Anyone ever had a ladyboy LTR?

[peterfranks]

3 minutes ago, Kenny202 said:

LB are some of the nicest, most balanced, polite, well mannered and intelligent people I have met here.

I think you should read the Pattaya news section more often, if you really think that

[OneMoreFarang]

30 minutes ago, Lucky Bones said:

Errrrr.....

Rule#1.

Never invite them home.

 

Rule #2.

If rule #1 fails due to intoxication, hide the steak knives.????????

He asked about a LTR. I had to look it up, it means Long Time Relation... 

[Kenny202]

6 minutes ago, kekalot said:

 I got touched inappropriately and all that, I expected that.

 

"do you want to F me?"

 

apart from this, all of them have been very forward like that..

None I have met were like that at all. If anything very reserved and lady like. I have heard guys talking about stereotypical loud, obnoxious whiney overtly gay in your face Ladyboys....but I think pretty much a Pattaya / sex worker type. Ones I have met working normal jobs not like that. Some real petite little stunners too. Immaculately turned out. Hair, nails, clothes, makeup...

 

I guess its the same for a real women sex worker vs civvy. Depends on the outcome you want from living with a partner

[Kenny202]

10 minutes ago, peterfranks said:

I think you should read the Pattaya news section more often, if you really think that

Again Pattaya / Bangkok stereotype I think. Normally meth heads by the sounds of it

 

[Lucky Bones]

12 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said:

He asked about a LTR. I had to look it up, it means Long Time Relation... 

Yup, I'd figured that one. I

Rule #3

LTR anywhere but at your place.

It likely won't end well.

I'll stick to the girls.????????

[Maha Sarakham]

Ladyboys sometimes look nice all done up, however you should probably see one without all the glitz and glam and see if you still feel the same way. 

[kekalot]

1 minute ago, Kenny202 said:

None I have met were like that at all. If anything very reserved and lady like. I have heard guys talking about stereotypical loud, obnoxious whiney overtly gay in your face Ladyboys....but I think pretty much a Pattaya / sex worker type. Ones I have met working normal jobs not like that. Some real petite little stunners too. Immaculately turned out. Hair, nails, clothes, makeup...

 

I guess its the same for a real women sex worker vs civvy. Depends on the outcome you want from living with a partner

oh yeah, I mean I met like two of them in almost 10 years so it's not a common occurrence

first was that walk in interaction then second the one from last weekend (Tinder match)

 

I walk on the beach almost every day with my dog.. on weekends there are a lot of tourists (from BKK and outside of here) that come for the weekend and in all those years I was never, not a single time approached by a regular woman

 

I've never ever been close to Pattaya but since I mostly keep to myself at home with my dogs, the chance of me meeting a ladyboy (that is not an obnoxious) out is basically 0%, so the only interactions I have had on the beach were gay men, bar girls and ladyboys being obnoxious.. the "Heyyyy" type.

 

 

[Brian Nose]

50 minutes ago, Kenny202 said:

Often pondered that question myself....re LTR

 

LB are some of the nicest, most balanced, polite, well mannered and intelligent people I have met here. On the surface how you would expect a "good" Thai girl to conduct herself. I live up North so I am talking "girls" from normal walks of life with normal jobs. On the surface that is. Like many Thai girls the real person you have met may not show herself for some weeks / months in the form of the psycho, moody, irrational joy / cash vacuum that I have come across in the past. I would expect their would be potential there for a possibly good relationship. Life is about being happy for me, and met few Thai women I felt completely happy with for more than brief moments. Mostly a lot of pouting, selfishness, crazy outbursts, violent jealousy, inane conversation, Facebook / Tik tok addictions etc and a need to sleep most of the day. Would be very interested in what peoples experiences have been. There was a great doco on LB and mostly English blokes living together here and most seemed happy, though I did do a follow up a few years after and looks like most of the relationships had gone awry. To be fair to they were bargirl types. Seemed to have all the needy greedy family / support issues you would get with a Thai girl too. I think for many here with family, kids, friends etc here and back home a proper live in relationship like that would be difficult / awkward if not ballsy (no pun ????)

 

I remember someone sent me one of those email joke things a year ago. Titled the perfect Thai woman or something, from the back...dark shapely body to die for...vacuuming the floor and doing the housework while the boyfriend was sinking beers watching TV. Looked like heaven until it showed a frontal photo and a schlong as big as your arm hahaha. Reality check

 

Interestingly there are heaps of ladyboys where I live.....and know of at least 10-15 who work in pharmacies etc. And know they all have "husbands". After living here 7 years I don't remember once going out and seeing a man with a LB partner. Seen a few in Pattaya but never where I live. Must just hide out at home

 

This was a very interesting read. I wonder if in a ladyboy's pursuit to be feminine, many adopt the traditional, demure, submissive persona - an object of femininity that is fading among todays uhh.. 'vagina ladies'.

 

The thing is, LBs are biological males and I feel they are more prone to cheating. All those quiet pharmacists,  for all their poised femininity, if they were presented with a fat, 9-inch shlong in the mouthwash aisle, they'd revert to a beast state.  

[OneMoreFarang]

24 minutes ago, Maha Sarakham said:

Ladyboys sometimes look nice all done up, however you should probably see one without all the glitz and glam and see if you still feel the same way. 

Some ladyboys still have the male genitals, some not.

Many years ago I saw a pretty Gogo dancer on stage. Wow. After a few drinks we visited a hotel. It took me about 30min after I saw her naked to discover that she wasn't a natural born girl. She looked great, had the full operation, no deep voice, etc. 

That was my first time (and as far as I know only time) with a ladyboy and I didn't care. Because she was basically a nice girl who was not born like that.

My point is, there are huge differences with ladyboys. Some are operated, some not. Some are feminine, some are more like an aggressive male. 

It's up to each of us individually what we want and accept. IMHO ladyboys are different from each other like girls or guys and not all the same. They are individuals - like all of us.

[DezLez]

52 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said:

Some ladyboys still have the male genitals, some not.

They are ladyboys if they still have male genitals.

 

If they no longer have male genitals they are transsexual as they have had the operation and are no longer "Ladyboys".

 

 

[Hummin]

28 minutes ago, DezLez said:

They are ladyboys if they still have male genitals.

 

If they no longer have male genitals they are transsexual as they have had the operation and are no longer "Ladyboys".

 

 

You certainly know the terms! Google transsexual and learn something new today! 

[The Hammer2021]

You need some friends  mate OR You're using this thread as a mastubatory fantasy

BTW What is LTR

[Brian Nose]

6 minutes ago, The Hammer2021 said:

You need some friends  mate OR You're using this thread as a mastubatory fantasy

BTW What is LTR

Mate, ur avin a larf mate. By da way, wots BTW? I never lernt ow to google, innit?

[The Hammer2021]

1 minute ago, Brian Nose said:

Mate, ur avin a larf mate. By da way, wots BTW? I never lernt ow to google, innit?

LT means long time

What does the 'R' mean

BTW Means By The Way.

Have you ever been to Thailand?

You started   a thread asking for information about ladyboys.

If you are trying to find  out about  relationships  long term or  otherwise, gay  or otherwise yo0u should understand  people who actually  have relationships don't really  talk  about 'R'.

That why I asked about your fantasise disguised as requests for information.

Got for  it mate but start with a short time first, then long  time. Decide  if your a giver or taker, ? You sound  the passive taker  type to me...but it's all about trust ...do you love him?

[Brian Nose]

36 minutes ago, The Hammer2021 said:

LT means long time

What does the 'R' mean

BTW Means By The Way.

Have you ever been to Thailand?

You started   a thread asking for information about ladyboys.

If you are trying to find  out about  relationships  long term or  otherwise, gay  or otherwise yo0u should understand  people who actually  have relationships don't really  talk  about 'R'.

That why I asked about your fantasise disguised as requests for information.

Got for  it mate but start with a short time first, then long  time. Decide  if your a giver or taker, ? You sound  the passive taker  type to me...but it's all about trust ...do you love him?

Just ran this through Google Translate but still confused. 

[Sticky Rice Balls]

I have many LB friends--they are a riot...and HOT....few of them work in cabaret show and man o man..when all dressed up as Rihanna or Lady gaga......works for me

 

Ive made out with LBs and gotten oral but thats it...have no desire to go beyond that

 

I like the LADY part..not the BOY. part....if thats who they want o live i respect them

 

They are people and i like people on a individual basis.....ive even know one long enough to see her go from the boy to full lady as she flashed me last month..shes hot but shes too snobby so i dont engage her anymore--she works on Loy kroh if u wanna go peek

 

They are hot and funny and have a zest for life and i dig that...and aggressive and horny unlike thai girls that just seem to want me as ATM......my LB friends never ask me for cash

and one held my motorbike when i went home---she has a house car and scoopu and has traveled the world...they speak english and will drink sangsom with me too....

 

Ive met  good ones and bad ones--hot ones and ugly ones..people are people  be nice and get respect by giving it....pretty simple......if that makes me BI then so be it..whatever....

 

I see the regulars daily on my bike ride and they all smile and blow me a kiss! so hansum!

 

Im attracted to the female parts and not the frank n beans...if they want to be a lady then ill play along........as thais are like some hairy beer bellied dude in a dress back home....nah

 

Anyway  LBs for the win     thais girls and the jealousy and money addiction, drama..pass

[Sparktrader]

9 hours ago, KannikaP said:

........pack fudge..........? I am English

Doesnt eat chocolate

[scubascuba3]

7 hours ago, DezLez said:

They are ladyboys if they still have male genitals.

 

If they no longer have male genitals they are transsexual as they have had the operation and are no longer "Ladyboys".

 

 

To many they are post op ladyboys

[smutcakes]

14 hours ago, bert bloggs said:

Sorry but no matter what a ladyboy looks like,if your playing with his penis and getting one inserted into you etc , your bi.

Like a moth to a flame..... Old Bert doth protest to much

[AhFarangJa]

12 hours ago, KannikaP said:

........pack fudge..........? I am English

To perform anal sex.....................A fudge packer...............Personally I would prefer to use a wheelbarrow....

Edited August 19, 2022 by AhFarangJa

[huangnon]

I'd do a STR or two before you push the boat out for an LTR.

 

"Try before you buy", so to speak.

 

Just remember it's not a girl with a cock, it's a bloke with tits. ????

[giddyup]

Never bonked a ladyboy, but bonked a guy who had. Does that count?

[1FinickyOne]

16 hours ago, Brian Nose said:

Sir, I have not acquired a jollie

The singular would be "jolly" 

 

But to attempt to stay on subject - I do know guys who did have long term relations w/lady boys - both of these guys were overly macho males. One died w/that asphyxiation game they play. The other defined them as a third sex, and fascinating. 

 

Another fellow I met briefly had a long history of being with ladyboys and loved the culture of hanging out with them as they were fun loving. He did have a female Thai wife too... 

[1FinickyOne]

16 minutes ago, giddyup said:

Never bonked a ladyboy, but bonked a guy who had. Does that count?

I'll give you one point.. 

[Ralf001]

16 hours ago, scubascuba3 said:

 

 

 you know have it both ways

double adaptor ?

[1FinickyOne]

14 hours ago, Maha Sarakham said:

Ladyboys sometimes look nice all done up, however you should probably see one without all the glitz and glam and see if you still feel the same way. 

Another thing I have noticed through the years... though some lady boys can be beautiful, the future is mostly sad. You don't often/ever? see a beautiful lady man. 

 

One acquaintance every once in a while sends me photos of his ladyboy GF - I met her maybe 15 years ago.. now she looks like a truck driver. But one of the lovely quirks of life is that I think we see our partners as they were when we first met them. I see my wife that way. And it has been over 20 years... 

[Brian Nose]

5 minutes ago, 1FinickyOne said:

Another thing I have noticed through the years... though some lady boys can be beautiful, the future is mostly sad. You don't often/ever? see a beautiful lady man.

I think you're absolutely right. Sometimes I think that ladyboys are aware that they only have a short time being beautiful, a bell curve, and that's why they have a thirst for hedonism, partying etc that you mentioned your friend likes so much. 

 

To quote Bladerunner: "The light that burns twice as bright burns half as long, and you have burned so very very brightly"

[scubascuba3]

37 minutes ago, 1FinickyOne said:

But one of the lovely quirks of life is that I think we see our partners as they were when we first met them. I see my wife that way. And it has been over 20 years... 

Nice observation, my dad said the same at 85 still sees my mum 87 as when they first met at 18

[pgrahmm]

3 hours ago, 1FinickyOne said:

Another thing I have noticed through the years... though some lady boys can be beautiful, the future is mostly sad. You don't often/ever? see a beautiful lady man. 

 

One acquaintance every once in a while sends me photos of his ladyboy GF - I met her maybe 15 years ago.. now she looks like a truck driver. But one of the lovely quirks of life is that I think we see our partners as they were when we first met them. I see my wife that way. And it has been over 20 years... 

If I could she'd be thinner....

[Danderman123]

22 hours ago, Sparktrader said:

Personally i wouldnt date any other than woman. I find most lbs ugly.

 

Kissing a man even if she looks female. Only kissed women.

 

For massage i often choose older ladies better at it.

Not that I am commenting on your post, but I find that men who read topics about ladyboys but are compelled to proclaim how they would Never Ever remind me of bargirls who tell every customer “I no like Thai man”.