i gotta get out of this place if it's the last thing i ever do

[sanemax]

6 hours ago, OneMoreFarang said:

My comment about bargirls was about another post about bargirls...

Sure, you can have lots of fun with lots of girls, prostitute or non-prostitute.

But it seems lots of women who would put themselves in the non-prostitute category are also interested in lots of money just like the prostitutes. Probably they don't ask for cash but many have no problems that you pay for an expensive night out and buy them a gift or two. But then, because they are good girls (or women) maybe they give you a peck on the cheek and tell you what a nice guy you are and wish you sweet dreams - alone.

And that's the moment when some of us think that if they spend anyhow lots of money then want to make sure they don't go home alone and have all the fun they want as long as they want and exactly the way they want it. ????

So you prefer prostitution because you are concerned that if you went out with a non prostitute , you may not get any sex and you would have wasted your money ?

  That is quite a primitive mentality , there is more to friendship and relationships than just sex .

   I suppose that going to prostitute bars , you dont need to get dressed up , dont need to think about where to take the girl out , no need to talk , as they do all the entertaining and they arent too fussy about whom they sit with .

   If sex is the only thing that concerns you , prostitution is the better option for you  

[janclaes47]

4 minutes ago, sanemax said:

 I suppose that going to prostitute bars , you dont need to get dressed up , dont need to think about where to take the girl out , no need to talk , as they do all the entertaining and they arent too fussy about whom they sit with .

 

Strange that you have to ask that question, as i'm pretty sure you know the correct answers from self experience

[Puchaiyank]

I did the one night stands, paying for sex, long enough to know that it does not contribute to one's overall well-being the same as daily companionship does... 

 

Life "can be" so much better with a person who says they love you and proves it, in and out of bed, in so many ways. 

 

It took me more than one attempt to find the one that is compatible with me...I am happy that I gave it several attempts and did not give up. 

 

Life is good...everyday! 

Good Luck! 

[mauGR1]

25 minutes ago, sanemax said:

So you prefer prostitution because you are concerned that if you went out with a non prostitute , you may not get any sex and you would have wasted your money ?

  That is quite a primitive mentality , there is more to friendship and relationships than just sex . 

I disagree, sex is quite important, at least until a certain age, so if one wants to preserve his freedom and play around a bit, some women are available. Nothing wrong with it imo.

Why a middle-aged man should desire the company of a middle-aged woman if sex is not contemplated ?

Time is short, you know.

Whether i'm playing pool, having a kayak trip, or watching a football game, i prefer the company of the lads.

[sanemax]

31 minutes ago, janclaes47 said:

 

Strange that you have to ask that question, as i'm pretty sure you know the correct answers from self experience

I didnt ask a question and made a "I suppose" , which a dictionary definition means "assume that something is the case on the basis of evidence or probability but without proof or certain knowledge."

[Olmate]

1 hour ago, sanemax said:

I didnt ask a question and made a "I suppose" , which a dictionary definition means "assume that something is the case on the basis of evidence or probability but without proof or certain knowledge."

Your first sentence is a question!Just saying...

[sanemax]

26 minutes ago, Olmate said:

Your first sentence is a question!Just saying...

Although the paragraph that he quoted , wasnt a question 

[marcusarelus]

On 1/12/2019 at 12:28 AM, NCC1701A said:

 

Probably mentioned it was the theme song for Vietnam war. 

 

 

[marcusarelus]

3 hours ago, sanemax said:

So you prefer prostitution because you are concerned that if you went out with a non prostitute , you may not get any sex and you would have wasted your money ?

  That is quite a primitive mentality , there is more to friendship and relationships than just sex .

   I suppose that going to prostitute bars , you dont need to get dressed up , dont need to think about where to take the girl out , no need to talk , as they do all the entertaining and they arent too fussy about whom they sit with .

   If sex is the only thing that concerns you , prostitution is the better option for you  

  Women have a unique modesty. Men have a unique urge for first-time sex with attractive women. When you understand and respect this unique trait in men, you will be better prepared to handle life. 

[sanemax]

Just now, marcusarelus said:

  Women have a unique modesty. Men have a unique urge for first-time sex with attractive women. When you understand and respect this unique trait in men, you will be better prepared to handle life. 

No, some men will have sex with anything that moves and do anything to get that as well , pay, lie, cheat , deceive and do anything to get another lay .

   Immoral and dishonest , equivalent to soi dogs .

Every female has potential to be another  sexual partner

After a life of frustration in the West , they are living out their dream/nightmare in Asian brothels  .

  Not all men are like that though , just a small percentage .

Anyway , I dont really want to have yet another discussion about sex with you guys , as we seem to talk about sex regularly on here .

[kekalot]

On 1/11/2019 at 12:35 PM, NCC1701A said:

you could have had sex with every woman in Pattaya like I did.

if I believe the reports I heard of 1.5k rate then that is well over 3000 women, give or take a bit of course.
eye opening for sure

[OneMoreFarang]

Somehow it's funny that some people in this Thai "Farang Pub - fun, entertainment and Expat life" forum pretend they never had sex with a bar girl or they pretend there are guys who only go out with bargirls because they can't handle a real lady. BS!

 

Lots of bargirls are fun. And because they are not in the "I'm a good girl, I don't do this and that" category they also like to have fun. I.e. they run around with sexy clothes, drink, smoke, dance, etc. and do whatever they like. What's wrong with going out with a girl like that? And there is no reason to treat her bad. Two people having fun - or maybe three or more.

 

If some guys think they need a woman who only goes out with them, always behaves like a lady, and possibly wants to be married before her first sex, go ahead and do just that. But please don't tell all the other guys in Thailand who came here to have a lot of fun what they should do and shouldn't do.

 

[roo860]

I used to stay in a small guest house in Hua Hin, long time ago, only had 4 rooms, the other 3 rooms were rented by about 10 bar girls. There was never a dull moment, great company, house rules were no customers brought back to rooms.

Happy days!!!

 

Sent from my SM-G920F using Thailand Forum - Thaivisa mobile app

 

 

 

 

[EVENKEEL]

51 minutes ago, roo860 said:

I used to stay in a small guest house in Hua Hin, long time ago, only had 4 rooms, the other 3 rooms were rented by about 10 bar girls. There was never a dull moment, great company, house rules were no customers brought back to rooms.

Happy days!!!

 

Sent from my SM-G920F using Thailand Forum - Thaivisa mobile app

 

 

 

 

If I was ever to find myself unattached again...….It would only be high end soapies for me....No drama, no stalkers.

[sanemax]

1 hour ago, OneMoreFarang said:

Somehow it's funny that some people in this Thai "Farang Pub - fun, entertainment and Expat life" forum pretend they never had sex with a bar girl or they pretend there are guys who only go out with bargirls because they can't handle a real lady. BS!

 

Lots of bargirls are fun. And because they are not in the "I'm a good girl, I don't do this and that" category they also like to have fun. I.e. they run around with sexy clothes, drink, smoke, dance, etc. and do whatever they like. What's wrong with going out with a girl like that? And there is no reason to treat her bad. Two people having fun - or maybe three or more.

 

If some guys think they need a woman who only goes out with them, always behaves like a lady, and possibly wants to be married before her first sex, go ahead and do just that. But please don't tell all the other guys in Thailand who came here to have a lot of fun what they should do and shouldn't do.

 

Lets keep it real , no one is pretending that they've never had sex with a prostitute and no one is telling you what you should or shouldnt be doing . And also no one has suggested tht they would like a girlfriend who wants to get married before any sexual activity  

   These are discussion forums and thats what we are doing , having a discussion .

Although bargirls dont tend to be that well equipped to have any meaningful discussion , with their choice of subjects being sex, drinking , eating and gossiping about other people .

   They also tend to misunderstand things and make things up and make false accusations , not too dissimilar  to your post .

[marcusarelus]

2 hours ago, sanemax said:

No, some men will have sex with anything that moves and do anything to get that as well , pay, lie, cheat , deceive and do anything to get another lay .

   Immoral and dishonest , equivalent to soi dogs .

Every female has potential to be another  sexual partner

After a life of frustration in the West , they are living out their dream/nightmare in Asian brothels  .

  Not all men are like that though , just a small percentage .

Anyway , I dont really want to have yet another discussion about sex with you guys , as we seem to talk about sex regularly on here .

Judging others by yourself.  Around 75 percent of men agreed to have sex with a complete stranger.  So you are way off.   https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/sexual-personalities/201706/what-type-person-would-agree-have-sex-stranger

[sanemax]

8 minutes ago, marcusarelus said:

Judging others by yourself.  Around 75 percent of men agreed to have sex with a complete stranger.  So you are way off.   https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/sexual-personalities/201706/what-type-person-would-agree-have-sex-stranger

That was from asking male students whether they would have sex sex sex , sex with a another female student , that is the female asking the male .

Yes, many students  would agree to random sex, sex seeeexxxx if a female student made the request , although those results wouldnt be the same for the general population .

   We are talking about older males going looking for sex with prostitutes .

Anyway , yet again , I dont want to talk about sex, sex, seeeeeeeeex with random males on anonymous websites .

[HuskerDo]

8 hours ago, BritManToo said:

The bargirls have certainly taught me a thing or two.

You already admitted that your "junk" no longer works so...…..

[HuskerDo]

6 hours ago, Puchaiyank said:

I did the one night stands, paying for sex, long enough to know that it does not contribute to one's overall well-being the same as daily companionship does... 

 

Life "can be" so much better with a person who says they love you and proves it, in and out of bed, in so many ways. 

 

It took me more than one attempt to find the one that is compatible with me...I am happy that I gave it several attempts and did not give up. 

 

Life is good...everyday! 

Good Luck! 

Good for you Puch. Good for you. I wish/hope others heed your words.

[Lacessit]

On 1/14/2019 at 8:33 AM, BritManToo said:

Or it could be the hot weather, humidity, lower levels of medical care, lack of preventative medicine .........

(My parents in the UK died ages 64 and 69, I'm almost 63)

With the advances in medical science, the average life span has been increasing. Your parents' lifespan is not really relevant unless there is a congenital defect in your family tree. Disorders which may have killed your parents have a much better survival rate. Back in the 1970's, the survival rate from cancer surgery was tossing a coin - 50%. Before 1980, the BCG vaccine used to treat my bladder cancer 13 years ago had not been developed for that purpose. It's still the most effective immunology, with a full remission rate of 95%.

Of course, if your father was a lifelong smoker, and you are one too, all bets are off.

[HuskerDo]

6 hours ago, mauGR1 said:

I disagree, sex is quite important, at least until a certain age, so if one wants to preserve his freedom and play around a bit, some women are available. Nothing wrong with it imo.

Why a middle-aged man should desire the company of a middle-aged woman if sex is not contemplated ?

Time is short, you know.

Whether i'm playing pool, having a kayak trip, or watching a football game, i prefer the company of the lads. 

"Whether i'm playing pool, having a kayak trip, or watching a football game, i prefer the company of the lads."

 

By "lads" you meant "ladyboys" right? ???? 

[OneMoreFarang]

2 minutes ago, HuskerDo said:

"Whether i'm playing pool, having a kayak trip, or watching a football game, i prefer the company of the lads."

 

By "lads" you meant "ladyboys" right? ???? 

I think by now it's obvious why you are so active here. You have no alternative.

Because if you would behave somewhere in the real world like here, like i.e. in above example, you would soon need a dentist and probably stay in a hospital with broken bones.

[HuskerDo]

19 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said:

I think by now it's obvious why you are so active here. You have no alternative.

Because if you would behave somewhere in the real world like here, like i.e. in above example, you would soon need a dentist and probably stay in a hospital with broken bones.

I thought there was a little earthquake here but then I realized it was me shaking in my boots per your comment. ????

 

I think it's very funny how people can make such a "tough guy" comment without even knowing who they are making it to.  Absolutely hilarious. Thanks for the chuckle.

[marcusarelus]

1 hour ago, sanemax said:

That was from asking male students whether they would have sex sex sex , sex with a another female student , that is the female asking the male .

Yes, many students  would agree to random sex, sex seeeexxxx if a female student made the request , although those results wouldnt be the same for the general population .

   We are talking about older males going looking for sex with prostitutes .

Anyway , yet again , I dont want to talk about sex, sex, seeeeeeeeex with random males on anonymous websites .

You wrote, "No, some men will have sex with anything........Not all men are like that though , just a small percentage." (edit for point)

 

So stop.  I'm responding to you not vice versa. 

 

You seem to want to do a one liner about normal men don't want to have women they've never had.  Not true.  I even gave you a nice survey.  People buy women houses for sex.  People fix up momma's house for sex.   Every single person in planet Earth have at-least once watched a porn scene.   PornHub streamed 75 GB of data a second last year.  Everyone has sex on mind.  Men think about sex 8000 times a day.  Not you of course but the rest of us and that's why we make fools of ourselves and but houses we will never live in.  

 

[HuskerDo]

31 minutes ago, marcusarelus said:

You wrote, "No, some men will have sex with anything........Not all men are like that though , just a small percentage." (edit for point)

 

So stop.  I'm responding to you not vice versa. 

 

You seem to want to do a one liner about normal men don't want to have women they've never had.  Not true.  I even gave you a nice survey.  People buy women houses for sex.  People fix up momma's house for sex.   Every single person in planet Earth have at-least once watched a porn scene.   PornHub streamed 75 GB of data a second last year.  Everyone has sex on mind.  Men think about sex 8000 times a day.  Not you of course but the rest of us and that's why we make fools of ourselves and but houses we will never live in.  

 

"Every single person in planet Earth have at-least once watched a porn scene".... that is so far from reality it doesn't deserve a response. For the record most of us are "on" planet Earth and not "in" it.

 

"Men think about sex 8000 times a day". Really? Where did you did up those stats? I know, you got them from a porn site. Let's do the math ok? Assuming a guy sleeps 8 hours a day that leaves 16 hours for him to "think" as you say.  That means a guy thinks about sex 500 times each and every hour. That's 8.3 times every minute. If that were true nothing else in the world would be done as there would be no time as their thoughts would be elsewhere. Can you watch TV, have a conversation, have breakfast, do you job without having over 8 thoughts of sex every minute? If so you're the last person on this planet anyone would want to be near. You aren't living in reality sir.

 

Not sure where you got your stats but please try again.

 

[Orton Rd]

I'd rather do almost anything than have to have sex, boring tiring and after all done it thousands of times before. Having a good dump is far more satisfying these days

[marcusarelus]

23 minutes ago, HuskerDo said:

"Every single person in planet Earth have at-least once watched a porn scene".... that is so far from reality it doesn't deserve a response. For the record most of us are "on" planet Earth and not "in" it.

 

"Men think about sex 8000 times a day". Really? Where did you did up those stats? I know, you got them from a porn site. Let's do the math ok? Assuming a guy sleeps 8 hours a day that leaves 16 hours for him to "think" as you say.  That means a guy thinks about sex 500 times each and every hour. That's 8.3 times every minute. If that were true nothing else in the world would be done as there would be no time as their thoughts would be elsewhere. Can you watch TV, have a conversation, have breakfast, do you job without having over 8 thoughts of sex every minute? If so you're the last person on this planet anyone would want to be near. You aren't living in reality sir.

 

Not sure where you got your stats but please try again.

 

23 minutes ago, HuskerDo said:

"Every single person in planet Earth have at-least once watched a porn scene".... that is so far from reality it doesn't deserve a response. For the record most of us are "on" planet Earth and not "in" it.

 

"Men think about sex 8000 times a day". Really? Where did you did up those stats? I know, you got them from a porn site. Let's do the math ok? Assuming a guy sleeps 8 hours a day that leaves 16 hours for him to "think" as you say.  That means a guy thinks about sex 500 times each and every hour. That's 8.3 times every minute. If that were true nothing else in the world would be done as there would be no time as their thoughts would be elsewhere. Can you watch TV, have a conversation, have breakfast, do you job without having over 8 thoughts of sex every minute? If so you're the last person on this planet anyone would want to be near. You aren't living in reality sir.

 

Not sure where you got your stats but please try again.

 

https://www.quora.com/How-big-and-influential-is-the-pornography-industry

One site- one site!  There are hundred of thousands of sites.  Streamed 75 GB of data a second last year.  You do the math.   4,599,000,000 hours of views. That’s equal to 5,246 centuries.   The site got 23 BILLION visits. That’s 729 people a second, or 64 million a day—the amount of people that live in Thailand.

http://graphworthy.com/the-internet-is-for-porn-stats-on-internet-pornography/

 

Not counting thoughts above are actions.  Can you imagine if 64 million people a day access hard core porn how many think about doing it? 

 

My point is a simple one as it relates to this thread.  Most people don't realize that a lifetime of frustration leads men to Thailand and when they get here they do outrageous things like buying houses for women they don't know.  

 

[HuskerDo]

16 minutes ago, marcusarelus said:

 

https://www.quora.com/How-big-and-influential-is-the-pornography-industry

One site- one site!  There are hundred of thousands of sites.  Streamed 75 GB of data a second last year.  You do the math.   4,599,000,000 hours of views. That’s equal to 5,246 centuries.   The site got 23 BILLION visits. That’s 729 people a second, or 64 million a day—the amount of people that live in Thailand.

http://graphworthy.com/the-internet-is-for-porn-stats-on-internet-pornography/

 

Not counting thoughts above are actions.  Can you imagine if 64 million people a day access hard core porn how many think about doing it? 

 

You don't think some of those "surveys" aren't funded by the porn industry who want people to go see "what it's all about" thus they pad the numbers to try to raise interest? Let's be clear. Not all people in the world are perverts who are consumed by the thought of sex. That is an absolute fact. I'm sure you'll want to see a "survey" instead of using common sense. I'm not even sure WHY you are so interested in the "porn stats" that are out there. There are over 7.5 BILLION people in the world. Many don't even have access to the internet. So the 64 mil you refer to are a tiny fraction so again your argument holds no value and rest assured the 64 mil aren't unique users each day but rather repeat viewers. You've just shown that there are 64 million sad, unfortunate pervs out there. Go review your numbers. Maybe the 64 mil think about sex non stop all day long but that isn't the normal/average person. Get it right sir.   

[sanemax]

1 hour ago, marcusarelus said:

You wrote, "No, some men will have sex with anything........Not all men are like that though , just a small percentage." (edit for point)

 

So stop.  I'm responding to you not vice versa. 

 

You seem to want to do a one liner about normal men don't want to have women they've never had.  Not true.  I even gave you a nice survey.  People buy women houses for sex.  People fix up momma's house for sex.   Every single person in planet Earth have at-least once watched a porn scene.   PornHub streamed 75 GB of data a second last year.  Everyone has sex on mind.  Men think about sex 8000 times a day.  Not you of course but the rest of us and that's why we make fools of ourselves and but houses we will never live in.  

 

I honestly do not want to talk about sex with you .

We have had numerous discussions about sex and we are sort of forming a sexual relationship , can we put and end to our on-line sexual relationship ?

  

[HuskerDo]

1 minute ago, Benroon said:

Pedant alert but its 'Let's do the mathS' - you can't do one 'math'

 

Carry on …...

Thanks for your concern Ben but you are wrong. In England it might be "maths" but in the US it's "math". Thanks again for your assistance. Much appreciated.