Over 50 and Feeling the Frustration

[SoCal1990]

6 hours ago, NowNow said:

 

Perfect illustration of why some people cannot maintain stable relationships and have to pay for their company. Immature old men.

Funny, coming from someone who spends hours scrutinizing others’ relationships and motivations online. For someone so focused on ‘immature old men,’ you seem endlessly drawn to their company—care to explain the fascination?

[NowNow]

13 minutes ago, SoCal1990 said:

It’s telling that you admit to firing off quick replies while “multitasking,” yet claim to now give this conversation its due “moment.” Somehow, despite these alleged bursts of spontaneity, your every reply is drenched in the same dismissive, superior tone—strange consistency for someone supposedly just “play-fighting” without thought. Your claim to being “only human” and calling this a lighthearted fray would be more convincing if you ever stepped beyond shallow jabs and face-saving laughs. That rigid persona, always “above” others while somehow “engaging” in every petty dig, doesn’t exactly read as casual or fluid; it reads like a script you’ve rehearsed so many times that it’s almost involuntary. But sure, let’s keep pretending this is all just good-natured banter and not some compulsive need to assert yourself, even as you dodge any depth or honesty. After all, we wouldn’t want to challenge that fragile superiority you cling to so earnestly, would we?

 

Thank you for your perspective, observations and comments. 😊

I'm comfortable with who I am. If you don't like that's your problem 😊 

[NowNow]

7 minutes ago, SoCal1990 said:

Funny, coming from someone who spends hours scrutinizing others’ relationships and motivations online. For someone so focused on ‘immature old men,’ you seem endlessly drawn to their company—care to explain the fascination?

 

You have a lot of questions. I post/contribute elsewhere too. Don't think it's all about you. It's all just data.

But apart from that, you have a rather ugly manner about you. 😊 

[georgegeorgia]

14 minutes ago, SoCal1990 said:

Strange, isn’t it? For someone who supposedly despises ‘old sex tourists,’ you seem to spend a remarkable amount of time here, engaging with them and dissecting their every move. If you’re really above it all, why the need to keep returning, hour after hour, to this same ‘disgusting’ pool? Almost feels like you’re part of the club you claim to look down on. 

Oh leave him alone ,"Nownow or whatever his posting name(s) are loves to be here rather than sit by himself in a 21sqm box in Pattaya 

He is a great man who should of been a Professor 

[SoCal1990]

7 hours ago, NowNow said:

 

You've already admitted that you have put me on ignore 😊 So we know you are playing the game of sniping. 

It seems I mean a lot more to you than you do to me. Thanks, but I prefer women. 😊

Still hanging around, hoping for a glance from someone who’s made it clear they’re done with you? It’s almost impressive, how even being ignored doesn’t stop your obsession. Must sting to be this fixated on someone who couldn’t care less.

[SoCal1990]

9 minutes ago, NowNow said:

 

Thank you for your perspective, observations and comments. 😊

I'm comfortable with who I am. If you don't like that's your problem 😊 

Comfortable, are you? Interesting, given the amount of time you spend justifying yourself to people you claim to dismiss. Seems like there’s a lot more to unravel beneath that ‘comfortable’ surface. But if you’re content clinging to that, by all means, carry on.

[NowNow]

16 minutes ago, SoCal1990 said:

Strange, isn’t it? For someone who supposedly despises ‘old sex tourists,’ you seem to spend a remarkable amount of time here, engaging with them and dissecting their every move. If you’re really above it all, why the need to keep returning, hour after hour, to this same ‘disgusting’ pool? Almost feels like you’re part of the club you claim to look down on. 

 

Seems you didn't understand my initial reply. Perhaps you aren't that intelligent after all 😊

[NowNow]

1 minute ago, SoCal1990 said:

Still hanging around, hoping for a glance from someone who’s made it clear they’re done with you? It’s almost impressive, how even being ignored doesn’t stop your obsession. Must sting to be this fixated on someone who couldn’t care less.

 

Oh dear...you seem to be a bit catty. 😊

[SoCal1990]

5 minutes ago, NowNow said:

 

You have a lot of questions. I post/contribute elsewhere too. Don't think it's all about you. It's all just data.

But apart from that, you have a rather ugly manner about you. 😊 

Funny, coming from the guy who spends his time scrutinizing and insulting people across multiple posts—‘data,’ as you call it. But if you find questions ugly, it sounds like curiosity and open conversation aren’t really in your wheelhouse. Stick to your one-liners if that’s all you’re up for.

[SoCal1990]

2 minutes ago, NowNow said:

 

Seems you didn't understand my initial reply. Perhaps you aren't that intelligent after all 😊

Ah, the classic one-liner. When the substance runs dry, I suppose the next step is to toss in empty jabs and hope they stick. If I didn’t know better, I’d think you were just throwing in the towel.

[SoCal1990]

2 minutes ago, NowNow said:

 

Oh dear...you seem to be a bit catty. 😊

Catty? I’d call it clarity—something you might find if you moved beyond playground quips. But hey, if you need to cling to the basics, I won’t stop you.

[NowNow]

1 minute ago, SoCal1990 said:

Comfortable, are you? Interesting, given the amount of time you spend justifying yourself to people you claim to dismiss. Seems like there’s a lot more to unravel beneath that ‘comfortable’ surface. But if you’re content clinging to that, by all means, carry on.

 

No, it means that I came back to give you the meaningful conversation that you requested earlier. But it appears that you are not capable. Instead acting like an absolute pratt. 😊

[NowNow]

3 minutes ago, SoCal1990 said:

Ah, the classic one-liner. When the substance runs dry, I suppose the next step is to toss in empty jabs and hope they stick. If I didn’t know better, I’d think you were just throwing in the towel.

 

Seems that you are just having a mad rant. Best for me to not argue with an idiot, lest I end up looking like you.

[SoCal1990]

6 minutes ago, NowNow said:

 

No, it means that I came back to give you the meaningful conversation that you requested earlier. But it appears that you are not capable. Instead acting like an absolute pratt. 😊

Ah, a ‘meaningful conversation’—interesting spin for someone so fond of emoji smirks and quick jabs. If you’re capable of more, by all means, show us. So far, all I’m seeing is projection.

[NowNow]

7 minutes ago, SoCal1990 said:

Funny, coming from the guy who spends his time scrutinizing and insulting people across multiple posts—‘data,’ as you call it. But if you find questions ugly, it sounds like curiosity and open conversation aren’t really in your wheelhouse. Stick to your one-liners if that’s all you’re up for.

 

Up for? I don't know anything about your username. Tpo me you are just a pratt making a noise. But I see that I have had a profound effect on you. Whereas to me, you are a nonentity. 😊

[SoCal1990]

5 minutes ago, NowNow said:

 

Seems that you are just having a mad rant. Best for me to not argue with an idiot, lest I end up looking like you.

Ah, resorting to the old “arguing with an idiot” line. It’s a classic move when someone’s out of substance but still wants the last word. If that’s really how you see it, feel free to sit out—but we both know you’ll be back.

[SoCal1990]

1 minute ago, NowNow said:

 

Up for? I don't know anything about your username. Tpo me you are just a pratt making a noise. But I see that I have had a profound effect on you. Whereas to me, you are a nonentity. 😊

Profound effect? The only thing you’ve achieved is to amuse me with your attempts at self-importance. You might see yourself as a big deal here, but to me, you’re just background noise in desperate need of relevance.

[NowNow]

1 minute ago, SoCal1990 said:

Ah, a ‘meaningful conversation’—interesting spin for someone so fond of emoji smirks and quick jabs. If you’re capable of more, by all means, show us. So far, all I’m seeing is projection.

You see whatever you see. That's just your bad luck angry one. 😊

[SoCal1990]

20 minutes ago, georgegeorgia said:

Oh leave him alone ,"Nownow or whatever his posting name(s) are loves to be here rather than sit by himself in a 21sqm box in Pattaya 

He is a great man who should of been a Professor 

If you think defending someone like him makes you relevant, you’re mistaken. This isn’t a popularity contest; it’s just you flailing to keep up in a conversation well above your pay grade. Perhaps you should focus on your own shortcomings before trying to champion someone else’s mediocrity.

[NowNow]

1 minute ago, SoCal1990 said:

Ah, resorting to the old “arguing with an idiot” line. It’s a classic move when someone’s out of substance but still wants the last word. If that’s really how you see it, feel free to sit out—but we both know you’ll be back.

 

Hmmm....you are sounding a bit repetitive already. Seems you are running out of steam 😊

[SoCal1990]

2 minutes ago, NowNow said:

You see whatever you see. That's just your bad luck angry one. 😊

Looks like you’re just grasping at straws now. If your perspective is all you have, then I can see why you’re feeling so threatened. Maybe try engaging with a little more depth next time instead of relying on tired clichés.

[Will B Good]

 

 

OMG...you two still going at it.

 

I thought NowNow was already married?......What thread was that?

[NowNow]

1 minute ago, SoCal1990 said:

Walter Mitty? That’s rich coming from someone whose life seems to revolve around old men and sex tourists. At least I have interesting conversations. You just echo your own insecurities while pretending to be above it all. Classic projection, really. 😊

 

Is this one of your interesting conversations? 😊

 

[SoCal1990]

Just now, NowNow said:

 

Is this one of your interesting conversations? 😊

 

It’s fascinating how you confuse snarky one-liners with meaningful dialogue. Your idea of an “interesting conversation” seems to be more about avoiding real discussion. Keep hiding behind those emojis—it’s the only defense you’ve got. 😊

[NowNow]

2 minutes ago, Will B Good said:

 

 

OMG...you two still going at it.

 

I thought NowNow was already married?......What thread was that?

 

He asked to have a meaningful conversation. But thus far, he hasn't quite managed it. 😊

[NowNow]

1 minute ago, SoCal1990 said:

It’s amusing how you think you’re making a point while deflecting your own insecurities. Watching you squirm is more entertaining than anything else here. If this is your idea of being “on-topic,” I’d hate to see your off days. 😊

 

You are here demonstrating that you are Over 50 and Feeling the Frustration...no?

[JAS21]

4 hours ago, JimTripper said:

Not if you can't maintain a healthy erection...

Sorry to hear that Jim …

[CharlieH]

Petty bickering exchange removed.

[RSD1]

5 hours ago, SoCal1990 said:

Still hanging around, hoping for a glance from someone who’s made it clear they’re done with you? It’s almost impressive, how even being

ignore

d doesn’t stop your obsession. Must sting to be this fixated on someone who couldn’t care less.

 

Mate, I blocked NotNow a few days ago, and he still keeps posting nonsense to me like I’ll somehow read it. This guy’s seriously off, no life, obsessing over every thing. Can you even imagine what he must be like in person? Actually, I’d rather not. Total nutcase.

[georgegeorgia]

1 hour ago, RSD1 said:

Mate, I blocked NotNow a few days ago, and he still keeps posting nonsense to me like I’ll somehow read it. This guy’s seriously off, no life, obsessing over every thing. Can you even imagine what he must be like in person? Actually, I’d rather not. Total nutcase.

You two would get on together then.

Admit it, at least he is interested in analysing situations