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Thai Guy Curious

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I am a thai guy live in Bangkok ,

I really curious how "farang lady" feel about thai guy.

I am the one who alway stareing at europe girls but never get a chance to talk to them. :o

the reason coz I am too shy and scare that they won't like me coz I am a Thai guy

please, suggest me where should I start coz, I am very serious

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I am a thai guy live in Bangkok ,

I really curious how "farang lady" feel about thai guy.

I am the one who alway stareing at europe girls but never get a chance to talk to them. :D

the reason coz I am too shy and scare that they won't like me coz I am a Thai guy

please, suggest me where should I start coz, I am very serious

Everyone is different Peter, different men and women have different tastes, there is no general opinion that western women have on Thai men.

Remember some ladies are shy too, and a famous man from Manchester once sang...

Shyness is nice, but shyness can stop you from doing all the things in life you'd like to.

Remember this line, and try to be comfortable with yourself. Also, a little Sang Som never did any harm as a cure for shyness. :o

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I am a thai guy live in Bangkok ,

I really curious how "farang lady" feel about thai guy.

I am the one who alway stareing at europe girls but never get a chance to talk to them. :D

the reason coz I am too shy and scare that they won't like me coz I am a Thai guy

please, suggest me where should I start coz, I am very serious

Everyone is different Peter, different men and women have different tastes, there is no general opinion that western women have on Thai men.

Remember some ladies are shy too, and a famous man from Manchester once sang...

Shyness is nice, but shyness can stop you from doing all the things in life you'd like to.

Remember this line, and try to be comfortable with yourself. Also, a little Sang Som never did any harm as a cure for shyness. :o

thanks a lot Uma that's really great suggestion, well but I guess only one of my weakness is try to talk to a Farang girl it's easy in the theory but it hard to do it in a real situation

this thread is sort of troll..but i maybe wrong

the reason coz I am too shy

seem you know the reason well ,so just try to do it ..nothing to lost.. try to talk with em ..if the girl who you like, she just does not like you, find new one.

life is short .. try to more brave ..

and scare that they won't like me coz I am a Thai guy

how do you know? maybe she likes lol (coz you dont dare to start to talk with em so you will never know )

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this thread is sort of troll..but i maybe wrong
the reason coz I am too shy

seem you know the reason well ,so just try to do it ..nothing to lost.. try to talk with em ..if the girl who you like, she just does not like you, find new one.

life is short .. try to more brave ..

and scare that they won't like me coz I am a Thai guy

how do you know? maybe she likes lol (coz you dont dare to start to talk with em so you will never know )

First of all there is no troll or anything I just happen feel curious why only Farang guys attracted to thai girls but there is no chance for me to find one :o so the best way is to ask them. and The best way to ask is post in here :D to see that I have how may % chance to find Farang girl friend

Thanks for the suggestion

:D Nevermind

I guess it nonsense

close this topic

First of all there is no troll or anything I just happen feel curious why only Farang guys attracted to thai girls but there is no chance for me to find one :o so the best way is to ask them. and The best way to ask is post in here :D to see that I have how may % chance to find Farang girl friend

Thanks for the suggestion

:D Nevermind

I guess it nonsense

close this topic

noi jai lor ja? :D

nah..its not nonsense ..

first at all , u live in Bkk , so you have to find the place that farang girls hang around ..

after that , you have to get up the courage and walks over to her .. and start converstion, smile ..etc

goodluck ja :D

My advice would be to go and get a job in a beach bar, probably in Koh Phangan or Koh Lanta, you will find that most foreign girls will love you immediately, I think it comes with the territory (and the excessive drinking!)

yes farang girls will throw themselves shamelessly at you if you work in a beach bar, especially if you develop some trick like fire twirling or tatooing. however you will quickly tire of the brainless chitchat, the nights of too much drinking, the juggling of girls and resulting catfights, and the STDs. i suggest visiting a coffeeshop in banglamphu and just smiling at a farang girl you like. ask her how she likes your country and if there is anything you can answer for her about thailand. show her you are smart and friendly rather than a whore after her money or free sex. good luck.

he's an idea, join a forum frequented by western ladies who reside in thailand and then come across has having good english skills and being a quite shy boy, and then wait for invites to come :o

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Thanks a lot , for you guys advice :D

wow great idea, I useually go to starbuck and hang out there sometime. unfortunately, most of the girl sit with their boyfriend :o

i heard somebody here say , farang girls like to go to "witches tavern" Thong lhor

worth to try ? :o

I am a thai guy live in Bangkok ,

I really curious how "farang lady" feel about thai guy.

Hmm...how does he keep the tan to stay longer than mine

I am the one who alway stareing at europe girls but never get a chance to talk to them. :o

Hmm...straight both eyes contact is good first step in approaching us

the reason coz I am too shy

Well...we don't want to appear too aggressive cause you might think we just want you for casual sex

and scare that they won't like me coz I am a Thai guy

May be we just scare you would want to be married too soon and ended up having to stay home...taking care babies, cooking and cleaning for you. Last...just tell them about the benefit of 30 yrs lease :D

please, suggest me where should I start coz, I am very serious

Go slow with US and have a lots of time for listening coz we love to talk for hoursss. Be prepare to walk along the beach during the day time for hours coz we love our skin to be dark and crispy. And last but not least...word of warning...remember: When ordering foods at the restaurant...what mine is mine only, and what yours is yours...absolutely NO SHARING!

GOOD LUCK

he's an idea, join a forum frequented by western ladies who reside in thailand and then come across has having good english skills and being a quite shy boy, and then wait for invites to come :o

Excellent idea i have started a new topic!!

Hey its only fun before i get shot down!! :D

word of warning...remember: When ordering foods at the restaurant...what mine is mine only, and what yours is yours...absolutely NO SHARING!

:o

Go slow with US and have a lots of time for listening coz we love to talk for hoursss. Be prepare to walk along the beach during the day time for hours coz we love our skin to be dark and crispy. And last but not least...word of warning...remember: When ordering foods at the restaurant...what mine is mine only, and what yours is yours...absolutely NO SHARING!

GOOD LUCK

Ah! That's the trouble I have with keeping relationships!

~The meal thief.

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I've been living in the US few years I guess I know multicultural well enough :o

The only problem is I don't know where to start looking for a girls coz my job really busy.

I start doing some search on the net but it's only "FIND THAI GIRLS LOOKING FOR FARANG GUYS TO MARRIE" I guess it not fair what about thai guy looking for europe girls?? There is no such a web!!!

well there you go, why don't you start one?!

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:D Great Idea!! maybe I should start one but then again, how should i start coz I don't even have one , what do u guys expect me to be match maker :o

Why some thai guy got lucky except me. well nothing fair on this world.

Try these pick up lines, it always works for me at the clubs with farang ladies prior to my marriage and wife's dominancy over me :o .

ahh hummm (clearing my throat)

1) I'll give you a nickel if you tickle my pickle

2) Got two nipples for a dime?

3) You're so hot you melt the plastic in my underwear.

4) Hi. I'm an astronaut, and my next mission is to explore Ur-anus

5) Do you think I could borrow that dress sometime?

6) Hi, I'm the new Milkman. Do you want it in the front or the back?

7) You've been a bad, bad girl. Now go to my room!

8) Wanna come and see my Hard Drive?, I promise you it ain't 3.5 inches and it sure ain't floppy. (computer talk)

Pick a few of these lines, memorize it, use it, and thank me for the slapp later :D

1) I'll give you a nickel if you tickle my pickle

2) Got two nipples for a dime?

3) You're so hot you melt the plastic in my underwear.

4) Hi. I'm an astronaut, and my next mission is to explore Ur-anus

5) Do you think I could borrow that dress sometime?

6) Hi, I'm the new Milkman. Do you want it in the front or the back?

7) You've been a bad, bad girl. Now go to my room!

8) Wanna come and see my Hard Drive?, I promise you it ain't 3.5 inches and it sure ain't floppy. (computer talk)

:o

1) I'll give you a nickel if you tickle my pickle

2) Got two nipples for a dime?

3) You're so hot you melt the plastic in my underwear.

4) Hi. I'm an astronaut, and my next mission is to explore Ur-anus

5) Do you think I could borrow that dress sometime?

6) Hi, I'm the new Milkman. Do you want it in the front or the back?

7) You've been a bad, bad girl. Now go to my room!

8) Wanna come and see my Hard Drive?, I promise you it ain't 3.5 inches and it sure ain't floppy. (computer talk)

:D

So the magic still works huh? :o

I am a thai guy live in Bangkok ,

I really curious how "farang lady" feel about thai guy.

I am the one who alway stareing at europe girls but never get a chance to talk to them. :D

the reason coz I am too shy and scare that they won't like me coz I am a Thai guy

please, suggest me where should I start coz, I am very serious

I'm a man so I look into this in a different way than the Ladies on this forum (of course) but let me try to help, just a little.

1. always dress properly; clean shirt, clean trousers, clean shoes, clean nails but a little 'wildish' hair and find out a 'modest' nice 'eau-de-toilette' which suits your skin; NO strong after shave!

2. be polite and friendly always and show your famous Thai smile at all times

3. since you are in BKK, offer them a 'special' tour to places normal tourist girls don't go to; you know best where to go and be passionate about your beautiful country and sites you'r visiting; take a Klong-tour and show them a Thai family-house for instance and introduce them to the family.

4. don't wear 'show-off' (fake) watches or golden rings/necklaces.

5. take a lot of photos of THEM with their camera at special places in BKK and ask if they want to send some of them to you (internet).

6. Don't know how old you are, but take them to a nice discotheque where (young) Thai people come and enjoy themselves. Most girls DO like dancing...

7. Watch your money :o but if you take the above in consideration most girls want to pay for themselves; don't try to impress them with money..it won't work most of the times.

8. DON'T THINK that most Farang girls are waiting to get 'laid' easyly....respect is much more important and will be appreciated.

9. IF you have a second chance to meet them (next day) again; and know where they are from......rush home and bury yourself on Internet and try to find out as much as possible about their country....they will aprreciate your 'knowledge'! :D

10. Tell them they can always phone you, just in case they get lost or have a problem (...) you might be able to help them and it will be greatly appreciated.

Who knows, you will find the love-of-your-life?!

Good Luck :D

LaoPo

Good advice lao po :o

Last bit might be: don't be too pushy or agressive as you will most definitely scare her off.

Good advice lao po :o

Last bit might be: don't be too pushy or agressive as you will most definitely scare her off.

Fully agree with you :D

LaoPo

Spot on Laopo except # 7 when you say most girls want to pay for themselves.

For me anyway, I would much rather have a fella ask me on a date and pay for everything or at least offer too.

Especially in LOS where many people think you have a lot of money because your from another county.

Spot on Laopo except # 7 when you say most girls want to pay for themselves.

For me anyway, I would much rather have a fella ask me on a date and pay for everything or at least offer too.

Especially in LOS where many people think you have a lot of money because your from another county.

You might be right here, but the poor OP-guy might get 'broke' before the end of the week :o...........when he runs into you :D

LaoPo

Good point to bad he's in BKK

GirlX go slow with the beach bar staff bashing would you? They are NOT all the same. (Page 1 on this thread)

no maybe not- just the many that i've met :o. basically they are all good guys but bad boyfriends...

Lived in heavly touristed areas most of my life and on average if your a guy and you work in a bar, you have lot's of girlfriends. It could be said that, that is one of the perks if your a guy.

This is not just something that happens in Thailand. :o

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