Popular Post georgegeorgia Posted March 13 Popular Post Share Posted March 13 (edited) I sat at a bar and watched hundreds of old farang guys with Thai ladies . I sat and stared at one guy ,late 60's tubby wearing a collared shirt ,shorts and sandals ,grey balding hair . I could hear him shouting to another farang something about his ex wife I watched and studied him ,where are his family back home? I thought ,wonder what his I presume ex wife be doing now? he was gyrating with the young Thai lady laughing as she bent over dancing in front of him. I started to think of this man's past as I sat staring at him , I wonder what his life was like 20 years ago back in farang land ,where his ex wife is ? His kids he had Then he went to the bathroom in the bar . I followed him ,he said hello mate in his British accent I immediately followed with a "where is your ex wife? Did you leave your kids? The shocked look on his face as he stood washing his hands ,his lower lip was quivering stunned as a mullet The strangest thing he said which doesn't make sense was "Oh I didn't see this coming !" did she send you ? I again repeated the question, " you left your ex wife didn't you " You left your kids ! Then I walked out of the bar ,he was still inside I presume quivering hands under the tap bent over looking stunned , stunned as a mullet that a complete stranger would say such a thing to him !! Hard to describe the shocked look on his face in the face as he just went into a shocked look ,it went from a happy drunk *hello mate" to a look like this emoji 😳😳 the little thing I remember was after he was shocked his hands were not rubbing together under the tap ,he just stopped looking sideways at me bent over the sink shocked , funniest thing I ever saw My regret is not going back to my seat in the bar to see if he left that bathroom with tears in his eyes ! And I asked you the sad question too If you live in Thailand Philippines Vietnam Cambodia etc now .....where is your REAL family ? What happened? Did you leave them, did you have a life family kids years ago ? , such sadness What happened between you and your then wife to split up ? Have you ever made contact with her again ? Do your children who obviously would be if adult age ever forgive you ? Do they still make contact knowing you left them and the mother behind ? Does she know where you are nowadays Edited March 13 by georgegeorgia 20 18 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post bob smith Posted March 13 Popular Post Share Posted March 13 (edited) so it was YOU that I bumped into the other day then!! bob. Edited March 13 by bob smith 1 1 24 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Rampant Rabbit Posted March 13 Popular Post Share Posted March 13 I murdered all my ex wives and the kids, then ate them, thanks for being there for me so I could get it off my chest last night. 4 1 15 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgegeorgia Posted March 13 Author Share Posted March 13 My only regret was not staying in the bar to see what he was like after he left the bathroom. Did he leave with sadness or tears ? Did he go back to play dancing with the Thai bar worker? 3 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post worgeordie Posted March 13 Popular Post Share Posted March 13 George you are judging others ,you need to look at yourself first , what other people do is none of your business ,unless it effects you , I think the guy was more worried about you following him into the bathroom, whats going on here , move away. The guy was obviously having a great time without his ex wife ,who would judge him regards Worgeordie 2 1 7 4 19 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Dolf Posted March 13 Popular Post Share Posted March 13 3 minutes ago, georgegeorgia said: My only regret was not staying in the bar to see what he was like after he left the bathroom. Did he leave with sadness or tears ? Did he go back to play dancing with the Thai bar worker? Where is you ex wife? 3 3 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post scubascuba3 Posted March 13 Popular Post Share Posted March 13 Stick to the mopping job, story telling isn't a calling 1 1 1 1 8 11 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post fredwiggy Posted March 13 Popular Post Share Posted March 13 Look up the word, restraint, and it's meaning. I'm not sure of your age but asking someone a question like that, which isn't anyone's business at all, shows the lack of restraint associated with a teenager.For one thing, anyone's past is no one's business whatsoever. That's something friends talk about among themselves after they get to know one another enough to trust them and their intentions. For two, asking a stranger that question could get you decked, especially if it's a sore subject and he's drunk. Lastly, what bar were you at that has hundreds of farangs in it? Most bars wouldn't accommodate more than one hundred and maybe up to 250 total, including workers and locals. Been a long time since I've been in a rock bar so they might have grown by now. Asking people you don't know on a forum is one thing, but in person is totally different. 3 7 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post georgegeorgia Posted March 13 Author Popular Post Share Posted March 13 (edited) 6 minutes ago, fredwiggy said: Look up the word, restraint, and it's meaning. I'm not sure of your age but asking someone a question like that, which isn't anyone's business at all, shows the lack of restraint associated with a teenager.For one thing, anyone's past is no one's business whatsoever. That's something friends talk about among themselves after they get to know one another enough to trust them and their intentions. For two, asking a stranger that question could get you decked, especially if it's a sore subject and he's drunk. Lastly, what bar were you at that has hundreds of farangs in it? Most bars wouldn't accommodate more than one hundred and maybe up to 250 total, including workers and locals. Been a long time since I've been in a rock bar so they might have grown by now. Asking people you don't know on a forum is one thing, but in person is totally different. When I said hundreds I meant other bars too ,wasn't hundreds but it looked a lot of farang in opposite bars too. I actually felt good though when I left and jumped on a motorbike taxi to leave ,I felt like I had achieved something, but I will never know because I didn't see him leave the bathroom It's hard to explain but I felt like it was me that made a impact on someone's life ,it's almost I feel responsible, I could really see it "hurt" him as he left his hands under the tap as he looked at me stunned ,it felt good for me Edited March 13 by georgegeorgia 2 8 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Dolf Posted March 13 Popular Post Share Posted March 13 5 minutes ago, fredwiggy said: Look up the word, restraint, and it's meaning. I'm not sure of your age but asking someone a question like that, which isn't anyone's business at all, shows the lack of restraint associated with a teenager.For one thing, anyone's past is no one's business whatsoever. That's something friends talk about among themselves after they get to know one another enough to trust them and their intentions. For two, asking a stranger that question could get you decked, especially if it's a sore subject and he's drunk. Lastly, what bar were you at that has hundreds of farangs in it? Most bars wouldn't accommodate more than one hundred and maybe up to 250 total, including workers and locals. Been a long time since I've been in a rock bar so they might have grown by now. Asking people you don't know on a forum is one thing, but in person is totally different. I think he made the story up 5 1 10 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dolf Posted March 13 Share Posted March 13 Just now, georgegeorgia said: When I said hundreds I meant other bars too ,wasn't hundreds but it looked a lot of farang in opposite bars too. I actually felt good though when I left and jumped on a motorbike taxi to leave ,I felt like I had achieved something, but I will never know because I didn't see him leave the bathroom What did you achieve? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post fredwiggy Posted March 13 Popular Post Share Posted March 13 1 minute ago, georgegeorgia said: When I said hundreds I meant other bars too ,wasn't hundreds but it looked a lot of farang in opposite bars too. I actually felt good though when I left and jumped on a motorbike taxi to leave ,I felt like I had achieved something, but I will never know because I didn't see him leave the bathroom Aren't you in Australia? 3 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Olmate Posted March 13 Popular Post Share Posted March 13 Better hook into those Muay thai lessons shorty, then try it in real life, ideally in my booza! 4 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Olmate Posted March 13 Popular Post Share Posted March 13 2 minutes ago, fredwiggy said: Aren't you in Australia? Lala land. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post georgegeorgia Posted March 13 Author Popular Post Share Posted March 13 (edited) 4 minutes ago, Dolf said: What did you achieve? I felt , I don't know exactly but a sense of making a difference I guess ,like almost creating a impact on someone', to see their "hurt" side or is the saying to touch a raw nerve ? The fact he just stood there hands under the flowing tap... head turned to the left looking at me ,not moving , it was like ....I made this person think ! Edited March 13 by georgegeorgia 1 5 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post fredwiggy Posted March 13 Popular Post Share Posted March 13 1 minute ago, georgegeorgia said: I felt , I don't know exactly but a sense of making a difference I guess ,like almost creating a impact on someone', to see their "hurt" side or is the saying to touch a raw nerve ? The fact he just stood there hands under the flowing tap head turned to the left looking at me ,not moving You touch a raw nerve to the wrong person and you might end up waking up in an emergency room. 2 1 2 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post OneMoreFarang Posted March 13 Popular Post Share Posted March 13 41 minutes ago, georgegeorgia said: I watched and studied him ,where are his family back home? I thought ,wonder what his I presume ex wife be doing now? You tink to mut. 5 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Woof999 Posted March 13 Popular Post Share Posted March 13 "Mind your own business, you f'ing nosey pillock" would have been the only reply necessary from him. Some people receive a smack in the mouth for such and still wonder to themselves "what the hell did I do to deserve that?", then carry on judging others. 4 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Upnotover Posted March 13 Popular Post Share Posted March 13 I've known several people whose move to Thailand happened after their home country wives had died. I'm pretty sure none of them would have appreciated your unnecessary intrusion into their lives. 4 6 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgegeorgia Posted March 13 Author Share Posted March 13 (edited) I would love to hear of some storiesd on here from guys who left it all behind . Last year I was in a bar in Soi Bukhao I actually bought the bar owner 2 or 3 expensive drinks to hear him tell me how his 2 adult sons( in Belgium) had not spoken to him since 2017 when at the age of 57 he divorced and came to Pattaya. One of his sons was a police officer in Belgium and he spoke highly of him until I made him sad to talk about him ,"you must be proud of him " I said to his smiling shaking head ,yes he said half sad half happy face "Sad he thinks your a failure of a Dad " I said back to his facial expressions turning to sadness , "he will probably never talk to you again " I said to him to watching his sadness , "you must of hurt him a lot as a Dad " I then paid the bar tab his drinks included and he actually thanked me still tears in his eyes as I walked off into the distance looking back he was still sitting at the table staring into his wine glass , obviously reminiscing 😅 Edited March 13 by georgegeorgia 2 5 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Gecko123 Posted March 13 Popular Post Share Posted March 13 (edited) You follow a total stranger into the men's room and while they are urinating and without knowing their marital and family history, ask where his ex-wife and kids are? That is next level creepy, dude. I think I would call the cops if that ever happened to me. Edited March 13 by Gecko123 4 1 1 4 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Grecian Posted March 13 Popular Post Share Posted March 13 12 minutes ago, georgegeorgia said: I felt , I don't know exactly but a sense of making a difference I guess ,like almost creating a impact on someone', to see their "hurt" side or is the saying to touch a raw nerve ? The fact he just stood there hands under the flowing tap... head turned to the left looking at me ,not moving , it was like ....I made this person think ! I don't know what childhood scar you are carrying. Neglect possibly. I recommend sorting yourself out first before trying to have an "impact" on others. 4 1 3 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post FritsSikkink Posted March 13 Popular Post Share Posted March 13 51 minutes ago, georgegeorgia said: I sat at a bar and watched hundreds of old farang guys with Thai ladies . I sat and stared at one guy ,late 60's tubby wearing a collared shirt ,shorts and sandals ,grey balding hair . I could hear him shouting to another farang something about his ex wife I watched and studied him ,where are his family back home? I thought ,wonder what his I presume ex wife be doing now? he was gyrating with the young Thai lady laughing as she bent over dancing in front of him. I started to think of this man's past as I sat staring at him , I wonder what his life was like 20 years ago back in farang land ,where his ex wife is ? His kids he had Then he went to the bathroom in the bar . I followed him ,he said hello mate in his British accent I immediately followed with a "where is your ex wife? Did you leave your kids? The shocked look on his face as he stood washing his hands ,his lower lip was quivering stunned as a mullet The strangest thing he said which doesn't make sense was "Oh I didn't see this coming !" did she send you ? I again repeated the question, " you left your ex wife didn't you " You left your kids ! Then I walked out of the bar ,he was still inside I presume quivering hands under the tap bent over looking stunned , stunned as a mullet that a complete stranger would say such a thing to him !! Hard to describe the shocked look on his face in the face as he just went into a shocked look ,it went from a happy drunk *hello mate" to a look like this emoji 😳😳 the little thing I remember was after he was shocked his hands were not rubbing together under the tap ,he just stopped looking sideways at me bent over the sink shocked , funniest thing I ever saw My regret is not going back to my seat in the bar to see if he left that bathroom with tears in his eyes ! And I asked you the sad question too If you live in Thailand Philippines Vietnam Cambodia etc now .....where is your REAL family ? What happened? Did you leave them, did you have a life family kids years ago ? , such sadness What happened between you and your then wife to split up ? Have you ever made contact with her again ? Do your children who obviously would be if adult age ever forgive you ? Do they still make contact knowing you left them and the mother behind ? Does she know where you are nowadays Hope you do the same to someone who will teach you a lesson to mind your own business. Tell us all about the hospital experience afterwards. 3 1 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dolf Posted March 13 Share Posted March 13 16 minutes ago, georgegeorgia said: I felt , I don't know exactly but a sense of making a difference I guess ,like almost creating a impact on someone', to see their "hurt" side or is the saying to touch a raw nerve ? The fact he just stood there hands under the flowing tap... head turned to the left looking at me ,not moving , it was like ....I made this person think ! How old was this guy? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post freeworld Posted March 13 Popular Post Share Posted March 13 54 minutes ago, georgegeorgia said: I sat at a bar and watched hundreds of old farang guys with Thai ladies Doubt there is a bar in Thailand with hundreds of foreign guys with Thai ladies. The story is a bit far fetched. 1 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Grecian Posted March 13 Share Posted March 13 5 minutes ago, georgegeorgia said: I would love to hear of some storiesd on here from guys who left it all behind . Last year I was in a bar in Soi Bukhao I actually bought the bar owner 2 or 3 expensive drinks to hear him tell me how his 2 adult sons( in Belgium) had not spoken to him since 2017 when at the age of 57 he divorced and came to Pattaya. One of his sons was a police officer in Belgium and he spoke highly of him until I made him sad to talk about him ,"you must be proud of him " I said to his smiling shaking head ,yes he said half sad half happy face "Sad he thinks your a failure of a Dad " I said back to his facial expressions turning to sadness , "he will probably never talk to you again " I said to him to watch his sadness Imagine you were put on trial, who in your life, from workplace to "friends" if you have any, even from this forum do you think would stand for your defence? come on GG, you can be better than this! 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgegeorgia Posted March 13 Author Share Posted March 13 2 minutes ago, Dolf said: How old was this guy? The tubby guy late 60's I would say but maybe looked older He dressed with a shirt with a collar but not tucked in 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Olmate Posted March 13 Share Posted March 13 1 minute ago, Dolf said: How old was this guy? Crikey we,ve got good cop/bad cop - or is it bum n bummer? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Sqoop Posted March 13 Popular Post Share Posted March 13 22 minutes ago, georgegeorgia said: I felt , I don't know exactly but a sense of making a difference I guess ,like almost creating a impact on someone', to see their "hurt" side or is the saying to touch a raw nerve ? The fact he just stood there hands under the flowing tap... head turned to the left looking at me ,not moving , it was like ....I made this person think ! Pure fantasy 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dolf Posted March 13 Share Posted March 13 1 minute ago, Olmate said: Crikey we,ve got good cop/bad cop - or is it bum n bummer? Whatever floats your boat big boy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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