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The head monk is firmly of the position that chanting is a waste of time. He says that Buddha knows what he said, there's no point repeating it back to him.

A brutally simplistic logic, but correct. Repetition can be taught to monkeys ........we are human. We need to understand.

I have done chanting and can still remember some after 20 years. I was told that chanting is not praying/talking to Buddha, it is a way of concentrating by keeping your mind from scattering thoughts. It also helps one remember the Sutra.

Did you do any prayer? I have many thoughts on that.

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The head monk is firmly of the position that chanting is a waste of time. He says that Buddha knows what he said, there's no point repeating it back to him.

A brutally simplistic logic, but correct. Repetition can be taught to monkeys ........we are human. We need to understand.

I have done chanting and can still remember some after 20 years. I was told that chanting is not praying/talking to Buddha, it is a way of concentrating by keeping your mind from scattering thoughts. It also helps one remember the Sutra.

Did you do any prayer? I have many thoughts on that.

No, none at all. I have no knowledge on many areas of Buddhism, praying being one. The comment I made above came direct from the Head Monk, I could see his point, however I was also told that the Head Monk did hold some beliefs that put him into conflict with many others. I was at a Temple where chanting was the basis of the "worship" and many people there seemed to be happy to do so and got a lot from it. I'm not in a position to judge.

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Breath of fresh air mate....Thanks for the well received update and thoughts. Great to hear your well and getting on with it.....

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Sorry to spoil the party.

It just seems like a bunch of holiday snaps.

Along with I did,I did,Idid.

Hardly inspirational.

Sorry the Sky News crew let me down. I'm pretty sure there was a bit of information there about others too. Or would you have preferred me to write about what you did?

Naughty boy. :coffee1:

Nice reply.

Maybe your meditation techniques will improve in business class.

Whilst flying home.

After a couple of g&tees,of course.

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Hi Hedgehog, just wondering, cause I'm from Australia and we don't have them here, aren't hedgehogs those spiney rodents that scurry along the ground eating ants? Basically a bottom feeding rodent of sorts?
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Not saying that you should give what you feel is right. It may help others though that to know that although another monestry in the south does something I personally do not like...it makes a charge rather than relying on donations but that charge is about 60 baht a day

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Although Suan Mokkh prefers not to make rules, it is much appreciated when visitors dress and behave within the rather conservative traditions of Thai forest wats. Laypeople observe 5 precepts. A daily charge of 50 baht (US $2) covers food and accommodation expenses during and between retreats.

Just in case the amount of your donation would put someone off going.

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Not saying that you should give what you feel is right. It may help others though that to know that although another monestry in the south does something I personally do not like...it makes a charge rather than relying on donations but that charge is about 60 baht a day

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Although Suan Mokkh prefers not to make rules, it is much appreciated when visitors dress and behave within the rather conservative traditions of Thai forest wats. Laypeople observe 5 precepts. A daily charge of 50 baht (US $2) covers food and accommodation expenses during and between retreats.

Just in case the amount of your donation would put someone off going.

One of my Thai friends told me that she donated 200 baht at the start of her 10 day stay and 200 baht at the end. By her own words, she didn't have a lot of money and that was all she could afford. She also said that she worked hard within the Temple to keep it clean etc and in her mind that made up for the small donation made.

Cee Yim was firm in saying that there was no expectation of a donation. Don't let the figure of 10,000 baht a month put you off, or even a pro rata of that. If you can't afford it don't pay it, the Temple will still be happy to take you in and show you/ teach you about Meditation and other aspects of Temple life.

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Not saying that you should give what you feel is right. It may help others though that to know that although another monestry in the south does something I personally do not like...it makes a charge rather than relying on donations but that charge is about 60 baht a day

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Although Suan Mokkh prefers not to make rules, it is much appreciated when visitors dress and behave within the rather conservative traditions of Thai forest wats. Laypeople observe 5 precepts. A daily charge of 50 baht (US $2) covers food and accommodation expenses during and between retreats.

Just in case the amount of your donation would put someone off going.

One of my Thai friends told me that she donated 200 baht at the start of her 10 day stay and 200 baht at the end. By her own words, she didn't have a lot of money and that was all she could afford. She also said that she worked hard within the Temple to keep it clean etc and in her mind that made up for the small donation made.

Cee Yim was firm in saying that there was no expectation of a donation. Don't let the figure of 10,000 baht a month put you off, or even a pro rata of that. If you can't afford it don't pay it, the Temple will still be happy to take you in and show you/ teach you about Meditation and other aspects of Temple life.

Thanks theBlether. Just wanted to emphasise it should be what you can afford to give and it sound as if it is a good place.

I still remember the one I attended for a couple of weeks 30 years ago in Nakorn Sri Thamarat and know there are many good ones not just the money hungry ones that look on tourists as a money source.

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Thanks for the great thread! Very interesting.

If you don't mind, I have a few questions.

During your stay, how were the meditation techniques taught to you? In English, or Thai?

How did you decide where to go? Was it recommended by someone to you?

Was this happening on specific dates, or is it something that is done all the time?

Once again, thanks for sharing. wai.gif

There was an English speaking Nun, Cee Yim, and she relayed advice to me from the Head Monk i English.

I went to visit the Temple with a friend a couple of months ago, I was shown around the facilities and told the programme, so you could say it was a friends recommendation. Probably the best place for us all to start.

This Temple runs a 9 day course every month I believe, however you can turn up at any time and be welcomed.

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And thank you for sharing this with us. I have a question though. During your meditation sessions sessions, the chanting. We're they in Pali? If so, how did you approach this. Did U join in? If so, how.

It was very challenging for me. I had a translation book that I would read out loud as we went through the various chants. Probably the hardest part of my days actually. As I desperately wanted to add to the beauty of the ritual and not detract from it.

I sometimes think maybe if I had done this in a more Farang oriented temple I may have learned a lot more. I am fascinated to learn more about your experience Blether.

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This one was a silent retreat. The last temple I went to chanting was the order of the day. They gave me a phonetic translation of the chant so I could follow. Easy to pick up after a couple of days.

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Krisb.

Unfortunately you are way of the mark.

Please note spelling.

My TV user name,was given me as a nickname.

It relates to a previous profession and mode of conveyance.

But as you said you are Australian.

I wouldn't expect you to understand.

Please stay on topic.

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Krisb.

Unfortunately you are way of the mark.

Please note spelling.

My TV user name,was given me as a nickname.

It relates to a previous profession and mode of conveyance.

But as you said you are Australian.

I wouldn't expect you to understand.

Please stay on topic.

Isn't every name given.smile.pngthumbsup.gif Pointless arguments and opinions are token, i guess.smile.png

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And thank you for sharing this with us. I have a question though. During your meditation sessions sessions, the chanting. We're they in Pali? If so, how did you approach this. Did U join in? If so, how.

It was very challenging for me. I had a translation book that I would read out loud as we went through the various chants. Probably the hardest part of my days actually. As I desperately wanted to add to the beauty of the ritual and not detract from it.

I sometimes think maybe if I had done this in a more Farang oriented temple I may have learned a lot more. I am fascinated to learn more about your experience Blether.

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This one was a silent retreat. The last temple I went to chanting was the order of the day. They gave me a phonetic translation of the chant so I could follow. Easy to pick up after a couple of days.

Thanks Blether. That make more sense to me now. I had used a phonetic translation as well. Picked up most of the daily chanting but the ones for different types of service were a bit more of a challenge. Some days the morning chanting was about 45 min, other days it was around 1 1/2 hours first thing. Then the meal time ones. Then the evening ones. Was fascinating doing the chants on the monks side and listening to the responses from any lay people who happen to arrive. Appreciate the response. Thanks

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i am still haunted by the pain of sitting cross legged (for about 30 mins) during my pre-wedding religious ceremony

serious respect to you

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Well done Blether, not much to add to what has already been posted.

A nice departure from the usual 'goto 10 loop' of all that is wrong in the Kingdom.

Feel free to send me an invitation to your 'Buat Phra' LOL

BTW. Should you ever pass by this way, feel free to drop in.

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I read elsewhere that you were going for 10 days, serious lack of self control if you lasted 9 and had to pull out before the goal.

Also you mentioned they gave you a chair to meditate on, not the lotus position. Well I hate to break the news, but that is sitting, not meditating. Anyone can sit for 2 hours or more, many do it on a plane or a car.

I do not think I would ever do it, religion of any type is not my thing, I would get so bored with it in that context I could not handle a day I think. The sleeping on the floor would not be an issue, slept rougher for years. The small shed is nothing, slept in a steel shed same size or smaller for a year in the tropics also. Food twice a day should be ok too, but I like me dinner.

I edited this photo, hope you don't mind, you had a great shot there to work with, should have spent the time evaluating it, plenty of time to have done that and taken a much better shot.

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I read elsewhere that you were going for 10 days, serious lack of self control if you lasted 9 and had to pull out before the goal.

Also you mentioned they gave you a chair to meditate on, not the lotus position. Well I hate to break the news, but that is sitting, not meditating. Anyone can sit for 2 hours or more, many do it on a plane or a car.

I do not think I would ever do it, religion of any type is not my thing, I would get so bored with it in that context I could not handle a day I think. The sleeping on the floor would not be an issue, slept rougher for years. The small shed is nothing, slept in a steel shed same size or smaller for a year in the tropics also. Food twice a day should be ok too, but I like me dinner.

I edited this photo, hope you don't mind, you had a great shot there to work with, should have spent the time evaluating it, plenty of time to have done that and taken a much better shot.

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You are so so wrong.

And what gives you the right to edit anyone's photo.

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I read elsewhere that you were going for 10 days, serious lack of self control if you lasted 9 and had to pull out before the goal.

Also you mentioned they gave you a chair to meditate on, not the lotus position. Well I hate to break the news, but that is sitting, not meditating. Anyone can sit for 2 hours or more, many do it on a plane or a car.

I do not think I would ever do it, religion of any type is not my thing, I would get so bored with it in that context I could not handle a day I think. The sleeping on the floor would not be an issue, slept rougher for years. The small shed is nothing, slept in a steel shed same size or smaller for a year in the tropics also. Food twice a day should be ok too, but I like me dinner.

I edited this photo, hope you don't mind, you had a great shot there to work with, should have spent the time evaluating it, plenty of time to have done that and taken a much better shot.

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You are so so wrong.

And what gives you the right to edit anyone's photo.

u fugga, bit of trolling but i'll bite, lotus position is a nono, can't show bottoms of feet (in wat), can sit crosslegged, or sit, walk, lay to meditate, and the "program" is 9 days.

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I read elsewhere that you were going for 10 days, serious lack of self control if you lasted 9 and had to pull out before the goal.

Also you mentioned they gave you a chair to meditate on, not the lotus position. Well I hate to break the news, but that is sitting, not meditating. Anyone can sit for 2 hours or more, many do it on a plane or a car.

I do not think I would ever do it, religion of any type is not my thing, I would get so bored with it in that context I could not handle a day I think. The sleeping on the floor would not be an issue, slept rougher for years. The small shed is nothing, slept in a steel shed same size or smaller for a year in the tropics also. Food twice a day should be ok too, but I like me dinner.

I edited this photo, hope you don't mind, you had a great shot there to work with, should have spent the time evaluating it, plenty of time to have done that and taken a much better shot.

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Well I did say I was going for 10 days, however it turns out that the program at the Temple I went to was 9 days. There's a monthly 9 day course which takes place at this Temple and you can feel free to join it. The next time Cee Yim emails me I'll find out the dates.

I also pointed out that it was impossible for me to sit in the cross legged or Lotus position as you put it. So I was given a plastic chair which was also extremely uncomfortable. Read the topic again and see if you can find anywhere where I claimed otherwise. While your at it, have a look and see if I constantly referred to Luang Pah and Cee Yim, who both supervised my course. Are you so arrogant as to state your opinion is more valid than there's? They set the scene so to speak, they knew that certain things would be impossible for me, and they have also stated that I am very welcome to go back as they can see I put the effort in.

As for the photo, it was taken discretely so as to not disturb. I am not and never pretend to be a photographer.

ps. You need to work on your trolling technique, I know who you are.

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I read elsewhere that you were going for 10 days, serious lack of self control if you lasted 9 and had to pull out before the goal.

Also you mentioned they gave you a chair to meditate on, not the lotus position. Well I hate to break the news, but that is sitting, not meditating. Anyone can sit for 2 hours or more, many do it on a plane or a car.

I do not think I would ever do it, religion of any type is not my thing, I would get so bored with it in that context I could not handle a day I think. The sleeping on the floor would not be an issue, slept rougher for years. The small shed is nothing, slept in a steel shed same size or smaller for a year in the tropics also. Food twice a day should be ok too, but I like me dinner.

I edited this photo, hope you don't mind, you had a great shot there to work with, should have spent the time evaluating it, plenty of time to have done that and taken a much better shot.

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Hi Joe ... welcome back.

BTW, I do agree with you about the photo from the perspective that it was special to me when I first viewed it.

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I read elsewhere that you were going for 10 days, serious lack of self control if you lasted 9 and had to pull out before the goal.

Also you mentioned they gave you a chair to meditate on, not the lotus position. Well I hate to break the news, but that is sitting, not meditating. Anyone can sit for 2 hours or more, many do it on a plane or a car.

I do not think I would ever do it, religion of any type is not my thing, I would get so bored with it in that context I could not handle a day I think. The sleeping on the floor would not be an issue, slept rougher for years. The small shed is nothing, slept in a steel shed same size or smaller for a year in the tropics also. Food twice a day should be ok too, but I like me dinner.

I edited this photo, hope you don't mind, you had a great shot there to work with, should have spent the time evaluating it, plenty of time to have done that and taken a much better shot.

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well I hate to break the news to YOU but meditation can most certainly be done in a chair. and meditation is not a religion.

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I read elsewhere that you were going for 10 days, serious lack of self control if you lasted 9 and had to pull out before the goal.

Also you mentioned they gave you a chair to meditate on, not the lotus position. Well I hate to break the news, but that is sitting, not meditating. Anyone can sit for 2 hours or more, many do it on a plane or a car.

I do not think I would ever do it, religion of any type is not my thing, I would get so bored with it in that context I could not handle a day I think. The sleeping on the floor would not be an issue, slept rougher for years. The small shed is nothing, slept in a steel shed same size or smaller for a year in the tropics also. Food twice a day should be ok too, but I like me dinner.

I edited this photo, hope you don't mind, you had a great shot there to work with, should have spent the time evaluating it, plenty of time to have done that and taken a much better shot.

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Well I did say I was going for 10 days, however it turns out that the program at the Temple I went to was 9 days. There's a monthly 9 day course which takes place at this Temple and you can feel free to join it. The next time Cee Yim emails me I'll find out the dates.

I also pointed out that it was impossible for me to sit in the cross legged or Lotus position as you put it. So I was given a plastic chair which was also extremely uncomfortable. Read the topic again and see if you can find anywhere where I claimed otherwise. While your at it, have a look and see if I constantly referred to Luang Pah and Cee Yim, who both supervised my course. Are you so arrogant as to state your opinion is more valid than there's? They set the scene so to speak, they knew that certain things would be impossible for me, and they have also stated that I am very welcome to go back as they can see I put the effort in.

As for the photo, it was taken discretely so as to not disturb. I am not and never pretend to be a photographer.

ps. You need to work on your trolling technique, I know who you are.

So there you have it, you did do the full time that was allowed then, don't think I saw where you mentioned there was a set period that you were allowed to do, as in 9 days and not 10. So good for you.

I have no opinion that can be more valid than theirs as I know nawt about meditation in Temples and such. But sitting really is just sitting. I do a bit of Yoga and I am sure the team of Pah and Yim could have helped you into the lotus as some people used to help me before I could do it for myself.

Basically you lie on your back, your team crosses your legs and tucks them in tight under your buttocks and then they grab a shoulder each from behind and push you up into position.

As for the photo, I know you are not a photographic genius, nor am I, I saw some of your photos in the photo forum. However, you have improved a lot from the first efforts and your eye has come in to work. That was why I was surprised to see the lack of any effort in that photo that had outstanding possibilities to be an intriguing and somewhat mystical piece. You mentioned I think Chinese tourists pouring through, they are not the quietest lot, I am sure you could have snuck off a few more discrete clicks and adjustments and not disturbed a soul, maybe some mosquitoes though.

Everyone's opinion on trolling is as different as chalk and cheese. I like a good vintage, many a plastic wrapped processed cheddar sandwich slice. But chalk is all the same to some.

Apologies for any confusion in my member name, seems fugadug upset too many souls and I was ordered to change.

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I read elsewhere that you were going for 10 days, serious lack of self control if you lasted 9 and had to pull out before the goal.

Also you mentioned they gave you a chair to meditate on, not the lotus position. Well I hate to break the news, but that is sitting, not meditating. Anyone can sit for 2 hours or more, many do it on a plane or a car.

I do not think I would ever do it, religion of any type is not my thing, I would get so bored with it in that context I could not handle a day I think. The sleeping on the floor would not be an issue, slept rougher for years. The small shed is nothing, slept in a steel shed same size or smaller for a year in the tropics also. Food twice a day should be ok too, but I like me dinner.

I edited this photo, hope you don't mind, you had a great shot there to work with, should have spent the time evaluating it, plenty of time to have done that and taken a much better shot.

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Hi Joe ... welcome back.

BTW, I do agree with you about the photo from the perspective that it was special to me when I first viewed it.

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I know of average Joe and a cup of Joe, but know not a Joe of whom you speak.

The photo's possibilities oozed potential, maybe next time he goes back for 30 days, he'll find time to do it again.

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I read elsewhere that you were going for 10 days, serious lack of self control if you lasted 9 and had to pull out before the goal.

Also you mentioned they gave you a chair to meditate on, not the lotus position. Well I hate to break the news, but that is sitting, not meditating. Anyone can sit for 2 hours or more, many do it on a plane or a car.

I do not think I would ever do it, religion of any type is not my thing, I would get so bored with it in that context I could not handle a day I think. The sleeping on the floor would not be an issue, slept rougher for years. The small shed is nothing, slept in a steel shed same size or smaller for a year in the tropics also. Food twice a day should be ok too, but I like me dinner.

I edited this photo, hope you don't mind, you had a great shot there to work with, should have spent the time evaluating it, plenty of time to have done that and taken a much better shot.

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You are so so wrong.

And what gives you the right to edit anyone's photo.

u fugga, bit of trolling but i'll bite, lotus position is a nono, can't show bottoms of feet (in wat), can sit crosslegged, or sit, walk, lay to meditate, and the "program" is 9 days.

So you are to blame for the subconscious trolling input.

You can sit in the lotus possi and not show your feet.

Walking would have been good for him, but that is called exercise and as for laying down to do it, well I do that for 8 hours every night.

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Sitting in the lotus position is the best for meditation... It is certainly not a nono! It's what nearly all the Buddha images are in... The fact that the soles of the feet are pointing up is of no consequence...

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Sitting in the lotus position is the best for meditation... It is certainly not a nono! It's what nearly all the Buddha images are in... The fact that the soles of the feet are pointing up is of no consequence...

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Oh he meant that lotus position, not my lotus position.

Souls can be hidden any way with loose clothing or such, so not an issue regardless.

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