I've noticed that women with jobs at banks, hospitals, etc., simply do not frequent normal bars.

I'm so tired of the exact same bar lady questions "how long you in Pattaya" etc. etc.

I'd really like to try and meet a woman with a regular job, who is not a freelancer or bar lady!

Does anybody know of anyplace like that in Pattaya (or anywhere in Thailand for that matter).

You're welcome to PM me if you don't want it to be public knowledge for obvious reasons!

Thanks for the helpl!

Women with jobs at banks and hospitals don't frequent bars at 11am whether your from Canada or not Sam.

Edited 1 hour ago1 hr by Olmate

3 minutes ago, CanadaSam said:

I've noticed that women with jobs at banks, hospitals, etc., simply do not frequent normal bars.

"normal bars"? LOL.

9 minutes ago, CanadaSam said:

I've noticed that women with jobs at banks, hospitals, etc., simply do not frequent normal bars.

The best women are the ones that never frequent bars at all.

Try dating apps?

Or break a leg and get hospitalized and hit on the nurses.

Could do a webseach :

Bars in Pattaya where women have sex for free ?

There are no specific bars in Pattaya where women provide sexual services for free as a standard business model. Pattaya's nightlife and adult entertainment industry—encompassing gogo bars, beer bars, and gentleman's clubs—operate on a clear commercial system.

12 minutes ago, CanadaSam said:

I'm so tired of the exact same bar lady questions "how long you in Pattaya" etc. etc.

I'd really like to try and meet a woman with a regular job, who is not a freelancer or bar lady!

What Ive found is that once you go the prostitute route for partners, its very dififficlt to go back to normal relationships with females

2 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

The best women are the ones that never frequent bars at all.

Try dating apps?

Or break a leg and get hospitalized and hit on the nurses.

Obviously you are either single, or you found your partner in a bar somewhere

Just now, CallumWK said:

Obviously you are either single, or you found your partner in a bar somewhere

How do you come to that conclusion?

3 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

How do you come to that conclusion?

Because of the incoherent post you made.

Dating apps are the real professionals, while nurses in hospital are from a well off family, as their studies are not cheap, who look down of foreigners

Edited 43 minutes ago43 min by CallumWK

27 minutes ago, dinsdale said:

"normal bars"? LOL.

"Normal clientele"?

11 minutes ago, CallumWK said:

Because of the incoherent post you made.

Dating apps are the real professionals, while nurses in hospital are from a well off family, as their studies are not cheap, who look down of foreigners

Look down on foreigners?

Depends on you, I guess.

I don't subscribe to your sweeping generalization.

1 minute ago, save the frogs said:

Look down on foreigners?

Depends on you, I guess.

I don't subscribe to your sweeping generalization.

So tell us where you got your Isaan darling

A thai women of any decency would generally never be found in a bar alone, you would deal with her best friend sister or whatever too. Secondly they would if going out to drink prefer a place that also has food or live music. So your answers lies there. Pattaya for this being obviously the worst place on earth to do so.

These ladies would also have zero interest in a old farang, in 99% of cases. So basically you are a goner already. Exceptions of girls alone might be in central BKK, with either having studied abroad, being rich and spoiled, or having a history with farangs, basically bad choices in all cases as it never works out anyway.

Generally speaking a foreigner is in almost all cases only trouble and hassle, for any women who has a career on her own unless the farang are already relatively rich, specially in Thailand. Then there is always the girl that pretends to be normal, but she would never date you as a teacher or broke. She will most likely see the long-term potential, or just pretty children with a good passport + financed.

Meanwhile she will then enjoy herself with younger farangs on a holiday, or paid Thai bro's in the clubs for women, more populair than you think, specially in Pattaya and Rayong area. May cater to women. In fact, i have to meet the first married Thai with a farang, that lives in Pattaya, or even most of Thailand, who does not cheat as long it meets her specs and criteria or desires of the day.

They would never leave their farang hubbie, but they sure as hell get the fun elsewhere. Same they do with a thai husband, who then 2 years later shows up at your soon the be former, newly built house.

People often mistake the long game playing decent prostitute who can stay loyal to the main relationship non sexually, to be a legit one. While these are the worst, in a way no better than all the 50% wealth robbers in the west, after 10-15 years raising kids/working ass off.

It's easy to forget that if you assume a 20K monthly wage, that's just 2.2M baht over 10 years, a good deal for a long game example. With other words, people underestimate how patient they are for relatively small sums, and that they burn all ships for it easily. They don't need to convince you to marry and buy a house in year 1-5, to succeed.

Many of them start to talk about this when they get drunk and sit on a table with a few similar ones. If you understand Thai, you know this. If most people understood Thai, they would run away from bars out of just the bad words and intentions alone.

If you ask them openly, without judging it, they will even openly detail you on their plan or their friends current hit and run.

Edited 12 minutes ago12 min by sunrisecoconuts

There are some Thai women with decent careers that still do want a foreigner. Ageism is a real thing in Thailand, so anything over 35 you'd have a decent chance.

Here's one ... a Thai Chinese 46 year old GILF with MBA. I am always proud to post my wife. This was taken yesterday on a beautiful day in amazing toronto ❤️

46 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

The best women are the ones that never frequent bars at all.

Try dating apps?

Or break a leg and get hospitalized and hit on the nurses.

Try a church.

57 minutes ago, Olmate said:

Women with jobs at banks and hospitals don't frequent bars at 11am whether your from Canada or not Sam.