On 8/8/2026 at 7:56 PM, BritManToo said:

As one hooker said to me,

"It doesn't matter how rich, intelligent or powerful a man is, if you learn to tickle his balls the right way, he'll do whatever you want"

If you want to be awoken by roosters and drunks in CM, smoke in the air, 45C heat, everything is in some state of disrepair and breakdown..that's CM.

No it isn't, I've lived in CM for quite a few years now and was never awoken by roosters and drunks or smoke.

There's some pretty noisy frogs and construction sometimes but it's certainly less hot here than in Bangkok. And the air quality is also far better, nine months of the year.

And I can assure you my 4 bedroom house is in mint condition. CM is a superb place to live.

On 8/8/2026 at 7:31 PM, SoCal1990 said:

One person has decades of life experience and a career behind him. The other often barely scraped through primary school,

It doesn’t matter much, one with higher education, she will play higher level of game.

Don’t forget 3rd world, educated or no educated with money or no money, because they all will be hers in the end as planned.

Some western guys arriving for the first time in Thailand in their middle age, or older, discover that sex can be both exciting and fun. It is a powerful attraction, and leads them to put up with other more difficult aspects of their relationships here.

On 8/8/2026 at 1:56 PM, BritManToo said:

As one hooker said to me,

"It doesn't matter how rich, intelligent or powerful a man is, if you learn to tickle his balls the right way, he'll do whatever you want"

And I think she's right about most white western men who have been deprived of frequent sex most of their lives.

I agree- I recall a wealthy divorcee I acted for some years ago

She was good looking and knew what buttons to press with regards to men

She said to me that in her mind men were like a tiled kitchen floor- if they are laid properly the first time you can walk all over them for years

I think she is right

All marriages are pussified to some extent. That’s what makes it work. Good wife, good like. It’s a balance for both yp forgo expectations, of each other, of themselves. In a good relationship, there’s a balance of surrender to the other. One is not surrendering all the time but surrender on one side is necessary.

I’m sure some get suckered in gay relationships, too. In fact, I know two, one Thai, one farang. The Thai bought his boy a taxi and a big spread in Surin with a luxurious house. The farang bought his boy a taxi, too, and foreign passport.

For me, it would be really hard (so to speak) to be with a woman who’s seen a thousand dicks (maybe more). Some guys can just not think of that and build a fruitful relationship anyway.

If not an SO, most women have a really hard time waiting for the long game. I know a very nice, generous and well-off man whose g/f ran off on him stealing two new cars. He’s written her into his will to get half with his son. A guess a life of lying is pretty hard, too.

I completely disagree that both can’t adore each other. We are every bit in love as when we first met.

Yes, she was naive and that was definitely part of her attraction. She had never even held hands with a boy before me.

And when she was 20, she could not pass a mirror anywhere without looking at herself in the mirror and posing to be sexy. She’d spend literally hours in the bathroom looking at herself. So what?

In my house, for 37 years, my wife has made all the decisions…she thinks!

Ahem. Did you miss the memo that “dating” is not a euphemism? It ain’t a movie and popcorn.

For all those with younger women, check out deathclock.com for both of you. It purports to determine the exact date of your death. I live to 95 and my wife dies at 82, four months before.

P.S. why are some OPs complaining about AI? All the news pieces on AN are recreated with AI to avoid copyright!

24 minutes ago, unblocktheplanet said:

All marriages are pussified to some extent. That’s what makes it work. Good wife, good like. It’s a balance for both yp forgo expectations, of each other, of themselves. In a good relationship, there’s a balance of surrender to the other. One is not surrendering all the time but surrender on one side is necessary.

I’m sure some get suckered in gay relationships, too. In fact, I know two, one Thai, one farang. The Thai bought his boy a taxi and a big spread in Surin with a luxurious house. The farang bought his boy a taxi, too, and foreign passport.

For me, it would be really hard (so to speak) to be with a woman who’s seen a thousand dicks (maybe more). Some guys can just not think of that and build a fruitful relationship anyway.

If not an SO, most women have a really hard time waiting for the long game. I know a very nice, generous and well-off man whose g/f ran off on him stealing two new cars. He’s written her into his will to get half with his son. A guess a life of lying is pretty hard, too.

I completely disagree that both can’t adore each other. We are every bit in love as when we first met.

Yes, she was naive and that was definitely part of her attraction. She had never even held hands with a boy before me.

And when she was 20, she could not pass a mirror anywhere without looking at herself in the mirror and posing to be sexy. She’d spend literally hours in the bathroom looking at herself. So what?

In my house, for 37 years, my wife has made all the decisions…she thinks!

Ahem. Did you miss the memo that “dating” is not a euphemism? It ain’t a movie and popcorn.

For all those with younger women, check out deathclock.com for both of you. It purports to determine the exact date of your death. I live to 95 and my wife dies at 82, four months before.

P.S. why are some OPs complaining about AI? All the news pieces on AN are recreated with AI to avoid copyright!

That link is pretty inaccurate. It doesn't ask enough on the top and the BMI is off, and doesn't take into account bodyfat percentage, which is always off with athletes and health conscious.

1 hour ago, L- Lifeline said:

I agree- I recall a wealthy divorcee I acted for some years ago

She was good looking and knew what buttons to press with regards to men

She said to me that in her mind men were like a tiled kitchen floor- if they are laid properly the first time you can walk all over them for years

I think she is right

Funny...that someone posted exactly the same line, three hours before you.

6 hours ago, save the frogs said:

I don't do that.

Isme does.

Don't make up stories...it encourages the weak minded.

Notwithstanding, it's no surprise that we have a notable contingent here expounding the fallacy that you need to pay for a woman's company.

I mean, they are going to say that, aren't they?

They are hardly going to announce that only a simpering cuckold would acquiesce to any and every unreasonable demand made by a woman, simply fuelled by their urge to get his leg over her or to not feel alone.

Of course, in their deluded state, they will try to paint themselves as the real men...as the women walk all over them 😊

The will not ever feel the adulation of a woman. Not ever have a woman bring them gifts from the fruit of her own labours.

Many of these 'real men' readily accept that they are very low on the totem pole of priorities of the women. Literally understanding that if it not for their funding and acquiescing, no relationship between them would exist.

If living such a life makes them happy, that's great. But to expect the men who do not need to buy themselves a woman, to view such weak minded creatures as the 'real men' is simply a bridge too far.

Delude yourself if you wish. Form a group to console each other. But it doesn't change the fact that you are being dominated. Cuckolded in some circumstances.

3 hours ago, Thingamabob said:

Some western guys arriving for the first time in Thailand in their middle age, or older, discover that sex can be both exciting and fun. It is a powerful attraction, and leads them to put up with other more difficult aspects of their relationships here.

Compared to the UK, relationships here are very easy, and with no negatives legal problems if it all goes wrong.

As for "difficult aspects", if the misses changes her mind, no problem I can leave with my (still attractive ) wallet and she will be free to look for a new provider to pay her mortgage.

Thailand is full of single moms aged 25-35 looking for their next meal!

1 minute ago, BritManToo said:

if the misses changes her mind, no problem I can leave with my (still attractive ) wallet and she will be free to look for a new provider to pay her mortgage.

How did she get a mortgage? presumably not working at the time

4 minutes ago, scubascuba3 said:

How did she get a mortgage? presumably not working at the time

Faked wage slips, bank never checked.

5 hours ago, Cameroni said:

No it isn't, I've lived in CM for quite a few years now and was never awoken by roosters and drunks or smoke.

There's some pretty noisy frogs and construction sometimes but it's certainly less hot here than in Bangkok. And the air quality is also far better, nine months of the year.

And I can assure you my 4 bedroom house is in mint condition. CM is a superb place to live.

Are there 3 girlfriends? One in each spare room?

Just now, Rockyroad said:

Are there 3 girlfriends? One in each spare room?

No, just one, the other two girls were just my guests.

Just now, Rockyroad said:

Are there 3 girlfriends? One in each spare room?

3 other phones to check for conversations? He would lose it completely then.

1 hour ago, IsmeUno said:

Don't make up stories...it encourages the weak minded.

Notwithstanding, it's no surprise that we have a notable contingent here expounding the fallacy that you need to pay for a woman's company.

I mean, they are going to say that, aren't they?

They are hardly going to announce that only a simpering cuckold would acquiesce to any and every unreasonable demand made by a woman, simply fuelled by their urge to get his leg over her or to not feel alone.

Of course, in their deluded state, they will try to paint themselves as the real men...as the women walk all over them 😊

The will not ever feel the adulation of a woman. Not ever have a woman bring them gifts from the fruit of her own labours.

Many of these 'real men' readily accept that they are very low on the totem pole of priorities of the women. Literally understanding that if it not for their funding and acquiescing, no relationship between them would exist.

If living such a life makes them happy, that's great. But to expect the men who do not need to buy themselves a woman, to view such weak minded creatures as the 'real men' is simply a bridge too far.

Delude yourself if you wish. Form a group to console each other. But it doesn't change the fact that you are being dominated. Cuckolded in some circumstances.

The irony, Isme. Who is creating stories that, told often enough, become your truth? Not even a clever, or should I say intelligent, attempt 😉

3 minutes ago, Hummin said:

The irony, Isme. Who is creating stories that, told often enough, become your truth? Not even a clever, or should I say intelligent, attempt 😉

What kind of unintelligible rubbish is the above?

I cannot make any sense of it. Can you?

Just stating "the irony", doesn't demonstrate irony. Demonstrate your concept or confirm that you are merely a dunce, pretending.

Of course I understand my truth triggered you. But instead of confronting my post, you post a load of unintelligible nonsense.

Speak up clearly. No riddles. Stand up and be counted.

1 hour ago, IsmeUno said:

Don't make up stories...it encourages the weak minded.

Notwithstanding, it's no surprise that we have a notable contingent here expounding the fallacy that you need to pay for a woman's company.

I mean, they are going to say that, aren't they?

They are hardly going to announce that only a simpering cuckold would acquiesce to any and every unreasonable demand made by a woman, simply fuelled by their urge to get his leg over her or to not feel alone.

Of course, in their deluded state, they will try to paint themselves as the real men...as the women walk all over them 😊

The will not ever feel the adulation of a woman. Not ever have a woman bring them gifts from the fruit of her own labours.

Many of these 'real men' readily accept that they are very low on the totem pole of priorities of the women. Literally understanding that if it not for their funding and acquiescing, no relationship between them would exist.

If living such a life makes them happy, that's great. But to expect the men who do not need to buy themselves a woman, to view such weak minded creatures as the 'real men' is simply a bridge too far.

Delude yourself if you wish. Form a group to console each other. But it doesn't change the fact that you are being dominated. Cuckolded in some circumstances.

You can't even answer basic questions. You are such a pansy.

Edited August 10Aug 10 by Rockyroad

Just now, IsmeUno said:

What kind of unintelligible rubbish is the above?

I cannot make any sense of it. Can you?

Just stating "the irony", doesn't demonstrate irony. Demonstrate your concept or confirm that you are merely a dunce, pretending.

Of course I understand my truth triggered you. But instead of confronting my post, you post a load of unintelligible nonsense.

Speak up clearly. No riddles. Stand up and be counted.

You are not worth my time, Isme. You showed the real you a long time ago.

2 minutes ago, Hummin said:

The irony, Isme. Who is creating stories that, told often enough, become your truth? Not even a clever, or should I say intelligent, attempt 😉

Some assume that all other's women are bought and paid for. These are called generalizations, which has likely gone over his head as he assumes he's somehow above this. They're also called out on their narcissist ways, constant assumptions and limited intelligence, yet it's everyone else who's dense.

Yes, some men use women, take advantage of naive ones, have them pay for things because they think there is gold at the end of that rainbow.

Especially here, when they have failed with western women and come here to fool the naive ones, knowing for a very long time if you flash the cash, they'll flock like seagulls to anyone.

The Don Juans are still around, actually thinking they are above other men who are more handsome, more intelligent, funnier, better providers, not cheapskates, romantic, caring and loving, yet they call them betas, while their pseudo alpha user mentality gets them what they want, precisely because so many women , especially in Thailand, are that naive and easily fooled.

Legends in their own minds for sure, but they do "get" women, so their worries are few, until they get old and are all alone. I had the 10 body and good looks, but like everyone else, you get older, and it slowly goes away, but if you are a decent man, women will find you, even if some of them aren't good company. But as you age, you let the bad ones go a lot faster. The users will age also, and all they'll have left is their inner hatred from a crappy childhood.

Edited August 10Aug 10 by fredwiggy

1 minute ago, Hummin said:

You are not worth my time, Isme. You showed the real you a long time ago.

NowNow, you can't let the BatteringRam get you down, as JakeC was also an imposter, along with his friend Centigrade, his lover Ninja, son in law Figleaf, and ladyboy cousin NextG.

21 minutes ago, Hummin said:

You are not worth my time, Isme. You showed the real you a long time ago.

Exactly. You couldn't back up the rubbish that you posted. Par for the course. Proof positive of your weak mind.

You find the time for posting 💩 Though when it's time for substance, suddenly you don't have time. You merely confirm everything that I asserted. Women can smell your weakness.

21 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

NowNow, you can't let the BatteringRam get you down, as JakeC was also an imposter, along with his friend Centigrade, his lover Ninja, son in law Figleaf, and ladyboy cousin NextG.

Are you his bum buddy? 😊

Of course you are here. Triggered because you fit the description in my earlier post.

27 minutes ago, Hummin said:

You are not worth my time, Isme. You showed the real you a long time ago.

Of course I showed you the real me. That's why I know that you are just another weak minded individual. If I was a fake, I'd be just as confused as you.

1 minute ago, IsmeUno said:

Exactly. You couldn't back up the rubbish that you posted. Par for the course. Proof positive of your weak mind.

You find the time for posting 💩 Though when it's time for substance, suddenly you don't have time. You merely confirm everything that I asserted. Women can smell your weakness.

I have to repeat Rocky’s question. How old is Isme today?

Just now, IsmeUno said:

Of course I showed you the real me. That's why I know that you are just another weak minded individual. If I was a fake, I'd be just as confused as you.

If this is the real you I feel sorry for you and everyone around you !

1 minute ago, IsmeUno said:

Of course I showed you the real me. That's why I know that you are just another weak minded individual. If I was a fake, I'd be just as confused as you.

Daily angry outburts at strangers. Get help dude.

2 minutes ago, Rockyroad said:

Daily angry outburts at strangers. Get help dude.

You're writing that post while looking into a mirror, right? 🪞😁

2 minutes ago, Hummin said:

I have to repeat Rocky’s question. How old is Isme today?

Now you're aligning yourself with @Rockyroad ? 😂 I cannot say that you have sunken to new lows. You were already 👎, you were just masking it.

Better you head back to your showy threads. Show us what you are eating and where you are staying. We need another picture of a steak or a view for which you paid.

Just another loser...with a little bit of cash. 😊

Edited August 10Aug 10 by IsmeUno

3 minutes ago, connda said:

You're writing that post while looking into a mirror, right? 🪞😁

I rarely get angry. Been a Buddhist since 1994.