KED Posted October 25, 2012 Share Posted October 25, 2012 I just got back from a three week work/holiday trip to Indonesia; I took the airport link train and changed to the BTS. At the Siam station, I had to change trains and as I am trying to leave the train, a woman is pushing onto the train - so I pushed back - she looked so surprised and shocked - I wasn't rough just firm. This wasn't even rush hour. How I would have loved to just have a conversation with her to ask why she felt so important that my need to exit were only secondary to her entry. I am usually pretty calm and not easily riled; however, something just kicked in. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
uptheos Posted October 25, 2012 Share Posted October 25, 2012 It happens in elevators too. I think it's some sort of fear that the door will close and the bus/elevator will go without them. It happens on planes too, though I can't imagine why anyone would think that the plane will suddenly take off. Oh well TIT, tis a minor thing. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
noob7 Posted October 25, 2012 Share Posted October 25, 2012 (edited) Sometimes, I think, I'm in a need of a very old steal Volvo, to 'push back' at the roundabouts, every now and then. Sometimes, I think, this 'me, myself and I first' mentality, without thinking, makes me sick. But then, after finding a place, to watch it, it makes me smile. The shock, after everyone went in, but no one can go out, anymore, because every lane is blocked, is great. And the learning effect is.....................ZERO (or Dead). And after that, memories entering my brain, how I was acting. When I was a greenhorn on the roads, a novice in Bus/Metro using, boarded my first plane. And I smile a bit more, and my indulgence is with them......, till the next time, I think, I should buy a Volvo Edited October 25, 2012 by noob7 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ulysses G. Posted October 25, 2012 Share Posted October 25, 2012 I did the same thing a few times when I was a young man, so I don't think so. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BigJohnnyBKK Posted October 25, 2012 Share Posted October 25, 2012 IMO it's much healthier and conducive to your peace of mind to "mai bpen rai". But I admit every once in a while I give rein to my irritation like that, sometimes it just feels too good to sneer "Kwai" at such an idiot. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kevvy Posted October 25, 2012 Share Posted October 25, 2012 alot of people in this country dont have manners i dont know if its a culture thing or not. Have you ever been at the shop counter and people just push in and speak over you that really annoys me 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jbrain Posted October 25, 2012 Share Posted October 25, 2012 I did the same thing a few times when I was a young man, so I don't think so. So in fact, you have been a grumpy old man all your life ? 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
transam Posted October 25, 2012 Share Posted October 25, 2012 I did the same thing a few times when I was a young man, so I don't think so. So in fact, you have been a grumpy old man all your life ? Me too. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post tinfoilhat Posted October 25, 2012 Popular Post Share Posted October 25, 2012 (edited) when i need to vent spleen i pick up the phone and abuse somebody at TRUE customer service, and i'm only early forties Edited October 25, 2012 by tinfoilhat 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post NeverSure Posted October 25, 2012 Popular Post Share Posted October 25, 2012 Sometimes, I think, I'm in a need of a very old steal Volvo, to 'push back' at the roundabouts, every now and then. Sometimes, I think, this 'me, myself and I first' mentality, without thinking, makes me sick. But then, after finding a place, to watch it, it makes me smile. The shock, after everyone went in, but no one can go out, anymore, because every lane is blocked, is great. And the learning effect is.....................ZERO (or Dead). And after that, memories entering my brain, how I was acting. When I was a greenhorn on the roads, a novice in Bus/Metro using, boarded my first plane. And I smile a bit more, and my indulgence is with them......, till the next time, I think, I should buy a Volvo Why a Volvo? 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KeyserSoze01 Posted October 25, 2012 Share Posted October 25, 2012 I did the same thing a few times when I was a young man, so I don't think so. I still do it. If someone wants to be an arrogant prick, I have no problem butting heads with them. Accept of course on TV where the arrogant pricks hide behind a veil of anonymity. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MahaYellow Posted October 25, 2012 Share Posted October 25, 2012 This is one of the many things that I find very irritating. You find this almost everywhere you go in Asia. People jumping queue is also one of my pet hates. Nothing much you can do except behave the same way they do ! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cooked Posted October 25, 2012 Share Posted October 25, 2012 I don't think it's a 'me, me me' thing, it' s more a 'duuh, what am I having for dinner tomorrow night' thing. And incidentally, why is that Farang frowning at me, maybe I'll go kill him... I don't mind standing on peoples' feet/scraping theirankles when they push in front, people look at my kind face and get out of the way. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
transam Posted October 25, 2012 Share Posted October 25, 2012 I don't think it's a 'me, me me' thing, it' s more a 'duuh, what am I having for dinner tomorrow night' thing. And incidentally, why is that Farang frowning at me, maybe I'll go kill him... I don't mind standing on peoples' feet/scraping theirankles when they push in front, people look at my kind face and get out of the way. Your better looking than me then. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
yermanee Posted October 25, 2012 Share Posted October 25, 2012 I have been a grouchy old man for quite some time now. At least that's what the wife tells me but I don't believe her !! Yermanee 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WilliaminBKK Posted October 25, 2012 Share Posted October 25, 2012 I get grouchy when I wait to hold the door open for some old soul taking her time step by step, then takes off like a hare and not even a nod of gratitude. The pushing still freaks me out a little I don't know if I should come to a complete halt or step aside, if it's a kid I've been known to step on their toes on the BTS. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ripstanley Posted October 25, 2012 Share Posted October 25, 2012 alot of people in this country dont have manners i dont know if its a culture thing or not. Have you ever been at the shop counter and people just push in and speak over you that really annoys me It is a culture thing. I live where there are not that many farang. This action happens all the time so I think it ther way of life and we have to accept it. I find it hard because of what I have been taught. Think what Thai people think of us when we object to their way of life. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chiangmaikelly Posted October 25, 2012 Share Posted October 25, 2012 I did the same thing a few times when I was a young man, so I don't think so. I still do it. If someone wants to be an arrogant prick, I have no problem butting heads with them. Accept of course on TV where the arrogant pricks hide behind a veil of anonymity. I do it here every day. It is always amazing to me how many people expect another to shut up just because they tell him to. A lot of bullies here. In the real world normally I am quite calm. One song tau driver gave me a big smirk and told me he didn't have change for a 20 baht note and I snatched the one I had given him out of his hand. He chased me for half a block till a helpful bar girl tripped him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
noob7 Posted October 25, 2012 Share Posted October 25, 2012 alot of people in this country dont have manners i dont know if its a culture thing or not. Have you ever been at the shop counter and people just push in and speak over you that really annoys me The story from the Buffalo, doing same same at the water hole / manger, is stopping it quickly. Oh, you need to tell the story loud in Thai, and with a big smile. And better, you do not look like Denny DeVito. Closer to the other 'Twin'-s appearance is helpful! And not to older people, you don't want the crowd turns on you! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StreetCowboy Posted October 25, 2012 Share Posted October 25, 2012 I get grouchy when I wait to hold the door open for some old soul taking her time step by step, then takes off like a hare and not even a nod of gratitude. The pushing still freaks me out a little I don't know if I should come to a complete halt or step aside, if it's a kid I've been known to step on their toes on the BTS. If you;re just holding the door open for the thanks you're going to get, isn't that pretty selfish? Personally, I think the OP is being too sensitive, and he's paying too much attention if he notices that sort of trivia. For me, its about how I behave, not others. One time, I was following a doddering old tortoise up the escalator, and as he paused at the top, I nipped past. Tripped over his umbrella, and went arse over tit. I hope he found it as funny as I did, though at the time, I was able to avoid laughing about it. SC 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
payak Posted October 25, 2012 Share Posted October 25, 2012 I dont think so, i'm fed up with rude people. I exit the trains now like a bull out of the gate because no one ever leaves a gap for those exiting. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post yourauntbob Posted October 25, 2012 Popular Post Share Posted October 25, 2012 I generally make a point of calling them out when they try to cheat in line (almost everywhere). One time at KFC a Thai women rushed the counter out of nowhere to my left as I was receiving my food and started spatting out her order before I could move out of her way. Unfortunately she was blocking the ketchup (to her left). For a second I thought about just walking around her and go with the mai pen rai attitude, then I thought screw that. I leaned over and reached across her to pump my condiments. The look on her face was priceless... 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StreetCowboy Posted October 25, 2012 Share Posted October 25, 2012 I dont think so, i'm fed up with rude people. I exit the trains now like a bull out of the gate because no one ever leaves a gap for those exiting. I try to turn sideways so that I can fit between the people boarding. And to present my shoulder to those that don't move a couple of inches to one side or another. I can't say I recall noticing anyone blocking my way. A winger finds space A centre makes space A prop doesn't need space SC 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
payak Posted October 25, 2012 Share Posted October 25, 2012 I dont think so, i'm fed up with rude people. I exit the trains now like a bull out of the gate because no one ever leaves a gap for those exiting. I try to turn sideways so that I can fit between the people boarding. And to present my shoulder to those that don't move a couple of inches to one side or another. I can't say I recall noticing anyone blocking my way. A winger finds space A centre makes space A prop doesn't need space SC i do feel bkk is not so bad, australia however. does my head in. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chittychangchang Posted October 25, 2012 Share Posted October 25, 2012 It's commonsense and etiquette worldwide to let the passengers off the train first so the passengers have space to get on. OP I'm a grouchy young man if that makes you feel any better, good place to let of steam is here(pardon the pun). The worst is when you get some little old lady rushing like lightening to push in front of you in a queue then taking an eternity to pay for her items. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spacedcowboy Posted October 25, 2012 Share Posted October 25, 2012 I had a similar experience in Bangkok someone pushing into a lift that was already overly full of people. I said or did nothing until the lift doors closed, then whilst making eye contact with the perpetrator only, I burst out laughing hysterically. The individual lowered there gaze and remained looking at the floor until the next floor, where they sheepishly exited. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phuturatica Posted October 25, 2012 Share Posted October 25, 2012 I'm only 24 and I get grouchy and I'm also a woman. P.S. Don't even get me started on my time of the month. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post mauGR1 Posted October 25, 2012 Popular Post Share Posted October 25, 2012 I'm only 24 and I get grouchy and I'm also a woman. P.S. Don't even get me started on my time of the month. A grouchy young woman....It sounds quite normal.. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jcgodber Posted October 25, 2012 Share Posted October 25, 2012 My favorite was the time I held the door for a man that was behind me ... he then looked at me in contempt as if my job was the official door holder. The man then was followed by a little old frail woman who he simply let the door slam on her as she was half in and half out. Very hard to be understanding with these kind of people. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Valentine Posted October 25, 2012 Share Posted October 25, 2012 You all should join our group in Phuket the Grumpy Old Men's Society (GOMS). We have a good crack grouching about things that annoy us whilst raising money for charitable causes. The website is not finished yet but you are welcome to check it out http://phuketgoms.org Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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