What would you do?

[Yagoda]

Id see if she has friends for a threesome.

[ChrisKC]

Nobody on this forum knows and neither can they give proper advice about these matters. You are the only one who knows or needs to know what the real situation is and then take appropriate action. 

 

[Look Chang]

Change  your concern into pleasure and Just do as she does, have juicy 'short times' with her work partners . . . 

[Luuk Chaai]

On 5/23/2025 at 8:13 AM, JK-Trilly said:

he’s seen my girlfriend standing on the street in Soi Nana at night a few times, talking to guys. 

Just trying to figure out the best move here.

take a walk and see for yourself

[gargamon]

More AI drivel to increase traffic.

[daveAustin]

On 5/23/2025 at 8:43 AM, CharlieH said:

Amazing how quick people jump to conclusions, she could've been on that soi for any number of reasons but you jump straight to that conclusion.

If your happy with her, it's not serious, why would you expect exclusivity. As has been said, what she does is not really your business, Any more than just like your "friend" played away occasionally., no difference. 

“Anyway, after dinner, he calls me up and tells me he’s seen my girlfriend standing on the street in Soi Nana at night a few times, talking to guys.”
 

Hmm, hardly think she was discussing superstring theory with her particle physicist colleagues. But you never know.

All sounds very casual nevertheless and you’re clearly not bf/gf or whatever. She probably considers you her ‘gik’ (which is great) or playing the long game. 

 

 

 

[daveAustin]

20 hours ago, ChrisKC said:

Nobody on this forum knows and neither can they give proper advice about these matters. You are the only one who knows or needs to know what the real situation is and then take appropriate action. 

 

Plato has spoken 😀

[wavodavo]

On 5/23/2025 at 11:13 AM, JK-Trilly said:

Been seeing this girl for a little while now. Met her online a couple months back, not through a dating app, but through one of those language exchange sites. She works at a small shop in a mall somewhere around the Siam area. We usually hang out at my place three or four times a week.

 

The other night, we went out for dinner, me, her, a friend of mine, and his girlfriend. He’s been with his girl a few years, but he still plays the field now and then. Anyway, after dinner, he calls me up and tells me he’s seen my girlfriend standing on the street in Soi Nana at night a few times, talking to guys. I asked how sure he was, and he said he actually spoke to her briefly once and recognised her voice when we were all out together. She clearly didn’t remember him though, because she acted totally normal the whole night.

 

Now I don’t know what to do. Do I confront her? Or just quietly end things? The situation is actually pretty good. She doesn’t ask for much. I pay for meals here and there, and occasionally help with a small bill or something she needs. But I’m not really up for dating someone who might be working part-time in that scene.

 

Just trying to figure out the best move here.

Bobby Boy I suggest you go back to sleep and dream up a better stoty.

[saintdomingo]

On 5/23/2025 at 8:30 AM, SoCal1990 said:

How can you even be sure she isn't working in that scene full time? Have you ever visited her at the shop she works to confirm she has a real day job? 

Well he doesn't know which shop it is, which is unusual when you've known someone for months. The story does sound like just a story but he doesn't seem that sort of poster. Up to him anyway.