Danish man marries his Thai ladyboy sweetheart - but has never asked if she's a he!

[MaxYakov]

Yep, he's such a cutie pie.

[nausea]

There's a whole Farang subculture, centered around Bangkok and Pattaya, and dedicated to chicks with dicks. It really is a category all of its own. It is as different from the traditional concept of "gay" as chalk is from cheese. Certainly, these guys wouldn't define themselves as gay, and would be as horrified as any "straight" guy at the thought of sleeeping with a hairy man, as no doubt, a truly gay guy would be at the thought of sleeping with a chick, dick or no dick.

[spermwhale]

There sure are a lot of ignorant and bigoted expats living in Thailand or on this thread. They talk to one person or one bar owner and they think they have it all figured out. 

I'm not gay and am not attracted to men, but I have been attracted to some ladyboys and had one as my GF for many years. She was feminine and I never want her to f** me in the a**.  I fell in love with her before I knew she was trans and before we dated and when I found out I didn't care. 

I thought of her as a woman at all times and she behaved like a woman at all times. But I certainly knew that she was transgender, but with her I didn't care. Since we broke up, I've exclusively been with real women and I've never had an urge to be with a guy. Never looked at a man and had amorous thoughts and the thought of it does not appeal to me. 


 

[Emster23]

"John Standskov, 54, a civil servant, was married twice before to women but these unions never worked out. "

There is some saying in AA, more or less "Doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different outcome is crazy"

If they are happy, more power to them, my view

[metisdead]

Some obscene troll posts and the replies have been removed. 

[BestB]

20 minutes ago, nausea said:

There's a whole Farang subculture, centered around Bangkok and Pattaya, and dedicated to chicks with dicks. It really is a category all of its own. It is as different from the traditional concept of "gay" as chalk is from cheese. Certainly, these guys wouldn't define themselves as gay, and would be as horrified as any "straight" guy at the thought of sleeeping with a hairy man, as no doubt, a truly gay guy would be at the thought of sleeping with a chick, dick or no dick.

I would also be horrified sleeping with a hairy woman

[smotherb]

54 minutes ago, BEngBKK said:

I have seen a sex change operation... The result can be very convincing

 

Yes, I agree. However, the first I saw was in Japan over 50 years ago; it was hardly convincing, looked more like an ashtray. However, the last I saw is a girlie-bar owner here in Thailand; it was quite convincing. "She" is a very attractive ladyboy; well, more lady than boy, now.

[soalbundy]

It's OK he said but a bit unusual, she has a huge clitoris and her ovaries are in a sack outside.

[Lupatria]

Very important note to myself: stick to thorough research!!!

[soalbundy]

A resort owner told me that a fat lesbian maid he had cleaning the rooms ran away with a customer who was a very feminine ladyboy who only like women, nowt so queer as folks.

[Easy Come Easy Go]

4 hours ago, ezzra said:

I'm sure that was a big surprise there..Seriously dude... didn't even occur to you to check what you're BEFORE marrying the other dude?...

The kind of man who doesn't test drive a car or even look under the hood prior to splashing out the cash 

[smotherb]

A group of friends were in the PI for a bit of I&I. We decided to go on a road trip. One of the guys picked-up a dancer from a bar for the trip. She was long-legged and very attractive. After a couple of days, one of the other girls told me that this girl was a ladyboy. I asked my friend about it. He said, absolutely not. She is just saving herself for her husband, but that two out of the three were great. I asked him to check her femininity and see. The next morning, when I went down to the pool for breakfast; he was there alone. He said she had gone home early that morning and would not be back. I still enjoy rattling his tree about that.

 

So, I guess it is possible that our would-be Viking did not know.

[smotherb]

A group of friends were in the PI for a bit of I&I. We decided to go on a road trip. One of the guys picked-up a dancer from a bar for the trip. She was long-legged and very attractive. After a couple of days, one of the other girls told me that this girl was a ladyboy. I asked my friend about it. He said, absolutely not. She is just saving herself for her husband, but that two out of the three were great. I asked him to check her femininity and see. The next morning, when I went down to the pool for breakfast; he was there alone. He said she had gone home early that morning and would not be back. I still enjoy rattling his tree about that.

 

So, I guess it is possible that our would-be Viking did not know.

[NextStationBangkok]

You need a safety valve to protect your balls from busting loudly!

[BritManToo]

4 hours ago, Dmaxdan said:

I fairness this is not a question that people ask in normal life. If you've got any suspicions that things are not as they seem then there are more subtle ways of finding out.  

If you've got as far as marriage without checking out the equipment, it probably isn't all that important to you.

Lots of posters on this forum appear to have sought out replacement mom's rather than sexual partners.

That's the great thing about Thailand, you can live out the fantasy of your own choosing.

[TheFishman1]

I read some crazy stuff here this is right up there TIT

[fvw53]

4 hours ago, Dmaxdan said:

I fairness this is not a question that people ask in normal life. If you've got any suspicions that things are not as they seem then there are more subtle ways of finding out.  

long time ago when I still lived in mainland China I had a friend who returned from R& R in Hong Kong where he tried to visit a "suzie wong hostel" where he went to bed with a beatiful girl....and then he said ...came the shock of his life ..."there was no hole where he had expected"

[soalbundy]

1 minute ago, BritManToo said:

If you've got as far as marriage without checking out the equipment, it probably isn't all that important to you.

Lots of posters on this forum appear to have sought out replacement mom's rather than sexual partners.

That's the great thing about Thailand, you can live out the fantasy of your own choosing.

Reminds me of an Al Bundy conversation with his wife Peggy,went something like this :-

Peggy :- '"Al are you upset because it's our wedding anniversary"

Al Bundy :- "No, doesn't bother me, Sitting Bull not sad"

Peggy :- "Oh Al, you're so sweet, let's go upstairs"

Al Bundy :- " Now Sitting Bull sad"

[OneMoreFarang]

1 hour ago, spermwhale said:

There sure are a lot of ignorant and bigoted expats living in Thailand or on this thread. They talk to one person or one bar owner and they think they have it all figured out. 

I'm not gay and am not attracted to men, but I have been attracted to some ladyboys and had one as my GF for many years. She was feminine and I never want her to f** me in the a**.  I fell in love with her before I knew she was trans and before we dated and when I found out I didn't care. 

I thought of her as a woman at all times and she behaved like a woman at all times. But I certainly knew that she was transgender, but with her I didn't care. Since we broke up, I've exclusively been with real women and I've never had an urge to be with a guy. Never looked at a man and had amorous thoughts and the thought of it does not appeal to me. 

I also remember one very nice girl who was not really a girl. But she behaved like one and that a certain part on her was made by a specialist doctor and not by nature didn't really matter. I really liked her.

 

I guess you refer to my earlier post about my friend who run a lady-boy bar. He did this for years and he had maybe 10 - 20 lady-boys working in his bar. And he had many customers who visited his bar because it was a lady-boy bar.

Don't you think that a guy who was in that business for years should have a pretty good idea what customers want and what not?

Obviously there are always exceptions from the rule but if lets say 80% of customers insist on a male body part and they do this every day for years then that seems like a fact and not just like the idea of a ignorant and bigoted farang.

 

[dunroaming]

4 hours ago, Dmaxdan said:

I fairness this is not a question that people ask in normal life. If you've got any suspicions that things are not as they seem then there are more subtle ways of finding out.  

Come to think of it I have never asked my wife if she is a man.  Certainly got an impressive left hook!????

[Phaser]

This is not newsworthy at all - so he is bisexual and perhaps now will be happy with his new wife. Story does not say if she has had sex reassignment surgery or not - not that it matters as long as they are happy. Worse things in life than worrying about This

[Bkkthebest]

3 hours ago, Jeremy50 said:

555, you can tell these guys that a thousand times, but they never seem to get it. Or why would a ladyboy find a gay man attractive? They wouldn't, they would think it absurd. A lot of strait men like ladyboys because they find them more feminine that girls, and better and more responsive in bed than girls. Absolutely nothing to do with being gay. How can people live in Thailand for so many years and just not understand that gender and sexuality can be far more flexible than a lifetime of pub bigotry has led you to believe?

You sounded very experienced in this area. 

[Dick Crank]

4 hours ago, worgeordie said:

So this time he's trying it with a man ?

regards Worgeordie

Self image

 

4 hours ago, Kieran00001 said:

 

What do you think a gay man would want with a ladyboy?

If he's dominant he may prefer a sissy simp who acts and dresses like a woman but who is still male.

[OneMoreFarang]

3 hours ago, Pete1980 said:

It hurt like buggery.

Which part?

[roo860]

Which part did he think was a 'miss.?

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[roo860]

Reminds me of an Al Bundy conversation with his wife Peggy,went something like this :-
Peggy :- '"Al are you upset because it's our wedding anniversary"
Al Bundy :- "No, doesn't bother me, Sitting Bull not sad"
Peggy :- "Oh Al, you're so sweet, let's go upstairs"
Al Bundy :- " Now Sitting Bull sad"

Al was the man!!!!! My favourite US sitcom.

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[Tchooptip]

I would like the opinion of a gay, for him, a ladyboy,catoy, not operate of course, is seen more like a man or more like a woman? 

Personally, as a straight man, I cannot see a ladyboy as half a woman, even when very beautiful and sexy, I admit some can be very sexy that obvious,  but it will always be a man in my book. 

[fullcave]

Of course, the "husband" knows and is obviously attracted to ladyboys so why does he need to ask? Clickbait.

[soalbundy]

13 minutes ago, roo860 said:

 

Al was the man!!!!! My favourite US sitcom.

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Me to, he's my hero.

[hobobo]

4 hours ago, Kieran00001 said:

 

What do you think a gay man would want with a ladyboy?

Definitely not the mammaries, so rump will have to do.