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Wife's brother-in-law set fire to our land


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36 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

Go alone to Pattaya for a week or twos holiday.

No funding for the misses and home while you're away.

 

Just the threat of that removed my MiL from our family home.

Money Vs parents/siblings = money wins every time.

For falang respect especially when it comes to their funding ! This suggesting to go alone to Pattaya has worked for me in the past!

Good idea!

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41 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

Go alone to Pattaya for a week or twos holiday.

No funding for the misses and home while you're away.

 

Just the threat of that removed my MiL from our family home.

Money Vs parents/siblings = money wins every time.

 

2 minutes ago, riclag said:

For falang respect especially when it comes to their funding ! This suggesting to go alone to Pattaya has worked for me in the past!

Good idea!

 

This will not work. Maybe even backfire. 

 

I would first try to understand what exactly happened! why Brother-in-law start the fire in the first place?

 

 

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57 minutes ago, Mac Mickmanus said:

Go and tell the guy yourself .

Stop using your Wife as a middle man and go and speak to the BiL yourself , take your wife along to interpret if necessary 

Old codger will get offended by the dressing down.

Thais don't like to be told what to do by farangs.

Lesson to all...stay the <deleted> away from family...even better, don't marry.

 

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1 hour ago, Mac Mickmanus said:

Go and tell the guy yourself .

Stop using your Wife as a middle man and go and speak to the BiL yourself , take your wife along to interpret if necessary 

She would likely not talk to the family nor say what he wanted to say. 

She would certainly tone it down, or maybe just stand there dumb.

He has less standing than her family.

Hope they do not plan to ease him out of the picture when the build is completed. They do like to start fires but this nut could burn the new house down!

 

My Mrs is from Korat area and her family seems more agreeable.

 

 

 

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1 hour ago, OneMoreFarang said:

Three options:

Get used to it.

Sell it.

Continue to have headache.

 

I know that is not what you like to hear. But I would be very surprised if there is another option.

Some things are just impossible in Thailand.

Sorry for no better news. I know why I have a condominium in Bangkok far away from "the family". 

For us actually living here in Thailand there is certainlya fourth option. Just confront the guy yourself when he is in action and just quite him down, silence him with gestures if you cant the lingo.... Make it clear what you think about it and his mingeling in your business...

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1 hour ago, nerjaron said:

Does anyone have any constructive advice on how to keep this guy away from our property without causing an international incident?

I free lifetime pass to the Kinky GOGO show bar and a bucket of viagra should do it.

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