samsiam Posted April 13, 2012 Share Posted April 13, 2012 It is friday the 13th... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
samsiam Posted April 13, 2012 Share Posted April 13, 2012 'i thought it could never happen to me. ' I think he is talking about being left alone to get up to mischief for the whole weekend.....long weekend too Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
keestha Posted April 13, 2012 Share Posted April 13, 2012 if those vehicles are in her name ,forget about them (legally hers to keep /trade /sell etc ) if they are in your name ,report them stolen and collect insurance cheque Not true if really legally married. then things are split 50/50 time to get a lawyer it sounds to me Incorrect. According to Thai law, partners keep what they already had before the marriage, and only increase in wealth acquired after the marriage is split evenly in case of a divorce. But this is only relevant to the OP in case he is legally married to this woman. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smokie36 Posted April 13, 2012 Share Posted April 13, 2012 Sorry to hear this nocturn. I hope things work out better for you in the long run.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
farangme Posted April 13, 2012 Share Posted April 13, 2012 Never 'give' what you're not willing to walk away from, sleep with one eye open,.....and most of all....be glad you woke up with your man bits in place! Posted with Thaivisa App http://apps.thaivisa.com 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
farangme Posted April 13, 2012 Share Posted April 13, 2012 p.s. Nocturn, sorry to hear this. Posted with Thaivisa App http://apps.thaivisa.com Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chiang mai Posted April 13, 2012 Share Posted April 13, 2012 Sorry to hear this Nocturn, best advice I can give is to get with some friends and avoid the sauce, I know that you'll isolate any remaining cash quickly. Time is a wonderful healer but it's likely to painful for a while, however, keep the faith and perhaps vent your frustrations here rather than anywhere else! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bendix Posted April 13, 2012 Share Posted April 13, 2012 Joint account is never a good idea , unless you only have a few thousand in there. Love is never what you think it is in this country, Take care. Rubbish. Love is love is love, irrespective on which country it happens in. What the OP had - or thought he had - was nothing to do with love, whether he thought it was or not. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phuturatica Posted April 13, 2012 Share Posted April 13, 2012 Sorry to hear. Stay strong, what doesn't kill you only makes you stronger. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lovelomsak Posted April 13, 2012 Share Posted April 13, 2012 I am very sorry to hear about this. Best of luck in the future.Dealing with something like this will only make you stronger. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
transam Posted April 13, 2012 Share Posted April 13, 2012 I think noc is having a laugh here, she would have taken the PC as well. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gweiloman Posted April 13, 2012 Share Posted April 13, 2012 Sorry to hear about this. Take it in your stride, these are the hazards and challenges life throws at all of us. Overcome them and you'll be the older and wiser. Try to remain positive - there's a silver lining in every cloud. If you can afford it, go out and splash on something extravagant; car, bike, hifi set, whatever. It will make you feel a bit better about the future life holds. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KKvampire Posted April 13, 2012 Share Posted April 13, 2012 Joint account is never a good idea , unless you only have a few thousand in there. Love is never what you think it is in this country, Take care. Rubbish. Love is love is love, irrespective on which country it happens in. What the OP had - or thought he had - was nothing to do with love, whether he thought it was or not. O no it's very different countries with females who are relatively poor and just look at a falang as a Bag of money , no matter how long you been married, an English teacher I know married here 10 years with Thai wife and kid told me "he doesnt trust any Thai , not even the wife" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
theblether Posted April 13, 2012 Share Posted April 13, 2012 (edited) STOP!!!!.......Nocturn is trolling, I refer you to his recent topic http://www.thaivisa...._1#entry5111366 I refer you to a quote lifted directly from his OP Her pride dictated that our finances were separate, and so they remain. Come one Nocturn, hands up, the problem with trolling is that you rely upon us members not remembering what you have written before. Edited April 13, 2012 by theblether Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
transam Posted April 13, 2012 Share Posted April 13, 2012 STOP!!!!.......Nocturn is trolling, I refer you to his recent topic http://www.thaivisa...._1#entry5111366 Come one Nocturn, hands up, the problem with trolling is that you rely upon us members not remembering what you have written before. I spotted it first, so there Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
theblether Posted April 13, 2012 Share Posted April 13, 2012 STOP!!!!.......Nocturn is trolling, I refer you to his recent topic http://www.thaivisa...._1#entry5111366 Come one Nocturn, hands up, the problem with trolling is that you rely upon us members not remembering what you have written before. I spotted it first, so there To be fair, you did, but I remembered the actual topic and put it up for perusal, so nah nah nah nah nah I remembered it cos I was quite amused at his antics, coming on to TV looking for sympathy.........now he has been caught out he'll not be getting much sympathy in future huh?? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GuestHouse Posted April 13, 2012 Share Posted April 13, 2012 (edited) Well spotted TB. I'm not sure that you've exposed a troll or Nocturn has just told us all what a self delusional world he's living in - or was living in at 3:00 in the morning - Maybe a bad bottle of Leo, who really knows?! One again we are reminded that the most dangerous lies we ever hear are the lies we tell ourself. Nocturn, if by anychance you are incharge of your senses this morning I modify my advice from " protect your assets and get access to you chil(ren)" To - Just dou your best to try and find someone who can help you. There's no shame in getting help when you so clearly need it. Edited April 13, 2012 by GuestHouse Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
samsiam Posted April 13, 2012 Share Posted April 13, 2012 STOP!!!!.......Nocturn is trolling, I refer you to his recent topic http://www.thaivisa...._1#entry5111366 Come one Nocturn, hands up, the problem with trolling is that you rely upon us members not remembering what you have written before. I spotted it first, so there did not. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
robblok Posted April 13, 2012 Share Posted April 13, 2012 Joint account is never a good idea , unless you only have a few thousand in there. Love is never what you think it is in this country, Take care. Rubbish. Love is love is love, irrespective on which country it happens in. What the OP had - or thought he had - was nothing to do with love, whether he thought it was or not. O no it's very different countries with females who are relatively poor and just look at a falang as a Bag of money , no matter how long you been married, an English teacher I know married here 10 years with Thai wife and kid told me "he doesnt trust any Thai , not even the wife" Then you don't get a poor girl and you make sure they are financially independent. Its not that hard as long as you don't give them a salary or put things on their name or splash around your (relative) wealth on them then the relation is not about money. Guys with girls that don't work and who they pay a salary and who's gf are many years their junior they have a lot more to worry about. (no not everyone but in general). Love is the same here you just have to make sure its love and they are not there with you for your money. The above things are indications of a money relation. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tartempion Posted April 13, 2012 Share Posted April 13, 2012 (edited) I hope you do have a plan B and some backup. 10 years ago she (my wife I mean) had nothing, today her assets are 6 million+ (house, 2 cars, land and her own non-empty bank account) I need a place to live and fancy a luxury car to drive around, put in her name in case I die tomorrow, she will sell it all and build a place on land she bought with my money a few 100m from her parents place. I will move on if I am denied entering the house I paid for. Hope you can move on also, good luck. What, a troll post? Shame on you. Edited April 13, 2012 by tartempion Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
edwinclapham Posted April 13, 2012 Share Posted April 13, 2012 I suppose being cynical pays off big time. No wonder beggars love me Personally I think the OP is a bit sick imo. Crying wolf etc.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Berkshire Posted April 13, 2012 Share Posted April 13, 2012 I suppose being cynical pays off big time. No wonder beggars love me Personally I think the OP is a bit sick imo. Crying wolf etc.... There does seem to be a lot of this "crying wolf" stuff going on TV these days. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
theblether Posted April 13, 2012 Share Posted April 13, 2012 (edited) I'm not sure that you've exposed a troll or Nocturn has just told us all what a self delusional world he's living in - or was living in at 3:00 in the morning - Maybe a bad bottle of Leo, who really knows?! I don't think Nocturn is malicious and I go with your opinion it was a bad bottle of beer and the 3.00am blues that set him off on a tangent.......I think Nocturn should come on and explain himself, a little mea culpa goes a long way. Edited April 13, 2012 by theblether Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
transam Posted April 13, 2012 Share Posted April 13, 2012 I'm not sure that you've exposed a troll or Nocturn has just told us all what a self delusional world he's living in - or was living in at 3:00 in the morning - Maybe a bad bottle of Leo, who really knows?! I don't think Nocturn is malicious and I go with your opinion it was a bad bottle of beer and the 3.00am blues that set him off on a tangent.......I think Nocturn should come on and explain himself, a little mea culpa goes a long way. He's probably gone on vacation and leaving us all in suspenders for 2 weeks. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Beetlejuice Posted April 13, 2012 Share Posted April 13, 2012 (edited) Errr, something does not compute here? Only one month ago you made this statement: ok, so i have lived here for yonks and never had a live-in ( though i dont deny i have taken my pleasure as i wished) beyond the (thai) woman who bore my child. she has her own career, speaks excellent english and was willing to admit i was better equipped to bring up the child once we parted. Her pride dictated that our finances were separate, and so they remain. we met while clubbing. she is one of my best mates now, we amicably split custody, and she is happily married to someone else i consider a benefit to my childs existence. in fact, i would not want to continue without their involvement, and strive to maintain the peace. I meet other women (thai and otherwise) regularly who are similar, seem interested in being a part of this happily dysfunctional family, but as of yet, have not found anyone i deem "worthy", though many certainly have been. i suppose my question is, why settle up? why make do? it really isn't that hard to get it right if you are willing to try. http://www.thaivisa....ge__hl__nocturn So what`s the deal here or is it me just becoming confused in my old age? Ahh, so solly, theblether has already spotted it. Yes, I am getting confused in my old age. So the questions remain; is she or isn`t she? Does she or doesn`t she? Is this really theblether`s love child because some women can`t resist men in kilts? What`s the meaning of all this? Has the world gone stark raving mad? These and many more questions will be answered when you tune in to next weeks exciting episode of, I Married A Thai Lady From Outer Space. Edited April 13, 2012 by Beetlejuice Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NewlyMintedThai Posted April 13, 2012 Share Posted April 13, 2012 I'd like to hear her side of the story. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kerryk Posted April 13, 2012 Share Posted April 13, 2012 I'm not sure that you've exposed a troll or Nocturn has just told us all what a self delusional world he's living in - or was living in at 3:00 in the morning - Maybe a bad bottle of Leo, who really knows?! I don't think Nocturn is malicious and I go with your opinion it was a bad bottle of beer and the 3.00am blues that set him off on a tangent.......I think Nocturn should come on and explain himself, a little mea culpa goes a long way. 100% with you on this one. Why? Is he that nuts, angry or vicious? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Berkshire Posted April 13, 2012 Share Posted April 13, 2012 I'd like to hear her side of the story. That would be the most interesting part. But alas, that never happens on TV. So we just get the one side....every single time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bendix Posted April 13, 2012 Share Posted April 13, 2012 Sigh. And there was me thinking nocturn was one of the brighter members of Thaivisa. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smokie36 Posted April 13, 2012 Share Posted April 13, 2012 STOP!!!!.......Nocturn is trolling, I refer you to his recent topic http://www.thaivisa...._1#entry5111366 I refer you to a quote lifted directly from his OP Her pride dictated that our finances were separate, and so they remain. Come one Nocturn, hands up, the problem with trolling is that you rely upon us members not remembering what you have written before. Well done my blethering buddy. Nocturn...you are a very naughty boy! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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