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Note - the op took this article from here:

http://www.chiangmainews.com/ecmn/2005/sep...Oldwhitemen.php

and did accredit the author at the top - so lets not call him a Troll.

First - I am a young, not bad looking male who has never slept with a prostitute. Second - I did come to thailand for cultural, and work, reasons. This 'all men are the same' attitude is possibly the reason many men do go to pattaya in the first place.

Maybe these mentioned men are just tired of the GAME - here's a snippet from an article in the guardian :

Women have books like The Rules. They have Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus. They have Candace Bushnell's Carrie Bradshaw and Helen Fielding's Bridget Jones. And of course, they have each other - we tend to talk relatively easily and openly about men and sex and love. But what do the men have? Well, apparently there's something called The Game.

The Game is a big fat blue book about the art of picking up women in bars that has just been published to a welter of press attention, mostly to do with whether or not its author is for real. Here's a man - a dainty little elf of a man - who's written about transforming himself from a social misfit into a kind of sex god by following the rules taught to him by a secret society of pick-up artists. He used to be plain old Neil Strauss, journalist, but now he's Style, a guru in the world of late-night cruising, who has written an exposé of these communities of men, or "lairs" as they're called, that supposedly criss-cross and ensnare the world.

At the same time The Game is a manual of tips and manipulations that the author insists will get "any kind of guy who wants to get laid" laid and laid and laid. It has chapters with headings such as "Select a Target", "Create an Emotional Connection" and "Pump Buying Temperature". It has special words you have to learn, such as "neg" (how to put down a woman to make her like you"), "wing" (a good mate who talks you up in public), and "chick crack" (a feigned interest in mysticism that makes you seem more sensitive and interesting than you are). And, Strauss says, it is true. Every word. Every name. Every one-night stand.

Strauss says gaming, as he puts it, needs concentration and you have to apply all the principles of the Game to get a woman home with you every time. You've got to act, in other words, like a certain kind of man. Strauss calls him an Alpha male - but we're not talking about physical prowess or leadership qualities here. It's more a case of walking into the room in a certain way, approaching a woman in the first three seconds after eye contact and never, ever buying her a drink. Oh, and you have to keep your eyebrows arched. Apparently that works every time. .......

I'm not sure. Strauss is a good and funny writer who will make a lot of money from this book. His girlfriend Lisa Leveridge, a six-foot blonde rock musician with a certain kind of LA body and smile, is what he calls a "pivot" - eye candy to make other women jealous and want you. But she also makes it look as though what he does - the gold boots, the light sweep of foundation, the arched eyebrows - actually works. Yet all around the room young women were heartily laughing off their gentlemen admirers, who seemed rather desperate, some of them, in their funny hats and bandannas. And Mystery and Neil/Style and Playboy and the rest were seeing more action with each other than with the chicks.

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I just love it when people try to justify prostitution.... :D

Now try to explain to the kids of expat families why their parents are splitting up because daddy couldn't keep it in his pant. Or even better, explain to their mothers why is she being punished with STDs for being a loyal and faithful wife, a good mother to her children.....

I've been "fortunate" enough to have grown up here in Bangkok, and these stories are all to familiar. I do believe that prostitution is a business, and like other businesses it's a matter of supply and demand. Point is, you can't make a living supply something that there's no demand for, can you?

I'm not a disgruntled teenager who has a lot to vent about, I've moved back here because of work but that doesn't mean I don't have anything to be disgruntled about. So the next person that tries to justify prositution to me, can get truely acquainted with my fist!  :o

you justified it yourself. As you rightly said, it is a business and the demand is there.

so go punch yourself, hard :D

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you justified it yourself. As you rightly said, it is a business and the demand is there.

so go punch yourself, hard :o

Now THAT was funny :D:D:D

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by Hanna Ingber

During last month's visa-run, I met an old white man who said he moved from England to Pattaya for the sole purpose of getting laid. He said he's been in Pattaya for eight years, has slept with at least one different woman each day, and has calculated that if you add in his years as a taxi driver in England, he's slept with more than 4,000 women in his life.

e best place to live.

SNIP

source:chiangmainews.com

Every time I get my yearly flight away from the UK I only have to ask where someone at the airport where they are going in Thailand to build a picture. If its Pattaya theres a 91% chance its solely for getting laid! With the other 9% being divers out to scuba dive!

But having seen the state of how our women in the UK are going I can't exactly blame them!

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Luckily I don't feel embarassed to hire a gorgeous girl for sex. It's nice to go sometimes to a bar not having to talk too much with girls and buy drinks for them but go straight to the business. Persuading girls is a hard job and you can skip that with money :o

Diogenes, here is your honest man.

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Luckily I don't feel embarassed to hire a gorgeous girl for sex. It's nice to go sometimes to a bar not having to talk too much with girls and buy drinks for them but go straight to the business.

Luckily I don't feel the need to hire a gorgeous girl for sex. I have a gorgeous, intelligent and caring wife. It's nice to not go to a bar and have to talk Isaanlish and buy lady drinks for them.

For those that aren't as lucky as me. Up To Them.

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I just love it when people try to justify prostitution.... :D

Now try to explain to the kids of expat families why their parents are splitting up because daddy couldn't keep it in his pant. Or even better, explain to their mothers why is she being punished with STDs for being a loyal and faithful wife, a good mother to her children.....

I've been "fortunate" enough to have grown up here in Bangkok, and these stories are all to familiar. I do believe that prostitution is a business, and like other businesses it's a matter of supply and demand. Point is, you can't make a living supply something that there's no demand for, can you?

I'm not a disgruntled teenager who has a lot to vent about, I've moved back here because of work but that doesn't mean I don't have anything to be disgruntled about. So the next person that tries to justify prositution to me, can get truely acquainted with my fist!  :o

Chuey just an observation, seems like you have had that anger streak going a long time, why not do something positive with it, say Thai boxing of course they do hit back there and it will take more then your anger to win. That is a good thing to learn earlier in life as opposed to later.

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Topics about bar girls, bar boys, prostitution, etc. are against the rules of this forum.

My apologies for not closing this thread earlier.

The OP has been warned.

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