jak2002003 Posted August 14, 2021 Share Posted August 14, 2021 I don't get why some people just can't accept what they like and get on with it. You don't need to put a label on yourself or others for what turns you or them on. The only reason I can think of for too much overthinking is the person with the problem is homophilic or only wants to think of themselves as 100 percent macho tough guy 'straight'. Having sex with a lady boy definably does not mean you are gay....it only means you fancy a ladyboy. You ask any gay man if they would want sex with a lady boy and I suspect 99 percent would say no. Also, a man is a man. He can not be less of a man. A gay man is a man same as a straight one, just a man that is sexually attracted to men not women. There are guy men who fit the stereotype image if a masculine straight man, and there are straight men who you would think were gay. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sparktrader Posted August 14, 2021 Author Share Posted August 14, 2021 4 minutes ago, jak2002003 said: I don't get why some people just can't accept what they like and get on with it. You don't need to put a label on yourself or others for what turns you or them on. The only reason I can think of for too much overthinking is the person with the problem is homophilic or only wants to think of themselves as 100 percent macho tough guy 'straight'. Having sex with a lady boy definably does not mean you are gay....it only means you fancy a ladyboy. You ask any gay man if they would want sex with a lady boy and I suspect 99 percent would say no. Also, a man is a man. He can not be less of a man. A gay man is a man same as a straight one, just a man that is sexually attracted to men not women. There are guy men who fit the stereotype image if a masculine straight man, and there are straight men who you would think were gay. Modern society all labels 200 years ago humans did whatever 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jak2002003 Posted August 14, 2021 Share Posted August 14, 2021 5 minutes ago, Sparktrader said: Modern society all labels 200 years ago humans did whatever Yeh I guess so. It would be difficult for them to decide what persona they want to show on their social media, as they might loose followers or 'likes'. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scubascuba3 Posted August 14, 2021 Share Posted August 14, 2021 1 hour ago, Sparktrader said: Says who? 98% straight. Do the maths. A man who plays golf 100 times a year and goes fishing twice is a golfer not an eel. that is a common problem, guys want to have it both ways, bang LBs and still be heterosexual, it doesn't work like that Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BritManToo Posted August 14, 2021 Share Posted August 14, 2021 (edited) 1 hour ago, jak2002003 said: Having sex with a lady boy definably does not mean you are gay.... Keep telling yourself that! And while you're doing that, I'll be telling myself the woman I pay to live with me really loves me. Edited August 14, 2021 by BritManToo 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Captain Monday Posted August 14, 2021 Share Posted August 14, 2021 (edited) 3 hours ago, scubascuba3 said: I've never been close enough to notice that smell, but as I pass them often they wear perfume unlike Thai ladies Really? Well I sat next to a LB who is a regular at my friends xx last night. Nobody in a right mind would take her for a natural born female, but she smells better than my English friend who arrived and sat on the other side of me, reeking of cigarettes and drink. Gay men are not attracted to people who present as women. The punters who pull lady-boys for sex are straights. Edited August 14, 2021 by Captain Monday 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
A1Str8 Posted August 14, 2021 Share Posted August 14, 2021 20 hours ago, Albert Zweistein said: f'd means found ? No why Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CG1 Blue Posted August 14, 2021 Share Posted August 14, 2021 1 hour ago, Captain Monday said: Gay men are not attracted to people who present as women. The punters who pull lady-boys for sex are straights. I agree with the first sentence. Your second sentence is wrong though. Straight punters would pull a woman not a LB (unless they were deceived). There's nothing wrong with men liking LBs if that's their thing, but if we're going to use labels let's get them right. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CG1 Blue Posted August 14, 2021 Share Posted August 14, 2021 4 hours ago, Sparktrader said: Dunno do you? Nope 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Captain Monday Posted August 14, 2021 Share Posted August 14, 2021 (edited) 20 minutes ago, CG1 Blue said: I agree with the first sentence. Your second sentence is wrong though. Straight punters would pull a woman not a LB (unless they were deceived). There's nothing wrong with men liking LBs if that's their thing, but if we're going to use labels let's get them right. They are just labels, as they have been explained to me by allies in the LGBTq+ community. You can call them MSM, men who engage in sexual activity with men, if you like. For me if somebody presents as a female I treat them as a matter of respect and consider them female, but I am not interested in them sexually cause that's just not my bag baby, Don't believe me? Ask a gay man directly if gay men are attracted to persons who present as cisgendered females. They don't. Edited August 14, 2021 by Captain Monday 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jak2002003 Posted August 14, 2021 Share Posted August 14, 2021 (edited) 3 hours ago, BritManToo said: Keep telling yourself that! And while you're doing that, I'll be telling myself the woman I pay to live with me really loves me. I have never had sex with a lady boy nor do I find lady boys sexually attractive. I am gay. If I did sleep with a ladyboy would that mean I am straight using your logic, because, you think a straight man sleeping with a ladyboy is gay? Way I see it they are a mix of male and female if they have not had all the operations. So.....maybe a man sleeping with a ladyboy would most likely be bisexual? I suppose that would save time or money just having to bed one person rather than wining and dining one lady and one guy if you were bi. Lol Edited August 14, 2021 by jak2002003 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Albert Zweistein Posted August 14, 2021 Share Posted August 14, 2021 3 hours ago, A1Str8 said: No why Am I missing a question mark ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CG1 Blue Posted August 14, 2021 Share Posted August 14, 2021 2 hours ago, Captain Monday said: Don't believe me? Ask a gay man directly if gay men are attracted to persons who present as cisgendered females. They don't. That's why I said I agree with your first sentence. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PadPrikKhing Posted August 14, 2021 Share Posted August 14, 2021 (edited) On 8/13/2021 at 1:00 AM, martin81 said: Why would they want you to die unless of course you marry them? If you don't marry the lady she will not inherit anything when you die. Life insurance and will, my man... you have to put someone down as beneficiary, right? I have no kids. I wasn't 100% serious about the "waiting for me to die" part, but it seems like there's an element of that to keep an eye on whenever there is a cross-cultural marriage wherein it's harder to read the subtleties of motivation and intention. I believe for the most part that I'll be able to rely on my intuition and ability to read a Thai lady's character, but hey... gotta be careful in these matters. Edited August 14, 2021 by PadPrikKhing 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scubascuba3 Posted August 14, 2021 Share Posted August 14, 2021 8 hours ago, Captain Monday said: Gay men are not attracted to people who present as women. The punters who pull lady-boys for sex are straights. That's twisted logic, they aren't gay no but they are queer (LGBTQ) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bkk6060 Posted August 14, 2021 Share Posted August 14, 2021 (edited) 9 hours ago, Captain Monday said: The punters who pull lady-boys for sex are straights. ? I could careless but if a man is attracted, gets excited and interacts with what a LB has below the waist, then they are gay or bi. Edited August 14, 2021 by bkk6060 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sparktrader Posted August 15, 2021 Author Share Posted August 15, 2021 13 hours ago, scubascuba3 said: that is a common problem, guys want to have it both ways, bang LBs and still be heterosexual, it doesn't work like that How does it work? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scubascuba3 Posted August 15, 2021 Share Posted August 15, 2021 6 hours ago, Sparktrader said: How does it work? see above, i didn't make up the LGBTQ categories, ask them 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Solinvictus Posted August 15, 2021 Share Posted August 15, 2021 19 hours ago, Captain Monday said: Really? Well I sat next to a LB who is a regular at my friends xx last night. Nobody in a right mind would take her for a natural born female, but she smells better than my English friend who arrived and sat on the other side of me, reeking of cigarettes and drink. Gay men are not attracted to people who present as women. The punters who pull lady-boys for sex are straights. All the sexual aspects aside about ladyboys. I find gay Thai men who are not ladyboys to be bad gossipers and instigators. Troublemakers within groups. Maybe I should get out more I guess. Don't mean to offend anyone but just from experiences both working and being around Thais. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Solinvictus Posted August 15, 2021 Share Posted August 15, 2021 1 hour ago, scubascuba3 said: see above, i didn't make up the LGBTQ categories, ask them I mean I didn't make this stuff up. What's up? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sparktrader Posted August 15, 2021 Author Share Posted August 15, 2021 1 hour ago, scubascuba3 said: see above, i didn't make up the LGBTQ categories, ask them Sounds like bs Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ralf001 Posted August 15, 2021 Share Posted August 15, 2021 22 hours ago, jak2002003 said: Having sex with a lady boy definably does not mean you are gay....it only means you fancy a ladyboy. Every hole is a goal !! 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sparktrader Posted August 15, 2021 Author Share Posted August 15, 2021 5 minutes ago, Ralf001 said: Every hole is a goal !! Yes it's just soccer Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sparktrader Posted August 15, 2021 Author Share Posted August 15, 2021 102 2 Player A wins Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ralf001 Posted August 15, 2021 Share Posted August 15, 2021 1 minute ago, Sparktrader said: Yes it's just soccer What is soccer ? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Solinvictus Posted August 15, 2021 Share Posted August 15, 2021 2 minutes ago, Ralf001 said: What is soccer ? Come on don't act like B. Whats up tho. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ralf001 Posted August 15, 2021 Share Posted August 15, 2021 Just now, Solinvictus said: Come on don't act like B. Whats up tho. is it a board game ? Why so cryptic. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Solinvictus Posted August 15, 2021 Share Posted August 15, 2021 Funny how some have a mask or shield on their profile picture! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sparktrader Posted August 15, 2021 Author Share Posted August 15, 2021 Yes it's a board game 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sparktrader Posted August 15, 2021 Author Share Posted August 15, 2021 Just now, Solinvictus said: Funny how some have a mask or shield on their profile picture! Mask over snatch with small hole 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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