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The "beautiful Thai girl" myth?


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16 minutes ago, Jip99 said:

 

 

 

 

 

Clearly you lack comprehension skills - I said that she had not yet been affected by your assertion that western women go to the dogs once they reach 40.

I said, " I neither said there were no good-looking Western women nor did I say there were no Asian dragons. As far as shelf-life; well, we'll have to see what she looks like in a few years. "

 

So, I must ask you the same question.

 

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2 hours ago, Berkshire said:

You're right OP, it's a matter of preference.  If I was to say that " blue eyed blonde Scandinavian girls" are nothing special and you shouldn't put them on a pedestal, I'm sure you'd agree.  

 

Yes, I would agree. I think it is a big mistake to put any woman on a pedestal ... they'll be forever looking down on you.

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4 minutes ago, AlexRich said:

 

Yes, I would agree. I think it is a big mistake to put any woman on a pedestal ... they'll be forever looking down on you.

Correct....although in your opening post, you seem to be suggesting that certain females are more "special" than others. 

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Just now, Berkshire said:

Correct....although in your opening post, you seem to be suggesting that certain females are more "special" than others. 

 

Or just generally more attractive, from my own point of view. And another point that I never got into was that we are culturally closer, speak the same language and have more in common. I've lost count of the number of times I've sat in a cafe in Thailand and watched an older westerner speak to his younger wife or girlfriend like he would to a 5 year old. When the conversation is at that level what's the point?

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Just now, SamadhiWarrior said:

Whatever, dude.... whatever...

 

You might want to open up a new thread of your own discussing Einstein's debate with Bohr? That normally goes down well on Thai Visa. Or discuss crochet patterns. Awesome dude!  

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I strongly disagree. If you're broke, ugly dude, hell if you're a broke good looking dude, it is highly unlikely that a Thai girl is going to be interested in developing a relationship with you.
They will if you like a career bar girl that's 50 and can no longer attract customers. Lots of farang in Pattaya who are pensioners scratching out a living can be seen with them. Not judging just stating facts
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1 hour ago, AlexRich said:

 

Or just generally more attractive, from my own point of view. And another point that I never got into was that we are culturally closer, speak the same language and have more in common. I've lost count of the number of times I've sat in a cafe in Thailand and watched an older westerner speak to his younger wife or girlfriend like he would to a 5 year old. When the conversation is at that level what's the point?

Well now you're talking about a whole another matter, the cultural incompatibility thing.  That's mostly a language/communication problem.  If I couldn't speak Thai, I wouldn't be with a Thai woman.  But I know guys that are willing to sacrifice that to be with a younger, more attractive female.  Understandable.  

 

But back on topic, you're simply applying the western standards of beauty and that's certainly your prerogative.  But you can proudly proclaim your preference for "blue eyed blonde Scandinavian girls" without have to denigrate Thai women...and all other Asian women for that matter.  How about African women?  Oh you didn't say they were ugly...just not that special.  Same thing.  

 

By the way, I'd like to see the kinds of females that you date or are married to.  Are they/she anything like the "truly beautiful" women that you speak of?

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On 7/1/2018 at 6:55 AM, BangkokSausage said:

I have never not even once seen a stunner married to a farang. It's almost like they intentionally seek out the ugliest girls in the village

I've often thought this too.  Guys go on here about the women, and it's commonly accepted that many/most came for the women, or at least that was a big part of the draw.  But for all that, I very rarely see a mixed couple here where my spontaneous reaction is "lucky guy!"  More often it's "you came all the way here to end up with that, and on top have to deal with the intercultural crap, and have a partner who doesn't contribute to the household finances?!"

 

But I admit I'm a weird one, and to each their own.  Young guys (under 35-40 tops) can do really well here and date out of their league.  Older guys can too, but only relatively.  If I were 70, I'd much rather be single and jerk off to porn than be married to a 50+ year old Thai grandma who I have nothing in common with.  By then the looks are gone anyway, so her being technically a better catch than what you'd get in the West doesn't mean much.  

 

A whole other issue is that the obesity epidemic is truly rampant now.  I'm writing this from a visit home (Belgium) and I think I see more fat women in Thailand nowadays than here.

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8 minutes ago, ChidlomDweller said:

Young guys (under 35-40 tops) can do really well here and date out of their league. 

I'm not so sure I'd agree with that.  A guy may think that he is, but he really isn't.  If a guy is, say, a "3" back home (on a scale of 1-10), it's most likely that he'll be dating a Thai woman who's also a "3"....but on the Thai scale. 

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I've often thought this too.  Guys go on here about the women, and it's commonly accepted that many/most came for the women, or at least that was a big part of the draw.  But for all that, I very rarely see a mixed couple here where my spontaneous reaction is "lucky guy!"  More often it's "you came all the way here to end up with that, and on top have to deal with the intercultural crap, and have a partner who doesn't contribute to the household finances?!"
 
But I admit I'm a weird one, and to each their own.  Young guys (under 35-40 tops) can do really well here and date out of their league.  Older guys can too, but only relatively.  If I were 70, I'd much rather be single and jerk off to porn than be married to a 50+ year old Thai grandma who I have nothing in common with.  By then the looks are gone anyway, so her being technically a better catch than what you'd get in the West doesn't mean much.  
 
A whole other issue is that the obesity epidemic is truly rampant now.  I'm writing this from a visit home (Belgium) and I think I see more fat women in Thailand nowadays than here.
A lot of guys leave for the Phillipines as the girls are catholics and easier to get along with. And they have boobs to

It would be easier to deal with Martians than to wrap your head around Buddhism
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1 minute ago, BangkokSausage said:

A lot of guys leave for the Phillipines as the girls are catholics and easier to get along with. And they have boobs to

It would be easier to deal with Martians than to wrap your head around Buddhism

if you want good boobies (real ones) that equate with body size;

forget Thai and Filo ones in toto!

... and go to Laos, Cambodia or Vietnam

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The most beautiful girl is going to be where I live and spend my time! There is beautiful girls everywher, except England, so far had no luck there with personal experience. English lady yes, but dam trashy to go out with, and no class what so ever. Only experience from Nottingham area, and in Spain. Except that, wonderful lovely girls all over world. One of the more wild and  beautiful must have been from Mongolia. Loved the attitude and wildness in here.

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18 minutes ago, tifino said:

if you want good boobies (real ones) that equate with body size;

forget Thai and Filo ones in toto!

... and go to Laos, Cambodia or Vietnam

Please enlighten us. What is it about Laotian, Cambodian and Vietnamese mammary glands that one should travel for.

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it takes even more money; to go travel and explore for it

 

 

but even right here right now in Oz; we regularily have good exposure to the different 'above' communities via their temple attendance activities.

Each of the 'heritages' keep to themselves, making it easier to be more quantative in the quest to 'learn' 

(and , ummm, the Viets ones are currently my favourite to drive the mrs to ? ) 

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1 hour ago, Berkshire said:

Well now you're talking about a whole another matter, the cultural incompatibility thing.  That's mostly a language/communication problem.  If I couldn't speak Thai, I wouldn't be with a Thai woman.  But I know guys that are willing to sacrifice that to be with a younger, more attractive female.  Understandable.  

 

But back on topic, you're simply applying the western standards of beauty and that's certainly your prerogative.  But you can proudly proclaim your preference for "blue eyed blonde Scandinavian girls" without have to denigrate Thai women...and all other Asian women for that matter.  How about African women?  Oh you didn't say they were ugly...just not that special.  Same thing.  

 

By the way, I'd like to see the kinds of females that you date or are married to.  Are they/she anything like the "truly beautiful" women that you speak of?

 

At the moment my gf is an olive skinned European lady ... I’m not in the Far East currently. 

 

My point was simply that westerners in Thailand praise Thai beauty above all others, and I don’t think they are any better looking than the ladies I see in Europe. I don’t mind Africans but I prefer my own race to be perfectly honest as we have more in common generally. I never denigrated Thai women, I just picked them off the pedestal that many men place them on. 

 

People praise their beauty but what they really mean is availability. That’s what’s controversial.

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30 minutes ago, Hummin said:

The most beautiful girl is going to be where I live and spend my time! There is beautiful girls everywher, except England, so far had no luck there with personal experience. English lady yes, but dam trashy to go out with, and no class what so ever. Only experience from Nottingham area, and in Spain. Except that, wonderful lovely girls all over world. One of the more wild and  beautiful must have been from Mongolia. Loved the attitude and wildness in here.

 

I thought you were being a bit harsh on English ladies, until you mentioned Nottingham and those that hangout in Spain ... to be fair they’re not the best representatives, being drunk degenerates. 

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2 minutes ago, AlexRich said:

 

At the moment my gf is an olive skinned European lady ... I’m not in the Far East currently. 

 

My point was simply that westerners in Thailand praise Thai beauty above all others, and I don’t think they are any better looking than the ladies I see in Europe. I don’t mind Africans but I prefer my own race to be perfectly honest as we have more in common generally. I never denigrated Thai women, I just picked them off the pedestal that many men place them on. 

 

People praise their beauty but what they really mean is availability. That’s what’s controversial.

Fair enough.  I honestly don't hear many guys proclaiming that Thai women are the most beautiful creatures in all of humanity, blah, blah, blah.  But yes, some guys do talk up Thai women a bit over-the-top.  And yes, I do understand that part of the appeal is the accessibility.  But there are quite a few really attractive Thai women...not that most of us have any chance with them!  I can't really single out any nationality that I find more beautiful than another, but I can easily find an attractive female from pretty much all nationalities. 

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11 minutes ago, AlexRich said:

 

At the moment my gf is an olive skinned European lady ... I’m not in the Far East currently. 

 

My point was simply that westerners in Thailand praise Thai beauty above all others, and I don’t think they are any better looking than the ladies I see in Europe. I don’t mind Africans but I prefer my own race to be perfectly honest as we have more in common generally. I never denigrated Thai women, I just picked them off the pedestal that many men place them on. 

 

People praise their beauty but what they really mean is availability. That’s what’s controversial.

I kind of agree with them being overrated, esp. vs. the reality of the ones you see foreigners with day to day.  But I do think they have very good genes on average: pretty faces with fine features, slim ass and stomach, nicely proportioned bodies if you overlook the flat chests (which for me is a small price for a slim behind).  On the downside, really bad skin is quite common here (not sure why -- diet?  Destroying their skin from too much cleaning, whitening and cosmetics?  Genes?) and at most 1 in 5 is slim anymore, if that many, and the few slim ones left know their value.

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3 minutes ago, Berkshire said:

Fair enough.  I honestly don't hear many guys proclaiming that Thai women are the most beautiful creatures in all of humanity, blah, blah, blah.  But yes, some guys do talk up Thai women a bit over-the-top.  And yes, I do understand that part of the appeal is the accessibility.  But there are quite a few really attractive Thai women...not that most of us have any chance with them!  I can't really single out any nationality that I find more beautiful than another, but I can easily find an attractive female from pretty much all nationalities. 

 

I agree. Personally I like women that look after themselves and have a decent level of intelligence, they don’t have to look amazing. In fact, I really don’t care for attention seeking types that walk around with their breasts hanging out ... personal modesty is a lot more classy.

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