From: "why Those Beautiful Thai Women Fall For Us,farang

[Bizz]

love and money go together for a thai woman this is what i have been told.

i aint foolen myself true love and marriages made in heaven do not exist.

I once taught they did.

[maimaj]

britmaveric - I'm romantic sap tooO! Hehe... "What the world needs now is - Love, sweet love - that's the only thing"...lalala...

gburns57au - I hate to admit it, but the Darwinist in me has to say you're right. Women look for stability - whether it's financially or emotionally (although most tend to go for emotional stabilty).

[britmaveric]

Love, love, love, love, love, love, love, love, love.

There's nothing you can do that can't be done.

Nothing you can sing that can't be sung.

Nothing you can say but you can learn how to play the game

It's easy.

There's nothing you can make that can't be made.

No one you can save that can't be saved.

Nothing you can do but you can learn how to be in time

It's easy.

All you need is love, all you need is love,

All you need is love, love, love is all you need.

Love, love, love, love, love, love, love, love, love.

All you need is love, all you need is love,

All you need is love, love, love is all you need.

There's nothing you can know that isn't known.

Nothing you can see that isn't shown.

Nowhere you can be that isn't where you're meant to be.

It's easy.

All you need is love, all you need is love,

All you need is love, love, love is all you need.

All you need is love (all together now)

All you need is love (everybody)

All you need is love, love, love is all you need.

-Beatles

[maimaj]

*skipping to the beat* Love, love, love, love, love, love, love, love, love.

[bkkmadness]

Love, love, love, love, love, love, love, love, love.

There's nothing you can do that can't be done.

Nothing you can sing that can't be sung.

Nothing you can say but you can learn how to play the game

It's easy.

There's nothing you can make that can't be made.

No one you can save that can't be saved.

Nothing you can do but you can learn how to be in time

It's easy.

All you need is love, all you need is love,

All you need is love, love, love is all you need.

Love, love, love, love, love, love, love, love, love.

All you need is love, all you need is love,

All you need is love, love, love is all you need.

There's nothing you can know that isn't known.

Nothing you can see that isn't shown.

Nowhere you can be that isn't where you're meant to be.

It's easy.

All you need is love, all you need is love,

All you need is love, love, love is all you need.

All you need is love (all together now)

All you need is love (everybody)

All you need is love, love, love is all you need.

-Beatles

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I bet you had to google that!

[bangkokStranger]

Even back in the caveman days, the best hunter would have more potential wives to choose from because of his ability to provide even if he was the ugliest man in the tribe as would the bravest fighter. He in turn would select who he perceived to be the best partner to continue the bloodline, not necessarily the best looking girl either.

I have to say i agree with most of the things you said but id love to know which archiologist you sourced that info from, and also how the archiologist made this assumption, hieroglyphics possibly??.

[thaivisitor]

i just don't think that money is always the number one thing thai girls are looking for.

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Sorry, Couldn't help myself stop laughing.

[britmaveric]

Love, love, love, love, love, love, love, love, love.

There's nothing you can do that can't be done.

Nothing you can sing that can't be sung.

Nothing you can say but you can learn how to play the game

It's easy.

There's nothing you can make that can't be made.

No one you can save that can't be saved.

Nothing you can do but you can learn how to be in time

It's easy.

All you need is love, all you need is love,

All you need is love, love, love is all you need.

Love, love, love, love, love, love, love, love, love.

All you need is love, all you need is love,

All you need is love, love, love is all you need.

There's nothing you can know that isn't known.

Nothing you can see that isn't shown.

Nowhere you can be that isn't where you're meant to be.

It's easy.

All you need is love, all you need is love,

All you need is love, love, love is all you need.

All you need is love (all together now)

All you need is love (everybody)

All you need is love, love, love is all you need.

-Beatles

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I bet you had to google that!

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Yes/No - I know the lyrics, but too lazy to type them. (cut/paste much easier)

[Maigo6]

love and money go together for a thai woman this is what i have been told.

i aint foolen myself true love and marriages made in heaven do not exist.

I once taught they did.

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And money is not a factor for western women?

[maimaj]

Even back in the caveman days, the best hunter would have more potential wives to choose from because of his ability to provide even if he was the ugliest man in the tribe as would the bravest fighter. He in turn would select who he perceived to be the best partner to continue the bloodline, not necessarily the best looking girl either.

I have to say i agree with most of the things you said but id love to know which archiologist you sourced that info from, and also how the archiologist made this assumption, hieroglyphics possibly??.

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Mapping Human History - Unraveling the Mystery of Adam and Eve by Steve Olson and the BBC did a telly programme on what our attraction to the opposite sex stems from - forgot the name of it, but it was pretty cool - sorry, I'm a nerd

[thaivisitor]

i just don't think that money is always the number one thing thai girls are looking for. they are as human as the rest of us, and they want a happy relationship in the end as well.

i guess your point was that money makes them happy, but i really haven't noticed this among thai women, except the occasional BG or middle class golddigger.

i would say it is more a combination of money and good heart they are looking for.

I agree - they are looking for some sucker that doesn't play around on them at the massage parlour every day.

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Who are you implying would be spending their time at the massage parlour? Based on the conduct of the 100+ farang I know here and the countless Thai men here in BKK....well I'd have to say that the jury would be out as to who is the less faithful....

Or have you got some interesting theory to add to this?

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Maybe he should use "agogo bars" instead?

[gburns57au]

Even back in the caveman days, the best hunter would have more potential wives to choose from because of his ability to provide even if he was the ugliest man in the tribe as would the bravest fighter. He in turn would select who he perceived to be the best partner to continue the bloodline, not necessarily the best looking girl either.

I have to say i agree with most of the things you said but id love to know which archiologist you sourced that info from, and also how the archiologist made this assumption, hieroglyphics possibly??.

I googled....

nah really I just read a lot

[gburns57au]

britmaveric - I'm romantic sap tooO! Hehe... "What the world needs now is - Love, sweet love - that's the only thing"...lalala...

gburns57au - I hate to admit it, but the Darwinist in me has to say you're right. Women look for stability - whether it's financially or emotionally (although most tend to go for emotional stabilty).

Thanks muchly....

[Boo]

A lot of women ( of any nationality) don't need money or financial stability from a man, I am one of them, I earn more than my husband, always have done. He isn't bothered by it & neither am I.

I personally feel that people go for a type, I don't go for guys who flash money around & it isn't a requirement for me to have a partner with money. I was taught to look after my self & not rely too heavily on another person as they may not always be there. Many women of a certain age find themselves alone after a long period of reliance on a man for their bread & butter, I don't intend to be in that situation.

If a women wants money, she can either go earn it herself if she has the chance, like me, or find someone with it to give to them.

Men also have a type & some like women who don't rely on them financially but a lot of men like being the main provider & being the "man" in terms of money IMO. I gives them a sense of purpose & also allows them, to a degree, to have a larger say so in their partners life.

Either way, it's all good, but don't assume that just cause you attract/are attracted to women who like your money, that we are all like it.

[gburns57au]

Either way, it's all good, but don't assume that just cause you attract/are attracted to women who like your money, that we are all like it.

Would never assume that Boo

[Cpt_M0ney_Sh0t]

<--------- Everyone Loves a Mandingo!

Oh wait, you said farang....hmm good question

[thaivisitor]

A lot of women ( of any nationality) don't need money or financial stability from a man, I am one of them, I earn more than my husband, always have done.  He isn't bothered by it & neither am I.

Either way, it's all good, but don't assume that just cause you attract/are attracted to women who like your money, that we are all like it.

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I don't think anybody is assuming that here.

They are generally discussing "why Those Beautiful Thai Women Fall For Us,farang" and fellow readers just posts their opinion (while I just try to read and digest since I'm a non farang) and seriously, I'm amused at some of the answers.

[Boo]

my post was for the benefit of the people who have posted that all women would go for a guy for money & that we all need security & financial assistance.

Glad it amused.

[anna234cn]

hehe, good topic. What I wanna say some gals go for money; some gals go for curiosity; for some other gals, its just feelings. In my opinion, Thai guys are a bit feminine(Hope Thai guys wont get angry when they hear this). And white guys have bigger chest which gives women more sense of security.

[thaivisitor]

Actually, I find the answers that compared Farang to Thai men a little ridiculous. The topic is OK but I thought that answers will be more straight forward giving reasons concerning themselves (farangs).

The topic could have been "Why Those Beautiful Thai Women Fall For Us, farang" or "Why Those Beautiful Thai Women Fall For Us, Thai guys" or "Why Those Beautiful Thai Women Fall For Us, Asian guys", etc, etc unless someone here is saying that majority of the beautiful girls in Thailand are all married to or falling for farangs. Is that the case?

The answers to the OP should be for the farangs to at least tell us why his thai girl falls for him, and shouldn't be comparing to any other races especially speaking ill of them or else there is no end to it.

Just my 2 baht worth of observation.

[gburns57au]

hehe, good topic. What I wanna say some gals go for money; some gals go for curiosity; for some other gals, its just feelings. In my opinion, Thai guys are a bit feminine(Hope Thai guys wont get angry when they hear this). And white guys have bigger chest which gives women more sense of security.

Some men get security from a big chest too.....Oooops....PC incorrect again.

That was the point of my posts, that Thai women and any women have many reasons why they hook up with a guy, but that it is rarely for love on its own. Women and men do seek more from a relationship other than love.

I dont mean any offence in making that statement

[gburns57au]

Actually, I find the answers that compared Farang to Thai men a little ridiculous. The topic is OK but I thought that answers will be more straight forward giving reasons concerning themselves (farangs).

The topic could have been "Why Those Beautiful Thai Women Fall For Us, farang" or "Why Those Beautiful Thai Women Fall For Us, Thai guys" or "Why Those Beautiful Thai Women Fall For Us, Asian guys", etc, etc unless someone here is saying that majority of the beautiful girls in Thailand are all married to or falling for farangs. Is that the case?

The answers to the OP should be for the farangs to at least tell us why his thai girl falls for him, and shouldn't be comparing to any other races especially speaking ill of them or else there is no end to it.

Just my 2 baht worth of observation.

The Op claims to be a female.....

[anna234cn]

Women and men do seek more from a relationship other than love.

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I agree. hehe

[thaivisitor]

Actually, I find the answers that compared Farang to Thai men a little ridiculous. The topic is OK but I thought that answers will be more straight forward giving reasons concerning themselves (farangs).

The topic could have been "Why Those Beautiful Thai Women Fall For Us, farang" or "Why Those Beautiful Thai Women Fall For Us, Thai guys" or "Why Those Beautiful Thai Women Fall For Us, Asian guys", etc, etc unless someone here is saying that majority of the beautiful girls in Thailand are all married to or falling for farangs. Is that the case?

The answers to the OP should be for the farangs to at least tell us why his thai girl falls for him, and shouldn't be comparing to any other races especially speaking ill of them or else there is no end to it.

Just my 2 baht worth of observation.

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The Op claims to be a female.....

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Yes, I've read his... I mean.. her post stating that.

[creation2474]

well .. if  you wanna  talk  a bout  big  willy .. white  people might have that advantage ..

but the nature is not that cruel .. in asian males have  compensate  thing ..  when  erection..

white =  soft hardon

asian = hard  hardon

am i right?

(anyway the  big deal is not a  thing in your pants ..but its just a  thing in  your  skull and  in your  chest)

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No.

[thaivisitor]

well .. if  you wanna  talk  a bout  big  willy .. white  people might have that advantage ..

but the nature is not that cruel .. in asian males have  compensate  thing ..  when  erection..

white =  soft hardon

asian = hard  hardon

am i right?

(anyway the  big deal is not a  thing in your pants ..but its just a  thing in  your  skull and  in your  chest)

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No.

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Sorry to be a little out of topic.

I thought the blacks are the one with the really big willies, granted a few whites porn actors are also big (that's why they're acting).

As for soft or hard hardon, I don't think anyone is going to admit their race are generally softer and I don't think there will be any credible surveys to really differentiate that.

But a matter of interest will be to look at the origins of most "penis enhancement" companies and see where they're from and their target markets.

Edited December 17, 2005 by thaivisitor

[Huangy]

Funny how this seems to come up everywhere. While new to this site, Thailand and things Thai, I have spent considerable time in Taiwan and on Taiwan related forums. The usual questions arise in Taiwan similar to here, like how come they like us?

Seems to me that in Thailand the big complicating factor (compared to Taiwan) is the relative poverty, which suggest there are likely to indeed be more gold diggers out there. But what's funny is all the other answers backed up in this thread are said in Taiwan.

Likewise the issue of Taiwanese vs foreign men, behaviour, etc. It seems to me that there is a generalisation among some not just Thai, but also Taiwanese, Chinese and other Asian women that a farang husband is likely to be a good catch relative to the men of their own country. And guess what? Most often they are the women we farang tend to meet. It's uncanny, no?

This is true in the case of my former Taiwanese wife and current Thai girlfriend. However, since there are oodles of happy loving Thai families out there, ipso facto, there must also be oodles of loving and caring, etc, Thai/Taiwanese men.

Generalisations about dick size are plain boring, and so is running down the local men. While I understand the odd need to vent and generalise as a survival tool living in a foreign country, particularly on a vastly expat website, it's always good to keep a check on it.

Why you meet and are attracted to anyone is such an outrageously muli-faceted beastie, it's simply best not to generalise. Still I take on board the intent of the OP and agree that it is good to get some of the other reasons out for why Thai women are attraced to farangs, aside from the stereotypical answer, money.

In my case, cos we liked each other.

Huangy.

Edited December 17, 2005 by Huangy

[kat]

But it is inherant in human beings that generally women will look for someone who can provide for them, Men on the other hand look for someone to continue the bloodline with. As civilised as we are, we are still tribal deep down.

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That's your opinion, and it is an easy generalisation to feel comfortable within a world which is complex and full of people who do not fit your generalisation.

Sorry, I can't agree with you, perhaps it's more important and accurate what people say about themselves, than what you like to think they are...

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It is not my opinion but a scientific fact

Take away all the trappings of modern life and we would all revert to the basic and primitive instincts that lay within us all. That includes mate selection.

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Meanwhile, while "the trappings of modern life" are, indeed, not yet removed, perhaps you could respond to what people say about themselves, rather than what you consider to be "scientific fact"?

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You seem to be missing the point.....what people say about themselves is irrelevant to what I have said.

In this topic we are talking about why Thai women go with farang men. There are many here that say it is because of love alone. I dont go along with this view.

They go with farang men for many reasons, but rarely for love alone. I merely have stated that it is inherent in most women to select a partner that provide security and stability for them. Whether this be emotional, financial or whatever.

Even back in the caveman days, the best hunter would have more potential wives to choose from because of his ability to provide even if he was the ugliest man in the tribe as would the bravest fighter. He in turn would select who he perceived to be the best partner to continue the bloodline, not necessarily the best looking girl either.

In todays world, little has changed. A woman may meet a man she is physically attracted to but unless he can provide for her needs and desires then it all amounts to nothing.

In the Thai girl scenario it is the same, Most of the girls I have met are looking for someone who can provide to their needs and this does include financial stability. They are looking for the best deal they can get, but..... this doesnt mean the richest man...they are happy to settle with a good hearted man of modest means as long as they are provided for and they can see that the man is doing the best he can to provide that support.

On the other side of the coin, and this is for Kat and Girlsx as well, an independant woman who is financially secure will still look for a man who can provide her with the emotional security she desires. Again he may not be the most handsome of men as long as he provides for her needs emotionally.

Men and women dont change from race to race or area to area, we all have inherent needs and desires that need to be satisfied by our partners. If those basic needs are not satisfied then there is no relationship. These needs and desires are instinctive in us all.

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You seem to backtrack a bit. In your earlier posts, you said "all women" look for financial security in a mate. That has now been contradicted by Western women that post on this board. Then you try to belittle these opinions as "PC", because they expose your assumptions.

Let me make the obvious clear: we do not all live in caves anymore. Many women from the Western Hemisphere no longer need to view potential mates as a career option with future security benefits. Over the last 40 years, things have changed for most women in the West. These same changes have not yet occured for the most part in the East. These biological needs that you are postulating about women, are largely influenced by society. We all have needs, but they are met in different ways, depending on our options. Women in the West now have many more options then they did 40-50 years ago, and most definitely since we've all been living as hunters and gatherers

But yes, I will agree with your most recent update. Of course I look for emotional security, but that is much different than your first point. I also look for the alpha male sometimes, but that really doesn't depend on his bank account

Humans change somewhat from race to race (inevitable biology), but we are all humans and have the same basic needs to stay alive and viable. However, cultures vary tremendously, and that is the vehicle through which we all learn how to satisfy those needs.

"Women like me" are just looking to be happy and respected, and loved well. I'm looking for a mate and companion - a partner. Everything else is a bonus.

Edited December 17, 2005 by kat

[thaivisitor]

If I were to take the Topic at face value "Why Those Beautiful Thai Women Fall For Us, Farang" and based my analysis on the posts here and in some other threads, here's how I, as a non farang will assume.

There was a post whereby a farang posted that 75.5% of farang's wives were from the bars and I do not see anybody refute his statement. Also here, there was also a kind of statement whereby it was also mentioned to that effect with no one refuting.

So, I assume that many farangs meet their beautiful thai women in such surroundings. Am I not right?

If such is the case, I really have to put aside the "love" aspect in the relationship and put in the money aspect or financial security, stability, etc, etc. Whatever nicer phrase you want to call it.

Let me just give you an example. Do you think as a farang it is easy to hook up a bargirl? I mean, you go to a bar, maybe book a girl to your liking for a few days. Do you think if you were to ask her to be your tirak, share the same apartment with you, even support her so that she don't have to be in the line, what are the chances you will succeed?

Assuming you didn't mistreat her during your bookings, would you say, "easily?" They few farangs friends I had would even take me on a bet that they can do that.

So if we were to say these beautiful Thai women are attracted to these guys because of love and not money, I think we're trying to kid ourselves.

It is the same here in the South (Hatyai). At my age of 44, I can also take on a bet that 9 out of 10 times I could easily hooked myself up with a Thai girl whose 21 years old, based on the same principles.

Also, as in any matters, there are always some exceptions.

Edited December 17, 2005 by thaivisitor

[gburns57au]

You seem to backtrack a bit.  In your earlier posts, you said "all women" look for financial security in a mate.  That has now been contradicted by Western women that post on this board.  Then you try to belittle these opinions as "PC", because they expose your assumptions. 

Kat my dear, please read my posts again.....I just did and again I cant see anywhere where I made a statement saying all women. If you assumed I was commenting on all women, I can only suggest that you were reading into it what you wanted to read not what I was really saying.

Only 3 women have made opposing comments, about the same number of posters supported my comments with one actually recognising the source.

I dont believe I have belittled anyones opinions as PC, and as one poster pointed out, these are not my assumptions but statements made in regard to Darwins theory.

You also seem to read that I have made my comments in regard to financial security only, when I have said a number of times now that I was not talking about solely that but rather security and stability in a number of ways.

One of my other points was about inherited instincts....the human being is nothing more than a pack animal, albeit a highly civilised pack animal. We respond to different stimuli in an instinctive manner that goes back to the earliest Humans. These instincts will always be there no matter how technological advanced we get. They are the basic instincts in each and every one of us that is required for survival.