A bar in Pattaya with a normal Thai woman who isn't a freelancer.

Sure thing dude.

Maybe consider widening your horizons if youre looking for that. Start by going to "normal" places.

A gym, an athletic club (run club, padel, badminton, golf, whatever) a co-working space inside of an office building

No thai woman wanting to date and have a normal life is hanging out in a Pattaya bar.

"Normal women" rarely go into bars anywhere in the world unless with a partner or in a group.

You only have to put yourself in the position of a woman and imagine walking into a bar full of the posters on here to understand why.

15 hours ago, Nick Carter icp said:

What Ive found is that once you go the prostitute route for partners, its very dififficlt to go back to normal relationships with females

I know what you mean, do you occasionally "forget yourself" and offer the Mrs 1000bt in the morning too? It can be embarrassing , same as when I offered the mother in law 300bt for the bar fine one night when i was drunk . Do you think its due to too much mongering in the past ? I just thought it was alzheimers

9 minutes ago, MIke B Bad said:

"Normal women" rarely go into bars anywhere in the world unless with a partner or in a group.

You only have to put yourself in the position of a woman and imagine walking into a bar full of the posters on here to understand why.

no need to put onesself in the position of a woman to realise what that would be like

12 minutes ago, Bday Prang said:

same as when I offered the mother in law 300bt for the bar fine one night when i was drunk .

DId she accept it?

1 hour ago, Ralf001 said:

Try out the following to scour for non hooker flange.

Rum Jungle Rooftop bar & Centara.

Horizon Rooftop bar @ Hilton.

Zama Skybar.

Indigo Rooftop Bar.

Skybar Summmer Club.

Where to find high end freelancers. Same game, less tats, higher price.

9 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

DId she accept it?

of course, although I doubt she understood what it was for

16 hours ago, Olmate said:

Women with jobs at banks and hospitals don't frequent bars at 11am whether your from Canada or not Sam.

Everybody selling, some cash & some finance (is that what you are looking for) 🤣

7 minutes ago, cjinchiangrai said:

Where to find high end freelancers. Same game, less tats, higher price.

Free being the word... well not free in that ya need to wine and dine.

Maybe there is a cost if you ugly.

16 hours ago, CanadaSam said:

I've noticed that women with jobs at banks, hospitals, etc., simply do not frequent normal bars.

I'm so tired of the exact same bar lady questions "how long you in Pattaya" etc. etc.

I'd really like to try and meet a woman with a regular job, who is not a freelancer or bar lady!

Does anybody know of anyplace like that in Pattaya (or anywhere in Thailand for that matter).

You're welcome to PM me if you don't want it to be public knowledge for obvious reasons!

Thanks for the helpl!

16 hours ago, CanadaSam said:

I've noticed that women with jobs at banks, hospitals, etc., simply do not frequent normal bars.

I'm so tired of the exact same bar lady questions "how long you in Pattaya" etc. etc.

I'd really like to try and meet a woman with a regular job, who is not a freelancer or bar lady!

Does anybody know of anyplace like that in Pattaya (or anywhere in Thailand for that matter).

You're welcome to PM me if you don't want it to be public knowledge for obvious reasons!

Thanks for the helpl!

16 hours ago, CanadaSam said:

I've noticed that women with jobs at banks, hospitals, etc., simply do not frequent normal bars.

I'm so tired of the exact same bar lady questions "how long you in Pattaya" etc. etc.

I'd really like to try and meet a woman with a regular job, who is not a freelancer or bar lady!

Does anybody know of anyplace like that in Pattaya (or anywhere in Thailand for that matter).

You're welcome to PM me if you don't want it to be public knowledge for obvious reasons!

Thanks for the helpl!

You need to come to Pattaya... every Thai lady in Pattaya ,so I have been led to believe, wants to try a Farang

1 hour ago, save the frogs said:

That eliminates 90% of the candidates.

Good luck.

Pattaya is a fake construct tourism city.

I'm living there for 3 months now and I find the only thing that attracts me there is high way 304 back to a bit of civility

16 hours ago, CanadaSam said:

I'd really like to try and meet a woman with a regular job, who is not a freelancer or bar lady!

Does anybody know of anyplace like that in Pattaya (or anywhere in Thailand for that matter).

I don't know specific about Pattaya, but would suggest you head to more "normal" venues like trendy cafés — which could be in shopping malls — pubs and nightlife where Thais are hanging out.

Where I live — Koh Samui — "normal Thai ladies" do enjoy life fully, heading for places named above, but also for beach parties and night clubs that down here are mixed with both foreign audience and Thai audience, including borth part time free-lancers and plain normal working ladies that wish some fun. The latter often comes in a small group of girlie friends — some of them dreams about meeting the faring-knight on a white horse — if the are together with Thai men, they are likely not items you should try to mingle with.

2 minutes ago, Rams86 said:

I'm living there for 3 months now and I find the only thing that attracts me there is high way 304 back to a bit of civility

I met a girl who runs a smoothie shop.

She said she is divorced with a daughter.

I asked if her daughter lives with her and she said she lives with her father in Bangkok because she doesn't want her exposed to the bar scene.

Sad that her daughter can't even live with her there, but she is earning selling smoothies to mostly tourists doing things she wouldn't want her daughter to know about.

Edited August 3Aug 3 by save the frogs

3 minutes ago, Rams86 said:

I'm living there for 3 months now and I find the only thing that attracts me there is high way 304 back to a bit of civility

National Highway 304 runs Pak Kret to Nakhon Ratchasima.

You kknow this thread is about Pattaya ?

My opinion for what it is worth, is if you want to meet a lady, friend of a friend is the best route to go down. In my time (16 years) I have heard real horror stories from people about teachers and nurses, it is quite likely they have the biggest debt because it is easier to get a loan

21 minutes ago, wombat said:

You need to come to Pattaya... every Thai lady in Pattaya ,so I have been led to believe, wants to try a Farang

Every Thai woman the length and breadth of the country who has never "gone caucasian" would love to try a farang, not least because they are told from their early years that we are better endowed and generally more skilful and considerate lovers. Its only natural that they should be curious , just like white women with black guys, and just like white women , women will never admit their fantasies and Thai women are no different.

Sadly , reality often bears little resemblance to peoples fantasies , as I have demonstrated to many women over the years

Just now, Expat68 said:

My opinion for what it is worth, is if you want to meet a lady, friend of a friend is the best route to go down. In my time (16 years) I have heard real horror stories from people about teachers and nurses, it is quite likely they have the biggest debt because it is easier to get a loan

Teachers are teachers the world over, and are best avoided at all costs nurses are a different breed altogether

17 hours ago, CanadaSam said:

I've noticed that women with jobs at banks, hospitals, etc., simply do not frequent normal bars.

What is a normal bar? What is the definition of normal to any specific individual?

Many decades ago had asked the question “what is normal?” to a wise insightful mentor and instead going off on a long winded fluffy filled explanation, he simply muttered “normal is whatever is normal for a person”.

So with that, you will find folks in settings that are normal for them to frequent and be in where they feel comfortable and normal. Take Pattaya for instance, personally don’t consider it a normal place for the likes of me to be, yet for whatever strange reason that I can’t wrap my head around is why would anyone want to live in such an abnormal environment.

Edited August 3Aug 3 by novacova

The normal girls at 7-11 will sell you a beer. Sit out front on the curb and imagine you are in a bar.

the only such bar i knew of is green bottle, but thats been closed for decades.

what you would look for is a bar with live music

25 minutes ago, Expat68 said:

My opinion for what it is worth, is if you want to meet a lady, friend of a friend is the best route to go down.

Tried that and it always resulted in failure by either too desperate or horizontally challenged as my personal preference is women who are calm confident collective and @~155cm/40kg.

10 minutes ago, novacova said:

Take Pattaya for instance, personally don’t consider it a normal place for the likes of me to be, yet for whatever strange reason that I can’t wrap my head around is why would anyone want to live in such an abnormal environment.

That's just your limited perspective of the place. I used to spend half a year living in a bungalow on an island beach. Is that normal?

Normal is you, not the place.

Yours is just a narrowminded view. If you mostly just hung around the sleazy and dirty parts of the town, your view will be formed around your personal experience. When in Pattaya, where I stay has no bars at all.

If you stay away from that side of things and have normal relationships, you might have quite a different perspective.

6 minutes ago, novacova said:

women who are calm confident collective

I think you might have meant collected.

Looking for women in bars...when will they grow up?

6 minutes ago, IsmeUno said:

That's just your limited perspective of the place. I used to spend half a year living in a bungalow on an island beach. Is that normal?

Normal is you, not the place.

Yours is just a narrowminded view. If you mostly just hung around the sleazy and dirty parts of the town, your view will be formed around your personal experience. When in Pattaya, where I stay has no bars at all.

If you stay away from that side of things and have normal relationships, you might have quite a different perspective.

Never been there so sure it’s my personal presumption and am the owner of it. And will add, personally don’t like areas that have beach tourists that typically draws a broad range of people including the worst of the worst.

9 minutes ago, IsmeUno said:

I think you might have meant collected.

Yes, thanks.

22 minutes ago, novacova said:

Never been there so sure it’s my personal presumption and am the owner of it. And will add, personally don’t like areas that have beach tourists that typically draws a broad range of people including the worst of the worst.

That's really nonsense...

I lived on/at the beach. Not every beach is Patong or Chaweng or...

2 hours ago, MIke B Bad said:

"Normal women" rarely go into bars anywhere in the world unless with a partner or in a group.

It's an interesting concept,

And until I see women in general 'falling in love' and agreeing to marry broke, homeless men with no prospects, I'll continue thinking they're nearly all whores at heart.

After all, most men are happy to marry any woman that appears to be happy to be with them, the women don't even need to look good!

Edited August 3Aug 3 by BritManToo

2 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

It's an interesting concept,

And until I see women in general 'falling in love' and agreeing to marry broke, homeless men with no prospects, I'll continue thinking they're all whores at heart.

That's somewhat bipolar, isn't it? Nothing in between?

I don't show money at all, but yet I have people declaring and demonstrating their love.

It's you...

7 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

It's an interesting concept,

And until I see women in general agreeing to marry broke, homeless men with no prospects, I'll continue thinking they're all whores at heart.

That's ridiculous and absurd, not to mention the misog... how do you spell that?

Finances need to be there for any kind of relationship to exist.