theblether Posted October 19, 2013 Author Share Posted October 19, 2013 Thanks for sharing your experience. As someone else noted, the statue in the sleeping posture is indeed the Buddha, not his wife. The Buddha always slept on his right side and also passed away in this position, which is why it is depicted so often. Thanks for that and to FabianFred too.....amazing that I was so misinformed. Was the story about the baby true? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hedghog Posted October 19, 2013 Share Posted October 19, 2013 Sorry to spoil the party. It just seems like a bunch of holiday snaps. Along with I did,I did,Idid. Hardly inspirational. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
theblether Posted October 19, 2013 Author Share Posted October 19, 2013 Sorry to spoil the party. It just seems like a bunch of holiday snaps. Along with I did,I did,Idid. Hardly inspirational. Sorry the Sky News crew let me down. I'm pretty sure there was a bit of information there about others too. Or would you have preferred me to write about what you did? Naughty boy. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trainman34014 Posted October 19, 2013 Share Posted October 19, 2013 Well done Bleth and respect to you for your efforts. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Neeranam Posted October 19, 2013 Share Posted October 19, 2013 Hey The Blether - respect mate! Thanks for posting this, I enjoyed reading it. When I 25-30, I did similar stuff, once in Suan Mokh, in Surathani. A famous temple of Ajarn Buddhadassa Bikkhu. 10 days and no talking allowed. I also did similar things in India, at Daramsala, where HH The Dalai Lama lives. I sadly, did them for the wrong reasons - trying to find a remedy for my drinking. It was impossible to find the same peace as other found when suffering from untreated alcoholism. I should have done some CBT or AA first. As it happened I was drunk within an hour of leaving the temples. 20 years on, I'm jealous of you. With my family and work commitments, it's very hard to find the time for a retreat. I feel now I'm ready to do such a retreat for the correct reasons. I'm not a Buddhist but not not a Buddhist too. I find some great teachings in Buddhism and meditation is very beneficial. I just read a book called the Power of Now and found many similarities with Buddhism. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
theblether Posted October 19, 2013 Author Share Posted October 19, 2013 Hey The Blether - respect mate! Thanks for posting this, I enjoyed reading it. When I 25-30, I did similar stuff, once in Suan Mokh, in Surathani. A famous temple of Ajarn Buddhadassa Bikkhu. 10 days and no talking allowed. I also did similar things in India, at Daramsala, where HH The Dalai Lama lives. I sadly, did them for the wrong reasons - trying to find a remedy for my drinking. It was impossible to find the same peace as other found when suffering from untreated alcoholism. I should have done some CBT or AA first. As it happened I was drunk within an hour of leaving the temples. 20 years on, I'm jealous of you. With my family and work commitments, it's very hard to find the time for a retreat. I feel now I'm ready to do such a retreat for the correct reasons. I'm not a Buddhist but not not a Buddhist too. I find some great teachings in Buddhism and meditation is very beneficial. I just read a book called the Power of Now and found many similarities with Buddhism. I totally get where you are coming from. What you learn in a very short space of time is profound. Profound as it is, you still need to act on it. That's the challenge. It's a real challenge. I hope you can find the time sometime soon. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hedghog Posted October 19, 2013 Share Posted October 19, 2013 Sorry to spoil the party. It just seems like a bunch of holiday snaps. Along with I did,I did,Idid. Hardly inspirational. Sorry the Sky News crew let me down. I'm pretty sure there was a bit of information there about others too. Or would you have preferred me to write about what you did? Naughty boy. Nice reply.Maybe your meditation techniques will improve in business class. Whilst flying home. After a couple of g&tees,of course. . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StreetCowboy Posted October 19, 2013 Share Posted October 19, 2013 I need to go a bit deeper and try to cut out the unimportant BS from my life, why not start with thaivisa? I think you'd miss him.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StreetCowboy Posted October 19, 2013 Share Posted October 19, 2013 (edited) Sorry about that - double post. Anyway, well done, great report, and as usual, people before personalities. SC Edited October 19, 2013 by StreetCowboy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StreetCowboy Posted October 19, 2013 Share Posted October 19, 2013 Sorry to spoil the party. It just seems like a bunch of holiday snaps. Along with I did,I did,Idid. Hardly inspirational. There doesn't seem much point in sharing anything except our own experience, strength and hope. Or maybe our worries, fears and dilemmae. The rest, you can read about in the Sunday Papers now. SC 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GirlDrinkDrunk Posted October 19, 2013 Share Posted October 19, 2013 I need to go a bit deeper and try to cut out the unimportant BS from my life, why not start with thaivisa? I think you'd miss him.... undoubtedly. with every ounce of my being. just the last nine days have been unbearable. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GirlDrinkDrunk Posted October 19, 2013 Share Posted October 19, 2013 I need to go a bit deeper and try to cut out the unimportant BS from my life, why not start with thaivisa? Wrong answer. i do believe it was a question. dont worry, you'll get better at it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bifftastic Posted October 19, 2013 Share Posted October 19, 2013 Thanks for the great thread! Very interesting. If you don't mind, I have a few questions. During your stay, how were the meditation techniques taught to you? In English, or Thai? How did you decide where to go? Was it recommended by someone to you? Was this happening on specific dates, or is it something that is done all the time? Once again, thanks for sharing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post transam Posted October 19, 2013 Popular Post Share Posted October 19, 2013 I need to go a bit deeper and try to cut out the unimportant BS from my life, why not start with thaivisa? Wrong answer. i do believe it was a question. dont worry, you'll get better at it. Sure I will, but you having a dig at the forum you frequent puts a question mark in my thoughts girly. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post chris1dna Posted October 19, 2013 Popular Post Share Posted October 19, 2013 Blether. I applaud you. I ordained for a month at a jungle temple near my wife's village and stayed for 30 days. One of the most challenging and rewarding experiences of my life. Whether a novice in white or wearing the robes as I did, it's very very difficult at first. But, as peace and incite begin to replace distraction and doubt, the journey truly begins. I'm exited for you. Sent from my iPhone using ThaiVisa app 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post smokie36 Posted October 19, 2013 Popular Post Share Posted October 19, 2013 Sorry to spoil the party. It just seems like a bunch of holiday snaps. Along with I did,I did,Idid. Hardly inspirational. Thanks for yet another positive contribution. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StreetCowboy Posted October 19, 2013 Share Posted October 19, 2013 I think that the most important question that threads such as this pose to us is: "Should I do that? Do I have anything to gain from such an experience? Is that two questions, or three?" There's a lot of us (assuming I am not unusual) are rarely so introspective as theB seems to have been on this trip SC 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StreetCowboy Posted October 19, 2013 Share Posted October 19, 2013 ... Thanks for yet another positive contribution. You sycophant, you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
transam Posted October 19, 2013 Share Posted October 19, 2013 Sorry to spoil the party. It just seems like a bunch of holiday snaps. Along with I did,I did,Idid. Hardly inspirational. Thanks for yet another positive contribution. And perhaps locking up HH in a different cupboard might enlighten him.....eeeeeeeeeer a bit..............eeeeeeeeeeer, hmmmmm, perhaps not. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chris1dna Posted October 19, 2013 Share Posted October 19, 2013 And thank you for sharing this with us. I have a question though. During your meditation sessions sessions, the chanting. We're they in Pali? If so, how did you approach this. Did U join in? If so, how. It was very challenging for me. I had a translation book that I would read out loud as we went through the various chants. Probably the hardest part of my days actually. As I desperately wanted to add to the beauty of the ritual and not detract from it. I sometimes think maybe if I had done this in a more Farang oriented temple I may have learned a lot more. I am fascinated to learn more about your experience Blether. Sent from my iPhone using ThaiVisa app Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smokie36 Posted October 19, 2013 Share Posted October 19, 2013 And thank you for sharing this with us. I have a question though. During your meditation sessions sessions, the chanting. We're they in Pali? If so, how did you approach this. Did U join in? If so, how. It was very challenging for me. I had a translation book that I would read out loud as we went through the various chants. Probably the hardest part of my days actually. As I desperately wanted to add to the beauty of the ritual and not detract from it. I sometimes think maybe if I had done this in a more Farang oriented temple I may have learned a lot more. I am fascinated to learn more about your experience Blether. Sent from my iPhone using ThaiVisa app I would prefer silence I think. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StreetCowboy Posted October 19, 2013 Share Posted October 19, 2013 And thank you for sharing this with us. I have a question though. During your meditation sessions sessions, the chanting. We're they in Pali? If so, how did you approach this. Did U join in? If so, how. It was very challenging for me. I had a translation book that I would read out loud as we went through the various chants. Probably the hardest part of my days actually. As I desperately wanted to add to the beauty of the ritual and not detract from it. I sometimes think maybe if I had done this in a more Farang oriented temple I may have learned a lot more. I am fascinated to learn more about your experience Blether. Sent from my iPhone using ThaiVisa app I would prefer silence I think. Silence is easily translated, and can be interpreted as mute participation 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ToddWeston Posted October 19, 2013 Share Posted October 19, 2013 Thank you for sharing your experience - I take my hat off to you. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chris1dna Posted October 19, 2013 Share Posted October 19, 2013 And thank you for sharing this with us. I have a question though. During your meditation sessions sessions, the chanting. We're they in Pali? If so, how did you approach this. Did U join in? If so, how. It was very challenging for me. I had a translation book that I would read out loud as we went through the various chants. Probably the hardest part of my days actually. As I desperately wanted to add to the beauty of the ritual and not detract from it. I sometimes think maybe if I had done this in a more Farang oriented temple I may have learned a lot more. I am fascinated to learn more about your experience Blether. Sent from my iPhone using ThaiVisa app I would prefer silence I think. Silence is easily translated, and can be interpreted as mute participation Thank you Street. I tried that and was encouraged to participate. Was wondering of it was approached differently at that temple since it appeared from blethers posts that there were some English speakers there. Particularly the abbot? Sent from my iPhone using ThaiVisa app 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chris1dna Posted October 19, 2013 Share Posted October 19, 2013 Anyway. It's seems that I've derailed the thread from Blether. I'll direct any further questions directly. My apologies. Again, Blether. Good on yas. Always interested to learn more from others experiences. Sent from my iPhone using ThaiVisa app Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post theblether Posted October 19, 2013 Author Popular Post Share Posted October 19, 2013 The head monk is firmly of the position that chanting is a waste of time. He says that Buddha knows what he said, there's no point repeating it back to him. A brutally simplistic logic, but correct. Repetition can be taught to monkeys ........we are human. We need to understand. 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
David48 Posted October 19, 2013 Share Posted October 19, 2013 Well, that was a trip report with a kicker. Maybe an experience which will stay with you a lifetime? As others have said ... easy to contemplate, but, in reality, difficult to do. I know that I'm made of less sterner stuff ... tip my hat to you theblether. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
David48 Posted October 19, 2013 Share Posted October 19, 2013 If you do decided to go again, this suggestion might help with the transport. Presuming that we are talking about the Chiang Dao on the map here, maybe consider getting a bus? By Bus - From Chang Puak Bus Station in Chiang Mai take the bus to Tha Ton or Fang. Ask to be dropped off at Chiang Dao (40 Baht), the people on the bus will normally make sure you get off at the right place. Bus Timetable That way you can get to Chiang Dao fairly effortlessly and enjoy the Songthaew journey forward. I didn't take the bus, but just something I found when I was researching going to the Cave System there. Once again ... great story, well told ... . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dave2 Posted October 20, 2013 Share Posted October 20, 2013 re The Buddha image in the lying posture denotes the posture he was in when he died.... Called the 'lion posture'. here ya go the biggest gold plated buddha image in the reclining position inside wat pho bangkok and his feet dave2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
T_Dog Posted October 20, 2013 Share Posted October 20, 2013 Great post, an enjoyable read. Thank you for sharing your experience. Ditto that! Photos really add to the story and thanks for taking the time to post it. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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