Is it one rule for them and another rule for us?

[BarBoy]

Yesterday at the bar I got into a heated debate with a local thai man. He was adamant that farangs aren't allowed to find fair skinned thai women attractive and that we must stick to the brown variety.

 

I couldn't believe my ears and neither could he when I told him that I no longer find darker skinned thai women all that attractive.

My tastes have evolved since moving here and he wasn't happy about that.

 

Seems we farangs (at least in the eyes of thai men) should only date who they think we should be dating. Anything else is unacceptable and incomprehensible to the thai male. I explained that attraction is subjective and can evolve over time but he was having none of it and stood firm..

 

I think it goes without saying that I won't be taking his advice and will go for what I am attracted to, not what some washed up old Thai bloke thinks I should be attracted to!

[richard_smith237]

Don't get into discussions with stupid people.... 

 

(oh no...   guilty).... 

[Will B Good]

 

 

Think you've excelled even your good self with this one Bob.

[Will B Good]

In your world Bob......do the women have any say in this matter at all?

[BarBoy]

Just now, Will B Good said:

In your world Bob......do the women have any say in this matter at all?

Absolutely they do.

 

But I have the last word!...

[bkk6060]

The darker the better fo rme.  Nothing better then a really dark sexy Issan lady.

[Will B Good]

Just now, BarBoy said:

Absolutely they do.

 

But I have the last word!...

 

I was talking to Bob.

[Will B Good]

Just now, bkk6060 said:

The darker the better fo rme.  Nothing better then a really dark sexy Issan lady.

 

 

100% with you on that.

[BarBoy]

1 minute ago, Will B Good said:

 

I was talking to Bob.

Sorry, I thought you said Colin!

[Will B Good]

Just now, BarBoy said:

Sorry, I thought you said Colin!

 

 

Gotcha there.....555

[BarBoy]

1 minute ago, Will B Good said:

 

 

Gotcha there.....555

No.

 

I actually did think you said Colin.

 

I didn't have my glasses on!

[novacova]

10 minutes ago, BarBoy said:

Seems we farangs (at least in the eyes of thai men) should only date who they think we should be dating. Anything else is unacceptable and incomprehensible to the thai male.

I couldn’t care less what other people think about me, what I do or do not have, they can go eat their shorts for all I care.

[BarBoy]

Just now, novacova said:

I couldn’t care less what other people think about me, what I do or do not have, they can go eat their shorts for all I care.

I agree.

 

I just found it very interesting how irate he got when I said it!

 

 

[johnnybangkok]

Bob gets chatting to some idiot in the bar. Said idiot espouses his own, personal view on a matter. Said idiot now represents all Thai males.  
 

You really need to change the record. 

[novacova]

Just now, BarBoy said:

I agree.

 

I just found it very interesting how irate he got when I said it!

 

 

Good, isn’t it wonderful watching people eat their shorts?!

[BarBoy]

Just now, novacova said:

Good, isn’t it wonderful watching people eat their shorts?!

I mean, he was eating Pad Thai...

 

Not sure if there was any shorts in it.

[BarBoy]

1 minute ago, johnnybangkok said:

You really need to change the record. 

I'm taking requests this Christmas!

 

The Colin Neville Christmas Special.

 

Not to be missed!

[KannikaP]

12 minutes ago, BarBoy said:

No.

 

I actually did think you said Colin.

 

I didn't have my glasses on!

In your world Bob......do the women have any say in this matter at all?  Quote from Will B Goode

[chaila]

22 minutes ago, BarBoy said:

Yesterday at the bar I got into a heated debate with a local thai man. He was adamant that farangs aren't allowed to find fair skinned thai women attractive and that we must stick to the brown variety.

 

I couldn't believe my ears and neither could he when I told him that I no longer find darker skinned thai women all that attractive.

My tastes have evolved since moving here and he wasn't happy about that.

 

Seems we farangs (at least in the eyes of thai men) should only date who they think we should be dating. Anything else is unacceptable and incomprehensible to the thai male. I explained that attraction is subjective and can evolve over time but he was having none of it and stood firm..

 

I think it goes without saying that I won't be taking his advice and will go for what I am attracted to, not what some washed up old Thai bloke thinks I should be attracted to!

 

[johnnybangkok]

36 minutes ago, BarBoy said:

I'm taking requests this Christmas!

 

 

 Can I request Silent Night then? Literally. 

[BarBoy]

Just now, johnnybangkok said:

 Can I request Silent Night then? Literally. 

that's a good one for you!

[RSD1]

57 minutes ago, BarBoy said:

no longer find darker skinned thai women all that attractive.

My tastes have evolved since moving here and he wasn't happy about that.

Way to go bob. Don't you stand for any of that local patronizing rubbish. And if he doesn't like it, then show him your wallet, your bait and tackle, and that everything else of yours is bigger, better, faster and stronger than his.
 

You are now an ethnocentric modern man in the hub of hubs with only the most refined tastes. Been there, done that, seen and tried it all. So you stay away from those darker ones FFS. You now deserve only the best quality that the Land of Vertical Smiles has to offer matey!

[RSD1]

46 minutes ago, novacova said:

they can go eat their shorts

What would that be like?

[BarBoy]

2 minutes ago, RSD1 said:

Way to go bob. Don't you stand for any of that local patronizing rubbish. And if he doesn't like it, then show him your wallet, your bait and tackle, and that everything else of yours is bigger, better, faster and stronger than his.
 

You are now an ethnocentric modern man in the hub of hubs with only the most refined tastes. Been there, done that, seen and tried it all. So you stay away from those darker ones FFS. You now deserve only the best quality that the Land of Vertical Smiles has to offer matey!

Dark chocolate does get a tad bitter after a while...

 

But milk chocolate is always nice and sweet!

[RSD1]

38 minutes ago, KannikaP said:

In your world Bob......do the women have any say in this matter at all?  Quote from Will B Goode

Sure, they can turn down his 2,000 Baht. 

[Ralf001]

 

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[RSD1]

Just now, BarBoy said:

Dark chocolate does get a tad bitter after a while...

 

But milk chocolate is always nice and sweet!

Don't insult the chocolate. I've gone completely the other way. I haven't befoonked an Asian in many months. I've moved over to the darkest continent. Once you do, then it's hard to go back. Those lighter colors are so boring and pedestrian now. It's that high contrast monochrome framing that you are looking for. Ole!

[RSD1]

48 minutes ago, BarBoy said:

Colin Neville

bob, why did you choose that name for your new moniker? was he the schoolyard bully who always stole your shoes and sent you home barefoot?

[BarBoy]

1 minute ago, RSD1 said:

 I've moved over to the darkest continent. !

You in Africa then?

[BarBoy]

Just now, RSD1 said:

bob, why did you choose that name for your new moniker? was he the schoolyard bully who always stole your shoes and sent you home barefoot?

No.

 

It's the name my father gave me.

 

His name was Ian.