Is it possible to rehabilitate a bargirl back into polite society?

[Hummin]

1 hour ago, Cameroni said:

 

I don't want to. Of course I don't want to be overly harsh on our friends, the prostitutes either. Their trade is honest, and who of us can claim perfect morality at all times? Perhaps we would have been prostitutes had we been born a woman.

 

The immorality of the prostitute's job does not concern me so much, it's more that she is filthy, contaminated, morally corrupt and unreliable and thus would make a poor choice for any man.

 

Why choose a prostitute when there are millions of non-sex-worker type girls?

And how is it really going for you. Here at the forum sharing your hate for women. Christ sake you never get tired? Tired of yourself? 

[Nicco]

2 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

You are positing the question as if the woman is the equal of the man.

 

Especially in sex this is a fallacy.

 

 

 

You didn't answer the question. I assume that's a no which makes you a bit of a hypocrite.

 

I treat my wife as an equal partner. The relationship is traditional - not quid pro quo. 

 

*That doesn't make her an equal partner to my money.

 

Before we were married I told my wife I was leaving if:

1 Cheats

2 Disrespects me

3 Places undue financial burden on me (family, gambling)

4 Withhold sex

5 Gets fat

 

* I definitely did not marry a bar girl. She doesn't even drink

[Cameroni]

Just now, Nicco said:

I assume that's a no which makes you a bit of a hypocrite.

 

Not even a little. I have never claimed the woman should have equal sexual rights. 

 

The equal partnership is a nice fantasy, but really nothing more than fantasy.

 

How long are you together?

[Nicco]

7 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

Not even a little. I have never claimed the woman should have equal sexual rights. 

 

The equal partnership is a nice fantasy, but really nothing more than fantasy.

 

How long are you together?

 

15 years

 

This is sort of the very definition of hypocrisy:

 

I have never claimed the woman should have equal sexual rights.

 

Whether you claim it or not the action itself is hypocritical. It's objective.

 

Your relationship apparently are not coequal and I'm not stating that as some soyboy beta bro. That's not love - that's simply transactional.

 

This is totally hypothetical, but I'd love to know the extremes of what you feel entitled to receive or be involved in at the same time what are the limits of what you tolerate in your partner

 

Note: while legal marriages could potentially be transactional a partnership always is.

[Cameroni]

15 minutes ago, Nicco said:

 

15 years

 

This is sort of the very definition of hypocrisy:

 

I have never claimed the woman should have equal sexual rights.

 

Whether you claim it or not the action itself is hypocritical. It's objective.

 

Your relationship apparently are not coequal and I'm not stating that as some soyboy beta bro. That's not love - that's simply transactional.

 

This is totally hypothetical, but I'd love to know the extremes of what you feel entitled to receive or be involved in at the same time what are the limits of what you tolerate in your partner

 

Note: while legal marriages could potentially be transactional a partnership always is.

 

You're never in " partnership" with a woman. That's just a male fantasy.

 

Lol, why would my relationships have to be "co equal"? Are you Norwegian too?  

 

I have some very sad news for you...ALL relationships are transactional. Including yours. People only enter relationships if they want something from the other. Otherwise there would be no relationship.

 

Keep living your fantasy though. You're living in delusion.

[jimmybcool]

11 hours ago, transam said:

Right, I owned a Pontiac Trans Am for 23 years in England...........😉

 

Did they make it with steering wheel on the other side??  Interesting.  

[Nicco]

27 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

You're never in " partnership" with a woman. That's just a male fantasy.

 

Lol, why would my relationships have to be "co equal"? Are you Norwegian too?  

 

I have some very sad news for you...ALL relationships are transactional. Including yours. People only enter relationships if they want something from the other. Otherwise there would be no relationship.

 

Keep living your fantasy though. You're living in delusion.

 

This is so hopelessly bitter and cynical. I think any woman would be absolutely miserable spending time with you.

 

I fully understand your position now about your *partner* needing to go if she's not putting out - she's a prostitute so in your case I would agree.

 

You simply shack up with hookers and pay them to service you. Got it.

 

This is harsh, but I'm doubting you could attract a woman (without the money). That's why it's always and forever transactional with you.

 

It's pretty easy to see you know nothing about love. Never loved anyone, never been loved.

 

It's really nice having someone you can really trust by your side.

 

My wife is a near perfect human being. Everyone that meets her loves her.

 

Marriage and partnership is about sharing a life together until you die. Sex is small part of that life.

 

You will never trust anyone enough to marry. No woman save for the most desperate marry you and I would guarantee they are looking at maximizing their transaction with you.

 

If you are serious pussy hound at 50 it's bc you weren't getting any 20-30 years back 🤷‍♂️ If

its as important in your 60s as your 20s you weren't getting in your 20s

[save the frogs]

<>

[MalcolmB]

2 hours ago, Cameroni said:

Why choose a prostitute when there are millions of non-sex-worker type girls?

A recent poll revealed half of the posters here either met their wives/girlfriends at a bar, a gogo, or online.

 

I think the reason is they have no skills or confidence to acquire a woman from normal society, they are lonely and horny. 

 

In many cases it just starts of as a LT with no intentions of forming a relationship and they perform well so the rehire them again and then before you know it the monger has her phone number, she starts messaging all the time and the socially isolated monger has nothing better to do with his time. 
Or he is a tourist, has a great time goes back to boring Farangville gets bored and starts planning his next trip.

 

The lonely, socially isolated and horny are easy prey. Lambs to the slaughter.

 

Other Thais being overly polite and not ever wanting to cause a loss of face to the monger act as if it is normal and will never say anything which then further normalizes it. 
And he will see many other monger/whore couples which again further normalizes it.

 

Plus she most likely is younger and more attractive physically than anything they will be able to pull in Farangland.

 

Next thing he is married to a whore.

 

what is interesting to me is that farangs like to think they are smarter and morally superior to Russians, Chinese, Arabs and Indians, but it is nearly always the farangs who fall for the whores, the Arabs , Chinese Russians and Indians nearly never marry them.

They all treat whores like they are whores.
 

[Nicco]

1 minute ago, save the frogs said:

Transactional

 

Transactional is a precise term. It's the exchanging of goods, services or money with someone who is exchanging some things or services of perceived equal value.

 

In his case -

 

Sex and convenience for money

[quake]

Bar girls.

Yes, we can all be delusional sometimes. 

 

 

[Cameroni]

6 minutes ago, MalcolmB said:

A recent poll revealed half of the posters here either met their wives/girlfriends at a bar, a gogo, or online.

 

I think the reason is they have no skills or confidence to acquire a woman from normal society, they are lonely and horny. 

 

In many cases it just starts of as a LT with no intentions of forming a relationship and they perform well so the rehire them again and then before you know it the monger has her phone number, she starts messaging all the time and the socially isolated monger has nothing better to do with his time. 
Or he is a tourist, has a great time goes back to boring Farangville gets bored and starts planning his next trip.

 

The lonely, socially isolated and horny are easy prey. Lambs to the slaughter.

 

Other Thais being overly polite and not ever wanting to cause a loss of face to the monger act as if it is normal and will never say anything which then further normalizes it. 
And he will see many other monger/whore couples which again further normalizes it.

 

Plus she most likely is younger and more attractive physically than anything they will be able to pull in Farangland.

 

Next thing he is married to a whore.

 

what is interesting to me is that farangs like to think they are smarter and morally superior to Russians, Chinese, Arabs and Indians, but it is nearly always the farangs who fall for the whores, the Arabs , Chinese Russians and Indians nearly never marry them.

They all treat whores like they are whores.
 

 

As you know I never consort with professional women, so my knowlege of them is limited, however, I would surmise that the reason some men marry prostitutes is because they give them face melting sex.

 

These guys are not used to it, so the first girl that provides them face melting sex, they have to wife them up.

 

I do agree that Russians in particular have a way with women. I remember sitting in front of one. He was sweet talking this girl, I listened to their convo, she'd given him a bracelet as a present. The guy was smooth as silk. Disgusting to the male ear, but honey for the female.

[Cameroni]

4 minutes ago, Nicco said:

 

Transactional is a precise term. It's the exchanging of goods, services or money with someone who is exchanging some things or services of perceived equal value.

 

In his case -

 

Sex and convenience for money

 

Same as in your case, though.

[Nicco]

13 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

Same as in your case, though.

 

No, it's not.

 

I don't give my wife anything other than the opportunity to keep the money she earns. I cover expenses and happy to do so

 

My responsibility as the provider is to cover household expenses and trips, hers is to care for the home and often plan the trips.

 

My wife isn't a prostitute. She wasn't born in Issarn. She went to school. She works in a large, prestigious media corporation. She's interested in world cultures and has visited something around 25 countries some multiple times. This is the type of woman you could never attract.

 

Women are not attracted to you. I'm doubting you're especially handsome, but your personality seems fairly toxic . I'd expect Asian women to be rather mmmmm distant with you. 

 

Rather, they are attracted to the money you provide them in exchange for sex and favors.

 

I bet I've not cash gifted my wife more than 30k over 15 years.

 

I'm outta here pal - good luck with the lay-deees

[MalcolmB]

14 minutes ago, Nicco said:

My wife isn't a prostitute. She wasn't born in Issarn. She went to school. She works in a large, prestigious media corporation. She's interested in world cultures and has visited something around 25 countries

Do you know her body count?

[Nicco]

1 minute ago, MalcolmB said:

Do you know her body count?

 

Yes, it's next to nothing on its own, but especially in comparison to mine. I'm not going to state a number to then be ridiculed, called a fool, naive, clueless etc. Nothing I wish to discuss on a forum.

[Cameroni]

57 minutes ago, Nicco said:

 

No, it's not.

 

I don't give my wife anything other than the opportunity to keep the money she earns. I cover expenses and happy to do so

 

 

See, these two statements are not congruent with each other.

 

You are obviously paying for her. Just like everyone else.

 

58 minutes ago, Nicco said:

She works in a large, prestigious media corporation.

 

Yes, and she keeps her money. Whilst you pay the bills. Nice deal. For her.

 

59 minutes ago, Nicco said:

This is the type of woman you could never attract.

 

Lol, she's 45, I'd never want to attract a middle aged woman.

 

59 minutes ago, Nicco said:

Women are not attracted to you. I'm doubting you're especially handsome,

 

Hahahaha, I'm a better looking Keanu Reeves.

 

1 hour ago, Nicco said:

I bet I've not cash gifted my wife more than 30k over 15 years.

 

Lol, I haven't cash gifted more than 2000 baht in 2 years.

 

Enjoy your middle aged globe trotter.

[BritManToo]

9 hours ago, Nicco said:

This is harsh, but I'm doubting you could attract a woman (without the money). That's why it's always and forever transactional with you.

I'm doubting any man over 50 could attract a 30-35 year old women without having money.

No matter how fit or attractive he thinks he is.

 

And at 70, I wouldn't be wanting to start anything with a woman over 35 (or more than 50Kg).

My wife (of 16 years) is nearly 50, and we're OK together (I think?).

 

And my definition of 'frequent sex' has changed from 2x a day to 1x every two days in the past 20 years.

[BritManToo]

8 hours ago, MalcolmB said:

Do you know her body count?

After 3 years every cell in a human body has been replaced.

So her body count will be down to one after that time.

[BritManToo]

9 hours ago, MalcolmB said:

what is interesting to me is that farangs like to think they are smarter and morally superior to Russians, Chinese, Arabs and Indians, but it is nearly always the farangs who fall for the whores, the Arabs , Chinese Russians and Indians nearly never marry them.

They all treat whores like they are whores.

Seen plenty of Japanese, Chinese and Thai men that married sex workers.

The Indians, and Arabs that holiday here are mostly broke.

Plenty of Russians married with Russian sex workers.

 

Obviously Muslims can't marry a sex worker and take her home.

Same as they can't take a crate of Whiskey home.

 

Maybe you should get a ticket from your home in Australia and actually visit Thailand and get some first hand experience with Thailand?

[Nicco]

53 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

I'm doubting any man over 50 could attract a 30-35 year old women without having money.

No matter how fit or attractive he thinks he is.

 

And at 70, I wouldn't be wanting to start anything with a woman over 35 (or more than 50Kg).

My wife (of 16 years) is nearly 50, and we're OK together (I think?).

 

And my definition of 'frequent sex' has changed from 2x a day to 1x every two days in the past 20 years.

 

He's another keyboard warrior and troll high on TikTok clips, Kamagra and fake disability pension

 

I met my wife her 32, me 49. That was 15 years ago (40kg). Now, she looks something around 40 give or take a year (43kg). My wife is absolutely lovely and charming to a fault.

 

I was a hard core committed bachelor and had gone thru a thousand women on two continents and a dozen relationships stateside. It was immediately clear to me she was special. There are lots of similar Asian women about it's just foreigners never get anywhere near them. Well, maybe the post menopausal dowagers with kids...

 

None of us are new to p4p scene, yet somehow this joker knows so much more about women and relationships despite never having had one - and deemed them all a waste of OUR money

 

Often, very often women on the game provide very lackluster service and you're left with the feeling of wasting your time and money. They ply that trade exactly because they are lazy and ethically challenged. Always some little bull<deleted> to ruin the experience. They can't help it they are the definition of failed human beings. It's fine for fun, it gets old after a few decades.

 

Sure, you find a few you vibe with, but overall it's a mediocre experience. I've not been to Pattaya in 15 years the women even then we're largely unattractive.

 

My wife has been such a help and positive addition to my life.

 

The financial burden she poses is minimal, manageable and most importantly I'm happy to HELP her.

 

As you, at 65 I'm down to a few times a week.

 

I think this guy doesn't live in Thailand, has a marginal existence in his home country, no family, friends and especially female partner. He's fallen into money and spent to much time on TikTok.

 

He's a classic example of the knob that knows the price of everything, but the value of nothing. Another poster that doesn't live in Thailand, yet lives on the forum.

[SMIAI]

As they say, it takes all sorts to make the world go around. 

There's a HUGE difference between someone taking care of his family and some thirsty old man paying for sex with a young girl and convincing himself that he is a prize catch. He is catch if someone like Harvey Weinstein is a catch. There's the money, but eeewwww 😊

 

Disclaimer: Any descriptions that appear to have a resemblance to an actual person, are purely coincidental 😊

[ElwoodP]

One post removed.

Do not insult other forum members.

[SMIAI]

I do think that @BritManToo should stop publishing inside information on member's locations on the board. 

How low can someone sink?

[transam]

12 hours ago, jimmybcool said:

 

Did they make it with steering wheel on the other side??  Interesting.  

Dunno, mine was left-hand drive.......

 

[BritManToo]

20 minutes ago, SMIAI said:

I do think that @BritManToo should stop publishing inside information on member's locations on the board. 

How low can someone sink?

Can't get much lower than your mom's basement!

I did once work in a Nuclear bunker under Central London, which was probably lower.

[MalcolmB]

1 hour ago, Nicco said:

I was a hard core committed bachelor and had gone thru a thousand women on two continents and a dozen relationships stateside.

Respect

[MalcolmB]

3 minutes ago, transam said:

Dunno, mine was left-hand drive.......

 

Horrible looking modifications.

Did you buy it like that or butcher it yourself?

[SMIAI]

My mom's basement where @BritManToo?

 

You've lost your moral compass along the way. Up to you. What a sad and pathetic little man.

[MalcolmB]

2 hours ago, BritManToo said:

After 3 years every cell in a human body has been replaced.

So her body count will be down to one after that time.

So your brain forgets everything every three years?