Nightmare "you Gotta Go" Stories

[maipenrai2010]

In my Thailand, Christmas comes around several times a year where I tip the condo security crew with booze as a preemptive measure to pending troubles with the opposite gender.

I find it easy finding women who want to move in with me but getting them out is an entirely different ordeal. Given Thailand is the penis reattachment surgery capital of the world, I'm very careful in my evictions.

I have dialed 191 last month and the responding officer suggested I pay the girl (a nurse) who had been sitting with her back propped against my door until I would come out to let her back in.

Do you have any entertaining nightmare breakup stories? Ever change hotels to prevent yourself from certain drama?

[CHdiver]

If its such a big problem for you, and you are in Pattaya, why not using the offered services by the night. Less hassle and more honest then exchanging your modell, I mean livein, several times a year (you do not want to tell me you fall in love every time, lust maybe)....

[Portlandstone]

Whatever happened with the 'nurse' that put her back to your door?

Actually this is a real issue in Thailand, but from your post I'm not sure if you are joking or not. I've been in TL for about 5 months this time around, in BKK, and I've found that we westerners think a date is a date, sex is sex, and adults are adults. These Thai people seem to be from a different planet. I've been mostly with 'normal' women (not sex-workers) and I'm really surprised at their attitute of entitlement. Had bad sex with one woman that lasted 3 minutes, now it seems she wants indefinate payback -- primarily as a free language buddy, and she's getting wierd about it. A real headache. Another girl I never did a thing with, held hands for about 2.5 seconds, casually patted her knee once when we were sitting. Now she shows up at my apartment lobby and waits for over an hour, chatting with the security guard saying who knows what! My phone rings off the hook, but for a twist, she won't read nor respond to my sms messages. It's her way or no way, it seems.

Are you having your situations because you are in Pattaya? Strangely, the few 'working girls' I've been with have been no real problem. It's the 'upper class' women that have proven really deceptive.

Anyhow I know what you are saying, when I was in other Asian countries I didn't hesitate, if needed, to be smug and direct -- if the sex went south I'd let the girl it's time to move on, since bad sex usually means she has different ideas in mind. In Thailand, doing so looks like it could bring trouble. For any of you guys that don't already know, in my experience some of these 'dignified' looking women around Bangkok -- smart looking clothes, college education, pleasant personality -- seem to go south all of a sudden like.

[jayjayjayjay]

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- if the sex went south I'd let the girl it's time to move on, since bad sex usually means she has different ideas in mind.

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Woow, now this one needs explaining!

[F1fanatic]

Its the old, old story that's getting v boring...

They're out for the money - but you know that. Why act suprised when they behave badly when you throw them out, cutting them off from their income?

To look on the bright side, most of the 'problem' is texts etc. saying they love you too much and miss you so badly they're driven to drink. p.s. I need money for whatever.....

[Portlandstone]

Its the old, old story that's getting v boring...

They're out for the money - but you know that.

That's an overgeneralization. I tell women the exact truth, and they understand that I have little money, that I am currently unemployed, and I won't be having money for a long time. They also know that I am doing classes via distance learning. They don't understand the concept at first until I exlpain, but they realize one thing -- I have my own financial concerns. In your post you must be talking about guys that live near Nana or Walking Street, thus that's why I asked the op as well. I am in BKK, however, and have similar stories.

[deejah]

when i first got here i was shocked at how psycho the gals could get

but i have since pinned it as paying my dues

it basically stopped happening after a while

i started to tell gals not to come around uninvited

i dont even do that any more

i dont say i love you anymore

however i like you very much

or i love your company/companionship feels like the right thing to say

i am debating if i should go full out and tell the gals i am not a one woman man, so they know right off

bar that, currently if they do ask if i have a girl friend i jokingly say mak mak (many)

i think most everything goes a bit smoother once you speak even a little thai, you get more respect, period, and people probably wont f with you as much

well except the farang (on thai visa)

[Lammbock]

When i was 18 years old i had a very short relationship with a Bar Girl and she also was a few years older than me what given me a sexual kick at this time.

However after a short while i stopped contacting her cause i was young and horny so i always needed different women One time she showed up at my place uninvited like 3am in the morning and was very sad about the situation. I explained her that i don't want to see her anymore.

Than the BIG trouble started and she cried and screamed as i tried to get her out of my Apartment. After a wile i didn't know what to do anymore and i called the Police. At least at this point she agreed to go to the lobby with me together and wait for the Police. Anyhow after the Police talked to her for a short wile she finally left the building and i never saw her again in my life.

I hope i will not experience this again.