1 minute ago, SAFETY FIRST said:

Yes, most here came in their 60s as a sex tourist.

I came in my 20s.

Fred, why am I talking to you, I'm not talking about you.
You are like Gladys Kravitz the nosy neighbor across the street. Go away

No, I'm just a man that looks at women as people, and not objects.

I wouldn't say most here came as sex tourists at 60+. Most tourists are younger and come , have sex, then leave. Like you did, with those young girls. The ones who stay are those that met someone in person here or online and decided they wanted to stay in Thailand.

12 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

No, I'm just a man that looks at women as people, and not objects.

I wouldn't say most here came as sex tourists at 60+. Most tourists are younger and come , have sex, then leave. Like you did, with those young girls. The ones who stay are those that met someone in person here or online and decided they wanted to stay in Thailand.

Most expats are older and lots are sexpats. Pattaya is the no 1 location for them.

13 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

No, I'm just a man that looks at women as people, and not objects.

I've never said any different about you, go away and annoy someone else.

Edited June 21Jun 21 by SAFETY FIRST

3 minutes ago, SAFETY FIRST said:

I've never said any different about you, please go away and annoy someone else.

How am I annoying you? I just pointed out what you said, and gave you some advice, knowing you likely wouldn't follow it, as you really like putting others here down, meaning foreigners, along with bragging about your perfect DNA, which is just laughable, as you're only "middle aged" and your humbling is about to start. I stick up for others who are trying to be family men, while you call them grumpy, penniless and bar girl chasers, when that's a fraction of the expats here. It's okay though, I'll let you explain your actions, even if you didn't notice the other's comments.

Edited June 21Jun 21 by fredwiggy

2 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

while you call them grumpy, penniless and bar girl chasers, when that's a fraction of the expats here.

How would you know the %s? You live in a small village. You are just making it up.

10 minutes ago, Rockyroad said:

Most expats are older and lots are sexpats. Pattaya is the no 1 location for them.

Not just Pattaya.

Most here Haven't travelled anywhere else, they left their home country and came Thailand as a sex tourist.

Strange people, now they come here and question my integrity and ethics...losers 😂

Edited June 21Jun 21 by SAFETY FIRST

1 minute ago, SAFETY FIRST said:

Not just Pattaya.

Most here Haven't travelled anywhere else, they left their home country and came Thailand as a sex tourist.

Strange people, now they come here and question my integrity 😂

In Patts maybe true. Why do so many move to Patts?

Correction - Ai says 50,000 expats in Patts. 300,000 in Bangkok.

Edited June 21Jun 21 by Rockyroad

6 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

How am I annoying you? I just pointed out what you said, and gave you some advice, knowing you likely wouldn't follow it, as you really like putting others here down, meaning foreigners

Because most are sex tourists.

Most are on the aged pension, probably been on welfare most of their life

Edited June 21Jun 21 by SAFETY FIRST

1 minute ago, SAFETY FIRST said:

Not just Pattaya.

Most here Haven't travelled anywhere else, they left their home country and came Thailand as a sex tourist.

Strange people, now they come here and question my integrity and ethics...losers 😂

Tell us how you know that most here haven't traveled anywhere else. You yourself told of what you did, and others commented on it. People who take care of women and children are the ones with integrity, even if some are bar girls, wouldn't you think?

You sound like the other statistician, making up stats when no one knows the answers about these things. Are all expats in Pattaya sexpats or do some live there because it has beaches?There is no most unless a poll has been taken, and one that has many participants.

I've asked him , along with others doing the same, how he lives here if he's middle aged or less, where he stays, what type of visa he's on, and other questions, but he never answers, which is suspicious at the least.

Did they all come from their countries and settle there for the bar girls without traveling anywhere? Why is traveling something to brag about? It just means you have no responsibilities that need taking care of.

Edited June 21Jun 21 by fredwiggy

3 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

Tell us how you know that most here haven't traveled anywhere else. You yourself told of what you did, and others commented on it. People who take care of women and children are the ones with integrity, even if some are bar girls, wouldn't you think?

You sound like the other statistician, making up stats when no one knows the answers about these things. Are all expats in Pattaya sexpats or do some live there because it has beaches?There is no most unless a poll has been taken, and one that has many participants.

Did they all come from their countries and settle there for the bar girls without traveling anywhere? Why is traveling something to brag about? It just means you have no responsibilities that need taking care of.

Oh its you again Gladys 😂

4 minutes ago, SAFETY FIRST said:

Because most are sex tourists.

In their defense, what's wrong with that anyway?

That's one of Thailand's benefits.

4 minutes ago, SAFETY FIRST said:

Oh its you again Gladys 😂

C'mon Abner, answer the questions.

6 minutes ago, NewGuy87 said:

In their defense, what's wrong with that anyway?

That's one of Thailand's benefits.

It's these same sex tourists who are questioning my morals, principles, ethics and integrity.

Edited June 21Jun 21 by SAFETY FIRST

8 minutes ago, NewGuy87 said:

In their defense, what's wrong with that anyway?

That's one of Thailand's benefits.

Nothing, its their life.

12 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

Tell us how you know that most here haven't traveled anywhere else. You yourself told of what you did, and others commented on it. People who take care of women and children are the ones with integrity, even if some are bar girls, wouldn't you think?

You sound like the other statistician, making up stats when no one knows the answers about these things. Are all expats in Pattaya sexpats or do some live there because it has beaches?There is no most unless a poll has been taken, and one that has many participants.

I've asked him , along with others doing the same, how he lives here if he's middle aged or less, where he stays, what type of visa he's on, and other questions, but he never answers, which is suspicious at the least.

Did they all come from their countries and settle there for the bar girls without traveling anywhere? Why is traveling something to brag about? It just means you have no responsibilities that need taking care of.

Patts is world famous for sexpats. Not rocket science. Plenty in Phuket and Samui too.

11 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

C'mon Abner, answer the questions.

Pumping out a kid with an ex bargirl still makes a dude a sexpat. He choose a hooker.

Anyway, this is a silly thread.

Who are you asking?

Male retirees?

The universal answer would be "I'm too fat and old for anyone to pay me to be a sex worker. I would need massive surgery including liposuction and a sex change. Then maybe."

1 hour ago, ravip said:

Well, the men come in these places

And the men are all the same

You don't look at their faces

And you don't ask their names

You don't think of them as human

You don't think of them at all

You keep your mind on the money

Keeping your eyes on the wall

👆

That's a mission impossible!

I'm very selective when it comes to choosing a partner.

(Just to be clear, I'm only interested in female partners)

Off topic maybe but Private Dancer was written by Mark Knopfler.

39 minutes ago, BarraMarra said:

Off topic maybe but Private Dancer was written by Mark Knopfler.

Yes sir, one of my favorite singer-songwriters, thought it would be better sung by a woman. has many women singing with his solo music who are great partners.

If you are a female and a "hottie," I'd consider OnlyFans before considering P4P. Some of those gals make some serious $$$$$.

4 hours ago, SAFETY FIRST said:

I was expecting creepy comments from the grumpy, old, penny less guys here.

Like I said, I'm not like most here.

I've traveled the world, 40 countries.

I've not not just travel from my home country to Thailand, to settle with a girl who they met in a bar, now that's creepy.

You mean you travelled 40 countries to settle with a girl you met in a bar ?

13 minutes ago, richard_smith237 said:

You mean you travelled 40 countries to settle with a girl you met in a bar ?

This is the sh*t I'm talking about.

Always f***ers here with hostiliy, can't refrain from nasty comments

I've never settled with any bar girl. Over the years I've had the pleasure of several relationships, that's it

Send your antagonism to the others here, the sex tourists.

Edited June 21Jun 21 by SAFETY FIRST

27 minutes ago, SAFETY FIRST said:

This is the sh*t I'm talking about.

Always f***ers here with hostiliy, can't refrain from nasty comments

I've never settled with any bar girl. Over the years I've had the pleasure of several relationships, that's it

Send your antagonism to the others here, the sex tourists.

Relax. Surely all that globe-trotting across 40 countries taught you something about different cultures and perspectives... unless, of course, your travels consisted of being shuttled between airports, heliports and rig sites with roughnecks and roustabouts - and you didn't learn a think outside of your repetitive 'Pattaya anti-farang stereotyping'

What is genuinely amusing is how quickly you cry foul when the script is flipped. The very stereotypes, assumptions and generalisations you so readily level at others suddenly become intolerable when directed back at you.

For someone so culturally nuanced, your skin is amusingly paper thin.

Edited June 21Jun 21 by richard_smith237

5 hours ago, Rockyroad said:

Why would you admit that?

Even today, if you pay a bar fine, it's the odds you'll end up with someone under 18. Why would anyone have any regrets???

5 hours ago, Rockyroad said:

I wouldnt touch a women under 20 out of principle.

As if you'd know!

5 hours ago, atpeace said:

I was here too 3 decades ago. Creepy that you think this was OK and admitting it on a public forum is insanely stupid. I have a feeling your Avatar will disappear soon. We all make mistakes but that is disgusting.

Yeah, right. It was normal and it still is now. Sad, maybe. Creepy, not.

4 hours ago, KhunLA said:

I think the difference is 'consenting adults' vs violating statutory rape laws, or, international, 'travel to have sex with minor laws'. That's a big one, if a Yank.

Age of consent isn't meant for tourists in their 20's, knocking on 30 yrs old to be having sex with minors.

Not cool ... by the time and age you got to TH, you should have known better ...

... "In my 20s I travelled across the US, I flew out of New York into London, travelled around Europe on a Top Deck bus, then flew out of London into Thailand.

Yes, I've slept with 16yo Thai girls." ,,,

Who asked? If the chemistry was right, it was right.

What I wonder about is the older women still on the game. When they retire back to the village, those nasty tattoos are going to be sagging.

19 minutes ago, richard_smith237 said:

Relax. Surely all that globe-trotting across 40 countries taught you something about different cultures and perspectives... unless, of course, your travels consisted of being shuttled between airports, heliports and rig sites with roughnecks and roustabouts - and you didn't learn a think outside of your repetitive 'Pattaya anti-farang stereotyping'

What is genuinely amusing is how quickly you cry foul when the script is flipped. The very stereotypes, assumptions and generalisations you so readily level at others suddenly become intolerable when directed back at you.

For someone so culturally nuanced, your skin is amusingly paper thin.

Sorry Richard, I flew off the handle.

I know you are not a sex tourist like most here, you work in a similar industry to that of me but I've been hammered all day by these types. Judging me, my morals and integrity.

Those who came here for sex tourism only should be ashamed of themselves.

Edited June 21Jun 21 by SAFETY FIRST

3 hours ago, fredwiggy said:

No, I'm just a man that looks at women as people, and not objects.

I wouldn't say most here came as sex tourists at 60+. Most tourists are younger and come , have sex, then leave. Like you did, with those young girls. The ones who stay are those that met someone in person here or online and decided they wanted to stay in Thailand.

Yes, but, no matter what we knew about Thailand, in my case virtually nothing, we were all horny and we all got seduced by the bar scene. If you tell me different, I won't believe you until you show me your white shirt, tie and nametag! I've even had a few conversations with those missionaries and, believe me, they're checking it out.

Yes, and, if we have supremely squeaky karma, we find a good girl with only a couple decades age difference, loyal and will be your lover for life. Thank you, Lord.

4 hours ago, KhunLA said:

I think the difference is 'consenting adults' vs violating statutory rape laws, or, international, 'travel to have sex with minor laws'. That's a big one, if a Yank.

Age of consent isn't meant for tourists in their 20's, knocking on 30 yrs old to be having sex with minors.

Not cool ... by the time and age you got to TH, you should have known better ...

... "In my 20s I travelled across the US, I flew out of New York into London, travelled around Europe on a Top Deck bus, then flew out of London into Thailand.

Yes, I've slept with 16yo Thai girls." ,,,

Some of them may have been 15. Statutory is just an arbitrary age set by the morals police. Boo-effing-hoo.

I suppose you were never a consenting teenager!

Edited June 21Jun 21 by unblocktheplanet
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