Jump to content

Age Difference In Relationships In Thailand


WilliamCave

Recommended Posts

Sure sounded like you were saying stuff like "anyone who pays for it must be a loser".

If I "pay for it" and don't get fooled, make sure I get good value for my money, if the fact that I'm old and bald and fat and don't have enough money to attract a youngster back home, and no way in heck would consider having sex with a women within thirty years of my age, does that automatically make me a loser in your eyes?

If yes, then you're being way judgmental and let people be as they are until they start actually harming others. IMO

No it didn't sound like that at all but take it any way you like.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

  • Replies 849
  • Created
  • Last Reply

Top Posters In This Topic

Sure sounded like you were saying stuff like "anyone who pays for it must be a loser".

If I "pay for it" and don't get fooled, make sure I get good value for my money, if the fact that I'm old and bald and fat and don't have enough money to attract a youngster back home, and no way in heck would consider having sex with a women within thirty years of my age, does that automatically make me a loser in your eyes?

If yes, then you're being way judgmental and let people be as they are until they start actually harming others. IMO

No it didn't sound like that at all but take it any way you like.

I'm surprised you didn't mean it that way, I won't take the time to copy and paste all the many phrases that I took to mean that, if you go back and look at them yourself from my point of view you'll probably see how I came to that mistaken conclusion.

Also you didn't respond to my very specific question.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Everyone pays in one form or another.

There goes the neighbourhood.

Still, it did take16 pages for someone to trot out the time-honored refrain of the lovelorn clod without a clue as to what makes women - Thai or otherwise - tick.

>I'm not surprised,at that age she'll probably qualify for a free bus pass over here soon!Maybe you need a mother-like figure in your life,you do seem a bit insecure!

As for me,give me the young 'uns any day!I much prefer the twentysomethings that are like a breath of fresh air,not jaded or bitter by previous relationships and energetic where it matters!

Y'know, I wouldn't mind being described as insecure were it by anyone other than the forum clown who spends his days marauding through the various threads trying to convince everyone he's got it soooo bloody right.

Try getting a life, mate.

Failing that, a personality.

It's OK - he has a "sense of fun"...

... and some "bottom dollars" - whatever they are ?

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Everyone pays in one form or another.

There goes the neighbourhood.

Still, it did take16 pages for someone to trot out the time-honored refrain of the lovelorn clod without a clue as to what makes women - Thai or otherwise - tick.

>I'm not surprised,at that age she'll probably qualify for a free bus pass over here soon!Maybe you need a mother-like figure in your life,you do seem a bit insecure!

As for me,give me the young 'uns any day!I much prefer the twentysomethings that are like a breath of fresh air,not jaded or bitter by previous relationships and energetic where it matters!

Y'know, I wouldn't mind being described as insecure were it by anyone other than the forum clown who spends his days marauding through the various threads trying to convince everyone he's got it soooo bloody right.

Try getting a life, mate.

Failing that, a personality.

I just don't post photos of my half-naked girlfriend on here though,do I?Smacks of insecurity to me and was she swallowing some round type of fruit as I could certainly detect a round shape in the middle of her neck,just at the front there?

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Everyone pays in one form or another.

There goes the neighbourhood.

Still, it did take16 pages for someone to trot out the time-honored refrain of the lovelorn clod without a clue as to what makes women - Thai or otherwise - tick.

>I'm not surprised,at that age she'll probably qualify for a free bus pass over here soon!Maybe you need a mother-like figure in your life,you do seem a bit insecure!

As for me,give me the young 'uns any day!I much prefer the twentysomethings that are like a breath of fresh air,not jaded or bitter by previous relationships and energetic where it ma

tters!

Y'know, I wouldn't mind being described as insecure were it by anyone other than the forum clown who spends his days marauding through the various threads trying to convince everyone he's got it soooo bloody right.

Try getting a life, mate.

Failing that, a personality.

I just don't post photos of my half-naked girlfriend on here though,do I?Smacks of insecurity to me and was she swallowing some round type of fruit as I could certainly detect a round shape in the middle of her neck,just at the front there?

You're the gimp admitting to payin' top dollar for it, mate, not me.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

If you bother to read the back posts of this thread you'll find a formula like that.

For me that would result in her being around twenty years too old for my taste.

"Should be" - according to. . .

Link to comment
Share on other sites

There goes the neighbourhood.

Still, it did take16 pages for someone to trot out the time-honored refrain of the lovelorn clod without a clue as to what makes women - Thai or otherwise - tick.

>I'm not surprised,at that age she'll probably qualify for a free bus pass over here soon!Maybe you need a mother-like figure in your life,you do seem a bit insecure!

As for me,give me the young 'uns any day!I much prefer the twentysomethings that are like a breath of fresh air,not jaded or bitter by previous relationships and energetic where it ma

tters!

Y'know, I wouldn't mind being described as insecure were it by anyone other than the forum clown who spends his days marauding through the various threads trying to convince everyone he's got it soooo bloody right.

Try getting a life, mate.

Failing that, a personality.

I just don't post photos of my half-naked girlfriend on here though,do I?Smacks of insecurity to me and was she swallowing some round type of fruit as I could certainly detect a round shape in the middle of her neck,just at the front there?

You're the gimp admitting to payin' top dollar for it, mate, not me.

I don't come on here telling everyone that I live in a penthouse and post half-naked pictures of my "girlfriend" on here though,do I?

You're so obviously another boiler room Billy,so what 's the chop shop pumping and dumping this month then mate?What a joker,lol!

Link to comment
Share on other sites

í meet so many girls who is having ther husband at home sleeping or working offshore and they shagging young guys becuse they only marry old farts to get money..

but i never say no to receive gifts from old farts money hahah..

no girl around 20-30 likes and old fart +50 they are boring its just about the money..

  • Like 1
Link to comment
Share on other sites

í meet so many girls who is having ther husband at home sleeping or working offshore and they shagging young guys becuse they only marry old farts to get money..

but i never say no to receive gifts from old farts money hahah..

no girl around 20-30 likes and old fart +50 they are boring its just about the money..

-

Yes we know already thanks.

And I appreciate your helping keep my teeraks happy, thanks for your help!

Link to comment
Share on other sites

í meet so many girls who is having ther husband at home sleeping or working offshore and they shagging young guys becuse they only marry old farts to get money..

but i never say no to receive gifts from old farts money hahah..

no girl around 20-30 likes and old fart +50 they are boring its just about the money..

-

Yes we know already thanks.

And I appreciate your helping keep my teeraks happy, thanks for your help!

thanks for the cash & gifts :)

Link to comment
Share on other sites

I don't come on here telling everyone that I live in a penthouse and post half-naked pictures of my "girlfriend" on here though,do I?

You're so obviously another boiler room Billy,so what 's the chop shop pumping and dumping this month then mate?What a joker,lol!

Shorts and a full-length shirt in a tropical country equals half-naked does it??

Still, probably more than the splay-toed hippos in mini-skirts you roll back to your seedy little hovel with after stretching your worthless-in-baht pension to a couple of lager tops . . . during happy hour.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

I don't come on here telling everyone that I live in a penthouse and post half-naked pictures of my "girlfriend" on here though,do I?

You're so obviously another boiler room Billy,so what 's the chop shop pumping and dumping this month then mate?What a joker,lol!

Shorts and a full-length shirt in a tropical country equals half-naked does it??

Still, probably more than the splay-toed hippos in mini-skirts you roll back to your seedy little hovel with after stretching your worthless-in-baht pension to a couple of lager tops . . . during happy hour.

My vote for ThaiVisa's favorite misanthrope.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Perhaps what causes the age gap police to sharpen their pencils most furiously is the extreme gap.

Picture the scene. Your a youngish (except to people younger then you) guy sitting outside the Indian restaurant in the arcade at the bottom of Soi Diana. Your Biryani is being cooked and you're people watching over a bottle of your favourite beer. Around the corner from the direction of the bars area comes the couple you've been wanting to see. He seems to be in his 70s and she's probably around 30. Your judgement needle flips round to the red section.

Just hold it there and think about that old chap and what his life may have been and has become. He was born during WWII. Other slightly younger models were baby boomers. Whichever Western country he's from, he entered a world that hadn't recovered from WWI when the Depression hit. Then came WWII and he was a lad when his country was struggling economically after 1945. The social culture, at least in Europe and the UK, was little better than austere and you were expected to dress and behave in certain ways according to your age. In Britain, immigration from Asia and the West Indies began a huge revolution in the attitudes of the young, including the man you are watching. The Rock 'n' Roll era into the 60's took the changes many stages further. It's this generation, to which that old man belongs, that created the social freedoms that you young things enjoy today.

So, why should he end his days alone in physical decline, perhaps expecting that the daily carer will find him dead one day when she visits? His body may not be what it was but his mind may still be as active and rebellious as it was when he was a youth. Now that he's retired, he can rebel again rather than wither away. And, of course, he has the advantage of Viagra, probably the last social revolution that he will experience and enjoy.

Today, perhaps, he was woken with a pleasant pull, had a leisurely breakfast, did some walking and shopping with the young girlfriend, had a snooze on the beach, lunch, a beer or two in the afternoon and now they are walking into that Italian restaurant a few doors down from where you sit. He doesn't give a flying fig about the opinions of those who are younger and judgemental. Nor should he, of course. He's going out with a bang!

Thank you for nicely summing up how I got to be 69, happy, in the game, assets intact and every day thanking those amazing researchers at Pfizer.

Still rocking and not giving a flying f*** about what anyone thinks.

Life has been good and continues to be so.

I never realized that all those years i spent getting up at 5:30 AM to go to the gym was actually my training program for living in TH in my later years.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Perhaps what causes the age gap police to sharpen their pencils most furiously is the extreme gap.

Picture the scene. Your a youngish (except to people younger then you) guy sitting outside the Indian restaurant in the arcade at the bottom of Soi Diana. Your Biryani is being cooked and you're people watching over a bottle of your favourite beer. Around the corner from the direction of the bars area comes the couple you've been wanting to see. He seems to be in his 70s and she's probably around 30. Your judgement needle flips round to the red section.

Just hold it there and think about that old chap and what his life may have been and has become. He was born during WWII. Other slightly younger models were baby boomers. Whichever Western country he's from, he entered a world that hadn't recovered from WWI when the Depression hit. Then came WWII and he was a lad when his country was struggling economically after 1945. The social culture, at least in Europe and the UK, was little better than austere and you were expected to dress and behave in certain ways according to your age. In Britain, immigration from Asia and the West Indies began a huge revolution in the attitudes of the young, including the man you are watching. The Rock 'n' Roll era into the 60's took the changes many stages further. It's this generation, to which that old man belongs, that created the social freedoms that you young things enjoy today.

So, why should he end his days alone in physical decline, perhaps expecting that the daily carer will find him dead one day when she visits? His body may not be what it was but his mind may still be as active and rebellious as it was when he was a youth. Now that he's retired, he can rebel again rather than wither away. And, of course, he has the advantage of Viagra, probably the last social revolution that he will experience and enjoy.

Today, perhaps, he was woken with a pleasant pull, had a leisurely breakfast, did some walking and shopping with the young girlfriend, had a snooze on the beach, lunch, a beer or two in the afternoon and now they are walking into that Italian restaurant a few doors down from where you sit. He doesn't give a flying fig about the opinions of those who are younger and judgemental. Nor should he, of course. He's going out with a bang!

Thank you for nicely summing up how I got to be 69, happy, in the game, assets intact and every day thanking those amazing researchers at Pfizer.

Still rocking and not giving a flying f*** about what anyone thinks.

Life has been good and continues to be so.

I never realized that all those years i spent getting up at 5:30 AM to go to the gym was actually my training program for living in TH in my later years.

I'm not far behind you.

We oldies sometimes get the pee taken out of us by the kids just because we are older than they are. My response is always something like, 'Well chum, I've made it to retirement and still going. You don't know whether you will have so many years as me'.

  • Like 1
Link to comment
Share on other sites

Dear OP.

Here is my 2 bit opinion on the question you popped.

West. Two people of similar age form a family. If they stay together - fine. If they split - children get financial support, mother gets most of his assets.

Two people of very different age form a family. Cannot stay together for very long. Mother gets all of his assets. Children issue is not an issue.

Teenage sex flourish, but modern education usually prevents scandalous outcome.

East. Teenage sex flourish, but lack of education cannot prevent scandalous outcome.

Two people of similar age form a family. If they stay together - fine. If they split - ??? Remember TIT!

Two people of very different age form a family. Cannot stay together for very long. Mother gets all of his assets. Children issue is not an issue.

All the above is true only in statistical terms. Not applicable to individual cases.

Before any anti-ABCer starts bashing my head, please remember: this is my opinion only. I may be wrong. But whatever you say may be not right either.

I make no claims for infallibility, but do not ask of me to stop being 'so objective' or 'so philosophical' or 'so judgmental' - I cannot.

BTW you may notice the word 'Thai' never appeared in my post. I don't believe Thai men or women are different from any other in the world. Only the TIT factor is. hit-the-fan.gif

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Perhaps what causes the age gap police to sharpen their pencils most furiously is the extreme gap.

Picture the scene. Your a youngish (except to people younger then you) guy sitting outside the Indian restaurant in the arcade at the bottom of Soi Diana. Your Biryani is being cooked and you're people watching over a bottle of your favourite beer. Around the corner from the direction of the bars area comes the couple you've been wanting to see. He seems to be in his 70s and she's probably around 30. Your judgement needle flips round to the red section.

Just hold it there and think about that old chap and what his life may have been and has become. He was born during WWII. Other slightly younger models were baby boomers. Whichever Western country he's from, he entered a world that hadn't recovered from WWI when the Depression hit. Then came WWII and he was a lad when his country was struggling economically after 1945. The social culture, at least in Europe and the UK, was little better than austere and you were expected to dress and behave in certain ways according to your age. In Britain, immigration from Asia and the West Indies began a huge revolution in the attitudes of the young, including the man you are watching. The Rock 'n' Roll era into the 60's took the changes many stages further. It's this generation, to which that old man belongs, that created the social freedoms that you young things enjoy today.

So, why should he end his days alone in physical decline, perhaps expecting that the daily carer will find him dead one day when she visits? His body may not be what it was but his mind may still be as active and rebellious as it was when he was a youth. Now that he's retired, he can rebel again rather than wither away. And, of course, he has the advantage of Viagra, probably the last social revolution that he will experience and enjoy.

Today, perhaps, he was woken with a pleasant pull, had a leisurely breakfast, did some walking and shopping with the young girlfriend, had a snooze on the beach, lunch, a beer or two in the afternoon and now they are walking into that Italian restaurant a few doors down from where you sit. He doesn't give a flying fig about the opinions of those who are younger and judgemental. Nor should he, of course. He's going out with a bang!

You must have been spying on me all through my life as you have hit the nail right on the head, as you will have done for many others of our age group. When I explain to my own children and grandchildren what my life was like in the austere 50's and rocking 60's they find it hard to believe compared to the lives they have later experienced. Today young people in the West have never had it so good, but meanwhile they expect all those that went before them to just shrivel up and die instead of shrivel up and continue living the life that they have every right to live no matter what that means. Too bad if the young Farang of Thailand can't be gracious in their approach to their elders behaviour, but hey....their turn is coming and the next generation will be giving them stick in the same way !

  • Like 2
Link to comment
Share on other sites

í meet so many girls who is having ther husband at home sleeping or working offshore and they shagging young guys becuse they only marry old farts to get money..

but i never say no to receive gifts from old farts money hahah..

no girl around 20-30 likes and old fart +50 they are boring its just about the money..

-

Yes we know already thanks.

And I appreciate your helping keep my teeraks happy, thanks for your help!

thanks for the cash & gifts smile.png

Woohoo! Whadya know? falkan is bangin' slappers.

Still.

  • Like 2
Link to comment
Share on other sites

í meet so many girls who is having ther husband at home sleeping or working offshore and they shagging young guys becuse they only marry old farts to get money..

but i never say no to receive gifts from old farts money hahah..

no girl around 20-30 likes and old fart +50 they are boring its just about the money..

Then you have absolutely NOTHING to look forward to in your later years.

  • Like 1
Link to comment
Share on other sites

í meet so many girls who is having ther husband at home sleeping or working offshore and they shagging young guys becuse they only marry old farts to get money..

but i never say no to receive gifts from old farts money hahah..

no girl around 20-30 likes and old fart +50 they are boring its just about the money..

-

Yes we know already thanks.

And I appreciate your helping keep my teeraks happy, thanks for your help!

thanks for the cash & gifts smile.png

You must be easily pleased - or bought cheaply.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

í meet so many girls who is having ther husband at home sleeping or working offshore and they shagging young guys becuse they only marry old farts to get money..

but i never say no to receive gifts from old farts money hahah..

no girl around 20-30 likes and old fart +50 they are boring its just about the money..

Then you have absolutely NOTHING to look forward to in your later years.

Don't you find it strange that young whipper snappers never think they will get old. coffee1.gif

  • Like 2
Link to comment
Share on other sites

falcon.

thank you you have brought both sites of this debate together,,

having a laugh at you,

shagging slappers on your yearly weeks holiday,,

thank you jake

cheesy.gifcheesy.gifclap2.gif

sorry dude, sold my IT-company 5 years ago for x and enjoing my retirement in my twenties now :) suck on that old fart! clap2.gifclap2.gifclap2.gif

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!

Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.

Sign In Now
  • Recently Browsing   0 members

    • No registered users viewing this page.










×
×
  • Create New...