11 minutes ago, SiSePuede419 said:

It's called honesty.

What's wrong with being honest with your partner?

If that's not your cup of tea, be honest and say no thanks

C'mon

Lots of kids are into polygamy these days

So what.

I literally don't care.

Good luck 🤞

Things have moved on since then. She is his girlfriend now, allegedly.

38 minutes ago, IsmeUno said:

Just commented on your comment. That's what we do here 😊 You might respond with good humour and we might have a good humoured exchange

You could had stopped there, if it was an invitation I mean,

52 minutes ago, IsmeUno said:

or you might demonstrate hostility and paranoia, creating an unpleasant scenario for yourself. Why post, if you don't want anyone to respond?

I thought you would make a fresh start, change direction, improve yourself, or leave old habits behind like a figurative leaf ?

11 minutes ago, Hummin said:

I thought you would make a fresh start, change direction, improve yourself, or leave old habits behind like a figurative leaf ?

You don't see the irony in your comment? That you could have made a fresh start, changed direction, improved yourself and left old habits behind like a figurative leaf ?

Until you change yourself, everything will seem the same. It's you.

35 minutes ago, IsmeUno said:

You don't see the irony in your comment? That you could have made a fresh start, changed direction, improved yourself and left old habits behind like a figurative leaf ?

Until you change yourself, everything will seem the same. It's you.

That argument is only a fig leaf

I see you go off the rails again, what a shame

15 minutes ago, Hummin said:

That argument is only a fig leaf

I see you go off the rails again, what a shame

All very similar isn't it? "Off the rails", "Spineless"... The same things being regurgitated year after year. no growth, just stagnation and eventual deterioration.

If you can get off your spiralling fall, think for a moment... I simply followed on from a comment you made about gossiping chickens. Who took the conversation "off the rails"? You are simply projecting your own crazy.

That's not how it is over here. You can choose to convince yourself otherwise. Up to you. It's your life.

1 hour ago, IsmeUno said:

All very similar isn't it? "Off the rails", "Spineless"... The same things being regurgitated year after year. no growth, just stagnation and eventual deterioration.

If you can get off your spiralling fall, think for a moment... I simply followed on from a comment you made about gossiping chickens. Who took the conversation "off the rails"? You are simply projecting your own crazy.

That's not how it is over here. You can choose to convince yourself otherwise. Up to you. It's your life.

This is my answer You asked for humor and you got it 😉

You seem to to fine without me, busy as you are, and that's maybe why you didn't catch the humor.

I even posted the Argument clinic video in the other thread you have taken over lately.

16 minutes ago, Hummin said:

This is my answer You asked for humor and you got it 😉

You seem to to fine without me, busy as you are, and that's maybe why you didn't catch the humor.

I even posted the Argument clinic video in the other thread you have taken over lately.

Your 'humour' didn't arrive. I noted only hostility and paranoia. My question was in relationship to the gossiping chickens that you mentioned. Still no reply, humorous or otherwise to that.

Of course I'm fine without you...do you imagine yourself so important in my life? The sad thing is that you probably do.

I guess the thread to which you are referring, is the emoji thread, where you posted a Monty Python video.

How did that go down with your audience?

Personally, I didn't feel the need to click on it, as I know the sketch and it doesn't really add anything to the topic. Clichés and memes are often just Trolling. Hardly a substitute for earnest debate.

There is nothing wrong with a good argument/discussion/debate. That's how were share information and learn from each other.

But for some, their ego is too tightly bound to the appearance of winning or losing, rather than the fun of taking part.

So instead of joyfully admitting that you are one of the chickens gossiping and us laughing together, you make sure that it becomes a battle of wills and then try to blame me for your behaviour.

If you don't ever admit this as a possibility, you become locked into the same behaviour. Convincing yourself that because I chose to engage with you, it must be for a negative reason.

It's just your ego...you don't want it to appear that someone is able to trick you or to pull the wool over your eye. So you become overly defensive.

If you think the worst, that's what you get. I don't think that way. I don't care about winning, so I cannot lose.

17 minutes ago, IsmeUno said:

Your 'humour' didn't arrive. I noted only hostility and paranoia. My question was in relationship to the gossiping chickens that you mentioned. Still no reply, humorous or otherwise to that.

Of course I'm fine without you...do you imagine yourself so important in my life? The sad thing is that you probably do.

I guess the thread to which you are referring, is the emoji thread, where you posted a Monty Python video.

How did that go down with your audience?

Personally, I didn't feel the need to click on it, as I know the sketch and it doesn't really add anything to the topic. Clichés and memes are often just Trolling. Hardly a substitute for earnest debate.

There is nothing wrong with a good argument/discussion/debate. That's how were share information and learn from each other.

But for some, their ego is too tightly bound to the appearance of winning or losing, rather than the fun of taking part.

So instead of joyfully admitting that you are one of the chickens gossiping and us laughing together, you make sure that it becomes a battle of wills and then try to blame me for your behaviour.

If you don't ever admit this as a possibility, you become locked into the same behaviour. Convincing yourself that because I chose to engage with you, it must be for a negative reason.

It's just your ego...you don't want it to appear that someone is able to trick you or to pull the wool over your eye. So you become overly defensive.

If you think the worst, that's what you get. I don't think that way. I don't care about winning, so I cannot lose.

Pot, meet kettle you mean?

Do you expect me to read such a long rant. You got some great humor to be honest

1 hour ago, Hummin said:

Pot, meet kettle you mean?

Do you expect me to read such a long rant. You got some great humor to be honest

One might have expected it from someone intelligent, but when I see the difference between the posts that you write for yourself and your posts written by AI, I understand that your ability to stay focussed is somewhat impeded. At least I showed you the respect of giving you the opportunity to read and possibly understand it.

Perhaps easier for you if I attempt to communicate on your wavelength... Hee-haw! Hee-haw!

Did I pronounce that correctly? 😊

Edited June 8Jun 8 by IsmeUno

3 minutes ago, IsmeUno said:

One might have expected it from someone intelligent, but when I see the difference between the posts that you write for yourself and your posts written by AI, I understand that your ability to stay focussed is somewhat impeded. At least I showed you the respect of giving you the opportunity to read and possibly understand it.

Perhaps easier for you if I attempt to communicate on your wavelength... Hee-haw! Hee-haw!

Did I pronounce that correctly? 😊

Change starts within yourself, not others.

Still, thank you for proving my point.

6 minutes ago, Hummin said:

Change starts within yourself, not others.

Still, thank you for proving my point.

It was my point in the first place, you are just attempting to claim credit for it. A bit sad, but I am flattered.

You've just found yourself in the same back and forth, using exactly the same phrases and tactics...again.

Try it differently next time. I gave you the opportunity to engage normally, perhaps in good humour, but you are incapable of such an interaction. So you get what you always got. Up to you.

2 minutes ago, IsmeUno said:

It was my point in the first place, you are just attempting to claim credit for it. A bit sad, but I am flattered.

You've just found yourself in the same back and forth, using exactly the same phrases and tactics...again.

Try it differently next time. I gave you the opportunity to engage normally, perhaps in good humour, but you are incapable of such an interaction. So you get what you always got. Up to you.

☝️👏

Never mind

10 minutes ago, Hummin said:

☝️👏

Never mind

Okay 😊

So, how about those 'gossiping chickens' you mentioned earlier? Were you one of them?

6 minutes ago, IsmeUno said:

Okay 😊

So, how about those 'gossiping chickens' you mentioned earlier? Were you one of them?

What do you not understand about the gossiping chickens?

The proof of my point lies in the number of replies, the content of the replies, and how many times active members have invested energy in repeating the same main points.

10 minutes ago, Hummin said:

What do you not understand about the gossiping chickens?

The proof of my point lies in the number of replies, the content of the replies, and how many times active members have invested energy in repeating the same main points.

I understand that you used the term, gossiping chickens. I simply asked if you saw yourself amongst them.

Does this latest reply allude to you not seeing yourself as a gossiping chicken, because you posted less and devoted less time to the thread than some others?

I want to be sure that I interpret your comments accurately.

1 minute ago, IsmeUno said:

I understand that you used the term, gossiping chickens. I simply asked if you saw yourself amongst them.

Does this latest reply allude to you not seeing yourself as a gossiping chicken, because you posted less and devoted less time to the thread than some others?

I want to be sure that I interpret your comments accurately.

Do you never get tired of this games?

17 minutes ago, Hummin said:

Do you never get tired of this games?

Are you feeling tired?

It's your game. For me, it's just conversation.

2 minutes ago, IsmeUno said:

Are you feeling tired?

It's your game. For me, it's just conversation.

You're not the best at having conversations. Instead, you enjoy causing drama.

2 minutes ago, Effective altruism said:

You're not the best at having conversations. Instead, you enjoy causing drama.

Don't we all

14 minutes ago, Effective altruism said:

You're not the best at having conversations. Instead, you enjoy causing drama.

I have great conversation in real life. It's just more difficult with people who have mental blockages.

My initial reply to their post was completely normal conversation. Does he see himself as a contributor or merely as an observer.

Any drama is created in his own mind...and yours.

Look at his reply to me. Who is creating drama?

3 minutes ago, IsmeUno said:

I have great conversation in real life. It's just more difficult with people who have mental blockages.

My initial reply to their post was completely normal conversation. Does he see himself as a contributor or merely as an observer.

Any drama is created in his own mind...and yours.

Look at his reply to me. Who is creating drama?

I'm also an observer on this forum. One thing I notice whenever you participate in a topic is that it deteriorates. Your modus operandi is to stir up as much trouble as possible. Own your behavior.

5 minutes ago, Effective altruism said:

I'm also an observer on this forum. One thing I notice whenever you participate in a topic is that it deteriorates. Your modus operandi is to stir up as much trouble as possible. Own your behavior.

Show me a thread that you have entered that has thrived due to your participation. Your posts, in general, are known to be💩

I think everyone can agree on that 😊

Show me any example of a good conversation that you've had with anyone here.

That's my observation of you. Generally trying to bait other posters and getting frustrated when without success. Hardly an observer 😊

Edited June 8Jun 8 by IsmeUno

1 minute ago, IsmeUno said:

Show me a thread that you have entered that has thrived due to your participation. Your posts, in general, are known to be💩

I think everyone can agree on that 😊

That's my observation of you. Generally trying to bait other posters and getting frustrated when without success. Hardly an observer 😊

You are not taking responsibility for your behavior. We have someone who is wasting their time provoking everyone, and now they are accusing everyone of provoking. How amusing.

On 10/27/2025 at 4:41 AM, newbee2022 said:

Well, she could be your daughter. 25 years age difference.

That you can only buy. Buy a body. Pay.

Her vision of an "all expense paid trip to CM" is likely very different form OP. It's like all the guys who seem to think that thai gals really want to go to some island with them and sit on the beach and then find out that most of them prefer to sit in a nice a/c room and watch Thai TV and fully expect to be compensated for any bedroom activities whether in phuket cm or anywhere else.

46 minutes ago, IsmeUno said:

Are you feeling tired?

It's your game. For me, it's just conversation.

Good one 🤗

6 minutes ago, pomchop said:

most of them prefer to sit in a nice a/c room and watch Thai TV

They are not fans of the blazing heat.

10 minutes ago, Effective altruism said:

You are not taking responsibility for your behavior. We have someone who is wasting their time provoking everyone, and now they are accusing everyone of provoking. How amusing.

My post was in connection with the thread topic, in reply to a post on the topic. Your posts are purely to derail. Take responsibility for your behaviour. I'm okay with mine. 😊

20 hours ago, Hummin said:

I thought you would make a fresh start, change direction, improve yourself, or leave old habits behind like a figurative leaf ?

It changes personalities like underwear, acting civil for a little while, then going back to his true self. NPD, assumptions, deflections, inferior persona but trying to act superior, insults, saying you're raging, ranting, paranoid, weak,which are all adjectives and nouns describing him exactly.

This will never change, as it's been ingrained for decades from birth.

Watch how he switches from one to another. When one ignores him, the next victim is added, going to the same actions. When one disagrees, the insults come out. Then he'll plant it on you, deflecting, trying to make you out the scoundrel. Laughable actually, as he forgets once again people here aren't fools. Look for the thumbs downs to follow, trying to justify it saying it's about content and not calling out behavior that is real.

Edited June 9Jun 9 by fredwiggy

13 hours ago, Effective altruism said:

I'm also an observer on this forum. One thing I notice whenever you participate in a topic is that it deteriorates. Your modus operandi is to stir up as much trouble as possible. Own your behavior.

He absolutely screwed this particular topic., It was a bit of fun until he ruined it with all his crap and nonsensical replies.