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Has This Forum's Tone Taken a Turn?

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I've noticed what feels like an uptick in repetitive, hostile, and bigoted posts here lately. Curious if others are seeing the same thing, or if this is just a loud minority making the whole place feel worse than it is ?

Genuinely asking — has the community changed, or is this a smaller group posting a lot? Would like to hear from others

Same, it’s just that many of the same folks have multiple alts to reinforce their frail egos.

It has always been trolled, but the wise-guy section has grown along with the level of contempt people hold for others in general or anyone with a different opinion... but that is just an indicative reflection of how society everywhere now works and has polarized becoming more negative towards others. Best thing to do is to just say what you think and don't react much to any trolling, wise guy, or antagonistic posts as many fail to even understand the posts correct or infer any obvious messaging... just go off on one straight away.

I would lay the blame mostly at the door of the arrival of instant global communication, social media, the internet in general, and the dismantling of basic community everywhere and people, as a result of this, desperately trying to find some meaning and identity or validation in their isolated lives due to the enormity of it all. Many people are isolated and inevitably will struggle with mental issues due to limited real-time meaningful social interaction with others, or seeing the world in such a state and feeling helpless to change anything. I guess forums are an outlet for the steam that builds up and hiding behind a pseudonym and a keyboard tends to bring out the worst in people as there are little consequences to their release of frustration. It is often said that if you want to know what people are really like, go on the internet.

So, yes, it has changed, but so has everything else too and a forum will just manifest/reflect the current psycological trends and reality of the state of humanity in differing societies and situations... in all its sortcomings, as people channel their frustrations loudly to give them the idea that they are perhaps, in some small way, controling or influencing things as a coping mechanism. However, I not a shrink... just a wild guess that has crossed my mind once or twice.

Edited by Sir Dude

56 minutes ago, PhilipHabib said:

I've noticed what feels like an uptick in repetitive, hostile, and bigoted posts here lately. Curious if others are seeing the same thing, or if this is just a loud minority making the whole place feel worse than it is ?

Genuinely asking — has the community changed, or is this a smaller group posting a lot? Would like to hear from others

What do you mean by lately?

Genuine post, I am curious about the period of time you feel this change has occurred in.

There are a few mentalists who like banging on, just avoid those threads, problem solved

1 hour ago, PhilipHabib said:

I've noticed what feels like an uptick in repetitive, hostile, and bigoted posts here lately. Curious if others are seeing the same thing, or if this is just a loud minority making the whole place feel worse than it is ?

Genuinely asking — has the community changed, or is this a smaller group posting a lot? Would like to hear from others

I think most people could list about five or six posters who 'spoil things' ....................and we'd probably come up with the same five or six names names.

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