Meeting the right Thai lady on a chat forum that you and her connect with

[camper star]

First I'd like to mentioned ( mod can delete if necessary ) that I started almost 2 years ago to check out a chat site for Thai women, why, well that will have to go back to my high school days. 

OK, first one was "thai friendly", won't go into that one other than, can you pay for my car payments and I dropped my phone in the muddy waters in the puddles on the countryside road. 

OK, second one is " thai cupid ". Now with the help of  my friends on Discord they were absolutely right about the first chat room. Did I listen to them, yes. 

Ok, on thai cupid I decided to go with the paid subscription also, this time I wanted to find ( experience taught me well, be prepared ) have a purpose. So after getting about 600 hearts just only in a few days, it was "paid subscription for me ". Why, the following will tell you why. Also, I went in looking for a "pen pal". I recommend anyone reading this to do the same, that is if you want to. You'll find ( come across most likely a lady working for the Thai govt.)

OK, my journey begins after nearly a 5 decade relationship with a Japanese lady I met in Japan.

For me, I wanted an outdoor type of lady to go camping and cycling in Thailand with. Did I come across such a genuine Thai lady with that in mind. Long story. You guys keep guessing on that one. 

OK, for the meat and potatoes of a relationship with a Thai lady I met on thai cupid that is going on for over a year and a half.

 

1. having them signals  of genuine interest... in some ways yes and most ways, she never cycled or been camping  (true)

2. Honest and consistent conversation online and in person... most definitely  100% on this one

3.  Wants to learn about me... well, Thai ladies may not ask, so I opened up little by little before actually flying to her country to meet and be with her

4.  No emotions... good I thought, wise lady... she took her time to get to  know some about me

5.  I thought about the way my mother taught us kids about respect and politeness and I know she felt relax after I opened her car door for her at DMK

6.  Her upbringing is in the Buddha tradition as I found out about her mother's way of life. Her politeness was warm and very friendly

7.  First she took me to the immigration office and did all the paper work... went smoothly, then to meet her parents. I showed my respect by showing the Wai to them, I guess that opened up their feelings for their daughter's new friend. One day later I was surprise with a birthday cake with 2 hearts on it and my nickname and a beautiful bicycle iced on it. It was a copy of my cycling Tee-shirt for cycling Thailand. Such a heart-warming was in the air filled with warm smiles of trust for their daughter's new friend. ( pen pal " now you may know why I mentioned, "start out as a pen pal". Her father speaks English, yet her mother only speaks Thai

8. Next was to introduce me to her neighbors and her life long school friends. We eventually had many dinners of all of us together. 

9. It was time then to her to introduce me to some Thai culture. We visited the Temple high up in the mountain out of Bangkok ( sorry, I don't know the name, (when I find out, I'll have a mod put it in here), we brought water for the Buddhist Monks. We stayed there and did some Buddhist traditions. It was all in Thai. We most likely left with the Buddhist Monk's blessing for our newly found friendship

10. Over time while online, I casually mentioned a little about my job and financial background, going at it lightly, but honestly. To my surprise, which I am happy, we are still together over one and a half years later

11.  On a side note, she has NEVER ask for any financial support, I actually had to beg her for I can pay for the meals. She insisted that she pays her own, I had to give up, but put money in my debit card and let her handle the affairs that way including paying sometimes for the gasoline

12. She is "kreng jai" I should say about our online and in person relationship. Hope I used the correct word here

13.  It was nice to know we shared values of loyalty and our life styles. We will be visiting the Bangkok Orphanage again in May. This will be our 3rd visit. We have brought American and Japanese candy for the children there which we were told exceeds 400 The staff allowed pictures of the staff with us, but of course, not the children

14. Do we or have we found compatibility in our relationship... I hope what share does not change

15. Well, without really saying much about meeting the lady in your life... on thai cupid, wish you much happiness with her

 

in closing  I'd like to say that international long distance relationship must rely on honesty and loyalty

 

thanks for reading and all your guys support   

[Harrisfan]

How about a 3 line summary.

[hotsun]

I didnt read all of that but if you want a chance at the cesspool that is online dating best to go with the serious paid one which is thaicupid in this case. Not as many hookers to sift through

[camper star]

1 minute ago, Harrisfan said:

How about a 3 line summary.

The gentle wind of change never stops blowing of ones happiness in life.  Well, that's good for one line I guess.

[camper star]

1 minute ago, hotsun said:

I didnt read all of that but if you want a chance at the cesspool that is online dating best to go with the serious paid one which is thaicupid in this case. Not as many hookers to sift through

If you read what I wrote, you'll see I paid the subscription price for thai cupid. Best choice in my opinion.

[Stiddle Mump]

24 minutes ago, camper star said:

First I'd like to mentioned ( mod can delete if necessary ) that I started almost 2 years ago to check out a chat site for Thai women, why, well that will have to go back to my high school days. 

OK, first one was "thai friendly", won't go into that one other than, can you pay for my car payments and I dropped my phone in the muddy waters in the puddles on the countryside road. 

OK, second one is " thai cupid ". Now with the help of  my friends on Discord they were absolutely right about the first chat room. Did I listen to them, yes. 

Ok, on thai cupid I decided to go with the paid subscription also, this time I wanted to find ( experience taught me well, be prepared ) have a purpose. So after getting about 600 hearts just only in a few days, it was "paid subscription for me ". Why, the following will tell you why. Also, I went in looking for a "pen pal". I recommend anyone reading this to do the same, that is if you want to. You'll find ( come across most likely a lady working for the Thai govt.)

OK, my journey begins after nearly a 5 decade relationship with a Japanese lady I met in Japan.

For me, I wanted an outdoor type of lady to go camping and cycling in Thailand with. Did I come across such a genuine Thai lady with that in mind. Long story. You guys keep guessing on that one. 

OK, for the meat and potatoes of a relationship with a Thai lady I met on thai cupid that is going on for over a year and a half.

 

1. having them signals  of genuine interest... in some ways yes and most ways, she never cycled or been camping  (true)

2. Honest and consistent conversation online and in person... most definitely  100% on this one

3.  Wants to learn about me... well, Thai ladies may not ask, so I opened up little by little before actually flying to her country to meet and be with her

4.  No emotions... good I thought, wise lady... she took her time to get to  know some about me

5.  I thought about the way my mother taught us kids about respect and politeness and I know she felt relax after I opened her car door for her at DMK

6.  Her upbringing is in the Buddha tradition as I found out about her mother's way of life. Her politeness was warm and very friendly

7.  First she took me to the immigration office and did all the paper work... went smoothly, then to meet her parents. I showed my respect by showing the Wai to them, I guess that opened up their feelings for their daughter's new friend. One day later I was surprise with a birthday cake with 2 hearts on it and my nickname and a beautiful bicycle iced on it. It was a copy of my cycling Tee-shirt for cycling Thailand. Such a heart-warming was in the air filled with warm smiles of trust for their daughter's new friend. ( pen pal " now you may know why I mentioned, "start out as a pen pal". Her father speaks English, yet her mother only speaks Thai

8. Next was to introduce me to her neighbors and her life long school friends. We eventually had many dinners of all of us together. 

9. It was time then to her to introduce me to some Thai culture. We visited the Temple high up in the mountain out of Bangkok ( sorry, I don't know the name, (when I find out, I'll have a mod put it in here), we brought water for the Buddhist Monks. We stayed there and did some Buddhist traditions. It was all in Thai. We most likely left with the Buddhist Monk's blessing for our newly found friendship

10. Over time while online, I casually mentioned a little about my job and financial background, going at it lightly, but honestly. To my surprise, which I am happy, we are still together over one and a half years later

11.  On a side note, she has NEVER ask for any financial support, I actually had to beg her for I can pay for the meals. She insisted that she pays her own, I had to give up, but put money in my debit card and let her handle the affairs that way including paying sometimes for the gasoline

12. She is "kreng jai" I should say about our online and in person relationship. Hope I used the correct word here

13.  It was nice to know we shared values of loyalty and our life styles. We will be visiting the Bangkok Orphanage again in May. This will be our 3rd visit. We have brought American and Japanese candy for the children there which we were told exceeds 400 The staff allowed pictures of the staff with us, but of course, not the children

14. Do we or have we found compatibility in our relationship... I hope what share does not change

15. Well, without really saying much about meeting the lady in your life... on thai cupid, wish you much happiness with her

 

in closing  I'd like to say that international long distance relationship must rely on honesty and loyalty

 

thanks for reading and all your guys support   

Wow!

A long and thought out post there Camper Star. Thanks. 

I'm gonna join a few today and get a good lady.

 

Sounds easy. She must like adventuring. Fishing. Hiking. Tree climbing. Camping and sleeping under the stars.

[camper star]

5 minutes ago, Stiddle Mump said:

Wow!

A long and thought out post there Camper Star. Thanks. 

I'm gonna join a few today and get a good lady.

 

Sounds easy. She must like adventuring. Fishing. Hiking. Tree climbing. Camping and sleeping under the stars.

"please try the "pen pal" approach. I was told very few men try that are looking for adventure and I don't mean the type in bed either.

[Stiddle Mump]

4 minutes ago, camper star said:

"please try the "pen pal" approach. I was told very few men try that are looking for adventure and I don't mean the type in bed either.

I'll try it CS.

 

You are a star.

[save the frogs]

11 hours ago, Stiddle Mump said:

Tree climbing.

yeah, good luck finding a woman who climbs trees and doesnt ask for money

[norsurin]

9 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

yeah, good luck finding a woman who climbs trees and doesnt ask for money

Cant be other then a monkey i think.

[save the frogs]

11 hours ago, norsurin said:

Cant be other then a monkey i think.

i swear to god i was going to say get a monkey!

maybe a monkey on the side to fulfill fantasies the ol' lady can't. 

 

[norsurin]

1 hour ago, camper star said:

First I'd like to mentioned ( mod can delete if necessary ) that I started almost 2 years ago to check out a chat site for Thai women, why, well that will have to go back to my high school days. 

OK, first one was "thai friendly", won't go into that one other than, can you pay for my car payments and I dropped my phone in the muddy waters in the puddles on the countryside road. 

OK, second one is " thai cupid ". Now with the help of  my friends on Discord they were absolutely right about the first chat room. Did I listen to them, yes. 

Ok, on thai cupid I decided to go with the paid subscription also, this time I wanted to find ( experience taught me well, be prepared ) have a purpose. So after getting about 600 hearts just only in a few days, it was "paid subscription for me ". Why, the following will tell you why. Also, I went in looking for a "pen pal". I recommend anyone reading this to do the same, that is if you want to. You'll find ( come across most likely a lady working for the Thai govt.)

OK, my journey begins after nearly a 5 decade relationship with a Japanese lady I met in Japan.

For me, I wanted an outdoor type of lady to go camping and cycling in Thailand with. Did I come across such a genuine Thai lady with that in mind. Long story. You guys keep guessing on that one. 

OK, for the meat and potatoes of a relationship with a Thai lady I met on thai cupid that is going on for over a year and a half.

 

1. having them signals  of genuine interest... in some ways yes and most ways, she never cycled or been camping  (true)

2. Honest and consistent conversation online and in person... most definitely  100% on this one

3.  Wants to learn about me... well, Thai ladies may not ask, so I opened up little by little before actually flying to her country to meet and be with her

4.  No emotions... good I thought, wise lady... she took her time to get to  know some about me

5.  I thought about the way my mother taught us kids about respect and politeness and I know she felt relax after I opened her car door for her at DMK

6.  Her upbringing is in the Buddha tradition as I found out about her mother's way of life. Her politeness was warm and very friendly

7.  First she took me to the immigration office and did all the paper work... went smoothly, then to meet her parents. I showed my respect by showing the Wai to them, I guess that opened up their feelings for their daughter's new friend. One day later I was surprise with a birthday cake with 2 hearts on it and my nickname and a beautiful bicycle iced on it. It was a copy of my cycling Tee-shirt for cycling Thailand. Such a heart-warming was in the air filled with warm smiles of trust for their daughter's new friend. ( pen pal " now you may know why I mentioned, "start out as a pen pal". Her father speaks English, yet her mother only speaks Thai

8. Next was to introduce me to her neighbors and her life long school friends. We eventually had many dinners of all of us together. 

9. It was time then to her to introduce me to some Thai culture. We visited the Temple high up in the mountain out of Bangkok ( sorry, I don't know the name, (when I find out, I'll have a mod put it in here), we brought water for the Buddhist Monks. We stayed there and did some Buddhist traditions. It was all in Thai. We most likely left with the Buddhist Monk's blessing for our newly found friendship

10. Over time while online, I casually mentioned a little about my job and financial background, going at it lightly, but honestly. To my surprise, which I am happy, we are still together over one and a half years later

11.  On a side note, she has NEVER ask for any financial support, I actually had to beg her for I can pay for the meals. She insisted that she pays her own, I had to give up, but put money in my debit card and let her handle the affairs that way including paying sometimes for the gasoline

12. ShUe is "kreng jai" I should say about our online and in person relationship. Hope I used the correct word here

13.  It was nice to know we shared values of loyalty and our life styles. We will be visiting the Bangkok Orphanage again in May. This will be our 3rd visit. We have brought American and Japanese candy for the children there which we were told exceeds 400 The staff allowed pictures of the staff with us, but of course, not the children

14. Do we or have we found compatibility in our relationship... I hope what share does not change

15. Well, without really saying much about meeting the lady in your life... on thai cupid, wish you much happiness with her

 

in closing  I'd like to say that international long distance relationship must rely on honesty and loyalty

 

thanks for reading and all your guys support   

To be honest i read many stories like this.U think ur in paradise.Give it more time and u migth have another experience.I have meet some ladies in real that i chatting with in thaicupid.I speak thai well but i never tells them that.When we meet in Thailand they normally nice and polite but after a while start calling people and talk BS in thai.

Some talk about their plan with me and its allways about money.U said in number 10 that u told her about ur financially status.For what???Its not her business!!!!I hope u and her still happy together in the future.

[StayinThailand2much]

Problem today is, that most Thai women (I use 'lady' only in the aristocratic sense) on those websites/apps seem to look for income rather than love.

[Harrisfan]

1 hour ago, camper star said:

If you read what I wrote, you'll see I paid the subscription price for thai cupid. Best choice in my opinion.

Why? I could pick up a woman in any Thai city. 

[Gottfrid]

This just can´t be serious.

[camper star]

20 minutes ago, Harrisfan said:

Why? I could pick up a woman in any Thai city. 

Yes, that would be the most convenient way of introducing yourself to a Thai working lady. I'm not talking about a free-lancer  either for you, but then again you said "pick up".

[camper star]

20 minutes ago, Gottfrid said:

This just can´t be serious.

Are you referring to my post? 

[camper star]

34 minutes ago, StayinThailand2much said:

Problem today is, that most Thai women (I use 'lady' only in the aristocratic sense) on those websites/apps seem to look for income rather than love.

Well, time will tell for me. Thanks for your comment. 

[Harrisfan]

1 minute ago, camper star said:

Yes, that would be the most convenient way of introducing yourself to a Thai working lady. I'm not talking about a free-lancer  either for you, but then again you said "pick up".

You must be ugly if you can't pick up in Thailand. Women in shops hit on me.

[camper star]

1 minute ago, Harrisfan said:

You must be ugly if you can't pick up in Thailand. Women in shops hit on me.

 

[Cameroni]

How old is the lady?

 

How long were you in ldr and how long in real life rel?

 

[camper star]

13 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

How old is the lady?

 

How long were you in ldr and how long in real life rel?

 

about 55 

will be 7 months in rel

[Harrisfan]

14 minutes ago, camper star said:

about 55 

will be 7 months in rel

55yo lady is old

[Cameroni]

16 minutes ago, camper star said:

about 55 

will be 7 months in rel

 

Is she still showing no emotion or has she told you she is in love with you, wants to be exclusive etc?

[camper star]

38 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

Is she still showing no emotion or has she told you she is in love with you, wants to be exclusive etc?

Its my understanding that the Thai ladies show very little emotion like the westerners do. But her warm actions of how she relates to our activities together speaks volume of her loyalty. At least so far anyway. I have a rental there so if things do go south, at least I won't be on the streets unless ...

[proton]

1 hour ago, camper star said:

about 55 

will be 7 months in rel

 

It's grab a granny then, at least she wont be getting pregnant

[camper star]

Just now, proton said:

 

It's grab a granny then, at least she wont be getting pregnant

That alone should save me from them hot summer nights getting pieyed.

[Gottfrid]

9 hours ago, camper star said:

Are you referring to my post? 

YES!

[it is what it is]

can't be bothered to read all that. my experience, in summary, pre-smart phone internet dating, thailand friends/DIA was amazing, i met and slept with countless, well in excess of 100 maybe 200, genuine thai women, no messing around with prostitutes and requests for payment. at the time it was normal, in hindsight it was amazing. i dabble a bit with internet dating these days but it's not the same, it's much harder work, though i still get my fair share of success.

[omegaman]

Fundermentally, trust your head, and not your heart.  There are no real rules, every girl is different.  But, you will never understand Thai culture fully, there is always risk.