to see 'Farang money' brought here because it is most of the money that the 'poor' get to see, and it makes 'smiles'...... 'Thai Money' on the other hand is seldom seen by the poor Thais....... Thai money buys 'submarines' and is circulated among the 'HI-SO folks............. In Thailand........... 'Farang money' goes mostly to the 'poor' (through the girls - as in this Topic).... not counting the 'Upper-class Tourists, of course..........

My post is not in jest...... fully honest, and 100% sincere.......

If you agree with me try to steer your 'Farang Money' to the 'poor'.... Not Gov't. or Hi-So rich.....

[Bluespunk]

16 minutes ago, sawadeeken said:

I can................ I share my love with a 'real' Thai wife (21 years) in the US and a 'Mia-Noi' (21 years) in Pattaya and a number of 'kiks' ranging usually from 2 to 7 at times............ I am NOT selfish in love at all..................... (or money) I can't take it with me I am told........ LOL.......

It has been 'Pricey'....... however......... I have 'paid' for it all (30 plus years)........ Nobody is hurting, and I am as happy as a 'fool' can be.......... A few children or parents of these 'kiks' have a little better life now, and I have 'memories'..... I just wish I could help more of the 'Thai Poor'.........

The real Thai Mrs. in the US is self-sufficient (for many years), The Mia-Noi in pattaya has some houses and some money in the Bank......... and most kiks are much better off now, and I am a happy man travelling back and forth monthly (although tiring now)......... I love Thailand and I love to see 'Farang money' brought here because it is most of the money that the 'poor' get to see, and it makes 'smiles'...... 'Thai Money' on the other hand is seldom seen by the poor Thais....... Thai money buys 'submarines' and is circulated among the 'HI-SO folks............. In Thailand........... 'Farang money' goes mostly to the 'poor' (through the girls - as in this Topic).... not counting the 'Upper-class Tourists, of course..........

My post is not in jest...... fully honest, and 100% sincere.......

If you agree with me try to steer your 'Farang Money' to the 'poor'.... Not Gov't. or Hi-So rich.....

And people wonder why women feel the way they do about men...Jesus H...

[sawadeeken]

7 hours ago, Bluespunk said:

 

8 hours ago, spidermike007 said:

When this con girl says she loved them all, she is showing her extreme confusion. In Thailand alot of women do not really know what love is. They confuse a slight degree of affection, and the thrill of the exchange of money, with love. It is a perversion of the term. What she means to say is, I liked most of these guys. And I loved their cash.

 

The biggest part of the problem here, is the extreme emasculation that is taking place in the West. Most men, in the US, Europe, and Oz, are no longer real men, when it comes to dealing with their women. Their women have made their lives so difficult, and alot of women have gotten so far away from their innate femininity, and have become dominant, and super controlling, and men just go along with it. Most men have become so hungry for love, or emotionally desperate for some kindness, and TLC. And most are so desirous of being around a real woman, who knows how to act like a woman, and manifest the dignity, within femininity. So, it is easy for the con artists, like this worm Jariyaporn, to take advantage of emotionally wounded men, who seem to be willing to do anything to regain a semblance of normality in their lives, with a decent woman. 

 

The bottom line is this. Take your time getting to know a woman here, or anywhere. Time is your ally. It is rarely their ally. They are usually trying to step up the timetable. We need to push back. We need to assert control. An environment like this allows us to do so. Take advantage of that. Be a man. Step up. Pay tribute to the gender. Refuse to lay down anymore. Refuse to be a doormat. Refuse to check your cajones at the door. Start making the decisions, and stop saying "honey what do you want?". "What will make you happy?" "Where do you want to eat?" I have so many friends, who come here, and from the very start, make the same mistakes they made back in the West. Except here, they do not need to make those mistakes. The environment does not dictate that they behave like lambs. Many do not know, or realize that, or they succumb to "force of habit". Every ship needs a captain. If the man is not willing to be the captain of the ship, the woman will take over, here in Thailand. Most women here seem to want a strong man. But, if they end up with a wimp, they will take charge. Someone has to.

 

Always remember, if it is good, it is only going to get better. If there are problems, or if she is a big baby, who only looks like a real woman, but in reality is a 13 year old, or if she is a con artist, if she is only in it for the money, those realizations will manifest themselves over time. Time allows clarity. Never, ever move too quickly. That is the undoing of most of these guys. Be like Bond. be a real man. Man up. Do yourself proud. 

 

 

 

 

Yes, how dare western women demand equality. 

 

How dare they stand up to men "who know how to treat their women"?

 

It's PC gone mad I tell you, sheer madness. 

 

My Mom, rest her soul.......... Taught me...........

Never criticise another person........ Until you have 'walked a mile in their shoes'.............

Not too many here seem to think about what life is like in the 'other folks' shows..... Here everyone voices their opinions with only insight from their personal 'lives'........... They have no concept to the lives of the poor (as I was born)........... Try to see another side that many of these live daily.............

I Hate thieves, ladyboys on Pattaya beach wanting 'Boob-jobs, so many Thai Gov't 'Officials' and cops, dopers wanting to buy a 'fix'.... and a few of the 'sharks I see in bars.....Etc....  This girl was quite a bit 'overboard' However I don't think the family knew of (or gave thought to what she was doing) but just trusting her and 'appreciating' the betterment to their lives..........

Personally, I can condone her 'ten-fold' over the Thai boys getting the young girls pregnant (often rape) and leaving so many 'Thai" Single Mothers............

Have we ALL not heard the story of "ROBIN HOOD"....... stealing from the rich and giving to the Poor?????

I LOVE IT......... And I think this girl is a 'HERO'............ A few here ' who are not so blood-thirsty' and who take time to 'read and understand' my comment..... just might agree......... and I really won't be put down by it as this is just my humble opinion, and everyone is entitled by law (at least in the good ole USA) to 'their own' opinions...........  CHEERS...... as they say in a few other countries that many friends come from.....

[sawadeeken]

36 minutes ago, Bluespunk said:

And people wonder why women feel the way they do about men...Jesus H...

Taking so little time with a non-committal reply..... I sincerely doubt that you took time to try to understand the post you were replying to...........

[Bluespunk]

3 minutes ago, sawadeeken said:

Taking so little time with a non-committal reply..... I sincerely doubt that you took time to try to understand the post you were replying to...........

Unless it was posted in sarcasm, I think I got it. 

 

If you were being sarcastic, then my apologies for my post.  

 

If genuine, then we clearly have different views on the best way to help the poor. 

Edited September 9, 2017 by Bluespunk

[sawadeeken]

Just now, Bluespunk said:

Unless it was posted in sarcasm, I think I got it. 

 

If you were being sarcastic, then my apologies for my post.  

If you had read and understood it .......... You would see that I said it was 100% sincere............I just added another post following this one........... 30 years plus in Thailand I have met a full range of Thai ladies and guys..... and coming from a country that offers a better life, I can understand Thai's want a  better life, at least those poor................ Because I have enjoyed my life her, Half time, and not on a limited budget, I have felt good about the help I've given in comparison to the happiness I've received...........

I ws boorn poor but in a country where there is 'opportunity'....... I rose above it (mind you not as bastard 'trump' has......... and I love sharing it with the poor............... Here in Thailand...........

[Bluespunk]

2 minutes ago, sawadeeken said:

If you had read and understood it .......... You would see that I said it was 100% sincere............I just added another post following this one........... 30 years plus in Thailand I have met a full range of Thai ladies and guys..... and coming from a country that offers a better life, I can understand Thai's want a  better life, at least those poor................ Because I have enjoyed my life her, Half time, and not on a limited budget, I have felt good about the help I've given in comparison to the happiness I've received...........

I ws boorn poor but in a country where there is 'opportunity'....... I rose above it (mind you not as bastard 'trump' has......... and I love sharing it with the poor............... Here in Thailand...........

I guess we just have different perspectives on life. 

[sawadeeken]

1 minute ago, Bluespunk said:

I guess we just have different perspectives on life. 

I wish I could double/triple thank you................ 

Yes..... we all have varying opinions and that is what makes the 'world go round' 

I appreciate your honesty..............

Anything more you have my permission for PM..............

[manarak]

20 minutes ago, Bluespunk said:

I guess we just have different perspectives on life. 

this man/woman debate reminds me of the definition of what a nymphomaniac is:

"a woman who is as obsessed with sex as a normal man is"

lol.

it illustrates well why there will never be full equality between men and women.

 

I also have come to consider men's interests vs. women's interests when each other meet.

 

While some feminists consider even fully consensual heterosexual sex acts as a rape, it's difficult to deny that most Western society considers sex as a favour the woman grants to the man, and as a consequence, the man owes the woman something, in most cases a long term committment, for the sex he enjoyed.
And considering differences in sex drive (nearly half of women have little or no interest in sex) as well as difference in sexual satisfaction (only 25% orgasm often with their partner), this women's point of view is understandable.

 

Yet this is the fundamental imbalance, heavily promoted by Christian religion and morals, which poisons the lives of many people today - the idea that men somehow "have to pay for it one way or another".

 

Men mostly want to just spend some non-committal good time to enjoy, while the woman wants to lure a man into a long-term committment, often for lack of something else.

[Bluespunk]

5 minutes ago, manarak said:

this man/woman debate reminds me of the definition of what a nymphomaniac is:

"a woman who is as obsessed with sex as a normal man is"

lol.

it illustrates well why there will never be full equality between men and women.

 

I also have come to consider men's interests vs. women's interests when each other meet.

 

While some feminists consider even fully consensual heterosexual sex acts as a rape, it's difficult to deny that most Western society considers sex as a favour the woman grants to the man, and as a consequence, the man owes the woman something, in most cases a long term committment, for the sex he enjoyed.
And considering differences in sex drive (nearly half of women have little or no interest in sex) as well as difference in sexual satisfaction (only 25% orgasm often with their partner), this women's point of view is understandable.

 

Yet this is the fundamental imbalance, heavily promoted by Christian religion and morals, which poisons the lives of many people today - the idea that men somehow "have to pay for it one way or another".

 

Men mostly want to just spend some non-committal good time to enjoy, while the woman wants to lure a man into a long-term committment, often for lack of something else.

Read post you responded to and apply it to yours. 

[manarak]

16 minutes ago, Bluespunk said:

Read post you responded to and apply it to yours. 

maybe you can help me

[Bluespunk]

1 minute ago, manarak said:

maybe you can help me

I really doubt it. 

[manarak]

11 minutes ago, Bluespunk said:

I really doubt it. 

so which part of my post doesn't fit your 'view'?

a forum is made for debate

[Bluespunk]

1 minute ago, manarak said:

so which part of my post doesn't fit your 'view'?

a forum is made for debate

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[lamyai3]

1 hour ago, sawadeeken said:

Never criticise another person........ Until you have 'walked a mile in their shoes'

Yes, afterwards you can criticise them as much as you like - you're a mile away from them and you've got their shoes!

[manarak]

1 hour ago, Bluespunk said:

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ah well... the wiser gives in

[Bluespunk]

Just now, manarak said:

ah well... the wiser gives in

Whatever. 

[Ulic]

Sounds like she went by the saying, " what's yours is mine, and

what's mine is mine"...........mine, mine, mine, mine . 

[Ulic]

10 hours ago, sawadeeken said:

I can................ I share my love with a 'real' Thai wife (21 years) in the US and a 'Mia-Noi' (21 years) in Pattaya and a number of 'kiks' ranging usually from 2 to 7 at times............ I am NOT selfish in love at all..................... (or money) I can't take it with me I am told........ LOL.......

It has been 'Pricey'....... however......... I have 'paid' for it all (30 plus years)........ Nobody is hurting, and I am as happy as a 'fool' can be.......... A few children or parents of these 'kiks' have a little better life now, and I have 'memories'..... I just wish I could help more of the 'Thai Poor'.........

The real Thai Mrs. in the US is self-sufficient (for many years), The Mia-Noi in pattaya has some houses and some money in the Bank......... and most kiks are much better off now, and I am a happy man travelling back and forth monthly (although tiring now)......... I love Thailand and I love to see 'Farang money' brought here because it is most of the money that the 'poor' get to see, and it makes 'smiles'...... 'Thai Money' on the other hand is seldom seen by the poor Thais....... Thai money buys 'submarines' and is circulated among the 'HI-SO folks............. In Thailand........... 'Farang money' goes mostly to the 'poor' (through the girls - as in this Topic).... not counting the 'Upper-class Tourists, of course..........

My post is not in jest...... fully honest, and 100% sincere.......

If you agree with me try to steer your 'Farang Money' to the 'poor'.... Not Gov't. or Hi-So rich.....

While not PC, you are correct. The UN could probably get a better bang

for their buck just handing money out to poor women. (men will just drink

the money away) Forget the stupid programs that have all the money

skimmed by officials in government and Western NGO heads. As far as

I am concerned birth control, and poor women support is the answer.  

 

[Confuscious]

"No money, No honey."

[ovi1kanobi]

13 hours ago, sawadeeken said:

I can................ I share my love with a 'real' Thai wife (21 years) in the US and a 'Mia-Noi' (21 years) in Pattaya and a number of 'kiks' ranging usually from 2 to 7 at times............ I am NOT selfish in love at all..................... (or money) I can't take it with me I am told........ LOL.......

It has been 'Pricey'....... however......... I have 'paid' for it all (30 plus years)........ Nobody is hurting, and I am as happy as a 'fool' can be.......... A few children or parents of these 'kiks' have a little better life now, and I have 'memories'..... I just wish I could help more of the 'Thai Poor'.........

The real Thai Mrs. in the US is self-sufficient (for many years), The Mia-Noi in pattaya has some houses and some money in the Bank......... and most kiks are much better off now, and I am a happy man travelling back and forth monthly (although tiring now)......... I love Thailand and I love to see 'Farang money' brought here because it is most of the money that the 'poor' get to see, and it makes 'smiles'...... 'Thai Money' on the other hand is seldom seen by the poor Thais....... Thai money buys 'submarines' and is circulated among the 'HI-SO folks............. In Thailand........... 'Farang money' goes mostly to the 'poor' (through the girls - as in this Topic).... not counting the 'Upper-class Tourists, of course..........

My post is not in jest...... fully honest, and 100% sincere.......

If you agree with me try to steer your 'Farang Money' to the 'poor'.... Not Gov't. or Hi-So rich.....

You have helped the poor people in Issan. More then Thaksin and lingluck combined!

[Cereal]

On 9/9/2017 at 6:10 AM, greenchair said:

I just don't understand what is the crime here. 

She married one. 

Got the dowery. 

Consummated the marriage. 

Divorced him. 

 

Then married another one. 

Got the dowery. 

Consummated the marriage. 

Divorced him. 

An so on. 

 

Nookie is never free you know. 

Ain't that the truth brother. Any man who says, "I've never paid for sex." is lying. I built my wife a house LOL

[AlQaholic]

They gave her the money, she accepted it, what is the crime?

[sawadeeken]

3 hours ago, AlQaholic said:

They gave her the money, she accepted it, what is the crime?

The money was surely 'well spent' in Issan......... Likely NOT on Rolls Royces, but on farm tractors.........

A lot of tired and injured backs of some farmers saved.......... 

 

I'm not rich but i'm not poor........ and any of my money that has gone to Issan was well spent and I got pleasures in the deal............

People with 'money lost' will get over it, and in a short time as well....... and their lives will go on........ 

Many of the people in Issan have only one bowl of rice and sometime no flavoring with it......... Then a creative daughter really 'perks things up for a while'..... Ask me who I am happy for???????? (hint) not the guys with money..........

[sawadeeken]

13 hours ago, Ulic said:

While not PC, you are correct. The UN could probably get a better bang

for their buck just handing money out to poor women. (men will just drink

the money away) Forget the stupid programs that have all the money

skimmed by officials in government and Western NGO heads. As far as

I am concerned birth control, and poor women support is the answer.  

 

Absolutely..... My MO (Method of Operation) is while at home in the US (i have a month here and a month at home).......... I walk past all the 'bell-ringers' in front of department stores, collecting money and avoid most other 'charities'......... I bring that money with me here to Thailand and I can see where 100% of it goes............

For me it 'works fine'..... and it would not be beyond me donating to help this girl out of her mess.........