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meeting a lady that doesn't need your money

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On 5/8/2025 at 12:13 AM, Sierra Tango said:

Get a bloody job and stop wasting time posting inane shizen on this forum Bob/Giovani/ Lewi who ever the fark you are, Just go away.

I think you should take life a bit less serious, enjoy the humor that i post, it may just enlighten you to the happiness you once sought for in your life.l

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  • it is what it is
    it is what it is

    20 odd years here, never, ever had a thai woman who wanted money, same as when i dated back home. current gf has five cars, seven houses and condos and runs, at the last count - it's hard to keep up,

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    Harrisfan

    Sounds like bs

  • Sierra Tango
    Sierra Tango

    Get a bloody job and stop wasting time posting inane shizen on this forum Bob/Giovani/ Lewi who ever the fark you are, Just go away.

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6 minutes ago, camper star said:

so i was very lucky then

If you treat a woman as an equal, have future plans that coincide, don't neglect, cheat on or abuse each other, you are lucky and time will show that.

On 5/8/2025 at 1:14 AM, Celsius said:

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On 5/8/2025 at 1:13 AM, Sierra Tango said:

Get a bloody job and stop wasting time posting inane shizen on this forum Bob/Giovani/ Lewi who ever the fark you are, Just go away.

i'll secnd that S .T . Bobyboy is just like that one mosquito in your bedroom that keeps buzzing around you  all night and you can't swat it.

3 hours ago, fredwiggy said:

Like a sin sot, which is supposed to go back to the couple after the party. Many end up in mom's purse.

Who said it supposed to go back to the couple?

11 minutes ago, MalcolmB said:

Who said it supposed to go back to the couple?

Tradition

3 hours ago, fredwiggy said:

If you treat a woman as an equal, have future plans that coincide, don't neglect, cheat on or abuse each other, you are lucky and time will show that.

Not if she treats you as an unequal, has other future plans and cheats on you and abuses you like a simp or a cuck.

4 minutes ago, MalcolmB said:

Not if she treats you as an unequal, has other future plans and cheats on you and abuses you like a simp or a cuck.

That's why I wrote this. Guess you missed it........... have future plans that coincide, don't neglect, cheat on or abuse each other,

 

Just now, fredwiggy said:

That's why I wrote this. Guess you missed it........... have future plans that coincide, don't neglect, cheat on or abuse each other,

 

I am glad you are learning from your mistakes Fred. 

1 minute ago, MalcolmB said:

I am glad you are learning from your mistakes Fred. 

We all do.Some it takes awhile

On 5/7/2025 at 10:43 PM, Harrisfan said:

Not me. He's an idiot. Id want 150 sex sessions for that.

I always knew you were a cheap charlie:stoner:

14 minutes ago, ujayujay said:

I always knew you were a cheap charlie:stoner:

How much do you pay Einstein?

Well, I think back to my second marriage, on a per sexual encounter basis, versus what I spent to be in that relationship, I could’ve been probably doing a Russian escort who looks like Paris Hilton for the same money  .

 

On the other hand, the into me factor. You cannot buy it. I know, I stupidly tried to in my life. 
 

But if I have to spend money to facilitate it happening, then I have no problem at all, doing so even to a medium high level.

20 minutes ago, Harrisfan said:

How much do you pay Einstein?

I've never found Einstein attractive, think it's the hair that put me off.

23 hours ago, fredwiggy said:

If you treat a woman as an equal, have future plans that coincide, don't neglect, cheat on or abuse each other, you are lucky and time will show that.

But they aren't my equal, are you suggesting I use deceit in order to bang them?

2 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

I've never found Einstein attractive, think it's the hair that put me off.

But imagine the conversations after dinner

So that goes to the very interesting question that this thread poses – instead of just getting stuck on dowry details and killing the thread.

 

What does it take before you are willing to invest financially in a relationship?

 

What do you want back?

 

Does a zero investment or less investment requirement make a person more attractive?

 

Answering first, strong, mutual sexual attraction is so hard to come by that I am willing to basically spend at my limit if the person is ethical and functional.

 

The only thing I want back from such a person would be 100% honesty. If I have that, any other problem is easy to solve.

 

Their own level of wealth has no impact on whether or not I want to get involved with them. It’s not like if she has more money the sexual and emotional connection can be a little bit less. Her financial status does not enter into my attraction at all.

 

 

2 minutes ago, Harrisfan said:

But imagine the conversations after dinner

I could never have a relationship with someone that denied me bacon!

5 minutes ago, Prubangboy said:

What do you want back?

 

Does a zero investment or less investment requirement make a person more attractive?

Frequent sex, and maybe a bit of laundry and housework

7 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

But they aren't my equal, are you suggesting I use deceit in order to bang them?

But they are your equal. Who told you they weren't? And no, you don't have to use deceit to be with a woman. It only takes honesty and treating them right, along with open communication and a skill at listening.

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easy to get bitter.  single, been engaged a few times when younger, but whatever......it was a phase.  lol.   one was pretty wealthy, didn't care about that.  ah, kids.  only had about six different gf's in Thailand.  nothing to crazy.  not enough money spent on meals, traveling, etc.  to offset a lot of financial luck I've had before.  karma.  

 

I'll never forget a few decades ago, a friend of mine dated this girl for a month and then she played him big time.  So he compiled a list of everything he bought for her, including time, gas, you name it......oh, that was funny.  he sent it to her.  yea, no response.

 

Then this same clown fell for a lady shortly thereafter and loaned her 10k, and she left him, and he then hired three lawyers.  He fired them all.  They were charging him 300 an hour.  she went bankrupt.  lol.   

 

Here's my point: You can worry about money all you want, but if that leads to decades of miserable living, that's terrible.

 

just like gambling.....spend an amount you don't mind losing.   if more, then use your BRAIN and make an educated decision.  if it doesn't work, move on.   all while sober, I hope

 

sin sot.  no way.   ok, so I will never marry a Thai.  That's OK. that's my educated decision if she demands a sin sot.  house, no.  monthly allowance, no.  family help, maybe.  now if I buy another house back home and put her name on the title and she gets it when I die.....well, that's different in my mind.  

5 minutes ago, Prubangboy said:

So that goes to the very interesting question that this thread poses – instead of just getting stuck on dowry details and killing the thread.

 

What does it take before you are willing to invest financially in a relationship?

 

What do you want back?

 

Does a zero investment or less investment requirement make a person more attractive?

 

Answering first, strong, mutual sexual attraction is so hard to come by that I am willing to basically spend at my limit if the person is ethical and functional.

 

The only thing I want back from such a person would be 100% honesty. If I have that, any other problem is easy to solve.

 

Their own level of wealth has no impact on whether or not I want to get involved with them. It’s not like if she has more money the sexual and emotional connection can be a little bit less. Her financial status does not enter into my attraction at all.

 

 

Someone to have fun with. My friend only sees his woman 1 day in 2 weeks so apart from lack of sex he's getting little else. She has kids to look after. I told him find a woman no kids. 

 

3 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

But they are your equal. Who told you they weren't? And no, you don't have to use deceit to be with a woman. It only takes honesty and treating them right, along with open communication and a skill at listening.

You think someone that left school age 12 Vs me with my postgraduate is equal.

Obviously they may be your equal ..........

7 minutes ago, Prubangboy said:

So that goes to the very interesting question that this thread poses – instead of just getting stuck on dowry details and killing the thread.

 

What does it take before you are willing to invest financially in a relationship?

 

What do you want back?

 

Does a zero investment or less investment requirement make a person more attractive?

 

Answering first, strong, mutual sexual attraction is so hard to come by that I am willing to basically spend at my limit if the person is ethical and functional.

 

The only thing I want back from such a person would be 100% honesty. If I have that, any other problem is easy to solve.

 

Their own level of wealth has no impact on whether or not I want to get involved with them. It’s not like if she has more money the sexual and emotional connection can be a little bit less. Her financial status does not enter into my attraction at all.

 

 

Mutual attraction and chemistry costs nothing and can't be paid for. It's either there or it isn't, and is the reason people either leave fast or think about staying, waiting to see if the other things, which are also as important, are there. Yes, it is very hard to come by, especially for a woman, as a man can have sex with any body as long as it's shaped correctly, but a woman usually wants an emotional connection to go along with that chemistry and mutual attraction. 100% honesty, trust, faithfulness and loyalty, which all go together, are the main things needed if anyone wants to sty in a relationship not only based on sex.

4 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

Mutual attraction and chemistry costs nothing and can't be paid for. It's either there or it isn't, and is the reason people either leave fast or think about staying, waiting to see if the other things, which are also as important, are there. Yes, it is very hard to come by, especially for a woman, as a man can have sex with any body as long as it's shaped correctly, but a woman usually wants an emotional connection to go along with that chemistry and mutual attraction. 100% honesty, trust, faithfulness and loyalty, which all go together, are the main things needed if anyone wants to sty in a relationship not only based on sex.

I've found the opposite to be true,

Men want the feelings and relationships.

Women just want money, position in society, big house, etc. and are generally willing to bang any guy that can provide those things.

10 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

Frequent sex, and maybe a bit of laundry and housework

So a hooker and a cleaner

3 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

You think someone that left school age 12 Vs me with my postgraduate is equal.

Obviously they may be your equal ..........

Why obviously? You actually think you're smarter than I without knowing anything about me? Going to college doesn't necessarily make a person smart, nor smarter. People can never go to school and be smarter than a college grad. IQ is either there or it isn't. Expanding it doesn't come from the first 12 years of school, as most of what you learn in any school you can learn by reading, as long as you were first taught to read. Desire is what makes a person more intelligent, along with that higher IQ to start with. My dad never wen to college, but he had a very high, genius level IQ, and was a quality control engineer for over 40 years in two government related jobs. This along with learning photography, magic, electronics, and building his own Ham Radio by scratch.

1 minute ago, fredwiggy said:

Why obviously? You actually think you're smarter than I without knowing anything about me? Going to college doesn't necessarily make a person smart, nor smarter. People can never go to school and be smarter than a college grad. IQ is either there or it isn't. Expanding it doesn't come from the first 12 years of school, as most of what you learn in any school you can learn by reading, as long as you were first taught to read. Desire is what makes a person more intelligent, along with that higher IQ to start with. My dad never wen to college, but he had a very high, genius level IQ, and was a quality control engineer for over 40 years in two government related jobs. This along with learning photography, magic, electronics, and building his own Ham Radio by scratch.

I'm fairly certain I'm smarter than you,

And my dad was smarter than your dad so there!

30 minutes ago, Prubangboy said:

On the other hand, the into me factor. You cannot buy it.

 

No, you can't buy love. But you can buy attraction, fashionable clothes, good haircut, nice cologne, provided the base material is not Quasimodo country obviously.

 

Also you can create attraction by your actions, in fact as soon as she realises you're into her that will create some attraction if you meet her base threshhold.

 

22 minutes ago, Prubangboy said:

What does it take before you are willing to invest financially in a relationship?

 

What do you want back?

 

Loyalty and honesty. Love cannot exist where there is no trust. So you have to be able to trust her. Obviously good looks I take for granted, attraction is a sine qua non. Then she has to enjoy sex, and be willing to do some of the unusual things I like to do. A bit of fun and light hearted nature is a plus. Ideally she likes similar things to me, but you probably have to compromise on that.

 

She has to be someone who can be led. Some women think they are smarter than you, when they are in fact idiots, they cannot be led. That's a problem. Basically she can't become a problem, no depression, no family issues, no neurosis of any kind. Someone healthy please in body and mind.

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