Emails Of A Bar Girl.

[TizMe]

Some time back, I was asked if I could reproduce some emails that my girl friend translates for some of her bar girl customers.

I now have permission from one of her customers, on the condition that identifying information is removed.

Although this particular girl does not have the most interesting emails of all the girls that pay for translations.

I have changed all names and places to protect the innocent, (and not so innocent).

I will update this thread as emails are sent and recieved..

[TizMe]

Email from John001: (all bad spelling and grammar left as in original email..)

DEAR TIIRUCK,

HOW ARE YOU

I THINK YOU GOOD

JUST HAVE YOU 5 MINUTES AGO AT TELEPHONE AND MAKE ME REALLY HAPPY THAT

YOU

TELL ME I LIE TO YOU

I THINK YOU JOKING ME

WHO LIE TO WHO

NOW YOU DO AGAIN THE JOB YOU LIKE

WHAT YOU WANT I TELL YOU

THAT YOU LOVE THAT AND YOU CAN NEVER CHANGE

10 DAYS AGO YOU TELL ME YOU GO CHECK EMAIL BUT YOU NEVER GO

YOU LIE ONE MORE TIME

YOU CAN NOT BE ADULT AND TELL ME WHAT YOU WANT CAN NOT ANSWER MY

QUESTIONS

CAN NOT BE HONNEST

CAN NOT BE HONNEST WITH ME AND MAYBE CAN NOT BE HONNEST WITH YOURSELF

ONE THING IS SURE IS THAT YOU FORGET OUR PROMISES BUT I NEVER FORGET

AND NOW BECAUSE YOU DON T KNOW WHAT TO SAY YOU TELL ME AT PHONE THAT I

LIE

WHEN I SAY I LOVE YOU

BECAUSE YOU DON T KNOW WHAT TO SAY ONLY.......

I ONLY HOPE NOW THAT YOU CAN BE HONNEST WITH ME ONE TIME AND MAKE ME

ONE

MAIL THAT TELL ME THE TRUTH

I AM NOT SURE YOU CAN BUT I HOPE SO

MORE THE TIMES GOES AND MORE I THINK FOR YOU I AM A CUSTOMER SAME THE

OTHERS

SAME I TELL YOU MANY TIMES NOW I CAN HELP YOU AND TAKE CARE YOU BUT

HOW I

CAN BE SURE OF WHERE YOU STAY IF I DON T SEND YOU MONEY FOR YOU GO

HOLLIDAY

WITH ANOTHER BOYFRIEND

MORE ONE MOUNTH I WAIT YOU CALL ME AND I THINK YOU CALL ME ONLY WHEN

YOU

DON T HAVE MONEY

WHEN YOU HAVE MONEY YOU FORGET ME

SO NOW YOU THINK OF WHAT YOU WANT TO DO WITH YOUR LIFE

44 YEARS OLD YOU WANT ONLY GO WITH MEN SEND YOU MONEY BECAUSE THIS

PEOPLE

NEVER COME TO LIVE IN THAILAND SAME ME BUT ONLY FOR HOLLIDAYS

THAT S YOUR IDEA OF A FAMILY LIFE

AND DON T FORGET THAT MAYBE NOW YOU BECAME TOO OLD FOR WORK IN BAR

OR MAYBE FIND ONE MAN 80 YEARS OLD CAN NOT DO NOTHING JUST HAVE TO

STAY

HOME WITH HIM AND WAIT HE DIE

THAT S A GOOD LIFE

THAT SOUNDS REALLY LOVE

BUT YOU NEVER LISTEN ME WHEN I TOLD YOU THAT I COME BACK HOME FOR

YOU FOR

MAKE EVERYTHING BETTER AND MAYBE CAN BE DIFFICULT BUT NOW IF I HAVE TO

KNOW

HOW YOU CHANGE I WILL NEVER COME BACK

I THINK TO YOU EVERYTIME AND FEEL HURT MORE AND MORE EVERY SECOND

NOW NEVER I CAN LOVE SOMEONE SAME I LOVE YOU

WITHOUT YOU NOW MY LIFE HAS NO SENSE

IT S WHY I HOPE SAME YOU PROMISE ME AT TELEPHONE THAT TODAY YOU GO

CHECK

EMAIL AND SEND ME ONE WITH THE TRUTH

HOPE YOU CAN BE ONE TIME SINCERE AND HONNEST WITH ME SAME I AM WITH

YOU

WAITING YOU REPLY ME..........

HURT SOO MUCH

LOVE YOU MORE AND MORE

THINK ALWAYS TO YOU

AND I NEVER FORGET OUR PROMISES SO EVERYTHING IS TRUE I NEVER LIE TO

YOU..

LOVE YOU............

.............JOHN001............

[TizMe]

Her Reply to John001:

Hi Darling,

I'm fine thank you and you.

I'm sorry that I must to stay in (name of place removed) again because I have problem about my money. You told me that you will send money to me but you send only one time so, when I did not have money I'm serious my shop can sell a little bit and then I must to come back to work. When I work I get money every day but I wait your money it too slowly.

I spen money with you 40,000 BHT so, I did not have money in the bank to withdraw it for use. I 'm sorry that I told lie with you because I fear that you can not received me. Last time you gave me money to buy the ticket I went to the embassy everyday I spen too much money for TAXI, e-MAIL in Bangkok everything it too expensive. You said that no problem you can use my money if you did not have I will send you later.

I brought the card phone 800 BHT sometime 500 Bht. I phone you everday. You told me that you must to finish with Thomas OK. I finish with him and now I have only you. Thomas very good man although he has girlfriend but he can send money to me every month. You didn't take care me like as your word.

You told me that you will send money to me but you did not send it to me. Only 20,000Bht. it not enough to spend in 3 month. I stay with you only one month

I used 40,000 BHT. I never spend my money with the man but I spent with you I'm very stupid lady. Bar girl that she has Farang she must to take Farang to buy everything for her but I brought everthing for you.I brough cigarett for you. I give you money but Ben never give you. You drug too much like as dog.

I walked between raining and did not have somebody to take care you. I must to take care you to the room. Why I do that?. When you broken at your leg I'm take care you. I hope that you can remember it, right. I'm sad that I do everything for you and hope that you will be a good nam in the future.

Now you finish drug I'm very happy. I work in bar to make money to take

care you but now you curse me that I 'm bad lady work in Bar If I did not work in bar where can I make money. I must to spend too much money for my 3 children. It easily to talk but difficult to do it. I'm lonely I must to help myself.

I like as boat that deliver you to the other side of the river. when you reach the side of the river you never turn on your head to see someone whose deliver you to the side of river.

Tell your Father and your Mother that Thank you very much, please. Say " Hello " for them.

Take care yourself.

With love.

[Guest IT Manager]

Please excuse me as I stand by to enjoy this lot.

Once I met a man who did e-mails for his friends. He had one Cherman customer. Is good a very lovely man is nice and go pattaya see ocean and see and boy take him go someplace I quite sad.

Bye bye for you to now

always your good boy

nong

[Butterfly]

Could you please stop, I find this particularly sad. It's like Amateur Porn. You expose people feelings to a public, and covering their face with their legs spread out does not take away the fact that you are still exposing them.

Shame on you.

[TizMe]

No shame on me Butterfly.

The girl herself has no shame in sharing her emails, she talks quite openly to my GF and me about her clients/boyfriends. In fact I think that she is quite proud of what she does.

If you don't want to read them then feel free not to, but I think that your curiosity will get the better of you.

I don't know if she has considered that any of her guys might read this board and recognise their own emails...

[Butterfly]

No shame on me Butterfly.

The girl herself has no shame in sharing her emails, she talks quite openly to my GF and me about her clients/boyfriends. In fact I think that she is quite proud of what she does.

If you don't want to read them then feel free not to, but I think that your curiosity will get the better of you.

I don't know if she has considered that any of her guys might read this board and recognise their own emails...

I still think this is of poor taste

[HonoluluJimmy]

I sat in my room and put up nud_e shots and bull e-mails for some BGs who came over for a swim....<deleted> I was doing the answers at my home for a few weeks and the guys were burning up the Darlings Mobiles

[NedKelly]

Consider it "community service". Those poor buggers who come to meet their new wife dont really deserve to be ripped off. but those who come here just to shag should know better. I wonder if the girls actions would be considered criminal if prostitution was legalised or de-criminalised in Thailand. It is basically fraudulent and makes me wonder if there are any cases where people have taken legal action after being ripped off in this way. One thing for sure it is emotional blackmail.

[Guest IT Manager]

But remember this as a community service. If no one comes in one week about a BG who did his butt for a wallet and a bit of bang bang, we all go into withdrawals.

This is exactly what "newbies" to LoS come here to ask about. How many of us came in the first time with "OMG a BG ripped me off...I thought she loved me".

Bottom line in BG's, exports etc is Caveat Emptor. all this is doing is exposing the emptor to the caveat (I think). If a chappy comes to LoS to get his dick wet, he should be aware of the capacity of our many teeraks, to do an injury to his wallet, a massage to his ego (oooohhhh tee rakh you are so a big man, I think it jep makh), and then he goes home to the wife and kids, and masturbates over his business trip to LoS, or his holiday or whatever.

Am I a pitiable object for seeing men in their dotage staggering under the weight of a cane or a walking frame, with an 18 year old lovely on his arm at breakfast, and thinking them utter, utter fools? Am I really, alone in that view? Those of you who see it where you live in LoS, how do you feel, in truth, when you see it?

It's a game for the girls and if hearts are broken, refer to paragraph 3 above. A man who comes here for the specific reason of boffing a kid younger than his own, deserves what he gets and gets what he deserves. There are so many ways to find out what to expect .. try this for example. Click on link 1.

Those of us who live here, do it for so many reasons, most of which (excuse me Mr Trink), do not involve all night parties in Soi Nana with 3 little lovelies then off to a hotel with a 6 pack of Viagra.

Now where is my soap box...

[tuky]

Am I a pitiable object for seeing men in their dotage staggering under the weight of a cane or a walking frame, with an 18 year old lovely on his arm at breakfast, and thinking them utter, utter fools? Am I really, alone in that view? Those of you who see it where you live in LoS, how do you feel, in truth, when you see it?

Not at all, your not alone.

Infact it makes me worry for my wife, I would hate for people to be thinking she is a lady of the night just because she is hanging off my arm. Luckily we are similar in age so we look a little more legit I think.

Reading the letters above makes me realise just how lucky I am.

[tuky]

But I do have to admit that everytime we go to the Amphur the same guys asks my wife how much I give her each month.

She ignores him, it p##s me right off, but I do hold my tongue, he is such a lecherous looking old man he just makes me sick.

For those that are interested I give her the lot, she is so much better with money than me.

[ZoiD]

comedy, keep it coming.. Heres one I got from a girl in samui after taking her 2 nights in a row and then not speaking or seeing her for two months.. If anyones bothered by this then they should have stopped reading after the first two posts in this thread..

<quote>

Hi Luc (Err, I dont remember changing names?)

Hope you still remember me (which one were you? I had about 10 girls during those two weeks in samui). Also hope everything are ok for you. With all good. When you come back to Thailand again? (I never left sweetheart) Hope you will come back to see me again (for sure). Sorry to send e-mail so late to you (no bother I get enough spam as it is). At the moment i'm feel no good because my mother get very sick and I want to back to Bangkok for look after her (no comment). I don't have any money now (how did i guess). Can you help me?(NO!) You said last time will help me when I have got problem (Yup I think it was if you were hungry and wanted a big mac and fries). When be there for sure I can't work so I need that money when I be in Bangkok. Can you help me? Please help me this time because I don't know how to do??? (landlord about to kick you out ey?) Next time when you come back to Thailand you can see me all the time you want (nice one, I think i'll take my chances and give you 500b for a quicky if, you collar me again). If you go Phuket I will go and see you over there. I think at Phuket look nice than koh samui (how you planning to get to phuket, swim?)....

Hope you reply e-mail me back. If you want to help me this is details of my bank.

*n*y* *y**a*

Bank of Ayudha Pcl. Chaweng sub branch

Account number 999-9-99999-9

Swift code WIBBLE

Hope you can help me this time. Thank you very much (err)..

Still miss you as before (before?)...Take care of yourself...

Nit Noy

</quote>

Thought it was a bit cheeky to be honest, I've posted it in that respect, and in the hope it may save some poor joe a bit of cash, a few of my mates have been lead on wild goose chases in the past..

One guy who works on the rigs had left his thai exBG GF of 8 months with his visa (10k limit) to pay the rent etc while he went for a tour of duty in the ocean, only to find upon returning to his apartment in pattaya that fort nox had moved it gold reserves in and left him with a 9k bill. Needless to say it was a dumb move on his behalf but I think thats in the job requirement for ruffnecks.

Peace out

[NedKelly]

Very entertaining that last piece. I might add that it is not ust BG's that try to raise credit this way. My Thai teacher......well respected among friends and work colleague alike, did much the same thing. She had a job with a large international company as well as being my teacher, so had loads of cash coming in, but she still managed to be a total liar and cheat. And I was'nt doing her either if thats what anyone thinks. She was the legitimate, bespectacled teacher who turned out to be the devil in a dress.

Keep the stories coming. The more the better.

[Begs]

Shall i make up an e-mail as well.......................................for fux sake, you guyz are really scraping the bottom here, there is some prick boasting of going with 10 girls in Samui, .............Oh wow!........... i am so impressed .....................i mean u must be so cool................, what a &lt;deleted&gt;.

You Guyz use the services of the girls, then take the piss outta them on a forum, i bet you would not be so mouthy in the bar where they work, ######s.

[Boon Mee]

There's always going to be some lecherous old-fart types that take advantage of the accomadating ladies of Thailand. Hopefully the worst of them will continue to get over to Penom Phen (sp) and get busted for under-age like a few of them have done lately.

######s is too good a word for them...

[pnustedt]

But I do have to admit that everytime we go to the Amphur the same guys asks my wife how much I give her each month.

I must admit that this is one of the most irritating things I find about Thais in general - they are so curious to know "how much he gives you each month".

If there were an exclusive thread for Thai g.f.s/wives I'm sure the most popular topic would be on how much their partners/spouses pay them.

[Begs]

But I do have to admit that everytime we go to the Amphur the same guys asks my wife how much I give her each month.

I must admit that this is one of the most irritating things I find about Thais in general - they are so curious to know "how much he gives you each month".

If there were an exclusive thread for Thai g.f.s/wives I'm sure the most popular topic would be on how much their partners/spouses pay them.

You Find it irritating?

Just shows what a great life you have in Thailand if you find something so trivial irritating, dont you realise that you are still an oddity to Most Thai's, and your Marriage to a Local Thai woman will still draw much interest.

If you go to Nepal, people will ask you what you do for a living and how much you get paid. They are not being offensive, just being themselves...................................... kinda like the wonderful tourists that come to Thailand, use the women, then take the piss outta them in forums, to some it can be seen as irritating, but i think they are just being themselves, ######s!

Happy new year

[pnustedt]

but i think they are just being themselves, ######s!

Oh dear . . . seems like you didn't have a very happy Christmas - but I suppose Christmas is for families, Valentines' day for lovers and Palm Sunday for you!

[TizMe]

Just in, email from John001

HELLO DARLING

YOU JUST TELEPHONE ME BUT I REALLY DONT UNDERSTAND WHAT YOU SAY

I WANT TO TELL YOU SOMETHING ABOUT MONEY

BEFORE TO COME BACK FRANCE I GIVE YOU 10000

I GIVE YOU FOR PLANE TICKET 40000

I SEND YOU 7000

THAT MAKE 57000

I GO ONLY 3 MONTH ALREADY SO FOR EACH MONTH MAKE 19000

NOW IF YOU THINK THAT WITH YOUR OTHER BOYFRIEND 10000 IS BETTER I D

ONT KNOW ?????

I JUST WANT YOU DONT LIE TO ME BUT YOU DID IT WHY ? ? ? ? ? ?

I HOPE ONLY YOU DONT LIE ME ON ONE THING WHEN YOU TELL ME THAT YOU

MAKE EVERYTIME CONDOMS BUT JUST ONLY WITH ME YOU DONT PUT ? ? ? ? ?

[Ozziman04]

Are they not little darlings, just arrived back in Australia 6 days ago and got an email from the lady I spent 7 days with in Pattaya,

Dear xxxxxxx

I love you, you good man, give me much fun and show me exciti time here, you no I like you no want your money

xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Then 4 lines of general talky talk

xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Then finish letter with

I send all the money you leav me and send most home to mother and father, I need money to pay the rent, can you send me 20.000 baht

So I rang a friend and told him to give her 2 weeks work folding and sending off promotional material and pay her the money

Have not yet heard if she turned up for work

Yep I love the little black hearted darlings, but never knew why they are this way, untill one night gong out on the town she showed me a food stand with Thai delicasies

Scorpion and coachroach

Now I understand

My doctor always said you are what you eat

[Orthelius]

...then take the piss outta them...

If I take the piss out of them, i.e., request a withdrawal, a golden shower as it were, must I pay extra? If so I need to up my budget.

[Ozziman04]

Now begs me dear boy, just because they stuffed up my account (aussieman) and made me resign in as ossieman04 which means I'm back as a newbee

Well after re thinking maybe your right

Guilty as charge my son

But I still love their little black hearts

[NedKelly]

Hey Begs.....you should read the 'rules for bargirls' onthe Bangkok By Night website.....somewhere not sure exactly where, but it is there. This may enlightenyou as to the fact that the girls have their side of the stroy also. You are patronising them to criticise everyone here for having a bit of fun at their expense. Thai women are very capable of taking care of themselves. they dont need a save the world crusader like you to belittle them by sticking up for them. This is an expat forum if I remember rightly, with others welcome, so sure maybe the girls wont be represented here. But I am sure that they already know abou tthis attitude and they have their own well developed ideas about farang.

[12call]

Begs.What part of Ireland are you from?

[think_too_mut]

Could you please stop, I find this particularly sad. It's like Amateur Porn. You expose people feelings to a public, and covering their face with their legs spread out does not take away the fact that you are still exposing them.

Shame on you.

Sad indeed. A poor creature (a BG) is fighting to reach the surface and inhale some air. Survival. Not funny.

I did many emails for them (excluding money scams), taking, formatting and sending their photos and it was not a joy at all.

Don't know to how many email addresses I have access to, never thought of reading or having them posted.

[Alberta]

Am I a pitiable object for seeing men in their dotage staggering under the weight of a cane or a walking frame, with an 18 year old lovely on his arm at breakfast, and thinking them utter, utter fools?

The answer to your question is, I hope, YES.

I am 68 and have a 19 year old girl friend who has been living with me for the past year. When we are at breakfast or out for a walk the looks I get from the men are envy (perhaps because she is probably the best looking 19 year old in Thailand). The only thing I find regretable is that it took me so long to find paradise and there is so little time left. I cannot even imagine why a man would chose a 60 year old woman over a beautiful young Thai girl. There is only one time around in this life so better make the best of it. But to each his own.

[Bluecat]

I am 68 and have a 19 year old girl friend who has been living with me for the past year. When we are at breakfast or out for a walk the looks I get from the men are envy (perhaps because she is probably the best looking 19 year old in Thailand).

If it is the case, one thing for sure, we never met,...

[Jeepz]

Alberta~

My hat off to you. As a young man, I held many of my elders in contempt. Having grown old, I now return the favor by holding many of my juniors thusly too. Who gives a rat's *** what they think.

Now to be honest, it may be a bit self-delusional to believe that they are seeing you with envy. Oh, they may envy the sweet thing on your arm. But not that she is with some geezer. (I say that as a self-proclaimed member of the geezer society in good standing.)

Anyway, their turn is coming. Now IT_M is a bit older, so I'm slightly surprised at his attitude, but hey, takes all kinds. The younger guys I understand because young stuff belongs to them, or so they tell themselves (and us). Heh, except sometimes it doesn't and the old farts aren't dead in the grave yet, so hey ... tough ... deal with it or look the other way.

The older I get, the more I realize, if you don't go after what you want, you don't get it.

Jeepz

[Bluecat]

My hat off to you. As a young man, I held many of my elders in contempt. Having grown old, I now return the favor by holding many of my juniors thusly too. Who gives a rat's *** what they think.

Jeepz, please,...Do you really think being 68 years old and "showing off" your 19 years old best looking girl in Thailand should be considered as normal?

How many such couples did you see in the States or in any other western countries?

Because it is Thailand, we have to consider it normal, just close our eyes and look the other way, as you said.

And in the meantime, everybody is wondering why the Thai governement wants to crack down on the night life and prostitution,...