Popular Post KannikaP Posted August 29, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted August 29, 2021 1 hour ago, 2long said: To me, this thread stinks of a bored troll. Yes, I've said this before recently, but there are a lot of bored guys out there who can't go to a bar right now. Newbie = new (spare) account? ???????? Come on you guys.... ???? But if I'm wrong, I hold my hands up. ???????? Totally agree, joins A Now 11 hours ago with this sort of OP after 5 years dating in Thailand. Trolling for sure. 3 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
david555 Posted August 29, 2021 Share Posted August 29, 2021 (edited) 40 minutes ago, actonion said: In the 21 years of living permanently in Thailand i have had 2 relationships, one was a bar lady, and two were office workers. who had university diplomas!! The bar ;lady was the only one who didnt pester for money, one of the office lady who said she was a Certified Accountant could not write Two Million Fiive Hundered Thousand Thai Baht in figures plus a host of other problems Maybe the "certified accountant lady" could not write the Two Million Fiive Hundered .... but sure she could count it correct when handed over to her as you promised as sin sod ....#....X ???????? Edited August 29, 2021 by david555 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Walker88 Posted August 29, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted August 29, 2021 4 hours ago, cyril sneer said: I’ve only ever seen this with bar girls There is a subset of foreigners who see every Thai woman as either 'was, is, or will be' a bargirl. Not fair, but it is what it is. They play what they think are the odds, and will 'like' any post by any woman they think might be a future assignation. I have Thai female staff who are constantly approached in malls or the BTS being asked, "How much short time?" Their 'look' is not anything more than female, yet some foreigners simply assume they are available for sale. I do not envy their plight. 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pravda Posted August 29, 2021 Share Posted August 29, 2021 11 hours ago, John2021 said: Hi guys, i have been dating thai girls for the past 5 years, met during my trips, in parties, tinder, socials, thai friendly, apps, or anywhere literally. Sorry, I find your post quite hypocritical as this is your opening paragraph. Yes, you are definitely "different" and deserve better. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cyril sneer Posted August 29, 2021 Share Posted August 29, 2021 14 minutes ago, Walker88 said: There is a subset of foreigners who see every Thai woman as either 'was, is, or will be' a bargirl. Not fair, but it is what it is. They play what they think are the odds, and will 'like' any post by any woman they think might be a future assignation. I have Thai female staff who are constantly approached in malls or the BTS being asked, "How much short time?" Their 'look' is not anything more than female, yet some foreigners simply assume they are available for sale. I do not envy their plight. My point was more referring to the op saying he wasn’t dating bar girls, but university/graduated ones When I tried similar their social media accounts would very rarely show another farang on there I guess the area can make a difference… Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Kinnock Posted August 29, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted August 29, 2021 (edited) 10 hours ago, Golden Triangle said: Stop looking online, the ones on line as far as I can work out only want your dosh, I met plenty of very nice ladies working in markets, 7/11 etc, yeah had a few bar girls in the early days of a month long holiday to get rid of the dirty water but plenty of normal girls out there. My Mrs used to sell fish in lots of the local wet markets, we met at a party of a mutual friend, been together for just over 10 years now, my neighbour has a GF who operates 3 or 4 food stalls around the Jomtien area, always busy ordering stock & checking on staff, but she's independent and enjoys life. Try normal women. Agree 110% The Asian girl of the Western Male fantasy exists, and is available in Thailand, but you can't buy them on-line. Use on-line shopping for ordering cheap Chinese stuff from Shopee, and meet real Thai girls in real Thai life. 11 years ago I saw a Thai Mila Kunis managing a small hotel - sooo hot and very smart too. Today she looks even more beautiful, and she just wants to care for me, and in return I care for her. She wasn't hunting on-line for a rich man, she believed the fairy tale and was raised to have a caring attitude. Edited August 29, 2021 by Kinnock 4 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Farmerslife Posted August 29, 2021 Share Posted August 29, 2021 Everyone is unique. Everyone is an individual. You seem to be looking for some sort of generalisation that you can apply to all the women here. That approach won't result in a sound relationship, Doomed to failure. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Sticky Rice Balls Posted August 29, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted August 29, 2021 7 minutes ago, Kinnock said: Thai Mila Kunis Does she have a sister?! 555 Sidenote dont mind me--just hanging out here waiting for input from Britman.......should be along any minute......(settles in) 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post BangkokReady Posted August 29, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted August 29, 2021 1 hour ago, actonion said: i have had 2 relationships, one was a bar lady, and two were office workers 1 + 2 = 2? 2 8 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post wprime Posted August 29, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted August 29, 2021 1 minute ago, BangkokReady said: 1 + 2 = 2? Obviously one of the office workers was also bargirl. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BangkokReady Posted August 29, 2021 Share Posted August 29, 2021 1 minute ago, wprime said: Obviously one of the office workers was also bargirl. Ahhh. Like "and one is not a nickle". Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sticky Rice Balls Posted August 29, 2021 Share Posted August 29, 2021 10 hours ago, Airalee said: It’s more than just a money thing. It’s like their addiction to social media “likes”. I have found that the most beautiful Thai women are often the most insecure. As soon as you stop feeding their desperate need to feel better about themselves, they’re on to their next fix. Even after their nose jobs, chin jobs, braces, fillers, facials etc, they feel the same way about themselves after the novelty wears off. And that’s what we are to them after a while….a novelty…showering them with compliments and gifts. I usually sense it and then am the first to turn tail and run, however. Be a Skittles man… https://heartiste.org/2009/05/19/be-a-skittles-man/ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Walker88 Posted August 29, 2021 Share Posted August 29, 2021 17 minutes ago, cyril sneer said: My point was more referring to the op saying he wasn’t dating bar girls, but university/graduated ones When I tried similar their social media accounts would very rarely show another farang on there I guess the area can make a difference… Please don't think I was critical of your post. You merely gave me an opening to point out that there are foreigners who assume all Thai women are available for a price. I know from my staff that even their social media (the silly and banal TikTok, Facebook, etc.,) garner them all sorts of 'likes' from foreign males as well as the more than occasional prurient comment or two. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post tomazbodner Posted August 29, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted August 29, 2021 1 hour ago, actonion said: In the 21 years of living permanently in Thailand i have had 2 relationships, one was a bar lady, and two were office workers. who had university diplomas!! The bar ;lady was the only one who didnt pester for money, one of the office lady who said she was a Certified Accountant could not write Two Million Fiive Hundered Thousand Thai Baht in figures plus a host of other problems Looking at above, you might wish to humble down a little bit as well... Fiive is written Five, and 1 + 2 = 3, not 2. "Didn't" has an apostrophe. As there are 2 of them, it should be "One of the office ladies". 2 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sungod Posted August 29, 2021 Share Posted August 29, 2021 Cant wait until 'Pin Up' reopens, gonna walk in and barfine the most heavily tattooed chick with massive plastic fun bags. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post DaLa Posted August 29, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted August 29, 2021 Just on the remote possibly this is genuine, and secondly because I'm as bored as the original op, I will make a suggestion: Op, take a break from Thai women for a year. Travel or return to the west and seek out a loving relationship with a Brit or even better a US partner. See how that works out, then sit back and reflect on your view of Thai women. I've heard that western women aren't glued their phones all day, are 100% faithful, hardworking, never moan or criticise and have no desire to date you just based on your level of income or how many gifts you buy them. To be fair, very few of them I met had sick buffalos though. 2 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Doctor Tom Posted August 29, 2021 Share Posted August 29, 2021 12 hours ago, Airalee said: you’re just finally catching on to the way things are here Only took the OP 5 years, bit slow on the uptake? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post seajae Posted August 29, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted August 29, 2021 (edited) I met my wife online on a dating site(2010), she had a well paying job, owned a couple of houses and did not want to be in a relationship with a thai after experiencing what thai men are really like . She was much more financially secure than I was and she wasnt interested in money, she wanted a genuine relationship based on love, we used messenger a lot over a long period of time, then when I was in Thailand on a buying trip for a business I was involved in we organized to meet but unfortunately I was unable to do so after she had driven for several hours to meet me(I was staying in an out of the way area on a farm and had no idea of how to get back to the main area, I was dropped there by a van, no phone network either). She was extremely dissapointed and as soon as I was back in Bangkok I sent her a huge bunch of roses, then when back in Australia and able to make a video call I explained what had happened. Four weeks later and I was back on a plane to Thailand, she picked me up at the Phuket airport, we had so many similar likes and dislikes we just got one as if we had known each other for years(purely plutonic at the start) plus we were and still are totally open and honest with each other, she actually proposed to me after a couple of months, we got married, I flew back to Australia to finalize everything there then flew back 2 months later and we have been together ever since, she has also bought land so I can continue doing my hobby and we have since built another small house on it and live there. What we have is genuine, there are others like her out there but in my case I was extremely lucky to pick the right one to talk to, if you look in the right places you can meet them but a lot of it is luck, I know several of her friends refuse to date thai men and are self sufficient plus have asked me to help them find someone, thing is I think it is better if they do it themselves so they can judge the person themselves, people need to be honest up front about what they are after, if its just sex then they will never meet the right person and if the lady is just interested in money the same thing goes, be genuine with the ones you meet, eventually you should fine the right one. Edited August 29, 2021 by seajae 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sticky Rice Balls Posted August 29, 2021 Share Posted August 29, 2021 7 minutes ago, Doctor Tom said: Only took the OP 5 years, bit slow on the uptake? Was my excuse when I got my last happy massage!.....Getting old is a drag! ???? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Doctor Tom Posted August 29, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted August 29, 2021 1 minute ago, Sticky Rice Balls said: Was my excuse when I got my last happy massage!.....Getting old is a drag! ???? Growing older does have its compensations. Just sometimes, I can ignore the pretty girl on my sofa in order to watch a good NFL game and not feel at all conflicted. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rookiescot Posted August 29, 2021 Share Posted August 29, 2021 Think I will suggest to the mods they start a "Dear Deirdre" section on this forum. On the miniscule chance that this thread is genuine I will suggest the OP starts living up to the expectations his girlfriends have of him. Otherwise they will continue searching for the "right guy" whilst dating him. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ivor bigun Posted August 29, 2021 Share Posted August 29, 2021 Originally i came here on holiday ,after many trips went into business ,looking after the British end ,learnt that The average Thai girl is like the average woman anywhere ,met and married for love ,now as i get old i realize that i was right all along ,still with my loving Thai wife, funny most of my friends seem to be in the same boat 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vinci Posted August 29, 2021 Share Posted August 29, 2021 Quote The thing that worries me the most is see they forget you quickly maybe she never did love you 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ArcticFox Posted August 29, 2021 Share Posted August 29, 2021 Thought so. 1 post. Someone is having a good laugh. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
swissie Posted August 29, 2021 Share Posted August 29, 2021 OP descibes the behaviour of some ladies associated with the "entertainment-business" or "Tinder-Acrobats" (a minority). PRE-COVID: Once past their prime, those ladies could always marry a Farang that would even adopt her children from previous "activities". A kind of golden parachute! Due to COVID, the supply of this type of Farang is drying up and with it the "last resort Farang golden parachute". Rats! Those "Love-Life high frequency ladies" may end up with one of their former Thai-"husbands". Good luck. Enjoy. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sparktrader Posted August 29, 2021 Share Posted August 29, 2021 18 hours ago, BangkokReady said: 1 + 2 = 2? Maybe the third was terminated 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thaibeachlovers Posted August 29, 2021 Share Posted August 29, 2021 18 hours ago, DaLa said: I've heard that western women aren't glued their phones all day, are 100% faithful, hardworking, never moan or criticise and have no desire to date you just based on your level of income or how many gifts you buy them. To be fair, very few of them I met had sick buffalos though. I hope that's sarcastic. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thaibeachlovers Posted August 29, 2021 Share Posted August 29, 2021 19 hours ago, seajae said: I was extremely lucky to pick the right one I'm glad you realise that "luck" was involved. Some of us had bad luck instead, but it's all just luck of the draw whether we end up with a keeper or not. 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bluejets Posted August 29, 2021 Share Posted August 29, 2021 Methinks you're going to crash and burn something fierce. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Sparktrader Posted August 29, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted August 29, 2021 21 minutes ago, thaibeachlovers said: I'm glad you realise that "luck" was involved. Some of us had bad luck instead, but it's all just luck of the draw whether we end up with a keeper or not. Luck in everything Work Lotto Crypto Women Travel Family Genes Looks 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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