Thai woman stabs British man after he tried to end their relationship

[Rimmer]

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[Jdiddy]

Is there a guide on how to end a relationship with a TGF without ending up in hospital?

[Easy Come Easy Go]

1 hour ago, oldskoolbeatz said:

Bro, I have heard a very similar story from a mate of mine, which it happened back in 2004. When did it happen to you?

This is my story, the gf was crazy and after 1 year I told her we should go our seperate ways. She wouldn't allow it, did the same as cutting her self, going to the balcony to jump, then hitting me, breaking stuff, taking my stuff and hers. Later she filed false complaints at me with the police station, saying I won't give back the stuff she did leave (glasses, oven) and tried to get me fired too. I was silly to use her ipad to log into facebook and my email and password saved, so she went in them, changed the passwords and spammed crazy messages to people I know, family and work. That wasn't the worse thing. Before she left my room she pushed my new 50" tv down, smashed my guitar, laptop. She even took cash. I was a little worried that she went to the police though, as I do puff sometimes on occasions is private (which I know I should'nt do here). It could all turn into a big mess. In all there wasn't much I could do except,move apartments. She kept sending threats and emails for as long as a year, she still sends some msgs to say sorry now. I never replied.

This happened to me around 2012, so not too long ago. Literally she would hit her head on the floor and the wall to either get attention from me or to just make things difficult because she knew I wanted to break up. She had bruises and bumps on her head for some weeks on different occasions, but also I tried to restrain her of course. I'm not going to sit there and watch her do it, and restraining also caused some bruising. I think a few of her friends / work partners saw it and thought it was because of me! The time she tried to stab herself, I got the knife off of her but ended up with a slit hand in the process. That was pretty much the last straw. 

I have never had such crazy and jealous GFs as I have here in Thailand, not sure what's in the water lol. It may be due to the LaKorn they love to watch day in day out, who knows. 

There was an incident about 2 years ago that was even published on TV in the HH section. A pregnant woman jumped from a 3rd story building after arguing with her partner (both Thais) I actually lived directly underneath them and they did argue quite often. Women and Thai women especially can dive into the irrational end of the pool fairly easily 

[seancbk]

39 minutes ago, NeoDinosaw said:

1 hour ago, seancbk said:

 

So how exactly do you move all your furniture, clothes, computers etc without her noticing?   
 

Easy. You put the computer, clothes and valuables in the car and drive off.  Don't bother with the furniture or curtains 'cos you will rent a furnished apartment in future.

Best to do this while she is out shopping.

I've never rented a furnished place.  I have all my own stuff.   Each to their own I guess.

[Henrik Andersen]

5 hours ago, arithai12 said:

ago, JeffreyO said:

Everyone is making the assumption that she's a bar girl.  Was that in the article and I missed it or is it just assumed all Thai women with a western man are bar girls?  My wife is a marketing executive with a masters and is trilingual, I think perhaps we should rethink our assumptions.  Then again, people do tend to think others are like them so many of you are showing your true colors

I give you right about almost everyone in here are double moral and think they can do what they want and think all ladies work as beerbar prostitutes 

Meny are sexpat and don't have any respect for ladies even gf 

Cheap Charlie not give money for start a new life bad men

Someone said in another tread 

Take gf to another country and take her passport and dumb her that is sick 

Good men there want out of relationship can just pay for a room and money for food to she get salary from her new job 

But again meny men have no problem to <deleted> ladies and use money in a beerbar but pay small money for gf no no come on 

40000bath cheap charlies 

 

[Henrik Andersen]

14 minutes ago, Jdiddy said:

Is there a guide on how to end a relationship with a TGF without ending up in hospital?

Yes pay her for a room and money for food so she can find a job and take care of herself but again only nice men do that are you one of them I mean nice 

[seancbk]

1 hour ago, Daveyh said:

Another example of "loss of face" here ................... & people continue to think Thailand is not dangerous? People here really have an anger management problem ......... when "farangs" are involved it quickly gets really heated .......... then locals appear from everywhere, pitch in & bingo ........ shit hits the fan. I wonder how many farangs here have "long term" Thai friends? Be interesting to know ........ socially we do not mix very well here, especially single guys.

 

 

 

I'm a single guy and have a bunch of great Thai friends.  They are mostly all overseas educated, having been to boarding schools in the UK.  They all speak English fluently and most of them are from what you would call rich families, although they see themselves as just middle class.  

I think it depends on your age, the older guys don't seem to go to places where they'll meet Thais and make Thai friends. 

 

[StevieAus]

10 hours ago, lanista said:

KORAT....where  else!

Is that her husband standing next to her? What is she pointing at?

Another old English guy with worn out '30 something' street scrubber.

She doesnt care about their phoney relationship. If he leaves so does his wallet and ATM  card,

Thats why she's pissed.

These old farangs never learn.

They keep their embassies busy thats for sure.

I don’t think either of the people in the photograph are the persons mentioned in the article

He looks Thai and certainly not 67 plus the stabbed person is in hospital and the assailant in custody.

[yuiop]

32 minutes ago, Jdiddy said:

Is there a guide on how to end a relationship with a TGF without ending up in hospital?

yes

don't tell her you want to break up

act normal as if all is fine

meanwhile organize your move (what to take, where to go etc)

be prepared to lose some money (items you cannot easily move, rent deposit etc)

wait for the right moment (she's out with friends, visit family  etc) and move out

run

move to another city

eventually leave some money to her

 

If you own the place you're living in, then I don't know.

 

it may sound coward but that's better than stabbed.

 

 

[ratcatcher]

8 hours ago, uffe123 said:

Best way just disappear, Thai women can get really dangerous when it comes to money and love.

Bet you no more dough and she decided to make him pay.

[Straight8]

It's normal.... it's normal..come on guys, it's normal!!

[smotherb]

It sounds like she couldn't stand the embarrassment and loss of face for being dropped by a Brit.

[Manny]

You don't have to know how to start a relationship in Thailand, you have to know how to end one ... Starting one is as difficult as finding Rice ... When in Rome do as the Romans do, & when in Thailand watch what the Thai guys do & follow their lead as I see too many Farang with the travel budget and or pension, that could do so much better than the maids & the Som Tum merchants they be walking around with committing instant social suicide in the eyes of any self respecting Thai man or woman, & being guilty by association automatically adopting your girlfriends rice farmers daughter socio economic status instantly by default.  It's like these foreigners who get convinced by their teerak to buy some real estate @ 4M baht in her name that the Farang could've rented for 10 years @ 1M baht? The week after he buys it she sells it, or the corporate body files bankruptcy & the swimming pool turns green, or the whole country floods, or the government decides to revoke all foreign private ownership, (you never know). Anyway the Thai man's rules are as follows so take note & compare your girlfriend to these guidelines or consider this the Thai benchmark for a girlfriend. Successful Thai man with any hint of social status and or money equal to requires these qualities to even consider a relationship longer than days or weeks at best. There are girls they will be seen in public with & girls that are for short time hotels that they draw a curtain behind you once you park the car in front of the room.

 

(1) Unmarried Girls over Thirty are considered high risk for mental instability as they have a deep seated fear of never being able to land a "trophy" husband and the paranoia increases as each year goes by ......

 

(2) Due to deep seated multi generational brain washing the essential criteria to be considered beautiful & desirable as you see documented on TV, Magazines, Advertising & the pantheon of products to help achieve this condition is ~ you must have "WHITE SKIN" as the army of dark or honey skinned Thai Honeys are considered plain Jane with millions of these (especially Issan girls) that all have a similar look & bone structure.

These girls are considered common both in regards to their look & socio economic cast position in the society so are undesirable as wives and or girlfriends to the middle or upper class mover & shaker Thai well to do man. These girls are the majority of prostitutes from poor backgrounds (financially and education wise) and if you learn to speak language you see clearly most of them have the equivalent of a 3rd Grade Western education kind of like talking to a ten year old American or European kid.

Their main concern is how to get the new iPhone to take clearer selfies. Thai men understand they are good for (1) thing only, once or twice. OK

 

(3) Good Thai Girls always have extremely good manners and respect men older than them, richer than them and the foreigner with the travel budget who automatically are awarded a higher social status on the travel budget (or pension) money and white skin alone. Make sure your girl understands that the moment she disrespects you or disregards the rules of her own culture and talks any smack or **** to your for a New York minute, that the door will hit her square in the ass on her way out to the street as there are multi millions of younger, better looking, respectful candidates who want the opportunity your girl is currently enjoying. That is the beautiful thing about Thailand. The Thai girls understand this but many have a bad double standard with Thai and Farang men. Thai men nothing but respect 24/7 but the Farang some feel they don't count and the girl can talk any smack or **** to the Farang. As soon as they do that trade them in for a newer younger better looking model with a better attitude. Dumping the "Poot Mak" Big Mouth rude girlfriend is mandatory. Disrespecting you in public is instant dismissal with no probation period. In Thailand whoever controls the money controls the relationship, like in China whoever has the money makes the rules. If you ever let the woman control the finances your meaning will cease to be of any consequence.

 

(4) I'm just stating the reality of the society but all these dark skinned Issan Girls that go looking for Farang due to general lack of interest after the first orgasm by Thai Men, the question you should ask yourself about any girlfriend or potential girlfriend is why doesn't this Thai girl have a well to do Thai Man the same socio economic level as the Farang she has attached herself to. Why does she chose to be "Mia Farang" (The Foreigners Wife) and not marry to a Thaksin Shinnawatra mogul or high society Thai. The answer my Farang Freinds is 999 out of 1000 times Thai's marry to their own socio economic demographic. They do not marry down the social ladder. Consequently 999 out of 1000 Farang marrying to Thai is based on a socio economic gain. That will be the motivating factor. It's not Love, it's the girls mentality of "how will I appear to my peer group & Thai Public in general hanging on this guys arm as his wife"? or girlfriend" Why do you think the first request to the Farang husband or boyfriend is "Buy Me Gold". The thing Thai people have more than anyone (even if you can't see it easily) is Ego. Misplaced Ego with as far as I can see no basis for this ego from some of the most under achieving people in the world ! A real look at me mentality where they want to stand alone head and shoulders above everyone. Selfish. How many Thai girls to you see with the mental illness of taking SELFIES all day everyday and posting them on Face book along with lunch & dinner. 

 

If you really think about it what do you have in common with your Girl ? Language ? Religion ? Culture ? Social Status ? Asset Base ? Money ? Education ? Hobbies or Nothing ? Probably Nothing so I would opt for the Thai man's attitude towards Thai Women. Variety is the spice of life but a wife needs to be at very least the same socio economic & educational demographic as you are and can speak English from learning in an educational institute not from customers or multiple Farang Boyfriends they met in a bar in Pat Pong, Pattaya or Soi Cowboy. Where do U work?

 

I have attached the Thai Woman/Girlfriend Guide Chart & Divorce Laws

 

Check out the "Thai Woman Matrix"

A Rough Guide to Finding the Right Thai Woman (Attached Below) It sums it up pretty Well. The key to success in Thailand is speaking Thai !

 

Let me know what you think of my commentary ~ I'm just keeping it Real

 

I 

[Daveyh]

2 hours ago, 473geo said:

Just need to read a few comments on this very forum to be aware how badly opinionated farangs speak regarding Thai people. If they continue this tone in their 'off forum' conversations, and I have met those that do!! is there any wonder they become marginalised.

Respect is earned, usually showing a modicum of respect to others is a sound base, if one is not prepared to make the effort then be aware and accept the repercussions. Quit moaning.

Reap what you sow.

 

Facts are facts which ever way you mix it ............ the media is full of it & rightly so! It's a sad fact here that Thai's generally do not mix well with farangs socially ......... mainly I think because our culture is so different to theirs. Being polite & not offending anyone here is nothing new in western society & definitely sound advice if you live here full time. However, my point is that making real friends socially here is really difficult. I've tried so often, but the selfishness without thought for others is something you have to get use to & accept here ........., hence, which ever way you mix it it's not an easy place to meet & make friends. Most people here, & this includes foreigners as as well as locals, seem to live in their own world with their own close knit circle of friends ........ never experienced this before until I came here .......... it's definitely a unique place wherever you go & always a lot of fun trying to figure out the logic here on a daily basis .............. if you can. 

 

 

[Thomas Hannah]

11 hours ago, lanista said:

KORAT....where  else!

Is that her husband standing next to her? What is she pointing at?

Another old English guy with worn out '30 something' street scrubber.

She doesnt care about their phoney relationship. If he leaves so does his wallet and ATM  card,

Thats why she's pissed.

These old farangs never learn.

They keep their embassies busy thats for sure.

No its not.Her husband is my freind.Known her for about 15 years.She lived over here for 2 years.He has not been with her for 3 years.still married on paper.Long story.She used to be a very nice girl.Untill the old thai culture of being obligated to her very bad family.Just told him about this article.

[sambum]

2 hours ago, EnlightenedAtheist said:

Not just the Thais. Here, as a foreigner has something happening to him, all you have to say --or assume, rather--  is: "Well She was a bargirl!" 

 

This story needs a lot more information. We are asked to judge, yet we cannot. Maybe it was an accident. The willful act is more tantalizing though and slamming that label of bargirl makes it right.

 

If she were a bargirl, I would say that he was at least partially responsible (twice), especially if she is 35 years younger than him. 

 

What are people thinking --if there are at all. Marrying someone who is 35 years younger than them. Co-dependency, here I come.

 

Trophy wives show that you have a very low ego.

He was not married to her.

[saakura]

The guy in the photo, could be the proverbial 'brother' lurking in the shadows of many such relationships (old ignorant farang married to decades younger isaan ex-prostitute or divorcee with children).

[Jeremia Juxtaposed]

12 hours ago, lanista said:

KORAT....where  else!

 

This has to be the stupidest thing I have read on TV for a long time  - and for sure it has some tough competition - but the really bizarre thing is 17 people liked it!!!

[473geo]

49 minutes ago, Daveyh said:

Facts are facts which ever way you mix it ............ the media is full of it & rightly so! It's a sad fact here that Thai's generally do not mix well with farangs socially ......... mainly I think because our culture is so different to theirs. Being polite & not offending anyone here is nothing new in western society & definitely sound advice if you live here full time. However, my point is that making real friends socially here is really difficult. I've tried so often, but the selfishness without thought for others is something you have to get use to & accept here ........., hence, which ever way you mix it it's not an easy place to meet & make friends. Most people here, & this includes foreigners as as well as locals, seem to live in their own world with their own close knit circle of friends ........ never experienced this before until I came here .......... it's definitely a unique place wherever you go & always a lot of fun trying to figure out the logic here on a daily basis .............. if you can. 

 

 

 

I was inclined to try to explain, but I have to say, your experience, needs, and views, are so alien to my experience of Thailand I feel any response I could muster would do little to change your understanding.

 

 

 

 

[cat handler]

Wonder of it’s the guy who wrote in here asking advice how to get rid of his girlfriend from his condo, should have followed my advice to dump her in another country.

[Jeremia Juxtaposed]

Just now, cat handler said:

Wonder of it’s the guy who wrote in here asking advice how to get rid of his girlfriend from his condo, should have followed my advice to dump her in another country.

Interesting point.....

[473geo]

22 minutes ago, saakura said:

The guy in the photo, could be the proverbial 'brother' lurking in the shadows of many such relationships (old ignorant farang married to decades younger isaan ex-prostitute or divorcee with children).

Yeah yeah show your great comprehension of all things Thai

 

With your in depth experience I am surprised it has not occurred to you perhaps he is RTP?

[metisdead]

A troll post encouraging naughty activities has been removed. 

[Jeremia Juxtaposed]

2 minutes ago, 473geo said:

Yeah yeah show your great comprehension of all things Thai

 

With your in depth experience I am surprised it has not occurred to you perhaps he is RTP?

I was going to say the same thing because in the other photo he is shown escorting her down Soi Buakhao ....

[Jeremia Juxtaposed]

2 minutes ago, 473geo said:

Yeah yeah show your great comprehension of all things Thai

 

With your in depth experience I am surprised it has not occurred to you perhaps he is RTP?

I was going to say the same thing because in the other photo he is shown escorting her down Soi Buakhao ....

[tingtongtourist]

6 hours ago, sambum said:

 

And somehow the old "pointing finger" is back in a lot of these BIB pics - what on earth is she pointing at?

 

maybe give photographer the marching orders..as in F.O

she points upwards because now must living in the basement since Johnny Farang kicked her out

 

[tingtongtourist]

4 hours ago, seancbk said:

 

So how exactly do you move all your furniture, clothes, computers etc without her noticing?   
 

its very easy 3 steps actually:

 

1.Give her 10,000 baht to visit family upcountry.

2. the day she arrive in Isaan you verify she  there by talk on skype video.

3. 5 minutes after Skype call you start mooving your stuff to new appartment.

[anon537687643]

When you want to end relationship with these psychos you have to just walk away, far away without actually telling them to their face !


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[anon537687643]

The Brit is 30 years older.. he is lucky to have her ( I mean if the relationship was good.. not now that she stabbed him) Do you really think a 67yo could get an 20 yo for the same price he is (probably) paying this 37 yo

Not really! Looking at her she’s lucky to get a 60 year falang !!


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[Jeremia Juxtaposed]

5 minutes ago, tingtongtourist said:

its very easy 3 steps actually:

 

1.Give her 10,000 baht to visit family upcountry.

2. the day she arrive in Isaan you verify she  there by talk on skype video.

3. 5 minutes after Skype call you start mooving your stuff to new appartment.

4. Her friends see you moving stuff

5.End up in hospital anyway but with 10,000 baht less..