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Thai dating apps just escorts?

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4 hours ago, Cameroni said:

I'm just paying for flights, very normal

Do you really think it's normal that you have to pay for a flight to get laid because you can't find anybody where you live?

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4 hours ago, Cameroni said:

No they're not. I specifically screen out sex workers.

 I find it difficult to understand what's a sex worker,  in your opinion? 

In your opinion,  where do you see a difference between a sex worker (which you don't want, and I perfectly understand that) and the girls you "pay everything"?

A friend of mine wrote in his profile "no bar girls,  please". It works - but he really doesn't pay them anything.

 

The dating apps are full of vampires and scammers looking for fresh meat. Best thing you can do is do it the old fashioned way, meet someone in real life in your travels... doesn't guarrantee success though, but the site apps and bars are just full of pros with high body counts. Many newly arrived guys make this blunder... although, there will be a small % of dudes that found success on dating sites/bars, but they are the exception and the opposite tends to be the case. Be careful and suspicious of situations that seem too good to be true, as they probably are.

1 hour ago, Lorry said:

Do you really think it's normal that you have to pay for a flight to get laid because you can't find anybody where you live?

 

I don't have to at all. I choose to fly in talent from all over Thailand, because that way I meet far better looking girls.

 

And when you do that of course it's normal for you to pay their flight.

 

I do date locally, and also in Bangkok, but frankly the pool of very good looking girls aged 18 to 25 is very limited here, just as elsewhere. So it makes perfect sense to look nationwide.

 

1 hour ago, Lorry said:

I find it difficult to understand what's a sex worker,  in your opinion? 

 

How is that hard to understand? I screen out obvious bar girls and freelancers. If she demands money for meeting over and above travel she's out. Not so hard to understand..

 

There is a world of difference between a whore demanding 18000 baht for a week with you and a 711 girl saying will you pay the flight? If I have to explain that to you, I find that a bit odd.

24 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

There is a world of difference between a whore demanding 18000 baht for a week with you and a 711 girl saying will you pay the flight?

"It's a small world"

 

14 minutes ago, Lorry said:

"It's a small world"

 

You make a fair point.

 

It is a small world.

 

And if  you were so inclined you could make that same old argument that all women seek to extract material value. And you'd be right.

 

But it's the small differences. What's the difference between a great phone and a good phone? It charges just a bit faster. Has just a bit more storage. Just a bit more nits.

 

It's the small differences.

 

I'd rather have non-professionals extract money from me than out and out pro sex workers. I just prefer it.

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11 hours ago, Cameroni said:

There is a world of difference between a whore demanding 18000 baht for a week with you and a 711 girl saying will you pay the flight? If I have to explain that to you, I find that a bit odd.

 

So the 7/11 girl is not a "pro", but is being enticed by travel which she can't afford as she has never been able to afford to fly out of her village? 

 

I would suggest there is some self-delusion going on. In fact, it's even worse than a "pro" because you might be corrupting an otherwise normal girl.

 

Based on your "body of work" as pertains to all your posts on women and relationships, I am concluding that you're messed up, man. A few women screwed you over and now you're wheeling and dealing girls like one of Trump's cheap failed casinos.

 

Seeking out a real long-term relationship might be good for you. 

 

Or not. Keep paying these "normal" girls to fly over for a few days ... God only knows what you're accomplishing by distinguishing this behavior from Pay for Play.

 

I met a girl working at 7/11 on these apps. She wasn't looking for fun. She wanted help to better her life. What do they get from flying to Chiang Mai for a few days? A big shlong? Yeah, that's gonna set them up when they have to go back to their low-paying 7/11 job. 

 

 

 

 

16 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

So the 7/11 girl is not a "pro", but is being enticed by travel which she can't afford as she has never been able to afford to fly out of her village? 

 

That is undoubtedly part of it. The glorious mystique of the jungles of the fabled city of Chiang Mai is my friend.

 

16 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

I would suggest there is some self-delusion going on. In fact, it's even worse than a "pro" because you might be corrupting an otherwise normal girl.

 

With a bit of luck! There's one coming in a few days!

 

16 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

now you're wheeling and dealing girls like one of Trump's cheap failed casinos.

 

All I'm doing is using hypergamy to my advantage. All's fair in love and war.

 

16 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

She wasn't looking for fun.

 

They're all looking for fun. Even if they tell you they're not. Then they really are looking for fun.

 

16 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

What do they get from flying to Chiang Mai for a few days? A big shlong?

 

Well, Woody Allen would be big for these girls. What they get is a chance. If they can make big shlong really happy they could be set up for life. It's a fair chance.

 

16 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

Yeah, that's gonna set them up when they have to go back to their low-paying 7/11 job. 

 

Look, it's not your job to save anyone. Least of all a female. They've been to more 5 star resorts than you've had hot dinners. And these 711 girls own their own condos. I've seen it.  Trust me they'll do fine without you saving them. If they don't perform and have to be discarded, hey..at least they had a chance!

58 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

That is undoubtedly part of it. The glorious mystique of the jungles of the fabled city of Chiang Mai is my friend.

 

 

With a bit of luck! There's one coming in a few days!

 

 

All I'm doing is using hypergamy to my advantage. All's fair in love and war.

 

 

They're all looking for fun. Even if they tell you they're not. Then they really are looking for fun.

 

 

Well, Woody Allen would be big for these girls. What they get is a chance. If they can make big shlong really happy they could be set up for life. It's a fair chance.

 

 

Look, it's not your job to save anyone. Least of all a female. They've been to more 5 star resorts than you've had hot dinners. And these 711 girls own their own condos. I've seen it.  Trust me they'll do fine without you saving them. If they don't perform and have to be discarded, hey..at least they had a chance!

You remind me of  online traders offering fantastic returns  to entice the gullible. Of course nobody wins except them.

 

You're damaging people. Causing tears, broken hearts and probably an std or two.

 

Do you really get satisfaction from doing this?

12 hours ago, Gottfrid said:

Yeah, and you don´t need any reason to post stupid things


Are/were you offended?

2 minutes ago, sidjameson said:

You remind me of  online traders offering fantastic returns  to entice the gullible. Of course nobody wins except them.

 

 

It's completely different. Because these girls get an actual chance. All they have to do is prove they're relationship material. It's not my fault if they're not.

 

Online trade fraudsters do not give their clients an actual chance of ever getting those returns.

 

4 minutes ago, sidjameson said:

You're damaging people. Causing tears, broken hearts and probably an std or two.

 

We've all had our hearts broken. It's part of being alive. They'll get over it.

 

5 minutes ago, sidjameson said:

Do you really get satisfaction from doing this?

 

Sometimes, if the girl is good, up to 8 times a night.

 

 

19 hours ago, JakeC said:

Seems I'm on your mind @ThreeCardMonte You are missing the point. If they really like you, they don't care how much you have. 

Yours obviously don't really like you. You depend too much on money and so haven't really developed a likeable character.


Do you borrow money off these women you con into paying for your meals ?

 

You’re obsessed with Other People’s Money because you have none.  It drives you crazy, literally.

 

Lying, being defensive and trying to justify being a Cheap Charlie is coping mechanism.

 

 

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11 hours ago, Cameroni said:

I really don't get guys complaining about the dating app. 

 

 

Me Neither.

 

It puts reasonable warm bodies in front of me. After about a week of lame chat. And I never pay for a site.

 

I just took my Tinder profile down again. If I put in 40 minutes a day, I can go out every week with a good looking Thai woman, 58-62, who was previously married to westerner -and hopefully, lived overseas. I am 72.

 

It's been great sharing these lunches at The Robin Hood Pub. But ultimately, I prefer to live solo, travel more, do my stuff.

1 minute ago, Prubangboy said:

Me Neither.

 

It puts reasonable warm bodies in front of me. After about a week of lame chat. And I never pay for a site.

 

I just took my Tinder profile down again. If I put in 40 minutes a day, I can go out every week with a good looking Thai woman, 58-62, who was previously married to westerner -and hopefully, lived overseas. I am 72.

 

It's been great sharing these lunches at The Robin Hood Pub. But ultimately, I prefer to live solo, travel more, do my stuff.

 

Same here, it's like going to the gym, consistency brings the results. 40 minutes a day is about right. Sure, it's not easy, there's disappointments, but there's no shortage of attractive women, it's amazing. And :I still can't get over that these beautiful women take a flight to stay with me. It's almost too good to be true,.

 

Yes, and always focus on yourself, life is too short to do anything else. You're doing everything right.

12 hours ago, JakeC said:

@ThreeCardMonte...making a fool of himself everywhere he goes.

 Bought a new Louis Vuitton wallet today.  My third one.

 

Because I can.  Don’t hate me.  

Just now, Cameroni said:there's disappointments, but there's no shortage of attractive women, it's amazing. And :I still can't get over that these beautiful women take a flight to stay with me. It's almost too good to be true,.

 

Yes, and always focus on yourself, life is too short to do anything else. You're doing everything right.

The fly in -I'd prefer to go to see them, not have them bigfooting around in my neighborhood. That's why I meet them the next  Soi over.

 

I popped down to Koh Samui to meet a very yoga-istic old Brit. No payday, just friends, but she stayed at my condo when she was in town -and then we went out with her other yoga-brit friends. Networking is less onerous to me than blind dating.

 

She asked why I was single. I said, "I'm very lazy and extremely picky." She said, "Me too".

4 minutes ago, ThreeCardMonte said:

 Bought a new Louis Vuitton wallet today.  My third one.

 

Because I can.  Don’t hate me.  

 

Yeah I see them all the time been sold on the Tuesday market in Pattaya.

35 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

up to 8 times a night.

Poor girl

11 minutes ago, ThreeCardMonte said:

 Bought a new Louis Vuitton wallet today.  My third one.

 

Because I can.  Don’t hate me.  

 

The Cartier wallet I bought was one of the best buys of my life. Lasted for decades. May your LV bring you as much joy.

 

9 minutes ago, Prubangboy said:

The fly in -I'd prefer to go to see them, not have them bigfooting around in my neighborhood. That's why I meet them the next  Soi over.

 

Yes, unfortunately, as I'm not independently wealthy like you (yet) and have to work for a living, i generally have to get them to flly here to stay here in my house. This does have disadvantages, not gonna lie. I have caused tears, and the girl ran to the mooban security to ask for a taxi, which is  terribly embarassing, I have had people here who I could not wait to get rid off. This does happen I do fly to BKK on the weekend for a very good prospect, and recently was asked to come to Phuket, which I would do. But I can only do that on the weekend. So this rather means I have to fly them in if i want to get to know them for longer than 2 days.

 

Of course it has advantages too. You get a full intensive experience and get to know them pretty well, going to restaurants, markets, waterfalls and mountains and such. it's not just sex.

 

But yah, if I could choose, I would keep the fortrress of solitude empty as well most of the time, but it's not really an option. And of course the all expenses paid trip to CM is an additional sweetener.

 

9 minutes ago, Prubangboy said:

She asked why I was single. I said, "I'm very lazy and extremely picky." She said, "Me too".

 

Well, of course women are extremely picky. That's what makes it so hard, which is good. So we have to get better.

 

2 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

 

 

 

Well, of course women are extremely picky. That's what makes it so hard, which is good. So we have to get better.

 

At 72, there's not much headroom left -or time left- for me to improve. They can buy my thing, but I can no longer be bothered to sell my thing.

 

They def love Chiang Mai tho. It will be an event they remember forever.

 

Which underscores my own unease; most of the women north of 58 that I see are never getting a date, let alone to the indescribably delicious Robin Hood Pub. It's a big event to them, like Santa coming to town. I really hate that.

 

The inevitable follow up text: "I realized that I am not ready to date".

 

It's a new update of my 80's excuse: "It's not you, it's me". Even more popular in face-saving land.

24 minutes ago, ThreeCardMonte said:

 Bought a new Louis Vuitton wallet today.  My third one.

 

Because I can.  Don’t hate me.  

Do you have a wallet rotation plan? How does it work?

27 minutes ago, CallumWK said:

 

Yeah I see them all the time been sold on the Tuesday market in Pattaya.


That’s informative.   But not really into fakes.  Not entirely true.  I bought 2 fake Rolex from Mr Jacks.  Different styles other than my original GMT Master bought in 1988.  

 

I bought all of mmy wallets directly from the store at the Fashion Valley Mall in San Diego.

 

18 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

The Cartier wallet I bought was one of the best buys of my life. Lasted for decades. May your LV bring you as much joy.

 

 

Yes, unfortunately, as I'm not independently wealthy like you (yet) and have to work for a living, i generally have to get them to flly here to stay here in my house. This does have disadvantages, not gonna lie. I have caused tears, and the girl ran to the mooban security to ask for a taxi, which is  terribly embarassing, I have had people here who I could not wait to get rid off. This does happen I do fly to BKK on the weekend for a very good prospect, and recently was asked to come to Phuket, which I would do. But I can only do that on the weekend. So this rather means I have to fly them in if i want to get to know them for longer than 2 days.

 

Of course it has advantages too. You get a full intensive experience and get to know them pretty well, going to restaurants, markets, waterfalls and mountains and such. it's not just sex.

 

But yah, if I could choose, I would keep the fortrress of solitude empty as well most of the time, but it's not really an option. And of course the all expenses paid trip to CM is an additional sweetener.

 

 

Well, of course women are extremely picky. That's what makes it so hard, which is good. So we have to get better.

 


I agree.  Best wallets I’ve ever owned.  Quality lasts.

7 minutes ago, Prubangboy said:

Do you have a wallet rotation plan? How does it work?


No plan other than me rotating them for use myself.

 

 

I see only mayhem happening in the wallet transference process.

 

But good on you for living La Vida Wallet Loca.

3 hours ago, Cameroni said:

 

I don't have to at all. I choose to fly in talent from all over Thailand, because that way I meet far better looking girls.

 

And when you do that of course it's normal for you to pay their flight.

 

I do date locally, and also in Bangkok, but frankly the pool of very good looking girls aged 18 to 25 is very limited here, just as elsewhere. So it makes perfect sense to look nationwide.

 

 

How is that hard to understand? I screen out obvious bar girls and freelancers. If she demands money for meeting over and above travel she's out. Not so hard to understand..

 

There is a world of difference between a whore demanding 18000 baht for a week with you and a 711 girl saying will you pay the flight? If I have to explain that to you, I find that a bit odd.

Are you dating 18-25 at what, 55+ ?

47 minutes ago, Prubangboy said:

They def love Chiang Mai tho. It will be an event they remember forever.

 

Yes, it's surprising. The girl I'm talking to now lives in Phuket and she's exciting like Judy Garland to come to CM. I think girls just get bored easily, so any kind of trip is of interest, though CM clearly  beats Sisaket or Buriram or something. It has a certain draw, it's undeniable. Having said that, I think if lived on an Island it would be even better.

 

If I were  you, I think I would go for lower than 58, but of course that's your call. I can't imagine what women are like that age, I have no clue at all.  It does scare me though.

1 minute ago, freedomnow said:

Are you dating 18-25 at what, 55+ ?

 

54.

2 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

54.

Pay anything beyond the flight and time they are there ?

Be honest now....

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