seonai Posted February 29, 2008 Author Share Posted February 29, 2008 Dreadfully sorry about the location mis representation Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BangnaBound Posted February 29, 2008 Share Posted February 29, 2008 Dreadfully sorry about the location mis representation No problem Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
micksterbs Posted February 29, 2008 Share Posted February 29, 2008 Not if you're on top.Why do men need to do all the work? No, that's not what I meant, Momo8; I didn't explain properly. I didn't mean "perform" as in doing all the work; hey, I like to lie back and enjoy the view every now and then. I meant "perform" as in preserving his erection as long as possible. A woman doesn't need to bother about that and can (if her partner is being attentive) relax and enjoy. The bloke, though, has to continually balance two sets of emotions; wanting to abandon himself to the moment but at the same time, prolong things as long as possible. It's a shame men and women can't swap now and then. It would be a real eye-opener for both! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Screws Posted March 1, 2008 Share Posted March 1, 2008 I have thought about this for many years and would like to ask you gals out there for your opinion... Do you think that men are almost a different species from women and that they are controlled by their d**** What do you think? I vaguely recall a friends gf crawling out of my bed in the early hours of the morning apologising for 'her heart being between her legs' Now what was your question? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Momo8 Posted March 1, 2008 Share Posted March 1, 2008 Not if you're on top.Why do men need to do all the work? No, that's not what I meant, Momo8; I didn't explain properly. I didn't mean "perform" as in doing all the work; hey, I like to lie back and enjoy the view every now and then. I meant "perform" as in preserving his erection as long as possible. A woman doesn't need to bother about that and can (if her partner is being attentive) relax and enjoy. The bloke, though, has to continually balance two sets of emotions; wanting to abandon himself to the moment but at the same time, prolong things as long as possible. It's a shame men and women can't swap now and then. It would be a real eye-opener for both! Haha well my tongue in cheek post then needed clarification.Yes though your take on a guy's perspective is very true,more men need to see that movie 'What Women Want' classic.As for swapping genders hmmm fascinating as long as we can swap back. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kayo Posted March 1, 2008 Share Posted March 1, 2008 I agree with everything Seonai, Kat, Boo, and the other gals say. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sbk Posted March 1, 2008 Share Posted March 1, 2008 I agree with everything Seonai, Kat, Boo, and the other gals say. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Momo8 Posted March 1, 2008 Share Posted March 1, 2008 Wicked hahaha. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Screws Posted March 1, 2008 Share Posted March 1, 2008 I have thought about this for many years and would like to ask you gals out there for your opinion... Do you think that men are almost a different species from women and that they are controlled by their d**** What do you think? I vaguely recall a friends gf crawling out of my bed in the early hours of the morning apologising for 'her heart being between her legs' Now what was your question? BTW, would you care to guess who copped the blame? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
micksterbs Posted March 1, 2008 Share Posted March 1, 2008 Not if you're on top.Why do men need to do all the work? No, that's not what I meant, Momo8; I didn't explain properly. I didn't mean "perform" as in doing all the work; hey, I like to lie back and enjoy the view every now and then. I meant "perform" as in preserving his erection as long as possible. A woman doesn't need to bother about that and can (if her partner is being attentive) relax and enjoy. The bloke, though, has to continually balance two sets of emotions; wanting to abandon himself to the moment but at the same time, prolong things as long as possible. It's a shame men and women can't swap now and then. It would be a real eye-opener for both! Haha well my tongue in cheek post then needed clarification.Yes though your take on a guy's perspective is very true,more men need to see that movie 'What Women Want' classic.As for swapping genders hmmm fascinating as long as we can swap back. Well, I haven't seen that movie. But going by what women have told me over the years, I'm always happy to give them "what they want" and that quite often doesn't involve a d*** at all... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sibeymai Posted March 7, 2008 Share Posted March 7, 2008 I would venture to say that part of the reason for the apparent difference in sex drive between males and females is that women can almost always get sex whenever they want (perhaps not always with who they want) therefore it doesn't need to be that high on their priority list whereas it is more difficult for men to find sexual partners so they are always looking for the opportunity. Simply, take one average male and one average female, place in a social environment with other people and tell them each to find someone to have sex with. Guaranteed the woman will find a willing male partner before the male finds a willing female almost every time. Or in other words, how many men would a woman have to offer sex to before her offer was accepted compared to how many woman would a man have to proposition before a woman accepted ? Anyone know any statistics on this ? Thus explained is men's apparent pre-occupation with sex, in my opinion, for single males at least. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
suegha Posted March 7, 2008 Share Posted March 7, 2008 Perhaps a slightly 'over-simple' definition of the differences there sibeymai! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RueFang Posted March 7, 2008 Share Posted March 7, 2008 Interesting theory! Women are infinitely more perceptive then men, therefore more adept at picking up signals of attraction (and being able to act on them), whereas most men don't tend to pick up on the signals, requiring a straightforward "take me home and ---- me" kind of deal. Perhaps that fits in with your theory somewhat? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AlexLah Posted March 7, 2008 Share Posted March 7, 2008 Hi OP, I am not really sure what you mean by your statement/question. Can you explain a bit more please? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
seonai Posted March 7, 2008 Author Share Posted March 7, 2008 Hi Alex Lah, I meant... do most men find that the antics of their willy controls a large part of their life? Like women are led to believe that me are 'at the mercy' of their willys. How true is this? I ask to learn and I have a teenage son who is obsessed with his... is this normal? If a woman doesn't have a sexual partner I don't think she craves sex as much as men seem to??? It's hard to put into words... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
khall64au Posted March 8, 2008 Share Posted March 8, 2008 I just found an excellent book ' Why Men Don't Listen and Women Can't Read Maps' by Allan Pease - it's all about willy's and brains - check it out!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
seonai Posted March 8, 2008 Author Share Posted March 8, 2008 Hey you!!! Where ya been xx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jandajoy Posted March 8, 2008 Share Posted March 8, 2008 My you love your posts Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kat Posted March 8, 2008 Share Posted March 8, 2008 I just found an excellent book ' Why Men Don't Listen and Women Can't Read Maps' by Allan Pease - it's all about willy's and brains - check it out!!! Hey Khall! I hope your transition is going smoothly, or at least promisingly. I'm more on the promise side at this point. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
seonai Posted March 8, 2008 Author Share Posted March 8, 2008 My you love your posts And what is that supposed to mean Jandanotjoy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
0Mix1up Posted March 8, 2008 Share Posted March 8, 2008 No teenage boy wants to know his mother (or father for that matter) is interested in that so tread carefully. We have something that sticks out, makes its presence known regularly, and is a handy shape. Most young boys sitting in a bath playing, find out how it works and can make it happen quickly. Because of that we mature and are more experienced/interested in self pleasure earlier than females. In general that is. I beleive. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
suegha Posted March 9, 2008 Share Posted March 9, 2008 Is a handy shape? Nice one mate, really made me laugh. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AlexLah Posted March 9, 2008 Share Posted March 9, 2008 Hi Alex Lah,I meant... do most men find that the antics of their willy controls a large part of their life? Like women are led to believe that me are 'at the mercy' of their willys. How true is this? I ask to learn and I have a teenage son who is obsessed with his... is this normal? If a woman doesn't have a sexual partner I don't think she craves sex as much as men seem to??? It's hard to put into words... Hi Seonai you are asking a few different questions here. It seems to me your main question is about your son being obsessed with his willy. I do not know what your son is doing so please explain. I for sure know that when I was young I did not show any behaviour that would make my parents think I was obsessed with my willy. Also I do not remember any other kids showing an obsession. Your other concern about If a woman doesn't have a sexual partner I don't think she craves sex as much as men seem to??? This differs from people to people, I know many men that really do not think of sex when talking/meeting with a girl (me included), on the other side I know some girls that think of sex with whatever guy they meet. You wanna talk about it? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tamsin Posted March 10, 2008 Share Posted March 10, 2008 The answer to the topic title is all a little too obvious isn't it? I mean, we constantly hear about farang couples coming to make a new life in Thailand, and the husband leaving farang wife for some thai prostitute. Now. Do we ever hear of the reverse? What are the statistics of Farang Man obeying dictates of his dick, to Farang Woman, ditching aging flabby husband for younger Thai man? Anyone? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
suegha Posted March 10, 2008 Share Posted March 10, 2008 The answer to the topic title is all a little too obvious isn't it? I mean, we constantly hear about farang couples coming to make a new life in Thailand, and the husband leaving farang wife for some thai prostitute. Now. Do we ever hear of the reverse? What are the statistics of Farang Man obeying dictates of his dick, to Farang Woman, ditching aging flabby husband for younger Thai man? Anyone? Well, I for one, do not think that this is the answer to the question! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Momo8 Posted March 10, 2008 Share Posted March 10, 2008 Lead us not into temptation.....because we are already there. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
suegha Posted March 10, 2008 Share Posted March 10, 2008 Lead us not into temptation.....because we are already there. Hey Momo, you know this is one of my specialist areas. It should read "And lead us, not into temptation, but deliver us from evil:" The comma after us makes a huge difference! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
seonai Posted March 10, 2008 Author Share Posted March 10, 2008 It does indeed Tiggy Wiggy. Alex Lah... I don't know how to explain my question. I've read so much in books and magazines about men being semi controlled by their 'bits' as their desires are stronger than women's (generalsing) etc so I just wanted to understand. Other friends with sons the same age say they are also obsessed by their bits, I guess it's puberty and self discovery. My son and I have a very open relationship where he can talk to me about anything so he tells me how he feels etc, I mean not in huge detail but he does say about his willy standing up etc in the morning. Now I've noticed he covers himself if this happens and he has to walk past me and he has, in the last year, wanted total privacy in the bathroom. I guess this is all part of growing up Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lioness Posted March 10, 2008 Share Posted March 10, 2008 Want and Need, not the same thing. I don't think most men need several partners, they need to feel that they have still got what it takes to attract a woman. This applies for women with more than one partner as well. I think that old joke that Suegha reminded us of may have some truth in it. I remember years ago a woman aquaintance in the UK had badgered her husband about wanting a fur coat, he kept saying no. In bed one night and at about the point of no return for the man she put everything on hold and asked for the fur coat, anything, anything darling, now can we just get on with it... Needless to say she got the fur coat. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mssabai Posted March 11, 2008 Share Posted March 11, 2008 Are you serious Alex Lah? I think you made need to ask your mum again about what you did when you were 3 years old. I guess you have not been around young boys much since then either. All of them, without exception (and I do teach kindergarden so believe I am talking from experience) have a big fascination with their willies. Much more so than girls and their bits. Of course young girls take a pretty scientific interest too - it's all about discovering that you are a human and what that involves, but boys way surpass girls on this fascination. From the ages of 3-4 my younger brother literally hand his hand superglued to his bits to the point that it could get a little embaressing. My opinion is that most men still would be like this if it was culturally acceptable...in fact many still are, who has seen their other half watch TV with his hand down the front of his jeans? How many women do you see doing that? Same goes for scratching and 'readjusting' - would you ever see a woman doing that in public without thinking it was a little odd?? Don't really feel I can comment on the male sex drive, but if you look at evolutionary theory it makes a lot of sense that men would have a higher one than women and would also explain the penis worship... This does not mean that women do not have a high sex drive, only that most would prefer to act on a sex drive within a secure relationship. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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