Pattaya: Mother dumps two mixed parentage children at apartment and disappears

 

Picture: 77kaoded

 

The maid at an apartment complex on South Pattaya told the Thai media that on Wednesday at 3 am in the morning a 25-30 year old woman had arrived at the building asking to rent a room. 

 

She had two exhausted children with her. The mother appeared to be drunk.

 

The Foreman House in Soi 1 Krom Thee Din usually only does monthly rentals but they took pity on the woman and allowed her to rent by the day. 

 

She said she would pay in the morning. 

 

When it was morning she said she was going to the ATM - but she never came back. 

 

For three days the maid Samak, 55, had been looking after the boys called Sammy and Tommy. They are thought to be aged five and two respectively. 

 

They are of mixed Thai and foreign parentage.

 

Other people at the apartment have been helping out with clothes for the boys and other essentials. The mother had arrived and left them with nothing.

 

On Sunday after the mother failed to come back for three days contact was made with the Pattaya police and social services. 

 

Source: 77kaoded

 

 

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Pretty sad situation when the mother abandons her children. Perhaps no means of taking care of them.

41 minutes ago, mikebell said:

Sounds like most Thai males' view of parenthood.

What, the article said that the kids are of mixed parentage so you can't really blame Thais males on this one!

 

No matter what, it's a real sad thing to read about, abandoned kids.

 

How can those people look at themselves in the mirror in the morning without thinking, what a <deleted> you are; just leaving your own kids behind. 

Edited March 9, 20206 yr by guzzi850m2

<deleted>ty way to start life, hope the kids fair well.

41 minutes ago, mikebell said:

Sounds like most Thai males' view of parenthood.

What do you mean exactly?

And is there any proof that the "mother" is the mother? Or was it just a women who brought the children to that place?

 

It's obviously bad one way or the other but it still makes a big difference. 

 

And somehow I find this part hard to believe: "The Foreman House in Soi 1 Krom Thee Din usually only does monthly rentals but they took pity on the woman and allowed her to rent by the day." 

 

1 hour ago, varun said:

 

Very relevant to this thread.

A parallel is being drawn with the typical behavior of Thai males,

especially lower-class Thai males.

 

Squirt their load and then do a runner when the offspring pops out.

 

 

This is confusing. These children were not of Thai males.  

If anything we should be discussing the callous mother.... a Thai female. 

No one seems to have noticed the fact that these "mixed" kids are half-"coloured". Had they been half-white, their predicamment would have been much "brighter". My guess the mother must have found herself without any family support to raise them and therefore had to resort to this maneouver. Also normally the hotel should have raised some alarm when the trio arrived, drunk (mother) and exhausted (kids) in the dead of the night. But this is Pattaya so...

3 hours ago, giddyup said:

Pretty sad situation when the mother abandons her children. Perhaps no means of taking care of them.

maybe no means of taking care but has means of getting drunk. 

9 minutes ago, briansbiology said:

maybe no means of taking care but has means of getting drunk. 

It costs a darned sight less to get pie eyed than raise 2 kids, trust me, I know both ends of that spectrum ???? 

2 minutes ago, Golden Triangle said:

It costs a darned sight less to get pie eyed than raise 2 kids, trust me, I know both ends of that spectrum ???? 

single fatrher of 5 kids here so I know a little bit about it,. 

Want to have enough money? start by quitting the sauce. you save the pennies the pounds will follow. 

Too many people use the I can't afford it now as an excuse not to start saving. When my useless lump of an ex gambled away my money and savings I took my kids, stopped drinking an eating out and saved every penny for years (that was 2014). just recently moved into a nice house and have all kids enrolled in private school .there was a time i couldnt afford to feed myself. 

18 minutes ago, briansbiology said:

single fatrher of 5 kids here so I know a little bit about it,. 

Want to have enough money? start by quitting the sauce. you save the pennies the pounds will follow. 

Too many people use the I can't afford it now as an excuse not to start saving. When my useless lump of an ex gambled away my money and savings I took my kids, stopped drinking an eating out and saved every penny for years (that was 2014). just recently moved into a nice house and have all kids enrolled in private school .there was a time i couldnt afford to feed myself. 

To put my original post in context, so there will be no misunderstandings, I was a responsible parent and brought 2 well rounded kids into the world, both are now approaching middle age (I started early ???? ) and have responsible jobs and partners, sadly no grandkids, not their fault, so I know what it costs, and yes now I can get bladdered whenever I want ???? 

Edited March 9, 20206 yr by Golden Triangle

39 minutes ago, briansbiology said:

maybe no means of taking care but has means of getting drunk. 

You need to walk a mile in her shoes before you can comment.

Hi

I am the father of Tommy the younger boy they were being well looked after by a lady I was supporting them they were well cared for and happy then there Mother came and took then then left them alone in that room.

I am the process of trying to get custody of them.

3 minutes ago, Kevin Powell said:

Hi

I am the father of Tommy the younger boy they were being well looked after by a lady I was supporting them they were well cared for and happy then there Mother came and took then then left them alone in that room.

I am the process of trying to get custody of them.

Really? What's your nationality?

 

What about the older boy?

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4 hours ago, varun said:

 

Very relevant to this thread.

A parallel is being drawn with the typical behavior of Thai males,

especially lower-class Thai males.

 

Squirt their load and then do a runner when the offspring pops out.

 

 

Some Thai bashers seem to have severe problems with reading...

 

 

They are of mixed Thai and foreign parentage.

8 minutes ago, Kevin Powell said:

Hi

I am the father of Tommy the younger boy they were being well looked after by a lady I was supporting them they were well cared for and happy then there Mother came and took then then left them alone in that room.

I am the process of trying to get custody of them.

Nice to see you are trying but the Thai system is so complex, so it won’t be easy.

Wishing you all the best in getting custody.

45 minutes ago, giddyup said:

You need to walk a mile in her shoes before you can comment.

which shoes? 

single parent?

done it

hugely in debt with no savings while supporting kids?

done it

you must know her better than I because I am unaware of these shoes to which you refer....

 

Please be specific as to what aspect of her life you are aware I have not lived. 

 

If you cannot do that perhaps a little bit of your own advice is apt for you.

Edited March 9, 20206 yr by briansbiology

43 minutes ago, Golden Triangle said:

To put my original post in context, so there will be no misunderstandings, I was a responsible parent and brought 2 well rounded kids into the world, both are now approaching middle age (I started early ???? ) and have responsible jobs and partners, sadly no grandkids, not their fault, so I know what it costs, and yes now I can get bladdered whenever I want ???? 

sounds like you have earned the right to get bladdered anytime you want. kudos. I too have earned that right. cheers. 

55 minutes ago, Kevin Powell said:

Hi

I am the father of Tommy the younger boy they were being well looked after by a lady I was supporting them they were well cared for and happy then there Mother came and took then then left them alone in that room.

I am the process of trying to get custody of them.

Sorry to hear that old chap,wishing you best of luck in working it out,don't take too much notice of the naysayers on here,the fact that she abandoned them surely will go in your favour.

2 hours ago, watthong said:

No one seems to have noticed the fact that these "mixed" kids are half-"coloured". Had they been half-white, their predicamment would have been much "brighter". My guess the mother must have found herself without any family support to raise them and therefore had to resort to this maneouver. Also normally the hotel should have raised some alarm when the trio arrived, drunk (mother) and exhausted (kids) in the dead of the night. But this is Pattaya so...

Why start Pattaya bashing again this happens everywhere

6 hours ago, giddyup said:

Pretty sad situation when the mother abandons her children. Perhaps no means of taking care of them.

Her sponsor probably got deported leaving her with the kids.

21 minutes ago, hotchilli said:

Her sponsor probably got deported leaving her with the kids.

Sir with all due repect generally better to read posts on thread before commenting,the Father of one of the boys has already posted to explain the situation,one suggests you read on page one Kevin his name,Good day to you sir.

3 hours ago, briansbiology said:

which shoes? 

single parent?

done it

hugely in debt with no savings while supporting kids?

done it

you must know her better than I because I am unaware of these shoes to which you refer....

 

Please be specific as to what aspect of her life you are aware I have not lived. 

 

If you cannot do that perhaps a little bit of your own advice is apt for you.

You're a trooper. How can I be specific about her life, I don't know her and neither do you. So to try and compare your life to hers is plain ridiculous. She may well have been an addict living on the streets, penniless with two mouths to feed, were you?

Edited March 9, 20206 yr by giddyup

Leum..

Edited March 9, 20206 yr by mok199

5 hours ago, briansbiology said:

which shoes? 

single parent?

done it

hugely in debt with no savings while supporting kids?

done it

you must know her better than I because I am unaware of these shoes to which you refer....

 

Please be specific as to what aspect of her life you are aware I have not lived. 

 

If you cannot do that perhaps a little bit of your own advice is apt for you.

You made it. Well done. Be proud. Don't be bitter.

 

By the way, is there a 3am in the afternoon? Sorry, it's one of those things that get written/said that grates on me.

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2 hours ago, Traubert said:

You made it. Well done. Be proud. Don't be bitter.

 

By the way, is there a 3am in the afternoon? Sorry, it's one of those things that get written/said that grates on me.

Sounds to me like you are anti meridiem.

 

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Lets hope we can get an update from the father, who is present in this thread. Good luck.