5 minutes ago, Rockyroad said:

Why would you admit that?

Sadly, 3 decades ago all the bar girls were in their late teens.

I've been in Thailand a long time, worked offshore Songkhla in my 30's

BTW, many songs last decade would be sung around 16 and 17yo girls. Times change, some people don't remember the past or choose not to

I'm still middle aged, extremely fit and healthy, cashed up.

I'm different to most here.

Edited June 21Jun 21 by SAFETY FIRST

10 minutes ago, SAFETY FIRST said:

Sadly, 3 decades ago all the bar girls were in their late teens.

I've been in Thailand a long time, worked offshore Songkhla in my 30's

BTW, many songs last decade would be sung around 16 and 17yo girls. Times change, some people don't remember the past or choose not to

I wouldnt touch a women under 20 out of principle.

15 minutes ago, Rockyroad said:

It sounds like you are talking about yourself. Tell us how much you pay your fake wife.

I'm not the one complaining about 'Gold Diggers'. So, I'm not talking about myself. I'm talking about you. I don't have a wife, your nonsense is getting the best of you.

17 minutes ago, SAFETY FIRST said:

27 minutes ago, SAFETY FIRST said:

I've been with many Thai girls, as young as 16, 17yo. in the early days. Most were very shy, only having been with the boyfriend they fell in love with and most had a child to support now the father had abandoned her and baby.

These petite young girls don't choose to work in the sex industry, they are force because working in Big C and lotus does not pay enough to support her, her child and her child's carer. So now she is forced to move upto 100km from home to seek employment in the big city.

As a father of girls, it would break my heart knowing she must head of to Pattaya or similar to work in the sex industry because I was unable to take care of her.

In my youth I thought about moving to Canberra to get involved in the porn industry but I find it difficult to have sex with a woman I have no feelings for.

I was here too 3 decades ago. Creepy that you think this was OK and admitting it on a public forum is insanely stupid. I have a feeling your Avatar will disappear soon. We all make mistakes but that is disgusting.

Edited June 21Jun 21 by atpeace

Paid to have sex all the time ... yea, in a heartbeat, but I'd be choosy about my clients.

Not much of a change from my life, just getting paid for it would be plus.

13 minutes ago, ColeBOzbourne said:

I'm not the one complaining about 'Gold Diggers'. So, I'm not talking about myself. I'm talking about you. I don't have a wife, your nonsense is getting the best of you.

Gold diggers exist all over the world. Have you been living under a rock?

Multiple troll posts removed @Rockyroad if you can’t post without this continuous baiting of others posts, expect further action.

40 minutes ago, Rockyroad said:

Women are gold diggers. They will do whatever the can.

Yeah, negative perception of ALL women.

Very nice.

4 minutes ago, Rockyroad said:

Gold diggers exist all over the world. Have you been living under a rock?

Yes. Brilliant observation, as usual.

Edited June 21Jun 21 by ColeBOzbourne

I find it funny how some can actually brag about being with these very young girls, as if it's some type of conquest, when it's taking advantage of their naivete, them hoping someone will actually take better care of them than they're used to with the locals who take off after a child is born, most times. Very few are lucky enough to marry a foreigner who might give them at least more things, if not stability of their emotional outlook. Better than being with a local who acts the same way with less money? The real lucky ones are those foreigner finders who's husband is decent.

When those inevitable children are born, what's next? Stay at home with the kids which is in their best interests? Sometimes not. Then they use the excuse they need to go to a large city to make money to send home, when they can do better by their children by staying home at grandma's house and working locally. Much of the extra cash they get working goes to rent anyway, so they are kidding themselves needing to work elsewhere.

Many of these men aren't even home with their children to teach them what a father means, so they'll look elsewhere for that "missing" dad, and find it in the arms of many, most who will take off soon enough.

Becoming a sex worker isn't a good thing, as their own children end up thinking it's okay .If mom did it, I guess i could also.

Edited June 21Jun 21 by fredwiggy

28 minutes ago, atpeace said:

I was here too 3 decades ago. Creepy that you think this was OK and admitting it on a public forum is insanely stupid. I have a feeling your Avatar will disappear soon. We all make mistakes but that is disgusting.

I was expecting creepy comments from the grumpy, old, penny less guys here.

Like I said, I'm not like most here.

I've traveled the world, 40 countries.

I've not not just travel from my home country to Thailand, to settle with a girl who they met in a bar, now that's creepy.

Edited June 21Jun 21 by SAFETY FIRST

9 minutes ago, SAFETY FIRST said:

I was expecting creepy comments from the grumpy, old, penny less guys here.

Like I said, I'm not like most here.

I've traveled the world, 40 countries.

I've not not just travel from my home country to Thailand, to settle with a girl who they met in a bar, now that's creepy.

Oops, Did someone touch a nerve there.

6 hours ago, Alpha84 said:

Could you actually do the job yourself?

You don't specify , doing "that job" being a woman or a man.

As a woman , would you have paid sex with women or men ?

As a man , would you have paid sex with women or men ?

11 minutes ago, SAFETY FIRST said:

I was expecting creepy comments from the grumpy, old, penny less guys here.

Like I said, I'm not like most here.

I've traveled the world, 40 countries.

I've not not just travel from my home country to Thailand, to settle with a girl who they met in a bar, now that's creepy.

Guess you don't realize there are many foreigners here who are fit, obviously aren't penniless as they live here legally, don't go with bar girls, and take care of their children and don't leave them with the women or grandmas.

Are you asking male, female and all in between genders members of this forum? and what do you expect to hear back in response I wonder?

6 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

Guess you don't realize there are many foreigners here who are fit, obviously aren't penniless as they live here legally, don't go with bar girls, and take care of their children and don't leave them with the women or grandmas.

Guess you are wrong Again Fred.

I definitely know that there are quite a few here who aren't penniless as they live here legally, don't go with bar girls, and take care of their children and don't leave them with the women or grandma's and it's these genuine, non sex tourist guys who never reply to my posts with hostility. It only seems those living here with guilt that are haters here.

Edited June 21Jun 21 by SAFETY FIRST

3 minutes ago, ezzra said:

Are you asking male, female and all in between genders members of this forum? and what do you expect to hear back in response I wonder?

Maybe OP is opening a gay bar, and looking for employees to service customers.

I'm having a little reply regret now 😨

1 minute ago, SAFETY FIRST said:

Guess you are wrong Again Fred.

I definitely know that there aren't many penniless as they live here legally, don't go with bar girls, and take care of their children and don't leave them with the women or grandma's and it's these genuine, non sex tourist guys who don't reply to my posts with hostility.

Again? If you knew this, why comment that way? How do you know which ones are grumpy, penniless and with bar girls? I'm sure there are a couple, especially with bar girls, but you seem to lump all foreigners together, that most are one way.

32 minutes ago, SAFETY FIRST said:

I was expecting creepy comments from the grumpy, old, penny less guys here.

Like I said, I'm not like most here.

I've traveled the world, 40 countries.

I've not not just travel from my home country to Thailand, to settle with a girl who they met in a bar, now that's creepy.

Yet, you just admitted to sleeping with many 16 year olds a few posts back. The post isn't going to disappear unless a moderator takes it down.

14 minutes ago, KhunLA said:

Maybe OP is opening a gay bar, and looking for employees to service customers.

I'm having a little reply regret now 😨

I think you are right. Looking for recruits.

7 minutes ago, atpeace said:

Yet, you just admitted to sleeping with many 16 year olds a few posts back. The post isn't going to disappear unless a moderator takes it down.

Ooops, he forgot about it.

5 minutes ago, atpeace said:

Yet, you just admitted to sleeping with many 16 year olds a few posts back. The post isn't going to disappear unless a moderator takes it down.

OK, I'll explain myself for the haters.

In my 20s I travelled across the US, I flew out of New York into London, travelled around Europe on a Top Deck bus, then flew out of London into Thailand.

Yes, I've slept with 16yo Thai girls.

Yes, I did not come to Thailand like some here who have NEVER been to any other country in the world. These loser guys found a bar girl and settled here, sex tourists.

You'll find these guys are the haters because now their bar girl wife of many years is shagging the village Somchai.

Again, I'm very, very different to most here.

Edited June 21Jun 21 by SAFETY FIRST

2 minutes ago, ezzra said:

Ooops, he forgot about it.

2 minutes ago, ezzra said:

Ooops, he forgot about it.

He f'ed self and I don't think he grasps the possible legal consequences. He must be a an early morning boozer. What a huge ego this dude has - scary actually.

31 minutes ago, SAFETY FIRST said:

Guess you are wrong Again Fred.

I definitely know that there are quite a few here who aren't penniless as they live here legally, don't go with bar girls, and take care of their children and don't leave them with the women or grandma's and it's these genuine, non sex tourist guys who never reply to my posts with hostility. It only seems those living here with guilt that are haters here.

Putting expats down.

Then get challenged on it.

Then get all booty hurt, and play the Victim card.

Wash rinse repeat.

Wash rinse repeat.

Wash rinse repeat.

Shaging 16year old Thai minors, not cool man, if it's true.

Edited June 21Jun 21 by rocketboy2

55 minutes ago, SAFETY FIRST said:

I was expecting creepy comments from the grumpy, old, penny less guys here.

Like I said, I'm not like most here.

I've traveled the world, 40 countries.

I've not not just travel from my home country to Thailand, to settle with a girl who they met in a bar, now that's creepy.

I think the difference is 'consenting adults' vs violating statutory rape laws, or, international, 'travel to have sex with minor laws'. That's a big one, if a Yank.

Age of consent isn't meant for tourists in their 20's, knocking on 30 yrs old to be having sex with minors.

Not cool ... by the time and age you got to TH, you should have known better ...

... "In my 20s I travelled across the US, I flew out of New York into London, travelled around Europe on a Top Deck bus, then flew out of London into Thailand.

Yes, I've slept with 16yo Thai girls." ,,,

Edited June 21Jun 21 by KhunLA

14 minutes ago, SAFETY FIRST said:

OK, I'll explain myself for the haters.

In my 20s I travelled across the US, I flew out of New York into London, travelled around Europe on a Top Deck bus, then flew out of London into Thailand.

Yes, I've slept with 16yo Thai girls.

Yes, I did not come to Thailand like some here who have NEVER been to any other country in the world. These loser guys found a bar girl and settled here, sex tourists.

You'll find these guys are the haters because now their bar girl wife of many years is shagging the village Somchai.

Again, I'm very, very different to most here.

You admit sleeping with those children, which is very different than most here.

A man that goes with a bar girl isn't exactly a loser. If that's what he wants and can deal with her past, along with her not staying with that past, and they get along with each other like a normal couple, that isn't a loser.

Traveling around the world doesn't make others losers because you can. Many, like myself, would love to travel more but taking care of the children, IN the house, is a lot more important than seeing sights. I will travel when my daughter is old enough to come with me, or stay with family while I go for a short while, in my 70's.

Granted, some women will cheat no matter their past history, and some bar girls will always take that with them, but that's the man's deal. if he can accept that, it's their business. Women cheat on decent men all over, and it's on them.

You're actually the same as quite a few here, as far as responsibilities are concerned. You work on rigs and aren't in Thailand, with your kids, but a part of the year right? I'm not one to tell others how to live, but an adjustment there would be beneficial to those children, you being in their lives more. I'm sure you provide for them, which many don't, so that's a good thing. I don't think anyone here hates you, but not getting on foreigners cases so much would help a lot.

Edited June 21Jun 21 by fredwiggy

If women want to pay me for sex, hell, why not?

2 hours ago, BilllyGOAT said:

Congratulations on the successful marriage.

In the nineties they would all say to new punters that they had only been in the bar two days, and nearly half the time it was even true. They moved bars so often that years of bar work still counted as two days in one bar or another. Not lying, just clever marketing, as long as nobody asked them about the rest of their time in the trade.

I can only take her word for her past but I'm more than sure since we first met we've been in each others company constantly.

36 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

You admit sleeping with those children, which is very different than most here.

Yes, most here came in their 60s as a sex tourist.

I came in my 20s.

Fred, why am I talking to you, I'm not talking about you.
You are like Gladys Kravitz the nosy neighbor across the street. Go away

3 hours ago, Crossy said:

Tina Turner hit the nail on the head with Private Dancer.

https://genius.com/Tina-turner-private-dancer-lyrics

Well, the men come in these places

And the men are all the same

You don't look at their faces

And you don't ask their names

You don't think of them as human

You don't think of them at all

You keep your mind on the money

Keeping your eyes on the wall

👆

That's a mission impossible!

I'm very selective when it comes to choosing a partner.

(Just to be clear, I'm only interested in female partners)