The "beautiful Thai girl" myth?

[rumak]

8 hours ago, impulse said:

 

When you have to think real hard whether you'd prefer a nap or a nooner?

 

i remember many years ago when i was doing some building and i would think "... i could go out and get a lady tonight....

or i could spend that money on a truckload of rock".      

it could go either way..... but now I would order the rock for sure.   that is when you know you are getting

old.

[Lacessit]

1 hour ago, tropo said:

Did you try the local gym? 

Most of those are going broke.

[faraday]

1 hour ago, marqus12 said:

I was looking at people at the airport yesterday
and once again I had a thought
that the Thai girls are the ugliest girls in the world.

Their advantage is the speed of eating hot dogs...
 

Chutney ferret.

 

[AlexRich]

52 minutes ago, Tongjaw said:

Definately a troll post.

Nice one AlexRich ?. I’m sure your pissing yourself laughing after successfully managing to get all the bitter men here to comment. I know I’ve had a laugh reading them all. You can relax, have a cold beer and pat yourself on the back on a job well done ??? 

Just for the record I think lots of Thai women are beautiful but that’s my opinion. As other posters have said, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. 

 

It appears to me that a "troll post" is one that a reader happens not to like, to everybody else it's just a topic for discussion and debate. Not all posts are trolling is my point. I travel a good bit and have spent quite some time in South East Asia, with Thailand as a base. The attraction of Thailand was convenience and other advantages, but not the local ladies. I've been watching a few You Tube videos about Thailand and the Philippines and the "beautiful" prefix comes up time and again. There's nothing wrong with them, I like them as people just fine, but it just struck me that western males seem to have them on a pedestal that they don't deserve to be on. And I just wondered if it was just me that thought they were okay, but not special? 

 

A related point is that when you put women on a pedestal you tend to make mistakes ... like Ted in My Thai Bride?

 

And some comments have been hilarious ... but I hope people take the question and the thread in good humour.

 

 

[anon537687643]

Come to bangkok! So many Thai dolls with more make up than a big budget Hollywood movie!


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[smotherb]

2 hours ago, tropo said:

You could be right, but I left the Western World before I hit 40, so I never had to experience life with any Western girl over the age of 35... so I have absolutely no experience with older versions.

I left the western world just after I was 21, but I have been with Western women since. I see lots of western women here now. Older age does seem to make it worse on Western women, but many of the younger ones show the same traits.  

[Tongjaw]

6 minutes ago, AlexRich said:

 

It appears to me that a "troll post" is one that a reader happens not to like, to everybody else it's just a topic for discussion and debate. Not all posts are trolling is my point. I travel a good bit and have spent quite some time in South East Asia, with Thailand as a base. The attraction of Thailand was convenience and other advantages, but not the local ladies. I've been watching a few You Tube videos about Thailand and the Philippines and the "beautiful" prefix comes up time and again. There's nothing wrong with them, I like them as people just fine, but it just struck me that western males seem to have them on a pedestal that they don't deserve to be on. And I just wondered if it was just me that thought they were okay, but not special? 

 

A related point is that when you put women on a pedestal you tend to make mistakes ... like Ted in My Thai Bride?

 

And some comments have been hilarious ... but I hope people take the question and the thread in good humour.

 

 

Well actually the definition of a troll post is one that is intended to be controversial or inflammatory in content. The sole intent is to create emotional, angry responses from readers. As this is a Thai site and lots of members have Thai gf’s or wife’s your post could be construed as controversial by labelling their other half’s ugly. However, I do find the replies highly entertaining. As I said earlier, you’ve done well in stirring up the masses. Well done and I will look forward to future posts from you ? 

[AlexRich]

15 minutes ago, Tongjaw said:

Well actually the definition of a troll post is one that is intended to be controversial or inflammatory in content. The sole intent is to create emotional, angry responses from readers. As this is a Thai site and lots of members have Thai gf’s or wife’s your post could be construed as controversial by labelling their other half’s ugly. However, I do find the replies highly entertaining. As I said earlier, you’ve done well in stirring up the masses. Well done and I will look forward to future posts from you ? 

 

Thank you. I think "Ladyboy lovers who think they're straight" would make for a good topic. 

 

[Tug]

I like the women from all counterys as long as they aren’t a holes!been married to my esan girl for 30+ years I think she is the bees knees and is still cuter than a bugs ear!rite now she is landscapelng out front an artist of a cook hard worker keeps the House tip top talking on a deep level on issues of the day not!but a win for me!

[AntDee]

4 hours ago, JAZZDOG said:

BRAZIL?

Brazilians are great if you get them between 17 and 23. After that, all that unwieldy meat begins to go bad . Not pleasant 

Edited July 1, 2018 by AntDee

[AntDee]

9 minutes ago, AlexRich said:

 

Thank you. I think "Ladyboy lovers who think they're straight" would make for a good topic. 

 

There are not many farangs in Thailand who've been here longer than a few months who haven't enjoyed a ladyboy. Nothing about getting serviced by one makes a man not straight. The Romans and Greeks did it. 

[JAZZDOG]

1 minute ago, AntDee said:

There are not many farangs in Thailand who've been here longer than a few months who haven't enjoyed a ladyboy. Nothing about getting serviced by one makes a man not straight. The Romans and Greeks did it. 

Wrong forum need to post under "Biggest lies farang tell about being in LOS"

[JAZZDOG]

16 minutes ago, AntDee said:

Brazilians are great if you get them between 17 and 23. After that, all that unwieldy meat begins to sag wobble and away. Not pleasant 

I live in Bahia and there are incredible malls there where the women rate right up there with NYC which many consider has the highest concentration of hot girls anywhere. Go to the beach where I live on a weekend and you will see more hotties in one afternoon than you will see in Pattaya in a year. So many girls prostitution does'nt work because of the over supply.

Edited July 1, 2018 by JAZZDOG
typo

[smotherb]

10 hours ago, baansgr said:

Out of 10, I give a 1. Bad breath, trampstamps, scars, terrible communication even with well educated, the money factor, the whole "I is Thai person" thing, laziness, moodiness and thats befor even get onto looks which for Asian women are the ugliest around but we are all entitled to our preferences.

 

10 hours ago, baansgr said:

Out of 10, I give a 1. Bad breath, trampstamps, scars, terrible communication even with well educated, the money factor, the whole "I is Thai person" thing, laziness, moodiness and thats befor even get onto looks which for Asian women are the ugliest around but we are all entitled to our preferences.

Interesting; a bit of a sterotype, but I think I might know her. About yay-tall, dark hair, olive skin, speaks with an accent, hi-so, tattooed, Isaan druggie/alco/hooker, but she has a pretty face?

[Jip99]

39 minutes ago, AntDee said:

There are not many farangs in Thailand who've been here longer than a few months who haven't enjoyed a ladyboy. 

 

 

 

Get a grip!

[Jip99]

1 hour ago, smotherb said:

I left the western world just after I was 21, but I have been with Western women since. I see lots of western women here now. Older age does seem to make it worse on Western women, but many of the younger ones show the same traits.  

 

 

Doesn't seem to have hit this one yet....

 

[sandrabbit]

27 minutes ago, Jip99 said:

 

 

Doesn't seem to have hit this one yet....

 

you do know she's a pornstar?

[sandrabbit]

so why isn't it possible to reply to the original post?

[JAZZDOG]

42 minutes ago, Jip99 said:

 

 

Doesn't seem to have hit this one yet....

 

Buy that poor girl a big mac super combo

[Jip99]

15 minutes ago, sandrabbit said:

you do know she's a pornstar?

 

 

No.

 

 

But you obviously do.

 

 

I have nothing against porn stars.

[neeray]

55 minutes ago, Jip99 said:

 

 

No.

 

 

But you obviously do.

 

 

I have nothing against porn stars.

She looks bang on, perfectly fit and healthy to me. Hope she doesn't put on a gram of weight.

(But still, she's not a Thai girl, doesn't even come close in my eyes)

[tropo]

3 hours ago, Lacessit said:

5 hours ago, tropo said:

Did you try the local gym? 

Most of those are going broke.

I haven't been there for awhile. Why are they going broke?

[shy coconut]

12 hours ago, baansgr said:

15 years, relationships, working/professional relationships, knowing friends wifes/friends so a lot of experience with Thais from all walks of life and ages. Maybe Ive matured but seriously I would never have any kind of relationship with a Thai female for the reasons stated and many more. Life is too short....Oh, and I think the vast majority are damn ugly also.

 

How much did you lose?

[tropo]

3 hours ago, AlexRich said:

 

It appears to me that a "troll post" is one that a reader happens not to like, to everybody else it's just a topic for discussion and debate. Not all posts are trolling is my point. I travel a good bit and have spent quite some time in South East Asia, with Thailand as a base. The attraction of Thailand was convenience and other advantages, but not the local ladies. I've been watching a few You Tube videos about Thailand and the Philippines and the "beautiful" prefix comes up time and again. There's nothing wrong with them, I like them as people just fine, but it just struck me that western males seem to have them on a pedestal that they don't deserve to be on. And I just wondered if it was just me that thought they were okay, but not special? 

 

A related point is that when you put women on a pedestal you tend to make mistakes ... like Ted in My Thai Bride?

 

And some comments have been hilarious ... but I hope people take the question and the thread in good humour.

 

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Come on man. You claim to be very familiar with Thailand and make an outrageous statement about Thai girls, obviously pissing off a large number of people who find them attractive. This is the ultimate troll post. i.e. a troll post disguised as a genuine one. Congratulations!!!!!!!!!! 14 pages and over 200 replies in 20 hours. That's a troll's delight.

[tropo]

1 hour ago, Jip99 said:

1 hour ago, sandrabbit said:

you do know she's a pornstar?

 

 

No.

 

 

But you obviously do.

 

 

I have nothing against porn stars.

I'm sure he didn't know either, just searched the image and came up with some sensationalist reporting about her.

 

She was Miss Moscow in 2007.

 

She denies working as a porn actress.

 

https://www.mirror.co.uk/news/world-news/natalya-nemchinova-russias-hottest-world-12793257

 

 

[blazes]

5 hours ago, tropo said:

You could be right, but I left the Western World before I hit 40, so I never had to experience life with any Western girl over the age of 35... so I have absolutely no experience with older versions.

Count your lucky stars.  You evaded a fate worse than death....

[blazes]

5 hours ago, tropo said:

Thai people have a more balanced and less homophobic view of transsexuals. They call them the 3rd gender.

 

There are a lot of grey areas in life. It's a whole new world now. There's even a category of people called "genderqueer" or "gender non-binary", describing people who don't identify with either sex. Taylor Mason (Asia Kate Dillon) on Billions (TV show) is a good example. This whole debate on homosexuality is getting old - the obsessive need to place people into only 2 categories. There's a whole world of in-betweens.

 

 

Dunno about a "whole world".....maybe a "few micro-spaces"????

[AlexRich]

24 minutes ago, tropo said:

Come on man. You claim to be very familiar with Thailand and make an outrageous statement about Thai girls, obviously pissing off a large number of people who find them attractive. This is the ultimate troll post. i.e. a troll post disguised as a genuine one. Congratulations!!!!!!!!!! 14 pages and over 200 replies in 20 hours. That's a troll's delight.

 

If I had stated that I think Thai girls are all ugly harridans you might well have a point. But all I said was that they are not that special, are not my preference and shouldn't be put on a pedestal. Hardly an outrageous statement. 

 

Anyway, let's hope the thread entertained. ???????

 

[AntDee]

1 hour ago, neeray said:

She looks bang on, perfectly fit and healthy to me. Hope she doesn't put on a gram of weight.

(But still, she's not a Thai girl, doesn't even come close in my eyes)

I completely agree. Really the issue with our own women is often socialization. Women's rights movements and gender equality are good things but they created a female culture that is wholly unattractive. Argumentative, aggressive, opinionated women. 

 

We have the Thai men and Thai culture to thank for Thai women's demure, deferential attitude. They let us men be men! 

[AntDee]

3 hours ago, Jip99 said:

 

 

 

Get a grip!

Well it's true isn't it? That's what most farangs really think. A mouth is a mouth is a mouth. Anyway the ladyboys often look better than the women anyway. Any farang who denies this is probably just not comfortable being honest